FabSwingers.com forum: asking for face pics

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you ask to see a face pic and its not to clear, for example the person is in the distance. Would you find it acceptable to ask for a clearer face pic?

I have and the reply was not very positive.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Yes, I would ask for a clearer pic. And I would wonder why they'd sent that one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I've had to ask for one that's not blurry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely! Shades are my biggest hate - I love to see eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Definitely! Shades are my biggest hate - I love to see eyes

That was the following pic. I agree I like to see eyes too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I would ask for a clearer pic. And I would wonder why they'd sent that one "

This.

If they were rude in their reply I'd know why they sent that pic.

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Our face pics are just as clear as the rest of our gallery. Unless we get a clear picture we don't respond with ours.

Perfectly ok to ask for another.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"When you ask to see a face pic and its not to clear, for example the person is in the distance. Would you find it acceptable to ask for a clearer face pic?

I have and the reply was not very positive. "

We have politely requested this on the odd occasion and explained why. If they decline that's fine and their choice but we don't continue any further contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they can't be bothered to supply a close up clear one, I'd have lost interest already.

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

We don't have our face pics even in our friends gallery but are happy to send a good, clear selection if asked. In fact we sometimes send them with our first message. It isn't a beauty contest but faces and torsos are more important to us than cock and pussy pics.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't have our face pics even in our friends gallery but are happy to send a good, clear selection if asked. In fact we sometimes send them with our first message. It isn't a beauty contest but faces and torsos are more important to us than cock and pussy pics.

Him"

I NEED that rosy corset! Exquisite

S x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think I've said this before but I'm old and tend to repeat myself. When we've been sent blurry or unclear photos it has always been because the person in them doesn't really want to do what they have said they will. Recent comments on face picture threads have made me realise that there can be genuine reasons not to send face pictures at all but blurry ones would make me think it was time to move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When you ask to see a face pic and its not to clear, for example the person is in the distance. Would you find it acceptable to ask for a clearer face pic?

I have and the reply was not very positive. "

Yup.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

When this happens our attitude is to treat with caution and invariably move on.

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

depends how important it is to you ..i just need to have some idea of who im meeting tho im not worried about looks its not that important for me .i want to be able to see if i know the person tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check you're wearing your glasses first

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

Him

I NEED that rosy corset! Exquisite

S x"

It was well liked at Cupids last night! If you would like to pm us JB will explain where she got it (online).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends how important it is to you ..i just need to have some idea of who im meeting tho im not worried about looks its not that important for me .i want to be able to see if i know the person tho "

Face pics haven't really been the problem with me. One slight gripe is when people are less than honest about their body type. And that seems to be the norm on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"depends how important it is to you ..i just need to have some idea of who im meeting tho im not worried about looks its not that important for me .i want to be able to see if i know the person tho "

This is the main reason

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Check you're wearing your glasses first"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you all realise that once you hit the send button you have no control over what happens to that image,it could end up anywhere! Members tend not to use there real names! Why! Discretion that's why.

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you all realise that once you hit the send button you have no control over what happens to that image,it could end up anywhere! Members tend not to use there real names! Why! Discretion that's why.

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine."

Little box under message "remove" pictures after message as been read ... if ticked removes all pictures attached to message (easy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine."

But why would you meet someone you've never seen?

Most people arnt desperate enough to shag anyone regardless of looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine.

Little box under message "remove" pictures after message as been read ... if ticked removes all pictures attached to message (easy)

But they can still save them when they open the message the first time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If somebody sends me a face pic I believe it is common courtesy to send one back (unless it is unsolicited)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many times do we hear about fake profiles that use stolen photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many times do we hear about fake profiles that use stolen photos!"

So your solution to a small number of people using fake pics is to just not bother with pics before meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What really bugs me is the members who ask for them often have none whatsoever on there own profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really bugs me is the members who ask for them often have none whatsoever on there own profile."

But you just said you didn't like people who had public face photos

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

We recently had a 'couple' chatting to us. When I asked for a face pic, I received a pic of a framed photo that was on the fireplace, of a couple on their wedding day. Many years ago.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We recently had a 'couple' chatting to us. When I asked for a face pic, I received a pic of a framed photo that was on the fireplace, of a couple on their wedding day. Many years ago.

for some reason that's amused me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely! Shades are my biggest hate - I love to see eyes

Same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its more than acceptable! We have a range of face pictures we send to people we would meet of us together and separately and also full nude ones with face so you see it is us in the pics haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You only have dodgy pics if you got something to hide. My pics are alwais clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have dodgy pics if you got something to hide. My pics are alwais clear

Mmm very clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications can mean nothing, pics can mean nothing too. Only really way is to cam before a meet to be sure who it is you're talking to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What really bugs me is the members who ask for them often have none whatsoever on there own profile.

But you just said you didn't like people who had public face photos "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We recently had a 'couple' chatting to us. When I asked for a face pic, I received a pic of a framed photo that was on the fireplace, of a couple on their wedding day. Many years ago.

for some reason that's amused me "

Was it you?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"We recently had a 'couple' chatting to us. When I asked for a face pic, I received a pic of a framed photo that was on the fireplace, of a couple on their wedding day. Many years ago.

for some reason that's amused me "

It amused me too. I mean, wtf?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Verifications can mean nothing, pics can mean nothing too. Only really way is to cam before a meet to be sure who it is you're talking to "

Which is fine if you are both there to do so, but our time is limited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications can mean nothing, pics can mean nothing too. Only really way is to cam before a meet to be sure who it is you're talking to "

Cams can be recorded. You may be viewing a recording....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Verifications can mean nothing, pics can mean nothing too. Only really way is to cam before a meet to be sure who it is you're talking to "

Only ever cammed with one person and that was because they weren't in the country at the time.

