FabSwingers.com forum: Are you on your first or second marriage

By *lassy pair OP Couple
over a year ago

Greenwich London

It seem to be most couple who swings are on their second or third marriage, most if not all we met or chatted to are, or just FB.

Why that seem to be the case?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still first for both of us, been together 14 years now

Hex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We want the excitement of the beginning of getting to know someone and the sex but perhaps frightened of failure to announce to our friends and families that we have failed again if it doesn't work out .Its easier to keep people at arms length under the veil of filthy sex and no commitment.I assume a lot of us would prefer a lasting relationship.

My sister says to me al the time " when are you going to meet a really nice lady "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on my third marriage , but it's my wife's first .

The reason we swing is for me I guess third time lucky, as neither of May previous wives would have entertained the idea .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First. 20 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seem to be most couple who swings are on their second or third marriage, most if not all we met or chatted to are, or just FB.

Why that seem to be the case? "

I'm waiting for a thread asking how many have had their marriage ruined by swinging. I'm actually scared to post it...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been married... Starting to think I probably never will either!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Been married once... now divorced. Not sure I'd ever marry again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been married once... now divorced. Not sure I'd ever marry again."

Yep, this is me too though if an elderly billionaire was to propose......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are married. First time for both of us. Been together over fifteen years. Swinging around ten. Love each other very very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither. Never married and have no plans to ever do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married once - then a g/f, then on my own...still no time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never married here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also never married

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Been married once... now divorced. Not sure I'd ever marry again."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been stupid enough to marry.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Married three times and been cheated on three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and only marriage for us both! Been together 8 years, married for just over 2 years. So far we really enjoy swinging together too! xx

-Courtney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married once and 35 years later,its still as good as it was all those years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's never been married....I unfortunately made that mistake once but I'd do it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got married,way to young the first time! My 2nd,his first,20 years together and counting..

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First marriage for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married once 24 years

Now my ex

Wouldn't get married again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither of us have ever been married

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

My second marriage but my husbands first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I nearly married once, grateful i didnt now

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married three times and been cheated on three times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

second and now attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been married... Starting to think I probably never will either!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Married three times and been cheated on three times

Sorry, fat fingers meant..

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

First marriage for both of us, 5 years now. Marrying ChoCho was the best thing I ever did

Chris

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

Been together nearly 17 years...been married nearly 11 years.....been swinging just over 1 year.....this is my only marriage but he has been married before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 16 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We want the excitement of the beginning of getting to know someone and the sex but perhaps frightened of failure to announce to our friends and families that we have failed again if it doesn't work out .Its easier to keep people at arms length under the veil of filthy sex and no commitment.I assume a lot of us would prefer a lasting relationship.

My sister says to me al the time " when are you going to meet a really nice lady "

I suppose this is the case for me

Been married twice, first time I was stupidly young and thought that's what you do, for better or worse and all that jazz....I just had no idea how worse his worse could get!

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By *andl76Couple
over a year ago

north east

First and only- ten years coming up on the horizon

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By *ngie1962Couple
over a year ago

Bedford

First and only marriage been married 32 years and known hubby since I was 5

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Never been married. It's never even crossed my mind. Never really seen the point of it all. Though if I ever find the right woman who knows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have both been married previously. (Not to each other) Everyone learns from their mistakes.

We are happier than ever with or without swinging and don't want to change something that isn't broken.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been married - nobody will have me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on my second marriage, it's my husband's first.

First marriage lasted only a few months. Been with second husband ten years.

We've only just started to get involved in swinging.

I think lots of swingers have multiple marriages purely because lots of people have multiple marriages!

Lots of people get divorced.

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By *ladstone ScrewerMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

Only done it once and would never again.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Never tried and I'm pretty sure I never will

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Been together since our school days but getting married has never interested us. We're perfectly happy, living in sin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are both on our first marrage, married for 14 year and been together nearly 17 year

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By *ooking75Man
over a year ago

Dudley

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We are on our only marriage.

What is the point in going into a marriage thinking it is your first marriage?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

Been married over 25 years, together almost 30. First marriage for us both but there have been times I have thought of getting a new patio

Swinging for nearly 4 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First over 25 years .

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By *erbyDalesCplCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

Together 27 years, married 20 of them, been swinging for about 20 weeks!

One and only marriage.

Mr ddc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been married... Starting to think I probably never will either!"
never say never you are still young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither.

