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Waiting for my first meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have my first meet arranged next week! .

I'm nervous, excited and can't concentrate at work. I'm scared that it might be game over after a few minutes, or worse still a complete non starter. Does everyone feel the same first time? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. X

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I usually get nervous as well when meeting someone for the first time. I should imagine they will be as well, no matter how many other people they have met previously.

By all means have a drink to calm the nerves, but don't get pissed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I usually get nervous as well when meeting someone for the first time. I should imagine they will be as well, no matter how many other people they have met previously.

By all means have a drink to calm the nerves, but don't get pissed "

Thanks, greatly appreciated.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nerves are normal. Have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm keen to meet people on here but at the same time nervous too that people will expect too much of newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get absolutely wasted then your nerves go

Seriously even people who've been on here years get nervous, I do and though looks like I'm new I'm. A returnee and started 3/4 years ago. Had a first meet couple if months back and we talked so long cos we were both nervous we lost our play time lol!!

Easy to say but just be yourself, try not to keep thinking about it or you may ruin it before your there

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys! I'm gonna try and relax and go with the flow. Wish me luck.

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Dont get too worked up, its a guy and wont turn up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good to be nervous. Just make sure you're being safe, you arrive clean and take things as they come

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Thanks guys! I'm gonna try and relax and go with the flow. Wish me luck. "

Don't drink beforehand. Just enjoy and relish the expectation and thrill....it's all part of the experience...I love the build up, even now after all this time and 36 meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have my first meet arranged next week! .

I'm nervous, excited and can't concentrate at work. I'm scared that it might be game over after a few minutes, or worse still a complete non starter. Does everyone feel the same first time? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. X"

No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its good to be nervous. Just make sure you're being safe, you arrive clean and take things as they come "

Thanks.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Don't go home smelling of sex to the wife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous, I have a pint d*unk very quickly before we meet does the trick, make sure you freshen your breath though.

Good luck and enjoy

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