FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing on a meet

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a definite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be very disappointed if I wasn't allowed to kiss someone I was meeting - for me it's a big part of the enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the person I'm meeting doesn't or can't kiss then there's no.play as kissing is a big turn on for me and its something I'm great at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Def for me - a massive part of sex whether it's hard or soft kissing is a must - YUM!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

While both of us are happy to kiss others it's not essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to kiss!!! I couldn't meet if someone said no kissing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way I'd meet without the chance of kissing, and whats more, if those kissing don't feel sexy and organic then chances are neither of us is really enjoying ourselves.

If you don't like kissing, you're probably not someone I'd be interested in meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a definite. "

Same here - it is a real turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love kissing, no kissing no meeting for me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me I don't mind my other half however doesn't like kissing guys but women she is happy too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'll rule out meeting those that feel it's too intimate. It's a must for me, nothing beats a good back to the wall snog to get the endorphins working...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who it is and how attracted I was to them... Had meets never kissed, had meets snogged their faces off (fatbird)

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I don't rule it out but it does absolutely NOTHING for me.

Bradley's kisses do unbelievable things to me and kissing anyone else feels like a major disappointment in comparison. It's like I'm just going through the motions for their benefit and it feels cold and robotic, and I do find that I will naturally turn away if someone else comes in for a kiss...

I much prefer to be sucking on another cock, gagged or sinking my teeth into your neck and chest, so if your lips have time to come anywhere near mine, I'd be amazed.

- Amy. x

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By *eovilcouple76Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

We don't understand the "no kissing" thing.

Surely the other things that will be happening after a snog are more intimate. Well, that's our opinion anyway.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

You can tell so much from a kiss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can tell so much from a kiss..."

So said Cher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing = no fucking!

For me, it's a must!

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Personal choice.

Like anything.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"You can tell so much from a kiss...

So said Cher

Did she?? I liked what you said further up about organic kissing

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

I cant have sex without kissing, it is a must for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't kiss male... Don't get anything from kissing a man however a female it's a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

no kissing = no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing= no passion=no fucking.. simple as that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing?? Behave! Isn't that what prostitutes say? Having sex is personal. If someone doesn't want to kiss I'm outta there.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"We don't understand the "no kissing" thing.

Surely the other things that will be happening after a snog are more intimate. Well, that's our opinion anyway. "

For us, it's not because it's "too intimate" but I can see where people are coming from when they say that.

Kissing obviously requires you to be face-to-face, breathing in their air and (unless you keep your eyes squeezed shut throughout) make very close eye-contact, and some people find that overwhelming.

Whereas anything else can be separated to just an act of lust and doesn't require such a connection.

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

Love to kiss before, during and after. ....it wouldn't be the same without.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Kissing is a must for me, couldn't have sex without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey - there's some ladies on this thread with whom I'd dearly love a good ol' snogging session! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to kiss before, during and after. ....it wouldn't be the same without. "
very true

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I prefer a good snog to start any play, it certainly builds up the arousal

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

At first on here, I said I wouldn't mind if someone didn't want to kiss, tho I do like it a lot.

Now, after having had some outstanding - and terrible kisses, I would say its important for me on a social to kiss before 'the big date' so I can work out if they are a fuck or a pass

Love a good kisser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet people that don't kiss. It's big part of foreplay for both of us andwe just find it SO sexy!

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

We can take it or leave it, its not important, suppose its alot down to what the situation is, in a 1 on 1 for example it will be quite important for most, however in a gangbang or orgy not so important, so guess theres certain factors to come into it depending on mindsets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We can take it or leave it, its not important, suppose its alot down to what the situation is, in a 1 on 1 for example it will be quite important for most, however in a gangbang or orgy not so important, so guess theres certain factors to come into it depending on mindsets."

This is true. I'm a newbie to kissing (ms) only kissed for the last couple of years. I do enjoy it with women but more the fact of the response it gets rather than the act itself. Guys apart from Mr its odd.... I never quite get how people say it gets there motors going as apart from Mr it is just an physical thing which if they are half decent at it is nice but doesn't make me wet or weak at the knees.

Funny that Mr doing it to me can reduce me to a wet mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing almost more than anything else!

