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Do men prefer bigger ladies or curvier

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So guys do u prefer bigger curvier more voluptuous ladies..or thinner the better. I'm size 18/20 so on plus side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my women small but saying that some women are absolutely stunning on the larger size And very pretty.

I look at the face more x

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

I'm plus sized too big is beautiful

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"So guys do u prefer bigger curvier more voluptuous ladies..or thinner the better. I'm size 18/20 so on plus side "

I like a pretty face but it is rare that I am attracted to a slim lady. I go for the plus size just find it so sexy kissing all down a bigger ladies body x

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Horses for courses springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm plus sized too big is beautiful "

Most definitely and with the pretty face that I'm such a sucker for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like small girls i like big curls but if the thighs are bigger than my waist sorry it's a no from me. Broke my bed once never again!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Also what do you class as bigger?

Size 14/16 larger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if your in the middle. I have a tiny waist but very good curve's so I'm not bigger or slim

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (Mr) like slim curvy women. It is possible to be both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what size they are as its just a fuck, prefer all sizes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Also what do you class as bigger?

Size 14/16 larger?"
24+

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"i like small girls i like big curls but if the thighs are bigger than my waist sorry it's a no from me. Broke my bed once never again! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy better. Skinny women dont do it for me. Need something to grab hold of. Biggest Bigger ladies generally bigger boobs which wins as well for me. Odd realy as I'm not a big bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a 24/26.... u could say a very bbbw... lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy definitely!!

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

I'm a 20 /22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a 24/26.... u could say a very bbbw... lol.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "

Same here.

Every ladies individual and have different things that turn me on depending on the lady. And if they show a little skin eg skirt and cleavage then I like putty in her hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 "

Never would have guessed from your pics. Your stunning

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We've been with all kinds of ages and shapes.

People we would have considered not our type. But in the end people who can chat and hold a conversation move up the sexiness charts rapidly.

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Well i am haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fussed. Beggars can't be choosers

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By *arksidesubCouple
over a year ago

not far from you..


"What if your in the middle. I have a tiny waist but very good curve's so I'm not bigger or slim "

That's me too!.. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am haha "

you knows it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed. Beggars can't be choosers "

Fancy a shag then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "
well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed. Beggars can't be choosers

Fancy a shag then "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 "
you can get on my bed!

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed! "

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like ha"

You want me to help measure your thighs

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By *ager2please79Man
over a year ago

derby

I like curvaceous women....i think they're beautiful but i aappreciate all women no matter of size

Although i do prefer bigger women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it's all about the eyes, smile and conversation, get those three and the rest is fantastic whatever size...

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum

Haha my thighs love each other there always touching each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Im a size 18-20 i rarely get my weight mentioned the most common compliments i get are on my eyes, smile and confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

generally prefer my women on the slimmer side. but depends on the whole package really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like ha

You want me to help measure your thighs "
you can jump on my bed with her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha my thighs love each other there always touching each other "

Love this comment

I prefer curvier girls more fun to caress

Anita x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like ha"
i have a new king size sturdy bed now jump all you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like hai have a new king size sturdy bed now jump all you want "

Are you absolutely sure it was the lady who bust your bed

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"Haha my thighs love each other there always touching each other

Love this comment

I prefer curvier girls more fun to caress

Anita x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a large girl. I don't like the label BBW.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like girls who look like they won't starve if we have a hard winter.

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By *reddy96Man
over a year ago

scunthorpe

I love a nice curvy woman size does'nt matter to me. It wot inside wot matters x

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm attracted to sexy... which in my opinion is a mixture of personality, attitude and self confidence. Sexy ladies can come in many shapes and sizes.

Cal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Big' means different things to different people, as does 'curvy'. To some I'm big, others I'm curvy, others I'm average. I'm just me, whatever you describe me as. Don't like it, don't get it

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By *neplusserMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I like women comfortable in their own skin, confidence is a turn on for me irrespective of size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do normally prefer women that are larger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all different shapes and sizes..

Luckily for us all the opposite sex like variety. ... just as much as us lady's do....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a large girl. I don't like the label BBW.

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your beautiful just v xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like hai have a new king size sturdy bed now jump all you want

Are you absolutely sure it was the lady who bust your bed "
well i was on my back so blamed her!

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By *eembabyWoman
over a year ago

Brum


"I'm a 20 /22 you can get on my bed!

you sure wouldn't wanna brake it like hai have a new king size sturdy bed now jump all you want

Are you absolutely sure it was the lady who bust your bed well i was on my back so blamed her! "

hahaha

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"'Big' means different things to different people, as does 'curvy'. To some I'm big, others I'm curvy, others I'm average. I'm just me, whatever you describe me as. Don't like it, don't get it "

This.

