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Do women have problem with guys who want anal on first meet?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal?

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By *ussyandpufferCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

Ouch...Nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "
i like your style

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

I don't have a problem with a guy asking, i would however have a problem if they expected it.

I think Anal is quite a intimate thing and personally I wouldn't just do it with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

I don't have a problem with a guy asking, i would however have a problem if they expected it.

I think Anal is quite a intimate thing and personally I wouldn't just do it with anyone. "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I would not expect anyone to agree to anal on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nobody is giving it to either of us ----- ever Sx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been so relieved not to have met someone. Twice - the first time was when he said he will not travel "just for coffee". It is always sad to see someone who does not see beyond here and now.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"nobody is giving it to either of us ----- ever Sx"

Haha, I'm with you there - 'Stuff that for a game of soldiers!' as my ex would say!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

Are you saying women you meet are boring then? If you can't find just pussy sex fun then the problem lays with you and women you choose.

I personally wouldn't let some random have anal, and if he asked he'd get told no

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Depends on the guy (and the size of his cock), but I don't usually have a problem with it, I bloody love anal

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

galway

have done it on first meets no problem each too their own

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

sounds a bit selfish to us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem guys asking, as long as they have no problem with the answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have a problem meeting a guy that would be bored with my pussy.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

I always say "no" politely since strap-on sex is something I enjoy with other women only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops, misread the post and thought it was about wanting Alan on the first meet

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By *ambslass48Woman
over a year ago

Peterborough

I don't do anal at all thanks

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We do not set limits on any activity on first meets. We would rather just see what develops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A polite f**k off would be your answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you feel the need to ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't wait to get asked as its a def no with me ....

I tend to say it over coffee on the social meet "by the way I don't do anal " seems to work ..

Then I remind again before meet ...oh then before we get down to it ....lol..

Had no problems yet ....

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By *iPeopleMan
over a year ago

London

Getting bored with pussy sounds serious! With guys fucking guys it's obviously less of an issue but still anal isn't by any means the only thing or the thing everyone does 1st meet.

I like both pussy n cock and cant imagine getting bored with either. My experience is the best sex ive had happens in my head anyway! So who the person is matters a lot. Even if its for a quickie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, what matters is if I like the guy or not and if I want to meet him.

But if I do meet then he's more than welcome to ask for anal - and I'd hope that he would!

I'm even very happy to meet for anal-only, that gives quite an interesting and pleasurable twist to the meet....

Politeness does make a big difference though, and that's what's usually missing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

You read my thoughts exactly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would not expect or want anal with a meet - that's reserved for our time

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a guy asking however I don't always say yes as depends how much I'm pleasured and turned on and whether there considerate eg lube not a rammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem with a guy asking politely as long as they didn't have a problem hearing the words ~ no fucking way....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have a problem meeting a guy that would be bored with my pussy."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once met a married woman who wanted only Anal

She never got it from her husband as she said he respected her too much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't have a problem with someone asking. Would have a problem with someone assuming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, I take it "Frank" is quite accommodating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can ask but the answer would be no

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

You could ask all you wanted but on a first meet the answer would be a not so polite NO.

Then again, even if you got to a second, third or fourth meet, the answer would still be no. Anal is for me and hubby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I want to fuck all 3 holes on first meet, satisfy your cock to the max

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So op you're bored of having sex with a woman and so you expect them to make up for you're boredom and inability to get excited? Nice!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

well said , ho shit lol .

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

How can you be bored with pussy? There is no friction in the arse, it is a smooth pipe - no ridges, no lumps, curves, tightness, no real muscle walls to clench you with .. the list goes on.

Don't know how big you are, but it takes me long enough to prepare for vaginal nevermind anal, the thought is good but I rarely if ever go anal just because of the amount of work needed, and the fact that - pussy, rules. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I want to fuck all 3 holes on first meet, satisfy your cock to the max "

How's that worked out for you so far Shag?

Legend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

Funny but fair

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

Women are either into anal or they hate it. Guys should never expect anal on a first meet unless the lady has requested it.