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

Kissing is a must for me, especially with a female. It wouldn't be the same without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a yes for me!

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By *aughtynigel02121980Man
over a year ago

Brandon

Kissing is paramount for me. A good kisser is a turn on

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By *inkyminky69Man
over a year ago

Glasgow-ish

Each to their own but, for me, that rule is like Julia Roberts in pretty woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

I wouldn't meet without kissing.

No way.

Kissing has to be on the table. 100%

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't do passionate kissing with anyone but each other.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm single and honestly find kissing quite an issue

Because it's very intimate (I know fucking is too) and it tugs at my heart and emotions

So I prefer to not really

Not much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be kissing for me it's where the passion starts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love it hornier the better 4 me!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need kissing to turn me on I'm afraid

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

On a social meet, I judge by the kiss if things are likely to go further after chatting (chemistry I guess). During a fuck meet kissing has to be involved, it turns me on so much more than going straight to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must have, got to have…need.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't do passionate kissing with anyone but each other. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. But respect boundaries if it's a rule they/she has. I think it's adds to the enjoyment when you do.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

Like a kiss asong as they not got mingling breath or slabber all over lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No kissing = no fucking!

For me, it's a must!

Me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to be kissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mwah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'll rule out meeting those that feel it's too intimate. It's a must for me, nothing beats a good back to the wall snog to get the endorphins working...

Ahem or back to the car door!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always make sure people kiss before I meet

I find sex to clinical without it

Plus I just love a good snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't beat a nice kiss.

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'll rule out meeting those that feel it's too intimate. It's a must for me, nothing beats a good back to the wall snog to get the endorphins working...

Ahem or back to the car door!!

Now those kind evoke happy memories..

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

No kiss.... No meet.

I love kissing. I find it a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing. No fucking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just love kissing...you can tell alot by a guys kiss...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd be very disappointed if I wasn't allowed to kiss someone I was meeting - for me it's a big part of the enjoyment."

Agreed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing turns me on very quickly so I'll always want a nice hard snog

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

F**king is much more 'intimate'. I don't have to take my clothes off for a kiss

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Kissing is the most intimate and lovely thing...It also multiplies the pleasure of anything else that may be happening at the same time... and doesn't have to be lip to lip...neck, back, ooo all the places ...but lips to lips is best

But if someone didn't want to...like anything really...that would be fine

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By *ee331Man
over a year ago

Wolverton

I would say kissing is a must if I'm with someone. It turns me on when someone kisses me. Don't think I could do anything without a kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is a definite.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"F**king is much more 'intimate'."

To YOU.

Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love...

Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to.

It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though.

Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles.

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By *k8ergirlWoman
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"Kissing turns me on very quickly so I'll always want a nice hard snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The answers in our username ??

Lou always says , if she can see herself snogging them she can see herself shagging them,

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"F**king is much more 'intimate'.

To YOU.

Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love...

Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to.

It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though.

Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles."

'no kissing' 'rules' are not for me. that is why i've stopped responding to couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing ... and although we appreciate the reasons some dont want to we would probably not play with them as its just a natural reaction and instinctive thing for us ....

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"Kissing is a must for me, couldn't have sex without it

Totally agree

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I do like to kiss on a meet seems cold without it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely how we feel...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definate must. Soon lets me read signals if its going to go anywhere

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I do like to kiss on a meet seems cold without it"

That'll be the NSA bit then

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"F**king is much more 'intimate'.

To YOU.

Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love...

Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to.

It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though.

Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles."
here here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry.

What are your views on it??"

I love kissing and it's a big turn on for me, however, if they can't kiss I'd rather not kiss them and live in hope they are good at other things

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We wouldn't meet someone who didn't want to kiss, simple as that really.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

Mmmmm pucker up chuck!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me kissing is an necessity, I luvre kissing it's such a turn on.

I've broken my 'social only on 1st meet' rule before because the kiss was so fucking hot...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn't meet someone who didn't want to kiss, simple as that really."

Before sex during sex and after,

I would find it very hard not to kiss them at some point

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By *verysmileMan
over a year ago

Canterbury

.......and of course, if any ladies wish me to show how much I like kissing. ...then drop me a line. ( sound of tumble drifting across the forum....)

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