FabSwingers.com forum: hotel meets

By *awsex99 OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

We have been wanting to have a Hotel meet with a couple but finding it hard to arrange one,most only want to meet in clubs...is this a common problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had 1 with a guy as neither of us could accom so was only option. didint um or ar about it either, just went for it

But it does seem a lot do prefer clubs maily due to own saefty etc x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"We have been wanting to have a Hotel meet with a couple but finding it hard to arrange one,most only want to meet in clubs...is this a common problem"

People feel that, as meets get more unpredictable, being in a club ensures a good night even if the other party decides to back out. I rarely meet one on one these days, and prefer clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've arrange hotel meets in the past but all fell through. I think it's just harder for couples to commit to somthing as final as a hotel room with kids,work,families that always seem to pop up when you've made definitely plans,clubs are just easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few hotel meets, to be honest I find single guys prefer them to clubs as its cheaper to go half's on a hotel than pay club entry fees and that's assuming they are a member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two hotel meets, one was fabulous, one was intimidating and scary so now as a single female I feel safer in a club as I usually attend with somebody I know to have my back. But as a couple I casnt see it being a safety issue, so I guess its just personal preference x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I/we prefer to meet at hotels than a club(admittedly, never been to one!) nor someone's private home. The latter being not so safe, so can't under what's the problem with hotels meets? We don't ask for payment, as we are there anyway. I would feel safer there than in someone's private house.

Portia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was asked if I wanted a hotel meet in Cardiff.with a Cpl.but they wanted £40 off me .no thanks I said.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

We've got a hotel meet arranged for next Sat. We've paid for the room, then we invited the others to join us. We've never had a problem getting anyone to join us, even if we've had a late cancellation someone else always jumps at the chance. We actually prefer hotel meets these days if we're honest.

We never ask anyone to share the costs as that's just plain rude. All they have to do is turn up

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

People might worry they would be let down and stuck with a bill ,ive read threads where people have booked a room and had a no show.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"I/we prefer to meet at hotels than a club(admittedly, never been to one!) nor someone's private home. The latter being not so safe, so can't under what's the problem with hotels meets? We don't ask for payment, as we are there anyway. I would feel safer there than in someone's private house.

Portia"

This is how we meet but tbh its with single guys and not couples, not had a problem as yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few hotel meets, to be honest I find single guys prefer them to clubs as its cheaper to go half's on a hotel than pay club entry fees and that's assuming they are a member "

This

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"People might worry they would be let down and stuck with a bill ,ive read threads where people have booked a room and had a no show."

There's always that risk which we try to reduce. If we're the one's booking, it really is only with verified to the hilt people with solid reputations in the "lifestyle". If they're booking we know that ultimately the cost is on their head so we may meet those a little more riskier of a no show so to speak. We've never put anyone in the no show position, it would take something very genuine not to show up, we'd also want to fully reimburse them also out of common decency.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

As a single male I see clubs as a necessary evil for proving that I am genuine and safe. etc

Given a choice I would always prefer to meet a couple at their home or a hotel for unrushed pleasure and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do meet at hotels I'm fine as long as other party is paying for it x

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We only look for hotel meets if we are away on one of our trips. Sadly so far no couple has ever taken us up on the offer but this has not been a problem as we always have a back up club in mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a couple of hotel meets... I don't stay the night so I don't share hotel cost's. ..

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We have our first hotel meet on Friday, which I've paid for. I'm not expecting anyone to share the bill.

I recently met a single guy in a hotel that he had booked and offered to pay half though, but he wouldn't accept.

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By *awsex99 OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

That seem exactly to be the problem,its couples that dont want hotel meets...

It maybe because its harder to say no in an intimate situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get a hotel most weekends and don't have a problem with getting other couples... It's just single guys we struggle with..

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By *awsex99 OP Couple
over a year ago

Brighton

"We get a hotel most weekends and don't have a problem with getting other couples... It's just single guys we struggle with..

whats your secret then?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had four hotel meets with single guys and loved every minute ...the guy has paid for the hotel on 3 of those occasions ......one of those guys has become my wife's regular lover for the past 18 months .....I guess we have been lucky

....we are more cautious when we attend clubs

Saboor

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

The right place

I stay in hotels a lot for work. Most of my meets have been in hotels. I have met in clubs too but hotel meets are my favourite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done hotel meets in the past on my own and with my wife meeting fems. The one and only no show we have ever had put us off hotels a little.its not nice getting a call when your 20/30 mins away from the hotel cancelling after all the effort of childcare and the costs involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We in here with my ex wife we did hotel meets at the start as we didn't want to accommodate at home or travel , so it worked for us.

Saw it as neutral ground for all, always had fun but always paid the hotel as we likes the claim back sex the next morning x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We in here with my ex wife we did hotel meets at the start as we didn't want to accommodate at home or travel , so it worked for us.

Saw it as neutral ground for all, always had fun but always paid the hotel as we likes the claim back sex the next morning x"

Nothing nicer than a fabulous hard cock nudging you in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We in here with my ex wife we did hotel meets at the start as we didn't want to accommodate at home or travel , so it worked for us.

Saw it as neutral ground for all, always had fun but always paid the hotel as we likes the claim back sex the next morning x

Nothing nicer than a fabulous hard cock nudging you in the morning

Always a major part with us cupcake, now I'm a single , it would be nice to do this again

but let's see what the future brings

Great topic though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had a couple of hotel meets, first time was with another couple we both had our own rooms as we were all staying over.

The second time was with a single Guy last weekend, neither parties could accommodate so agreed to split the cost of a hotel. We met him in a pub down the road to make sure we all clicked first. It was a daytime meet and none of us were going to stay over, the hotel was off booking.com. It was quite basic but clean and for £40 what do you expect lol. It also had the added bonus of having pin codes on doors rather receptionists. It was all quite sleazy really but that just added to the filthyness of it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do meet at hotels I'm fine as long as other party is paying for it x"

How arrogant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do meet at hotels I'm fine as long as other party is paying for it x

How arrogant "

Poor choice of label. She's being honest and not forcing anyone.

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By *ustlovingitCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

We book a weekend away somewhere in a hotel at least once a month. Love hotel meets. Drink in bar first to make sure all ok, then I head up to get changed and my husband and the meet follow in 10 mins.

The odd time we don't manage to get a meet arranged, well we just enjoy our wee break

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get a hotel most weekends and don't have a problem with getting other couples... It's just single guys we struggle with..

whats your secret then?!"

Don't know.. think its the central location we pick... Many couples we have spoken to before..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do meet at hotels I'm fine as long as other party is paying for it x

How arrogant

Poor choice of label. She's being honest and not forcing anyone."

Anyone who expects things from others and has no intention of even offering to go atleast halves is arrogant !

The cost of a hotel for me is not a problem and i would always pay . Ive had alot of hotel meets and every single person has offered to pay atleast half .

So just to expect things from others is a lack of class in most peoples books.

If a man wrote that he'd be crucified

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