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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-)" There are plenty of singles on this site and not all of whom are into swinging, though most will meet people who are. | |||
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"Each to their own .. i go to the park but dont go on the roundabout " | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-)" Your best bet is to try not to apply logic to many of the unusual things you find on fab | |||
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"I don't understand why people use this site if they would not describe themselves as swingers (or in some way ethically non-monogamous). There are plenty of other sites, including Fab Flirts that they could use. If they are going to keep on using the site, maybe there should be a "swinger" "not a swinger" button people could click and filter from searches " Fab flirts is pretty much dead, if i look at people in my area. This site is active and i can easily get what i want on here. Like it so much that i've paid to be a member several times over. | |||
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"These kind of people are around. I think dating sites would suit them better. " So what's the difference between me and you? Please feel free to tell me! | |||
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"I don't understand why people use this site if they would not describe themselves as swingers (or in some way ethically non-monogamous). There are plenty of other sites, including Fab Flirts that they could use. If they are going to keep on using the site, maybe there should be a "swinger" "not a swinger" button people could click and filter from searches " This is am excellent idea | |||
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"I don't understand why people use this site if they would not describe themselves as swingers (or in some way ethically non-monogamous). There are plenty of other sites, including Fab Flirts that they could use. If they are going to keep on using the site, maybe there should be a "swinger" "not a swinger" button people could click and filter from searches Fab flirts is pretty much dead, if i look at people in my area. This site is active and i can easily get what i want on here. Like it so much that i've paid to be a member several times over." Lucky you, yes this site is more active in the searches if your a woman, haven't seen any in my area for years lol. | |||
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"This site is pretty much the only hook up site that has a forums too, so plenty more socialising on here- and i different type of socialising than an inbox full of filth." For me it's so much more than a dating site or a sex site! I've had the best sex of my life, certainly- but I've also made loads of very good friends (many of whom are platonic) and have a fantastic social life at the clubs, parties and socials! Even going on holiday with a group of girls I met via fab/swinging this summer! Without fab/swinging I'd be home alone when my ex has the kids - just like I used to be before fab - and I know a lot of other people who've made loads of great friends via fab/swinging too! | |||
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"Some of us use this site as a fuck site. I'm allowed to look for single guys, i'm allowed to make a profile as a single person. Using both these things it is obvious i am a single looking for other singles (and male couples)." | |||
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"I'm not a swinger (clearly). However people who are swingers have met me and enjoyed it, so I don't think I'm harming anyone by being here. There are no sites which I've found which have worked as a place to meet people for sex without it being faceless and seedy. I'm also not comfortable with using sites where men have to pay to message women. I did meet a number of men from pof before the site deleted me for being fake but to be honest always felt uncomfortable that I was on a site that pretended it was about relationships. I don't see how 'non swingers' are getting in anyone's way. It's not like the site is full and I'm stopping other swinging couples from joining. " I can't understand why people are bothered . I'm not a swinger either but I enjoy the site and don't feel I need to be a swinger to enjoy it. | |||
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"I'm not a swinger (clearly). However people who are swingers have met me and enjoyed it, so I don't think I'm harming anyone by being here. There are no sites which I've found which have worked as a place to meet people for sex without it being faceless and seedy. I'm also not comfortable with using sites where men have to pay to message women. I did meet a number of men from pof before the site deleted me for being fake but to be honest always felt uncomfortable that I was on a site that pretended it was about relationships. I don't see how 'non swingers' are getting in anyone's way. It's not like the site is full and I'm stopping other swinging couples from joining. " | |||
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"I don't understand why people use this site if they would not describe themselves as swingers (or in some way ethically non-monogamous). There are plenty of other sites, including Fab Flirts that they could use. If they are going to keep on using the site, maybe there should be a "swinger" "not a swinger" button people could click and filter from searches Fab flirts is pretty much dead, if i look at people in my area. This site is active and i can easily get what i want on here. Like it so much that i've paid to be a member several times over.Lucky you, yes this site is more active in the searches if your a woman, haven't seen any in my area for years lol." There is another guy in your area and he sent me a friends request. | |||
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"Lots of men are on here only to wank at the photos in all honesty So what Swinging isn't compulsory " | |||
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"This site is pretty much the only hook up site that has a forums too, so plenty more socialising on here- and i different type of socialising than an inbox full of filth. For me it's so much more than a dating site or a sex site! I've had the best sex of my life, certainly- but I've also made loads of very good friends (many of whom are platonic) and have a fantastic social life at the clubs, parties and socials! Even going on holiday with a group of girls I met via fab/swinging this summer! Without fab/swinging I'd be home alone when my ex has the kids - just like I used to be before fab - and I know a lot of other people who've made loads of great friends via fab/swinging too! " And to add to all that, even if you are stuck at home with the kids at least you can just read the forums, ask questions via topics etc. Chat to people via inbox, do all sorts on here. I was on a dating site, almost ended up in a relationship thinking he wanted NSA *shudders*. Actually a couple of years ago i was on an alt dating site and found i couldn't chat with anyone unless i paid to do that so i left. So dating sites aren't for everyone either. | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-)" I've seem profiles like that as well...the sort who state that they are looking for "Mr Right" (actually more often "Romeo" or "Mr Darcy" etc) and that they want love and affection and all the stuff you'd see on Match dot com. Hey ho though, they are no more for me than a woman who's after women only...and nobody would say "what are they doing here", so if it's OK for them, then the love hunters should be allowed their place as well... | |||