Women are not here just to serve men. We don't want to tar all men with the same brush, but some guys would have better luck if the showed a little respect.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, the OP sounds a real catch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anal ....it would be a polite ..........."Fuck off" from me......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never asked politely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

Suits me. I'd make sure I was already lubed up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block and report anyone who hasn't let me anally fist them within the first 15 minutes of meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I block and report anyone who hasn't let me anally fist them within the first 15 minutes of meeting."

Harsh...but at least you have standards! Just a bit different to others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

Personally I love anal! I don't mind on the first meet however if they expected it would be a big no! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me anal and rimming requires alot of prep (what I eat and douching) so unless it's mentioned in advance it isn't happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. Anal is just a part of sex to me.

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"A polite f**k off would be your answer "

I like that. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally for us anal is a huge part in our sex life...we both adore it and defo have no problem having anal sex on a first meet

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

Thanks for the feedback folks.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Wouldn't be playing on a first meet, let alone anal play!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I want to fuck all 3 holes on first meet, satisfy your cock to the max

How's that worked out for you so far Shag?

Legend "
its going fine as I meet women outside of fab.

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"Anal ....it would be a polite ..........."Fuck off" from me...... "

well done.i like that hehehehe.massive turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends of how well ive got to no them via messages n phone calls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I would do with everyone and not something I'd do on a first meet either!! I think you have to fairly comfortable with someone before you go there! Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

Deal lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No problem guys asking, as long as they have no problem with the answer."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

AHA!

Alternative Hole Anal.

Wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bums so I enjoy anal never expect it though but being bi obviously it comes up more often than for straight folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I would do with everyone and not something I'd do on a first meet either!! I think you have to fairly comfortable with someone before you go there! Just my thoughts "
like know their real name and stuff?

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By *lack RoccoMan
over a year ago

London

Fact is some women simply hate it, and some women love it, and others are up for trying anything, (open minded)

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Saying 'get bored with pussy' is akin to being bored with life itself.

It isn't a great chat up line is it?...

'I would like to have sex with you but I am bored of vaginal penetration and will only allow us to be naked together if I can fuck you hard up your arse...after a coffee, if we must dawdle...'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saying 'get bored with pussy' is akin to being bored with life itself.

It isn't a great chat up line is it?...

'I would like to have sex with you but I am bored of vaginal penetration and will only allow us to be naked together if I can fuck you hard up your arse...after a coffee, if we must dawdle...'"

Coffee, my arse!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

sounds a bit selfish to us"

The whole site is selfish. We are all here for what we want. It's simply a question of how much we are willing to compromise.

No kissing or no anal, some have one rule, some the other, some both.

Some people will not meet those that won't kiss. Apply the same logic to anal.

No big deal deal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fact is some women simply hate it, and some women love it, and others are up for trying anything, (open minded) "

It isn't closed minded to not want anal.

I believe it's called a preference.

I don't mind it but it would rarely happen the first time I meet up with someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't have a problem with it - but the answer won't always be yes! I have to be in the mood for anal - if I'm not I can't relax and it's painful! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I would do with everyone and not something I'd do on a first meet either!! I think you have to fairly comfortable with someone before you go there! Just my thoughts like know their real name and stuff? "

Haha yep including middle name and star sign! Then I'm good to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with anal on a first meet so long as he fucks my pussy first so I can see his style of shagging, if he rams away like he's chasing a rat up a drain pipe he's going nowhere near my arse sorry to say but mist have no idea how to fuck an arse

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By *orkieLassCouple
over a year ago

York

See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just hope guys do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, sometimes not. Definitely not with a guy whos bored by pussy and only has one goal. What a charmer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

Love this and yes I'd feel the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no problem with anal on a first meet so long as he fucks my pussy first so I can see his style of shagging, if he rams away like he's chasing a rat up a drain pipe he's going nowhere near my arse sorry to say but mist have no idea how to fuck an arse"

That's why bi guys are best :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's true though; you got to make love to an arse. Try to shag it off and it quickly becomes uncomfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's true though; you got to make love to an arse. Try to shag it off and it quickly becomes uncomfortable "

It's different for everyone I've met people who wanted me to shag their arse as hard and as fast as I could.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Anal on a first meet? You've got to be kidding, right? I don't think you can get away with that kind of thing in Costa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anal on a first meet? You've got to be kidding, right? I don't think you can get away with that kind of thing in Costa "

Hahaha!! Can you not V??? Starbucks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not something I would do with everyone and not something I'd do on a first meet either!! I think you have to fairly comfortable with someone before you go there! Just my thoughts like know their real name and stuff?

