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"She was a Virgin when we met and as such at 24 has only ever seen or played with my cock. Is this unusual?" Maybe she will see more now that you are on here, or are you single on here? | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 23/04/15 11:06:27]" Not unusual at all! Maybe she was waiting for the right guy to actually give her v to. Think she maybe made a mistake since you're on here as a single man. | |||
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"She's only even seen one" That's cause you're on here as a single male lol | |||
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"She's only even seen one" What does she say about you being on here, or does she not know? | |||
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"On here as a single guy to get a feel for the place and think about how to broach it with her, haven't had any meets " So you are on here looking for sex, well you were five minutes ago until you changed your profile, and she doesn't know?? Let's hope she gets to see lots more cocks soon, you are looking for sex with others, so why shouldn't she? | |||
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"We've talked about it briefly but not sure how to broach here with her" As a woman, in a loving 6 yr relationship with my hubby, father to my children and person who took my virginity (yes I might be from Essex but that is all the same person lol) Joining a sex site to fuck other women behind your girlfriends back is NOT the way to approach the subject lolololol  | |||
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"We've talked about it briefly but not sure how to broach here with her" If she was a virgin when you met - and therefore in her mind she might have seen herself as 'saving herself for Mr Right' - it's quite possible that she'd see the idea of either/both of you having sex with others as abhorrent! Singles can be swingers - but in my view singles who are in relationships where their partners are oblivious are simply cheats, not swingers! X | |||
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"We've talked about it briefly but not sure how to broach here with her As a woman, in a loving 6 yr relationship with my hubby, father to my children and person who took my virginity (yes I might be from Essex but that is all the same person lol) Joining a sex site to fuck other women behind your girlfriends back is NOT the way to approach the subject lolololol "Aahh, but remember; he has changed his profile now and he is just looking. He wanted sex with others ten minutes ago though!! | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back" Through choice or lack of interest  | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back" You have been trying to for six months on here though, haven't you? | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest " | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back" Then delete your profile Hun, have a conversation with her (many couples tell me that they bring it up in the bedroom during sex/foreplay as a sort of fantasy scenario) - and if -after a couple of these scenarios- your partner seems open/turned on by it - you can then bring it up outside the bedroom! Best of luck Hun! Xx | |||
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"We've talked about it briefly but not sure how to broach here with her As a woman, in a loving 6 yr relationship with my hubby, father to my children and person who took my virginity (yes I might be from Essex but that is all the same person lol) Joining a sex site to fuck other women behind your girlfriends back is NOT the way to approach the subject lolololol "Absolutely agree we chatted first agreed to boundaries then both look at possible meets. And never play unless it together | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Then delete your profile Hun, have a conversation with her (many couples tell me that they bring it up in the bedroom during sex/foreplay as a sort of fantasy scenario) - and if -after a couple of these scenarios- your partner seems open/turned on by it - you can then bring it up outside the bedroom! Best of luck Hun! Xx" Ps - if she's horrified by it it's then easier to back-track and say it was simply 'porn fantasy' x | |||
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"Sounds like a good idea, n it was tbh, had no intention if meeting anyone on here behind her back despite what others might think" That's not what your profile said lol | |||
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"Sounds like a good idea, n it was tbh, had no intention if meeting anyone on here behind her back despite what others might think" Fair enough, so why were you asking to meet others then?? | |||
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"Sounds like a good idea, n it was tbh, had no intention if meeting anyone on here behind her back despite what others might think" If you are on here cheating, at least try not to broadcast yourself by posting in the Forums!! Lots of people on here think cheats are just lowlife. After all, it is a Swingers site, not a Cheaters site!! If you had no intentions of meeting anyone, why say in your profile you want to? | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest "I didn't reply to him last month as i wasn't interested.  | |||
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"Send her to me for a week i will send her bck with some wild tales to share with you "Love it!! | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back" So she'd be happy with you dirty talking on cam?  | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest
I didn't reply to him last month as i wasn't interested. "Haha owned. | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest
I didn't reply to him last month as i wasn't interested. "So did he contact you hoping for a meet? | |||
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"We've talked about it briefly but not sure how to broach here with her" Over the years I've seen many couples who lost their virginity with each other, then gone onto have affairs and split up. It's human nature to wonder what it would be like with someone else. You need to ask yourself if you view your girlfriend as a potential life partner, if the answer is yes, then it's worth the time and effort to try and nurture her sexuality. It will take time but could bring you much closer together. Tell her your fear is that she may wonder what it would be like with another man, and you'd rather she explored that as a couple because you don't want to lose her. Maybe she thinks about sex with another woman but is scared to mention it. Watch some porn together and gauge her reaction to different scenarios. Be open and honest, that's the most important thing. I fear the fact your here as a single guy, that she isn't fulfilling your desires. Delete your profile and put some effort into bringing her out of her shell. | |||
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" If you had no intentions of meeting anyone, why say in your profile you want to?" Honestly, curiosity, to see if anyone was interested, wouldn't have gone any further though | |||
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"She was a Virgin when we met and as such at 24 has only ever seen or played with my cock. Is this unusual?" no I don't think its as unusual as some people think. 