If people say they don't want bigger people we would not say hi as how are we to know if we are in or out of their size range.

Also if you set limits such as no size 18s which shop size are you using as I've never know women's clothing to be uniform across the market.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't quite understand but as I've got older I've really found myself far more attracted to curvier/bigger women. I've never gone for size zero but yes there is something sexy about a fuller figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely all about the face for me, a women's body can be any shape if it is attached too a pretty face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely all about the face for me, a women's body can be any shape if it is attached too a pretty face "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys do u prefer bigger curvier more voluptuous ladies..or thinner the better. I'm size 18/20 so on plus side

I like a pretty face but it is rare that I am attracted to a slim lady. I go for the plus size just find it so sexy kissing all down a bigger ladies body x"

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By *ocketman20Man
over a year ago

Douglas

Just love women, any size!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fat is a massive turn off for me. I like curvy but not wobbly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love all women

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"I'm plus sized too big is beautiful "

I am plus sized but have to disagree. A lot of big is beautiful, however beauty is truly from the inside & eminates. You just get a lot more from a bbw

Mrs WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a wobbly size 16....some call me curvy....some call me fat....I'm just me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Purely physically, I tend to be drawn to the larger lady....I absolutely adore a big bottom, thighs and hips...love a bit of a tummy and big chested is a bonus too....

Having said all that....if they open their mouth and are a dickhead, all that goes out the window.

Realisticly though, attraction goes past body shape, I've been attracted to slim ladies too....I couldn't say why, but sometimes people just put out a sexy vibe ya know, something they say or do, or the way they carry themselves or just some detail that you can't put your finger on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fussed. Beggars can't be choosers "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I take any north west woman who is a bigger size fancy please feel free to message me!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

I see the beauty within people who are themselves its what attracts myself to them weather they are skinny to curvy

I tend to be red hot, overwarm to some people as ive been quoted that they dont need a hot water bottle in bed because of me

as goes for breaking bed, I strengthen my bed up from buying it new as there crappy made nowadays

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By *ee331Man
over a year ago

Wolverton


"I'm plus sized too big is beautiful "

Have to admit I have a soft spot for the more curvy or larger women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a large girl. I don't like the label BBW.

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Your beautiful x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is an element of that but I think its an entire package deal for me. If you can pull of what you have then its good. But that might just be guy terminology.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like women comfortable in their own skin, confidence is a turn on for me irrespective of size"

I agree. I wish more women were comfortable with their size, whatever size they are (be it 8 or 24). They don't realise , how pretty they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I truly believe guys prefer confidence in a woman ;whether she's a size 6 or size 26 ...and I'm a size 18/20

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women of most sizes can be attractive to me but I've only ever been in relationships with slim women so I suppose that's my type.

Girls with a healthy toned body, with curves from squatting etc. are definitely a big attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would seem im in the minority of men; in this thread anyway, who prefers slimmer, fitter women who take care of themself ?

I wouldn't class it as superficial in the slightest, women readily admit they prefer their men muscled like a greek god, hence there are masses of men in gyms. Even on this app you get women saying no skinnies.

Meanwhile men are made to feel guilty for preferring women with a healthy BMI with all this Fat Shaming nonsense. For the record, "curvy" is a figure id use to describe J-Lo, Beyonce and Kim K, if you are obese you are not curvy.

Sorry if I offend anyone but someone's gotta talk the truth lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's proportionality on the whole. A lady can be slim but proportionally unattractive and bloke can be the same no doubt.

Personally I prefer curves in the same way some women prefer athletic or muscular.

Personality goes a massive way to make me find someone interesting or to avoid no matter what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd describe Kim Kardashian as rounded - like a bowling ball I don't find her at all sexy but that aside agree with your point.

It's interesting how what apparently appeals to people on here differs so much to wider society. Maybe Fab appeals to a niche interest, or maybe tastes are changing.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Petite (small). Not asda petite...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I truly believe guys prefer confidence in a woman ;whether she's a size 6 or size 26 ...and I'm a size 18/20 "

This is true, a bigger woman who hides constantly under a sheet or towel is not the same, we all got our own hang ups, I am not keen on my hairy chest but lots of women love it lots don't as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you don't mind a woman answering. I am more attracted to women with a bit of meat. Normally between the size 10 and 16 range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men do, some men don't. But thank goodness for the ones who do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Purely physically, I tend to be drawn to the larger lady....I absolutely adore a big bottom, thighs and hips...love a bit of a tummy and big chested is a bonus too....