Haha yep including middle name and star sign! Then I'm good to go "

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Anal on a first meet? You've got to be kidding, right? I don't think you can get away with that kind of thing in Costa

Hahaha!! Can you not V??? Starbucks? "

Other holes are available....I mean coffee shops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

We have to ask, do you have a problem being asked for anal sex on your first meet?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Personally I want to fuck all 3 holes on first meet, satisfy your cock to the max

How's that worked out for you so far Shag?

Legend "

Oh, Shag is inching forward to hole number one

[Shag; xxx]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a problem with you asking on a meet. I would expect you not to be pissed off when I say no. Ideally I would like to be asked before a meet if it means a lot to you.

I have a perfectly good mouth if that's helpful in your quest for extra holes.

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

If you love anal so much OP then why not discuss it prior to meeting? That way you're less likely to be disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask"

Anal please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask

Anal please "

Only because you said please

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By *adysueandneroCouple
over a year ago

witney


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

Looks like the answer is, yes, they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask

Anal please "

Marry me?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either. "

You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either. "

I struggled to sit down after a visit to Our Place 4 Fun. London men really like getting their fingers shitty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

This.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either.

You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal. "

sexual level?

man ... I have literally had rounds of applause off more than 10 men and women watching me fuck, and that was nothing more than basic fingering and a fuck. No anal, not even a lick.

A woman doing anal on a first meet doesn't give indication of a sexual level. I have had women seriously test my control because they know how to use their pussies; anal is no metre of ability whatsoever, I can say without doubt. Try a more pussy - you'd be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask

Anal please

Marry me?"

Ok! Next week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either.

You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal. "

Nah the onus is on you to check she's ok with it before you start sticking things in her holes not for her to have to tell you first.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

man ... I have literally had rounds of applause off more than 10 men and women watching me fuck, and that was nothing more than basic fingering and a fuck. No anal, not even a lick.

A woman doing anal on a first meet doesn't give indication of a sexual level. I have had women seriously test my control because they know how to use their pussies; anal is no metre of ability whatsoever, I can say without doubt. Try a more pussy - you'd be surprised."

Rounds of applause what is this, Swingers Got Talent!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal. "

You should take some time out to learn about consent. Before doing something new you should be checking with the other person that it's ok. Not just doing it because other people like it, and they didn't specifically rule it out beforehand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never done anal, So I would leave it up to her to ask

Anal please

Marry me?

Ok! Next week "

I'll have to get a quickly divorce. I'm sure she'll understand

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"You can ask but the answer would be no"

This.

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By *ple from LeicCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

Not for me thanks L

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite f**k off would be your answer "

ditto

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"

Rounds of applause what is this, Swingers Got Talent!"

Out of all of this thread, and it's questionable taste - your one response is to call up my talent. Good move that.

Have to say though - I have just burst into laughter - nice one bud fucking nice one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal.

You should take some time out to learn about consent. Before doing something new you should be checking with the other person that it's ok. Not just doing it because other people like it, and they didn't specifically rule it out beforehand."

Plus

Why is the onus on her to tell him her likes, maybe he should have asked first and told her his likes

Takes two to tango, if sexual levels are not agreed on that's two people who have not spoken out not just her

I love playing with a guys arse but I wouldn't dream of getting on a bed in a club and shoving my finger up his arse just because he didn't point out before I got on he does not like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I want to fuck all 3 holes on first meet, satisfy your cock to the max

How's that worked out for you so far Shag?