You will very quickly find out that talking about an absent partner isn't accepted on here unless you're a woman | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back So she'd be happy with you dirty talking on cam? "Exactly what I thought lol! Men/women playing away is none of my business unless they're my partner but when he is blatantly trying to and is denying it annoys me lol. | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status "I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol. | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status
I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol.
"I wont go into detail but it has been known quite recently for a woman to post quite personal relationship stuff and apart from one or two people who consistently give the same advice regardless of gender she was responded to very differently. | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status
I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol.
I wont go into detail but it has been known quite recently for a woman to post quite personal relationship stuff and apart from one or two people who consistently give the same advice regardless of gender she was responded to very differently."It happens all the time on the forums... | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status
I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol.
I wont go into detail but it has been known quite recently for a woman to post quite personal relationship stuff and apart from one or two people who consistently give the same advice regardless of gender she was responded to very differently.
It happens all the time on the forums...
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest
I didn't reply to him last month as i wasn't interested. "Neither was i interested as well when he asked to suck mg cock | |||
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"Thank OP for knocking us single guys down a peg, you're on a swinging site after taking a girls virginity that she held onto till the age of 24 waiting to meet the right man which is an extremely rare thing to find in this day and age. Personally you disgust me, I hope you never get a meet and better yet I hope she realises what an absolute piece of shit you are. I'll take a forum time out happily, you're the epitome of everything that's wrong with the site spoiling it for the genuine males/females/couples and those inbetween. If you have any slight conscience think of this, how would you react if your 24 year old daughter came to you and said dad I think he's been cheating on me, he's been on sex sites, oh my god I thought he was the one, I saved myself and he was the one I gave myself to
I know what I would do ....."I don't think she was 24 when they met - she's 24 now, right? I mean he does appear to be doing the dirty on her, so for that bit I tend to agree! | |||
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"http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/379548" How is that comparable? Did you actually read the thread?! | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status
I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol.
I wont go into detail but it has been known quite recently for a woman to post quite personal relationship stuff and apart from one or two people who consistently give the same advice regardless of gender she was responded to very differently."I have noticed that happens a lot and it is very unfair | |||
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"http://m.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/379548 How is that comparable? Did you actually read the thread?!" which one? this one we're on? | |||
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"I'm not a supporter of people discussing their partners when they don't know about it but I can't see where he's asked for opinions on his relationship status
I guess he just opened a can of worms, we're all judgmental here on Fab lol.
I wont go into detail but it has been known quite recently for a woman to post quite personal relationship stuff and apart from one or two people who consistently give the same advice regardless of gender she was responded to very differently.