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By *ornyHousewife 68Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Married nearly 25 years, was the 30th anniversary of our first date yesterday, he's my one and only

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Been married over 25 years, together almost 30. First marriage for us both but there have been times I have thought of getting a new patio

Swinging for nearly 4 yrs."

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

1st and only. If I ever split up (gods forbid), I won't get married again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married once, doubt I'll ever remarry!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"Been married once, doubt I'll ever remarry!

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same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seem to be most couple who swings are on their second or third marriage, most if not all we met or chatted to are, or just FB.

Why that seem to be the case? "

Never been marriage... don't believe I need to get married to someone in order to express that I like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married once never ever again

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Long time divorced but good friends with ex. Would consider marrying again but it isn't a must...You know when these things are right...though it could be argued that isn't true when it has been cocked up once before!...Older though and wiser [er, possibly...]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First for us, 25 years in June

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Been married and divorced twice with an 8 yr live-in relationship inbetween.

Very happy being single

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

3rd time for both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our one and only marriage has lasted 40 years and been together 43 years. There never will be anyone else for us!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been stupid enough to marry. "

It's only stupid if you marry for the wrong reasons!!!

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

"I've never been married... Starting to think I probably never will either!"

Same, no ones ever wanted me lol

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By *exylegs15Couple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

First for us....30 years

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

Twice divorced

Looking for victim number 3

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Interesting thread x

Perhaps more multiple marriages outbids ire than others due to " learning from experience "

However I was married for a decade x met someone else x

Got divorced x

Now happy to meet submissive x and lucky to have met a recently divorced sub gem who is keen to learn more about bdsm fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just divorced my second hubby then I joined fab swingers because being married I didn't get any sex. Now have a fantastic sex life and still more to come

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Neither....... I'm divorced from hubby number one and am getting married to my fiance in three weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married now divorced not sure I'd marry again :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never been married - nobody will have me lol"

Me either and I have been in two very long term relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been married and I don't want to

I will commit to someone but why have vows and a piece of paper when I can say that to the person I want to be with

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By *ot monkey71Couple
over a year ago

middlesbrough

We've never been married and have been together 25 years. We just never saw the point, always something better to do

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

luton

We've been together 25 years swinging is just an extra bit of fun. A lot of people think grass is greener and cheat on each other . Much better to swing and enjoy all that extra fun as a couple

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

First ........... together 38 years married for 34

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First, married 6 years, together 32 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and only (fingers crossed) marriage for my husband and I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once and still married

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

never been married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One and only marriage here

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By *rchie300Man
over a year ago

Hamworthy

About too get divorced for the second time ...14yrs together ....I just love a wedding reception and a photo shoot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seem to be most couple who swings are on their second or third marriage, most if not all we met or a chatted to are, or just FB.

Why that seem to be the case? "

Not us, been married 28 years in June.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not us both been together 23 years married 19 of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I been single all my life, love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never been married... Starting to think I probably never will either!"

Don't worry, I'm in the same boat

Never thought I was old enough. It's a grown up thing isn't it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gonna be on our first marriage in a couple years, so far together 5years and can't see us being with anyone else haha. We're just too mental and can just tolerate each other as it is haha

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By *pa and dCouple
over a year ago

Barnet

Both on our second marriage here. We both decided after unhappy experiences first time around that we'd be completely honest about what we wanted from our sex lifes, and that made the journey into the happy swinging couple we are much easier than it otherwise might be

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Been married once... now divorced. Not sure I'd ever marry again."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st

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By *lanwoodMan
over a year ago

Alton

"Married once and 35 years later,its still as good as it was all those years ago."

I am in a similar situation, but 42 years in my case, but with one important exception, which is why I am on here alone.

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By *arkstaffsMan
over a year ago

Rugeley

Never married and never will. Good luck to those that do though, just not for me.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

Our first was 33 years ago. Our second was 8 years ago when we renewed our vows on our silver anniversary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married 4 times (I like cake) and though 5 is my lucky number I'm not planning on doing it again; and this time I mean it not like when I said it after number 2 and 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married once , don't think I will again. Mrs with guy from on here , says it all

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

First been together 40 years and married 35 can't ask for a better life partner or naughty minx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been married to each other for 36 and still just as much in love as ever. Been swinging for about 6 years and loving the lifestyle and the social side. Doubt we would have been mature enough to do it when we were much younger.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"We've been married to each other for 36 and still just as much in love as ever. Been swinging for about 6 years and loving the lifestyle and the social side. Doubt we would have been mature enough to do it when we were much younger. "

wow can agree with that statement big

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

0 marriages

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