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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" While both of us are happy to kiss others it's not essential. | |||
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"Kissing is a definite. " Same here - it is a real turn on... | |||
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"You can tell so much from a kiss... So said Cher " Did she?? I liked what you said further up about organic kissing | |||
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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" no kissing = no meet | |||
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"We don't understand the "no kissing" thing. Surely the other things that will be happening after a snog are more intimate. Well, that's our opinion anyway. " For us, it's not because it's "too intimate" but I can see where people are coming from when they say that. Kissing obviously requires you to be face-to-face, breathing in their air and (unless you keep your eyes squeezed shut throughout) make very close eye-contact, and some people find that overwhelming. Whereas anything else can be separated to just an act of lust and doesn't require such a connection. | |||
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"Love to kiss before, during and after. ....it wouldn't be the same without. " very true | |||
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"We can take it or leave it, its not important, suppose its alot down to what the situation is, in a 1 on 1 for example it will be quite important for most, however in a gangbang or orgy not so important, so guess theres certain factors to come into it depending on mindsets." This is true. I'm a newbie to kissing (ms) only kissed for the last couple of years. I do enjoy it with women but more the fact of the response it gets rather than the act itself. Guys apart from Mr its odd.... I never quite get how people say it gets there motors going as apart from Mr it is just an physical thing which if they are half decent at it is nice but doesn't make me wet or weak at the knees. Funny that Mr doing it to me can reduce me to a wet mess | |||
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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" I wouldn't meet without kissing. No way. Kissing has to be on the table. 100% | |||
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"We don't do passionate kissing with anyone but each other. " | |||
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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" Like a kiss asong as they not got mingling breath or slabber all over lol xxx | |||
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"No kissing = no fucking! For me, it's a must! " Me too! | |||
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"Well I'll rule out meeting those that feel it's too intimate. It's a must for me, nothing beats a good back to the wall snog to get the endorphins working... " Ahem or back to the car door!! | |||
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"Well I'll rule out meeting those that feel it's too intimate. It's a must for me, nothing beats a good back to the wall snog to get the endorphins working... Ahem or back to the car door!! " Now those kind evoke happy memories.. | |||
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"I'd be very disappointed if I wasn't allowed to kiss someone I was meeting - for me it's a big part of the enjoyment." Agreed. | |||
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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" F**king is much more 'intimate'. I don't have to take my clothes off for a kiss | |||
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"F**king is much more 'intimate'." To YOU. Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love... Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to. It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though. Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles. | |||
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"Kissing turns me on very quickly so I'll always want a nice hard snog " | |||
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"F**king is much more 'intimate'. To YOU. Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love... Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to. It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though. Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles." 'no kissing' 'rules' are not for me. that is why i've stopped responding to couples | |||
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"Kissing is a must for me, couldn't have sex without it " Totally agree | |||
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"We can take it or leave it, its not important, suppose its alot down to what the situation is, in a 1 on 1 for example it will be quite important for most, however in a gangbang or orgy not so important, so guess theres certain factors to come into it depending on mindsets." Absolutely how we feel... | |||
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"I do like to kiss on a meet seems cold without it" That'll be the NSA bit then Lol | |||
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"F**king is much more 'intimate'. To YOU. Personally, I don't need an emotional connection to shag someone but I wouldn't kiss somebody I didn't love... Not out of choice but because I feel no desire to. It is interesting to see how ideas of intimacy differentiate though. Plus, I understand how it would be different for singles." here here !! | |||
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"Some rule it out as it's 'too intimate'. Some need to do it to get turned on / see if there's real sexual chemistry. What are your views on it??" I love kissing and it's a big turn on for me, however, if they can't kiss I'd rather not kiss them and live in hope they are good at other things | |||
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"We wouldn't meet someone who didn't want to kiss, simple as that really." Before sex during sex and after, I would find it very hard not to kiss them at some point | |||
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