Never had an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha cynical bunch aren't we?

"Our time is limited to do that" Skype in a phone is easy and takes 2 mins

"Cams can be recorded, you could be watching a recording"

Which is why you ask very specific questions whilst on cam

All I'm saying is Skype/cam is way more reliable than veris or face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You only have dodgy pics if you got something to hide. My pics are alwais clear

Mmm very clear"
thanks, u got a nice pic there too x

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Haha cynical bunch aren't we?

"Our time is limited to do that" Skype in a phone is easy and takes 2 mins

"Cams can be recorded, you could be watching a recording"

Which is why you ask very specific questions whilst on cam

All I'm saying is Skype/cam is way more reliable than veris or face pics"

Which just goes to show that we all do things differently.

We don't go on cam and very rarely speak on the phone before a meet. It works for us and the people we have met have all been pretty much what we were expecting and claimed to be.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Haha cynical bunch aren't we?

"Our time is limited to do that" Skype in a phone is easy and takes 2 mins

"Cams can be recorded, you could be watching a recording"

Which is why you ask very specific questions whilst on cam

All I'm saying is Skype/cam is way more reliable than veris or face pics

Which just goes to show that we all do things differently.

We don't go on cam and very rarely speak on the phone before a meet. It works for us and the people we have met have all been pretty much what we were expecting and claimed to be.

with a couple of exceptions where they'd "forgotten" that their pictures were about 15 years old we've had the same experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it's acceptable. If you met someone in a pub and they refused to turn around and look at you, you wouldn't carry on talking to them would you?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Of course it's acceptable. If you met someone in a pub and they refused to turn around and look at you, you wouldn't carry on talking to them would you?"

I wouldn't but we met a d*unk on New Years Eve who carried on chatting to my back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Were you on all fours at the time?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Were you on all fours at the time?"

Not that I recall, no

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

Which just goes to show that we all do things differently.

We don't go on cam and very rarely speak on the phone before a meet. It works for us and the people we have met have all been pretty much what we were expecting and claimed to be.

Exactly how we do it with the same results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which just goes to show that we all do things differently.

We don't go on cam and very rarely speak on the phone before a meet. It works for us and the people we have met have all been pretty much what we were expecting and claimed to be.

Exactly how we do it with the same results."

As a single guy, I tend to speak to people on the phone first just to prove their gender!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"Haha cynical bunch aren't we?

"Our time is limited to do that" Skype in a phone is easy and takes 2 mins

"Cams can be recorded, you could be watching a recording"

Which is why you ask very specific questions whilst on cam

All I'm saying is Skype/cam is way more reliable than veris or face pics"

And how do you suggest we skype someone when we're not in the same place?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can do Skype conference calls.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"All I'm saying is Skype/cam is way more reliable than veris or face pics"

And how does that guarantee they'll turn up for the meet?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"You can do Skype conference calls."

I have skype on mine, don't think he does on his, and he's technologically challenged.

Out of curiosity, how many people would be comfortable with group skype calls?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can do Skype conference calls.

I have skype on mine, don't think he does on his, and he's technologically challenged.

Out of curiosity, how many people would be comfortable with group skype calls? "

I would be fine with it, as long as everyone verified each other - it would be rather an elborate way of stealing my wallet, that's for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can do Skype conference calls.

I have skype on mine, don't think he does on his, and he's technologically challenged.

Out of curiosity, how many people would be comfortable with group skype calls? "

i'd be perfectly happy with it.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Yes, I would ask for a clearer pic. And I would wonder why they'd sent that one "

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine.

Little box under message "remove" pictures after message as been read ... if ticked removes all pictures attached to message (easy)

My favourite new toy!

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By *amparaWoman
over a year ago

biggleswade

ive got to see a clear recent pic before i meet as ive got to be attracted to play it's very important otherwise i may as well stay home and play with myself if i'm not attracted to the person!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to send your photo to a total stranger?

If any member really don't care who sees that they use this site that's fine, there choice. But they should respect other members wishes to be discrete.

Personally I would not wish to meet a member who has their face plastered all over their profile as this indicate a total lack of discretion.

Just my alternative view. If a member is verified that should be enough to indicate they are genuine.

Little box under message "remove" pictures after message as been read ... if ticked removes all pictures attached to message (easy)

My favourite new toy!

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"When you ask to see a face pic and its not to clear, for example the person is in the distance. Would you find it acceptable to ask for a clearer face pic?

I have and the reply was not very positive. "

I ask for a face 'pic', an X-ray and a CAT scan. Can't be too careful these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely.

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By *lack RoccoMan
over a year ago

London

If anyone is genuine and are hear for the correct reason's, then there should not be a problem in supplying a clearer PIC which is more identifiable. So you are right to ask again for clearer PIC and if they become unpleasant, it means things do not add up. (Just my theory)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely. All mine are clear and recent. Although private il happily send

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"If anyone is genuine and are hear for the correct reason's, then there should not be a problem in supplying a clearer PIC which is more identifiable. So you are right to ask again for clearer PIC and if they become unpleasant, it means things do not add up. (Just my theory)

I don't add up

I only 'add up' on Skype webcam or at a club

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