I have noticed that happens a lot and it is very unfair"e.g. https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/379548 | |||
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"Thank OP for knocking us single guys down a peg, you're on a swinging site after taking a girls virginity that she held onto till the age of 24 waiting to meet the right man which is an extremely rare thing to find in this day and age. Personally you disgust me, I hope you never get a meet and better yet I hope she realises what an absolute piece of shit you are. I'll take a forum time out happily, you're the epitome of everything that's wrong with the site spoiling it for the genuine males/females/couples and those inbetween. If you have any slight conscience think of this, how would you react if your 24 year old daughter came to you and said dad I think he's been cheating on me, he's been on sex sites, oh my god I thought he was the one, I saved myself and he was the one I gave myself to
I know what I would do .....
I don't think she was 24 when they met - she's 24 now, right?
I mean he does appear to be doing the dirty on her, so for that bit I tend to agree!"Her age isn't so important as her first ever sexual partner trying to sleep around behind her back. Sets the bar pretty damn low, it would likely be emotionally crippling for her. | |||
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"UNLOS " What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury." UNLOS = user no longer on site... | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site..." | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site..." BAFETD | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury." Hopefully got himself a new light fitting, people like that make me sick. If you can't be with someone, don't be. Don't sneak around behind their back, that just shows a complete lack of respect and consideration for them. | |||
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"Oh dear the poor guy has left. What have you lot been saying??? " I think we were saying what everyone else was probably thinking! | |||
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"Oh dear the poor guy has left. What have you lot been saying??? " mean while in the other d*unk thread https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/379548 | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD" Hmm, I don't know this one? | |||
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"I have never fucked anyone behind her back Through choice or lack of interest
I didn't reply to him last month as i wasn't interested.
So did he contact you hoping for a meet?
"No idea. I looked at his page and saw he'd messaged me and i never replied. | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD Hmm, I don't know this one? "Bloody acronyms for everything these days. I might have just made it up | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD Hmm, I don't know this one?
Bloody acronyms for everything these days.
I might have just made it up" | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD Hmm, I don't know this one?
Bloody acronyms for everything these days.
I might have just made it up"Eta, osp, gmt, asap, op, mtf, ftm, and many more. Acronyms aren't exactly a modern fad they've been going forwards years | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD Hmm, I don't know this one?
Bloody acronyms for everything these days.
I might have just made it up
Eta, osp, gmt, asap, op, mtf, ftm, and many more. Acronyms aren't exactly a modern fad they've been going forwards years "Pipe down cheese boy | |||
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"UNLOS What does this mean? I expect you will get a forum timeout, and maybe I will for agreeing with you, but all the same it does all seem rather unsavoury. UNLOS = user no longer on site... BAFETD Hmm, I don't know this one?
Bloody acronyms for everything these days.
I might have just made it up
Eta, osp, gmt, asap, op, mtf, ftm, and many more. Acronyms aren't exactly a modern fad they've been going forwards years
Pipe down cheese boy"Shut it ye southern, shandy drinking poof | |||
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"Thank OP for knocking us single guys down a peg, you're on a swinging site after taking a girls virginity that she held onto till the age of 24 waiting to meet the right man which is an extremely rare thing to find in this day and age. Personally you disgust me, I hope you never get a meet and better yet I hope she realises what an absolute piece of shit you are. I'll take a forum time out happily, you're the epitome of everything that's wrong with the site spoiling it for the genuine males/females/couples and those inbetween. If you have any slight conscience think of this, how would you react if your 24 year old daughter came to you and said dad I think he's been cheating on me, he's been on sex sites, oh my god I thought he was the one, I saved myself and he was the one I gave myself to
I know what I would do ....."Totally agree with you on this. I suspect that the OP wasn't expecting such an adverse reaction to his original post - and to be fair to him, his actual enquiry wasn't that much of an issue. Perhaps he could have worded it better, but what many have picked up on is the fact that he had been on fab as a single guy for some time and, from what I gather, had been stating an intent on his profile to meet (and cheat on his partner). That is, of course, until someone pointed it out to him, so he changed it. Then, when it was pointed out that it had been noticed that he'd changed it, he tried to further dig himself out of a deepening hole by then claiming that he was simply on here out of curiosity , but would not actually go through with anything - and so possibly digging himself another hole, suggesting that he would be quite happy to waste other peoples time. His progression to UNLOS was inevitable. | |||
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