Legend

Oh, Shag is inching forward to hole number one

[Shag; xxx]"
Yes and finish with hole nr3, the mouth lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See this is the reason I don't visit clubs anymore. Every time I've played with a guy at a club, they want to shove their cock/tongue/fingers up my shit pipe. Every fucking time! I blummin' hate it, and I didn't cut any corners when I told them either.

You may hate it. But others like to do it. Let guys know your sexual level before you start having fun. So that they don't stray into the wrong zone that is why I won't meet up with someone who not into anal.

Nah the onus is on you to check she's ok with it before you start sticking things in her holes not for her to have to tell you first."

I really should read the thread before I reply could have saved me typing

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"

Rounds of applause what is this, Swingers Got Talent!

Out of all of this thread, and it's questionable taste - your one response is to call up my talent. Good move that.

Have to say though - I have just burst into laughter - nice one bud fucking nice one "

It's a yes from me

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Long as I have a little bit of notice to make sure my strap on is ready and i've got some lube.. doing anal on a first meet isn't a problem for me

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By *nknownCallerMan
over a year ago

Bath

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By *ombshellWoman
over a year ago

islington


"I wouldn't have a problem with a guy asking politely as long as they didn't have a problem hearing the words ~ no fucking way.... "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never expect it on a first meeting but if it was not offered on the second well thats just unacceptable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldn't have a problem with a guy asking politely as long as they didn't have a problem hearing the words ~ no fucking way....

Ditto "
so that's a yes then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long as I have a little bit of notice to make sure my strap on is ready and i've got some lube.. doing anal on a first meet isn't a problem for me "

Brilliant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *entadreadMan
over a year ago

Essex

Communication, Communication & more communication...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet "

How do you ask 'politely' if you can fuck someone's arse ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

How do you ask 'politely' if you can fuck someone's arse ? "
fancy my cocksnot up ya fartpipe, baby, works for me

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

How do you ask 'politely' if you can fuck someone's arse ? "

"wanna f**k?"; on FabS, that is 'polite'

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

I don't have a problem with a guy asking, i would however have a problem if they expected it.

I think Anal is quite a intimate thing and personally I wouldn't just do it with anyone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A polite f**k off would be your answer "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking on the meet, nope... If it's discussed before the meet then maybe. I'll only have anal if I've had time to prep, and only then with someone who I feel totally relaxed with and turned on by else nowt is getting up there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me to go anal, iv got to be really wet and turned on by playing and lube the bum hole, I just hate it when they try putting it in your my bum without asking x

I had an experience were a fella tried to put is cock my bum hole I said no anal and he carried on trying to put it in the bum hole so I put all my clothes back on and left his home but left me nerves meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So op you're bored of having sex with a woman and so you expect them to make up for you're boredom and inability to get excited? Nice! "

What happens when 'anal boredom' sets in ?

Nostrils, ears ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So op you're bored of having sex with a woman and so you expect them to make up for you're boredom and inability to get excited? Nice!

What happens when 'anal boredom' sets in ?

Nostrils, ears ? "
men?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"

So op you're bored of having sex with a woman and so you expect them to make up for you're boredom and inability to get excited? Nice!

What happens when 'anal boredom' sets in ?

Nostrils, ears ? men? "

they have, erm, more 'orifices'?

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"

So op you're bored of having sex with a woman and so you expect them to make up for you're boredom and inability to get excited? Nice!

What happens when 'anal boredom' sets in ?

Nostrils, ears ? "

I will return back to fanny. lol

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london

(SOMEONE JUST EMAIl ME) . Because of this thread. Saying i have gay tendency because I like anal sex.

Very Daft. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love anal! Only problem I get is guys asking me to do anal to mouth that is a definite no...sorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op You're doing this the wrong way. Don't ask politely for anal. Just ram your cock in her ass , and when she slaps you and says " Why did you do that" just say " Because , I got tired of your pussy "

Come back and let me know how it has worked out for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have anal sex therefore I wouldn't meet anyone who expressed a wish for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(SOMEONE JUST EMAIl ME) . Because of this thread. Saying i have gay tendency because I like anal sex.

