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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Before i suggest to my recently new other half im wondering if anyone had experience of any bad situations when they have suggested sex with other people.....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

No, we haven't. Hope things work out for the best for both of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never suggested it with a partner so I wouldn't know. I guess you just have to go for it and be more subtle at first to test the water?

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

The issue is how to raise swinging in conversation. How about during foreplay watching some reasonably good porn of foursomes or threesomes and asking "would you like us to try this?".

Just a suggestion.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd guess it depends how you raise it...

As a shared naughty fantasy for a start whilst in the throes of passion might be a good start - and then you can ask later - is that something you are really interested in, or just something naughty?

But I'd guess "I'd love to boff your best mate while you watch" will get a less favourable reaction

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I couple of resources to look at before bringing it up are:

Life on the Swing Set podcast, episode 200.

Opening Up; a guide to creating and sustaining open relationships, by Tristan Taormino

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Show her your profile on here and see what she says!!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

No, it was then I found out I was not into sadomasochism, but the NHS soon sewed my cock back on and it seems to be working fine now.

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