Having said all that....if they open their mouth and are a dickhead, all that goes out the window.

Realisticly though, attraction goes past body shape, I've been attracted to slim ladies too....I couldn't say why, but sometimes people just put out a sexy vibe ya know, something they say or do, or the way they carry themselves or just some detail that you can't put your finger on.

you do this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you "

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

i prefer a few curves and cuddly tho dont like fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you "

Do you check first or just go for the easy lifts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you "

Your missing out on so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you

Your missing out on so much "

Let him more for us that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you

Your missing out on so much "

Like what?

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I have never been with a woman over a size 12. I have a rule if I can't lift you up during sex , I can't have sex with you "

Lets hope they dont think with the same logic, as there might not be many of yoir type that could lift you

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"Some men do, some men don't. But thank goodness for the ones who do! "

Exactly this

T xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have different things that tick our boxes. Im a big girl but I like a bigger man. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without doubt women with curves are so much sexier....nothing beats natural curves and 'junk in the trunk'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" "

Wow miss Viagra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow miss Viagra "
Hello x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow miss Viagra Hello x"

That cleavage is incredible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Wow miss Viagra Hello x

That cleavage is incredible "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moby is one lucky guy to have those to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Moby is one lucky guy to have those to play with "
lol thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So guys do u prefer bigger curvier more voluptuous ladies..or thinner the better. I'm size 18/20 so on plus side "

I'm not keen on ladies to large or to skinny, average wholesome size is nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im a size 20.

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By *erald1231Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I personally think u need to have personality which I believe u have a very very nice one. As one philosopher said beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. Let me tell one thing I have met women who are pleasing to the eye but have no mannerism or don't know how to treat a person nice for me I believe if u treat someone nice irrespective of ur looks they will like u . I personally think u r beautiful

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By *erald1231Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

ur latitude stinks mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be interested in how many of the guys who prefer larger ladies, also prefer them when it comes to dating. From a bbw (or at least bw...) who gets a bit demoralised by the world beyond fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd be interested in how many of the guys who prefer larger ladies, also prefer them when it comes to dating. From a bbw (or at least bw...) who gets a bit demoralised by the world beyond fab "

I remember a guy on here once actually admitting to liking big ladies when it came to fucking but would never date one, he was slaughtered I would imagine most wouldn't admit to that cause it will lower their chances of meeting big women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ur latitude stinks mate "

What about the longitude?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a larger lady ive always been a little bit self concious about my size. It's only been the last couple of years that I've realised how many men love it!!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "

What he said.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love bigger ladies...enough said!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy is a shape, not a weight.

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By *ee331Man
over a year ago

Wolverton

My ex wife was a bbw and I prefer larger women, they turn me on more. Not sure why but the larger and curvy ladies just do it for me.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"It would seem im in the minority of men; in this thread anyway, who prefers slimmer, fitter women who take care of themself ?

I wouldn't class it as superficial in the slightest, women readily admit they prefer their men muscled like a greek god, hence there are masses of men in gyms. Even on this app you get women saying no skinnies.

Meanwhile men are made to feel guilty for preferring women with a healthy BMI with all this Fat Shaming nonsense. For the record, "curvy" is a figure id use to describe J-Lo, Beyonce and Kim K, if you are obese you are not curvy.

Sorry if I offend anyone but someone's gotta talk the truth lol."
you like what ya like ... Others just the same! Doubt your post offended anyone ... Others opinion are as important to them as yours is to you... Aint dat d truth?!

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By *ilthpotMan
over a year ago

uxbridge

You can't beat a woman with a fuller figure....Seriously Sexy....X

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"I'd be interested in how many of the guys who prefer larger ladies, also prefer them when it comes to dating. From a bbw (or at least bw...) who gets a bit demoralised by the world beyond fab "
The "real world" has never been an issue to me with regards to attention/ relationships/ dating etc ... ( and I've been bigger than now) Once you are totaly happy in your own skin what ever your size ... You find the obsticles that you see are there ... Are often not There are plenty if men who dont just talk the talk... They walk the walk too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Body type is never the decider for me, although I do admire curves on a woman. However, I'm a sucker for a pretty face, and even better if there is a personality to match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be a 32-34 my confidence was better than it is at 18-22. I probably used to meet more too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a larger lady ive always been a little bit self concious about my size. It's only been the last couple of years that I've realised how many men love it!!! x"

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"Also what do you class as bigger?