Very Daft. lol"

So what if you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell OP

I hope this is a wind up thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love anal but only on the 2nd meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately most ladies ive met wont attemt Anal because of my size and to be honest its not something that im bothered about . But i think a rappur and a cpl of meets are needed before even suggesting it

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"(SOMEONE JUST EMAIl ME) . Because of this thread. Saying i have gay tendency because I like anal sex.

Very Daft. lol

So what if you have "

Nothing against gay guys. But to suggest anyone who like anal have gay tendency is ludicrous.

I like women who like to play with my ass.e. g rimming and fingering

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By *heiraWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

You wouldn't have to ask me twice , i love it Xx

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By *ieutenant OP   Man
over a year ago

london


"You wouldn't have to ask me twice , i love it Xx"

Your profile alone is mouth watering. I can't wait to see you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long as I have a little bit of notice to make sure my strap on is ready and i've got some lube.. doing anal on a first meet isn't a problem for me "

I've always got lube in my little bag of tricks lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hell no.. I'm way to fussy what cock goes in my pussy never mind my arse!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd read the profile first. If it didn't have analysis listed then it wouldn't even be a question. If it did then I would of expected it to be like anything else they liked. I think it's important to find out how far you want to play on a first meet. And if you hold a little something back ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd read the profile first. If it didn't have analysis listed then it wouldn't even be a question. If it did then I would of expected it to be like anything else they liked. I think it's important to find out how far you want to play on a first meet. And if you hold a little something back ??"

I have anal listed in my likes funny how guys assumed that means me receiving

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

ova by ea wales


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd read the profile first. If it didn't have analysis listed then it wouldn't even be a question. If it did then I would of expected it to be like anything else they liked. I think it's important to find out how far you want to play on a first meet. And if you hold a little something back ??

I have anal listed in my likes funny how guys assumed that means me receiving "

I would NEVER be so presumptuous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd read the profile first. If it didn't have analysis listed then it wouldn't even be a question. If it did then I would of expected it to be like anything else they liked. I think it's important to find out how far you want to play on a first meet. And if you hold a little something back ??

I have anal listed in my likes funny how guys assumed that means me receiving "

Sigh, ok, ok.

Assumes the position

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By *ranthamThroatMan
over a year ago

Grantham.


"I hope am not the only person having this issue. Get so bored with pussy without alternative hole-anal.Hence I prefer women who are into anal to be frank.

Do women have problem with guys asking politely for anal sex on first meet

How can you be bored with pussy? There is no friction in the arse, it is a smooth pipe - no ridges, no lumps, curves, tightness, no real muscle walls to clench you with .. the list goes on.

Don't know how big you are, but it takes me long enough to prepare for vaginal nevermind anal, the thought is good but I rarely if ever go anal just because of the amount of work needed, and the fact that - pussy, rules. lol "

"no real muscle walls to clench you with"

Total rubbish!

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton


"

I have anal listed in my likes funny how guys assumed that means me receiving "

I give and receive, far too few ladies want the latter in my experience.

It's fine for people to want to hold things back for later meets. Anal is perhaps more intimate than vaginal sex, and certainly requires more trust/experience of a partner to get it right. I am not sure if I have ever had anal sex with a lady during the first meet, though I seem to recall possibly doing so on the "morning after" during an overnight meet.

There are a few things I wouldn't necessarily do on a first meet and I would assume most people are the same.

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By *egan2743Woman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I love it so wouldn't mind if a guy asked. Although was a little shocked when a guy just assumed and didn't warn me once. Was one hell of a shock but turned out to be amazing ??

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

met a few women who loves anal and can't get off without it, at least two were first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd read the profile first. If it didn't have analysis listed then it wouldn't even be a question. If it did then I would of expected it to be like anything else they liked. I think it's important to find out how far you want to play on a first meet. And if you hold a little something back ??

I have anal listed in my likes funny how guys assumed that means me receiving "

My kind of lady

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"i would have no problem with letting some guy i dont know from adam rodger me up the khyber on a first meet so long as he bends over and allows me to insert my 10 inch girthy dildo in his rectum at a bad angle with no lube first . deal? "

Male here. That is a great response

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