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By *hong lover OP   Man
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent

I've just been blocked by a couple I've been chatting with for wishing them all the best and have fun is that wrong of me ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many couples do not want to be approached by men on their own and if it says so in their profile that could be why.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally.

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By *hong lover OP   Man
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent


"Many couples do not want to be approached by men on their own and if it says so in their profile that could be why."

They are looking for single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many couples do not want to be approached by men on their own and if it says so in their profile that could be why.

They are looking for single guys "

Just because they are looking for single guys doesn't mean they are looking for you. Take the hint and move on. Blocking is a tool. There to be used.

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By *hong lover OP   Man
over a year ago

stoke-on-trent


"I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally."

I'm not just can't work out they are happy to chat and then block me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as they blocked you, you will never know why. You have to have a thick skin. Take it they aren't interested and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally.

I'm not just can't work out they are happy to chat and then block me "

Perhaps they found that they weren't interested in you after chatting and decided to move on.

Suggest you do the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When its clear i am not going to meet a person, i usually block.saves the prob of them or me re messaging in later weeks

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"When its clear i am not going to meet a person, i usually block.saves the prob of them or me re messaging in later weeks"
I do the same. It is not meant to be offensive.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Wishing someone the best and hoping they have fun swinging is something we would say if we had decided we don't want to play with someone. If you said that to them either they had just turned you down, or they probably thought you were turning them down.

The difference between swinging and traditional monogamy is the myth that there is one perfect person (or couple in this case) in the whole world just for you and you only have one chance to get it right or you'll be sad an lonely for ever.

Even if you had actually swung with them it most likely would have been on one or 2 occasions and that's it. Just move on and find someone who does want to play with you, rather than concentrating on those that don't.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've just been blocked by a couple I've been chatting with for wishing them all the best and have fun is that wrong of me ?"

How do you know that's why they blocked you?

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally.

I'm not just can't work out they are happy to chat and then block me "

you are thinking of it as a weapon, it isnt, you finished the chat by wishing them well, they decided you werent for them and blocked to save both parties time in the future, they are using the block button as a tool.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

The only thing that's wrong is this persistent belief that being blocked is something to be bothered by. It's simply a site tool. If someone has decided that you're not for them blocking you means that noone will get confused by new pics or a profile update or a user name change and message again. It also means that you won't show in their local updates or in searches. This means that only people they may be interested will show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just make a new profile and ask them why they blocked you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been blocked by a couple I've been chatting with for wishing them all the best and have fun is that wrong of me ?"

If someone we were messaging messaged us saying all the best and have fun we would take that to mean that's the end of the discussion and no meet is on the cards, so we would block and move on so we didn't come across there profile again,

It may be a misunderstanding of what you said and how you meant it

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally.

I'm not just can't work out they are happy to chat and then block me

Perhaps they found that they weren't interested in you after chatting and decided to move on.

Suggest you do the same."

Exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most guys hope i'll enjoy my meet if i turn them down to have one, never ever thought of it as an end to conversation and it makes me thin the guy is definitely NSA and is fine with me fucking other guys so i usually like to meet them next time i'm looking.

The couple just decided that you weren't for them, and it's their own reason so we wouldn't know why. Don't dwell on it, just go out and try find others who do wanna meet you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe that some people use it as a tool so that they know that no further contact is required...shouldn't take it personally."

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol "

Have to admit that I blocked someone who looked at my profile once because his status said, Why do these women block you for just looking at their profile? Who can resist such an invitation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When its clear i am not going to meet a person, i usually block.saves the prob of them or me re messaging in later weeks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

Have to admit that I blocked someone who looked at my profile once because his status said, Why do these women block you for just looking at their profile? Who can resist such an invitation?"
Yes that's a good reason to block as they asked for it too lol.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol "

why do you need a reason to block, likewise why is someone up there own **** if use the block tool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been blocked by a couple I've been chatting with for wishing them all the best and have fun is that wrong of me ?"

What do you mean for wishing them all the best?

You mean after they say no and you do the usual "ok happy fabbing" cause then there probably blocking you so you don't show up in searches any more.

Or did you just randomly wish them all the best?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

why do you need a reason to block, likewise why is someone up there own **** if use the block tool."
There don't need to be one, but just odd just to block one for no reason, maibe cos they might feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People block people for all sorts of reasons - I've sent perfectly sensible, reasonable, friendly emails to people and been deleted and blocked for absolutely no apparent reason.

You just have to move on and remember there are people on here that are simply not very pleasant individuals.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

why do you need a reason to block, likewise why is someone up there own **** if use the block tool.There don't need to be one, but just odd just to block one for no reason, maibe cos they might feel better."

why is it odd, the block button is just a tool, if they decided he wasnt for them its a perfectly logical thing to do to use the block, then they wont show in each others searches and inadvertently contact each other in the future, its the concept that the block button is a weapon thats odd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

why do you need a reason to block, likewise why is someone up there own **** if use the block tool."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

why do you need a reason to block, likewise why is someone up there own **** if use the block tool.There don't need to be one, but just odd just to block one for no reason, maibe cos they might feel better.

why is it odd, the block button is just a tool, if they decided he wasnt for them its a perfectly logical thing to do to use the block, then they wont show in each others searches and inadvertently contact each other in the future, its the concept that the block button is a weapon thats odd."

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol "

There is ALWAYS a reason. It's just that ypu don't know what it is.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Some are so far up their own **** its untrue they block for no reason lol

There is ALWAYS a reason. It's just that ypu don't know what it is. "

Exactly.

Also the phrase "All the Best" is generally used to sign off, usually with no intention of any further contact, so blocking would not be a strange thing to do at that point, in order to avoid inadvertently contacting you again at some future date.

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