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"She might just like to chat with people with high sex drives. Also she might wanna take baby steps " Two years in and I'm still taking baby steps | |||
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"i think swinging is a state of mind......you dont have to meet to swing, you dont have to open yer legs to have a sexual experience...i like being on this site as there are more 'sexually open minded' guys on here" | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-) Your best bet is to try not to apply logic to many of the unusual things you find on fab " A great point very well made. Can probably be cut and paste onto many other forum threads. | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-) Your best bet is to try not to apply logic to many of the unusual things you find on fab " Never a truer word said! Mind your own! judge nobody, and enjoy yourself doing the things you enjoy doing, with the people who enjoy doing them with you | |||
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"Gawd i hate labels " The whole world's obsessed with labels. All YOU can ever be is yourself. What someone else may call it is irrelevant. I have to keep reminding myself of that. | |||
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"If the definition of swinger is swapping partners then all singles are excluded as they don't have partners. If however the definition is having NSA sex with other singles and couples then everyone who meets is a swinger. Its a loose term and who gives a fuck anyway how others use the site " If the definition of 'swinger' is just swapping partners, 99% of the couples on here ain't swingers either!!! | |||
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"These kind of people are around. I think dating sites would suit them better. So what's the difference between me and you? Please feel free to tell me!" There's many differences between us. We're different genders and I'm almost a foot taller than you. Then there's our geographical location, which are very different. The list is almost endless so I'll stop before I bore myself. | |||
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"Each to their own .. i go to the park but dont go on the roundabout " but what about the swings are you a swinger | |||
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"May just enjoy chat May just be dipping toe in slowly May wonder but not be sure yet what it is all about May be too shy May just be a voyeur from a distance I chatted on here for a year or more with a woman who was very clear she did not want to meet anyone...we chatted pleasantly for ages and that was fine. There was no suggestion mind would [or should] be changed. May be many more things Good that there is a seemingly honest statement though from the beginning" Agree with all of these possibilities. This is basically a sex site, and sex is many different things to different people. Some might just want to look at pictures, others might just want to talk dirty but anonymously. It's fine by us - just part of life's -and fab's rich tapestry. | |||
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"May just enjoy chat May just be dipping toe in slowly May wonder but not be sure yet what it is all about May be too shy May just be a voyeur from a distance I chatted on here for a year or more with a woman who was very clear she did not want to meet anyone...we chatted pleasantly for ages and that was fine. There was no suggestion mind would [or should] be changed. May be many more things Good that there is a seemingly honest statement though from the beginning Agree with all of these possibilities. This is basically a sex site, and sex is many different things to different people. Some might just want to look at pictures, others might just want to talk dirty but anonymously. It's fine by us - just part of life's -and fab's rich tapestry." its a swinging site, thats what it was started for and continues to be used for, however as with most things it evolves and is used by many others aswell, it gives people the tools to do there thing and there are people looking for all sorts here. | |||
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"Who on earth would want to be a swinger? They are kinky weirdo's that fuck strangers. " eww that's just wrong | |||
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"Just wondering here: do socials make you a swinger? Swinging is ultimately about swapping partners. Seems a bit odd that you could classify a swinger as someone who attends socials over someone who actually swaps partners or looks for long term people to enjoy sex with? " Not really, swinging is what you make of it. Last I heard single men and women were not banned from swingers clubs? | |||
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"I'm not a swinger & don't want to be, I'm here looking for friends with benefits, to socialise, meet new people & to hopefully learn a few things along the way" | |||
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"I'm not a swinger I just like having nsa sex & this site is by far the best for my needs." I don't have a partner to swing with so nsa sex with Women is the main reason I'm on here | |||
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"These ppl do ma ead in always da same its lyke swingers clubs wtf do ppl go I dnt swing is beyond me if dey wan dating pof is for der sort grrrr" Erm, didn't understand the above | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-) Your best bet is to try not to apply logic to many of the unusual things you find on fab Never a truer word said! Mind your own! judge nobody, and enjoy yourself doing the things you enjoy doing, with the people who enjoy doing them with you " We certainly do | |||
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"These kind of people are around. I think dating sites would suit them better. " I used to do a popular dating site. Guaranteed plenty of shags Wd40. Mrs | |||
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"Who on earth would want to be a swinger? They are kinky weirdo's that fuck strangers. " Point us in the direction of the kinky weirdos Xx | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-)" not really lots of single men on here look on fab as a SEX/SHAG SITE which is a tad different to how the swinging community see it,I think | |||
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"Just read a single female's profile which openly states that she doesn't want to swing (but also that being a swinger isn't necessary for joining the site) - which strikes me as a bit unusual. Not quite sure what the point is but sure someone may be able to explain the logic. ;-) not really lots of single men on here look on fab as a SEX/SHAG SITE which is a tad different to how the swinging community see it,I think " Well I dunno about that , we also see it as a sex/shag site and we are swingers ( I think ) | |||
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"I'm not a swinger I just like having nsa sex & this site is by far the best for my needs. I don't have a partner to swing with so nsa sex with Women is the main reason I'm on here" These 2 posts say it all singles use it as message a quick fuck Couples use it as message a fuck as quick as we can sort the kids .. Lol And those that want to become ingaged before having fun lol and mostly singles and couple newbies well let's just say it's not a dating site or shit like that ::: Swing --sex/fun with 3 people or more and not after someone's mother has been met -- Just get it in | |||
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