Size 14/16 larger?"

Size 16 plus for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh......I know this one! All men like something different and have differing tastes. Do I get a prize?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy busty woman for me are the sexiest around add a cracking personality and I'm in

Each to their own though x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer size 10-16 maximum no larger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Proper' Ladies are SEXXXXXXAAYYYYY but with all ladies, its what's inside that attracts x x

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield


"I'd be interested in how many of the guys who prefer larger ladies, also prefer them when it comes to dating. From a bbw (or at least bw...) who gets a bit demoralised by the world beyond fab "

This guy does for sure I have mainly dated larger ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lady with curves all day long please. Sometimes the bigger the more yummy but that's only sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a rare breed of man who sees the beauty in a woman regardless of her shape or size, I've dated models, skinny girls, tall girls, very big girls and loved them all as equal as the next.

I'm a total sucker for a pretty face, the package that comes with it is of no consequence to me. "
100% the same

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Junk in the trunk is always sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass "

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

"
neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a size 10 but I'd still describe myself as curvy! My hips, boobs, bum etc stick out far more than my waist - ergo I am slim but curvy!

I do accept fully though that some guys prefer larger, fuller breasted ladies and it doesn't bother me at all! Vive la difference! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its so much more than size lol

dunno how you can narrow attraction down that far

put 10 big ladies and 10 small ladies in a room and i may not be attracted to any of them or i may be attracted to a few from each group

its really person dependent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a sicker for red heads don't mater the size

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By *inkyblonde69Woman
over a year ago

warrington

I'm glad there are other ladies out there that are a size 18/20 and not just me , I've had some really nasty comments these last few days and it really upsets me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad there are other ladies out there that are a size 18/20 and not just me , I've had some really nasty comments these last few days and it really upsets me "

We are all beautiful inside and out hun. Much better to have something to get hold of. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

"

Both ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

Both ha "

John candy has a wicked sense of humour. There is more to a person than there looks.

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I have a weakness for curvy/buxom ladies but it's not set in stone.

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"I'm a 20 /22 "

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"I like women comfortable in their own skin, confidence is a turn on for me irrespective of size"

Mmmmm my mouth would like to get confident with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm a size 22/24 however I am quite shy (until I know someone) so the confidence thing doesn't apply to me

But it's good to hear some of you prefer bigger women x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a size 22/24 however I am quite shy (until I know someone) so the confidence thing doesn't apply to me

But it's good to hear some of you prefer bigger women x "

I am the same. Got the love the boobs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I'm a size 22/24 however I am quite shy (until I know someone) so the confidence thing doesn't apply to me

But it's good to hear some of you prefer bigger women x

I am the same. Got the love the boobs xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I genuinely don't have a preference. I'm not a 'if it's got a pulse......' kind of guy. It's just the personality of the person is the part I find gets my interest. I've had some amazing times with skinny minnies and big girls.

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By *ignblack68Man
over a year ago

Blackburn

Curvy is beautiful

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

neither. "

Honestly John candy gsoh and and everyday sort of bloke just my type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just been on anothet dating disaster ... speaking to guy all week arranged to meet him at station today before we had even left the station he told me my pics were deceptive and must have been old as I'm too big for him ?? even though the pics were taken this week... Thing is he was 6ft 4 and built like a .... Including a well rounded beer gut... I never hide who or what I am but I feel retched now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The modern women is curvy !!! I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can be glasses as pear sometimes lol

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York


"I've just been on anothet dating disaster ... speaking to guy all week arranged to meet him at station today before we had even left the station he told me my pics were deceptive and must have been old as I'm too big for him ?? even though the pics were taken this week... Thing is he was 6ft 4 and built like a .... Including a well rounded beer gut... I never hide who or what I am but I feel retched now "

Don't you dare feel like that!!! I'm K the female of the couple and I totally perved at your pictures. Your bloody lush and don't let some numpty make you feel worthless. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a size 10 but I'd still describe myself as curvy! My hips, boobs, bum etc stick out far more than my waist - ergo I am slim but curvy!

