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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away, I'd never work for anything other than cash

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington

i've had my garden and bathroom both done by guys on fab, both gave mates rates and both were paid in cash

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've done work for a lady on fab and it was a cash deal, we had played before but it wasn't used as a bartering tool etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It boils down to a simple question...........are you happy to work for free? If so then dip yourself in, if not bill them or don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc"

So, they wish to prostitute themselves? If they approached you through fab then report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

£80-£100 for an hours work - if that's how I've read it then I wouldn't work for free, get the money elsewhere. If it's a couple you know and like then that's your decision, I'm all for voluntary work.

I wouldn't mix sex with work in that way, personally. Your choice though!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

The question is.. is she worth it lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc

So, they wish to prostitute themselves? If they approached you through fab then report."

Yes they did, and from the photos she's stunning but it is like prostitution.

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

I'd agree with others, step away.

To us the ideal situation would be having a workman doing work then finding out as he's finishing up he's on fab - good job done, mates rate and a bit of fun to end the day.

Unfortunately that's unlikely to happen. Lol.

D

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"£80-£100 for an hours work - if that's how I've read it then I wouldn't work for free"

It's over half a days work for me etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would tell them to do one -

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's how it started as mates rates, ' we know you need to earn a living' etc then jumping to it being free.

I don't think I'll bother as its around 15 miles away as well

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

don't do it - a reduced mates-rate is ok if you are ok with it but free is ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come to me instead .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As with most scenarios, it's ultimately up to you. You've been made an offer and it's up to you to decide if you'd like to proceed and how important that shag with her is to you.

The risk would be after you've toiled all day the lady doesn't then feel like having playtime (as would be her prerogative of course) and you've essentially tidied their garden for no reward.

On the other hand, you might get a mind blowing fuck from a stunning lady - only you can make that value decision!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"don't do it - a reduced mates-rate is ok if you are ok with it but free is ridiculous"

Agreed. Mates rates us one thing, but sounds like they are not even mates at this stage.

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc"

. Entirely your choice. If you don't like the idea you can walk away , if you enjoy gardening and are happy to help you are hardly giving much away . If you did not do the garden, how else would you spend the time ?. Is it hard physical work or just a general tidy up?. Is there any reason they are incapable of doing their own garden. I always find gardening very relaxing and enjoy the end result .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell them no. It's a no brainer if you're thinking with your big head. £100 for a fuck?! Behave!! If you are that desparate pay an Escort or go to The Private Club in Birmingham.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Simply looks like they want their garden squared up for nothing. If they wanted a fab meet the garden shouldn't come in to it. Your decision but they sound like users.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"don't do it - a reduced mates-rate is ok if you are ok with it but free is ridiculous

Agreed. Mates rates us one thing, but sounds like they are not even mates at this stage."

And since they sought you out it looks like they were always hoping to get it done for free.

If you want to play but don't want to work for nothing then offer whatever rate you consider acceptable for mates rates and leave the ball in their court.

Oh, and if they agree make sure you get paid, they may try to worm their way out of it by naked distraction techniques or hoping you'll be to polite to ask/insist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the sex worth the £100? If it is, then why not? If it's not, then don't do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just tell them no. It's a no brainer if you're thinking with your big head. £100 for a fuck?! Behave!! If you are that desparate pay an Escort or go to The Private Club in Birmingham. "

Thankyou - mind made now.

If I wasn't doing theirs Id be working for cash on another job. £100 for a fuck is a bit much, considering this is a swinging site im beginning to think it's a bit cheeky to even suggest it etc

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just tell them no. It's a no brainer if you're thinking with your big head. £100 for a fuck?! Behave!! If you are that desparate pay an Escort or go to The Private Club in Birmingham.

Thankyou - mind made now.

If I wasn't doing theirs Id be working for cash on another job. £100 for a fuck is a bit much, considering this is a swinging site im beginning to think it's a bit cheeky to even suggest it etc

"

Single guy club membership is cheaper than that!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc"

There are often threads from men asking if women or couples want any work done on this basis. I just think if I was a man that I would rather know that a woman was having sex with me because I turned her on and she found me attractive than because she had to as payment for services rendered. In other words pride would stop me. As a woman I have more respect for myself and my body than to suggest this sort of thing as anything but roleplay.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also what happens if you do the work and she refuses to "pay" or you turn up and she looked like her photos.....fifteen years ago?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc"

Think they are taking the piss. Prostitution either way you look at it. Surely an escort would be cheaper! If they refuse you the sex what do you do then. Cant call police or take them to the small claims court. Fuck em off! J

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I agree with most of posters,don't do it and maybe report .it seems no different to asking for money for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd only ever work for free if it was for worthy charity....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just tell them no. It's a no brainer if you're thinking with your big head. £100 for a fuck?! Behave!! If you are that desparate pay an Escort or go to The Private Club in Birmingham.

Thankyou - mind made now.

If I wasn't doing theirs Id be working for cash on another job. £100 for a fuck is a bit much, considering this is a swinging site im beginning to think it's a bit cheeky to even suggest it etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc

So, they wish to prostitute themselves? If they approached you through fab then report.

Yes they did, and from the photos she's stunning but it is like prostitution.

"

Agree to meet before doing the work shag the missus then block ^_^

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've been approached by a couple who asked me to sort their garden out, firstly for a reduction in my rate and eventually as it turns out for free in exchange for an hour or so play with the female.

This would mean I'm basically paying £80-£100 for some fun

Just wondered what your thoughts were and if this goes on a lot etc

So, they wish to prostitute themselves? If they approached you through fab then report.

Yes they did, and from the photos she's stunning but it is like prostitution.

Agree to meet before doing the work shag the missus then block ^_^"

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet a guy who is a tattooist he said people used to offer him sex all the time in exchange for a tattoo, one guy wanted a full sleeve in exchange for a shag from his wife, he told him for what a sleeve would cost he wanted his wife for the whole weekend, they changed their minds

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By *hamanderbyMan
over a year ago

derby

Any couples lady ect want any tree work doing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing you should bear in mind is that you are trying to earn a living / run a business.

Personally, I keep business and pleasure strictly separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have to bring your own tools?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away, I'd never work for anything other than cash"

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away, I'd never work for anything other than cash

This. "

I dunno I'd probably work for motorbike parts :p

If anyone would like to buy me a nice honda VTR sp2 I'm yours for the weekend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away, I'd never work for anything other than cash

This.

I dunno I'd probably work for motorbike parts :p

If anyone would like to buy me a nice honda VTR sp2 I'm yours for the weekend lol"

Will the toy one do

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

When I was a divorced mum with 3 kids at home, I got allsorts of things done for less cash or for nothing in exchange for case

Job done

Everyone was happy

No issues there

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