I do accept fully though that some guys prefer larger, fuller breasted ladies and it doesn't bother me at all! Vive la difference! Xx"

You're my definition of curvy too - but not the Fab definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been on anothet dating disaster ... speaking to guy all week arranged to meet him at station today before we had even left the station he told me my pics were deceptive and must have been old as I'm too big for him ?? even though the pics were taken this week... Thing is he was 6ft 4 and built like a .... Including a well rounded beer gut... I never hide who or what I am but I feel retched now

Don't you dare feel like that!!! I'm K the female of the couple and I totally perved at your pictures. Your bloody lush and don't let some numpty make you feel worthless. Xxx"

I second the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just been on anothet dating disaster ... speaking to guy all week arranged to meet him at station today before we had even left the station he told me my pics were deceptive and must have been old as I'm too big for him ?? even though the pics were taken this week... Thing is he was 6ft 4 and built like a .... Including a well rounded beer gut... I never hide who or what I am but I feel retched now

Don't you dare feel like that!!! I'm K the female of the couple and I totally perved at your pictures. Your bloody lush and don't let some numpty make you feel worthless. Xxx

I second the above "

Thank you both xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" he told me my pics were deceptive "

Extreme close ups of abstract body parts, and extreme downward angles are deliberately used to hide body shape though.

The old "MySpace angles".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

neither.

Honestly John candy gsoh and and everyday sort of bloke just my type "

Hugh Jackman

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I like this thread...can I stay a bit longer please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I describe myself as large.

I'm a size 16 and 5'6".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plus size for me size 18+ with BIG bum and balanced out with big boobs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" he told me my pics were deceptive

Extreme close ups of abstract body parts, and extreme downward angles are deliberately used to hide body shape though.

The old "MySpace angles"."

the pictures on here are different than the ones I use on the dating site ... they were full body and face ones and taken at the longest distance away from me that my arms could reach lol

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"Haha my thighs love each other there always touching each other "

Hehe

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'd be interested in how many of the guys who prefer larger ladies, also prefer them when it comes to dating. From a bbw (or at least bw...) who gets a bit demoralised by the world beyond fab "

This for me. The guys who ignore me and delete my messages on online dating are sometimes the same men who message me on here. Ironic as most men on dating sites are looking for sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm an 18 and love my curves

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By *gNeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

Any healthy weight, doesn't matter like others have said, it's about the person.

I won't pretend i find obesity sexy just to get a fuck though. It's not sexy, it's going to kill you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I perfer a curvy 10-14 big breast big ass

Sorry but a size 10 is not what I would class as " big "

But in this era of the stick insect, lollipop head ladies.

Maybe anyone over a 8 is "big "

Personally I (Mr) love ladies with a realistic shape.

Kelly Brook being an example.

Jools is a size 10/12 but has 32f bust so struggles with getting clothes to fit.

Large women do nothing for me, sorry ladies, equally painfully skinny is as much of a turn off.

However one point I will make is this

It's far easier for a large lady to look sexy than it is for large guy's.

Women can be every bit as shallow and judgmental as men.

A big lady on here is going to be 100 times more sought after than a big guy.

Most high street shops cater for larger ladies going up to a 24.

Whereas mens sizes usually stop at a 40 waist. Some 36.

So bigger ladies be 100% honest please.

Given the choice

Hugh jackman

Or

John candy

Honestly?

Both ha "

Smart arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loving these comments

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"It would seem im in the minority of men; in this thread anyway, who prefers slimmer, fitter women who take care of themself ?

I wouldn't class it as superficial in the slightest, women readily admit they prefer their men muscled like a greek god, hence there are masses of men in gyms. Even on this app you get women saying no skinnies.

Meanwhile men are made to feel guilty for preferring women with a healthy BMI with all this Fat Shaming nonsense. For the record, "curvy" is a figure id use to describe J-Lo, Beyonce and Kim K, if you are obese you are not curvy.

Sorry if I offend anyone but someone's gotta talk the truth lol. you like what ya like ... Others just the same! Doubt your post offended anyone ... Others opinion are as important to them as yours is to you... Aint dat d

truth?! "

We all have preference. Nothing wrong with a well writtenresponse

Uber fit guys do nothing for me.A naughty smile is more attractive than a six pack.....unless its doughnuts then you might have a chance lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would seem im in the minority of men; in this thread anyway, who prefers slimmer, fitter women who take care of themself ?

I wouldn't class it as superficial in the slightest, women readily admit they prefer their men muscled like a greek god, hence there are masses of men in gyms. Even on this app you get women saying no skinnies.

Meanwhile men are made to feel guilty for preferring women with a healthy BMI with all this Fat Shaming nonsense. For the record, "curvy" is a figure id use to describe J-Lo, Beyonce and Kim K, if you are obese you are not curvy.

Sorry if I offend anyone but someone's gotta talk the truth lol. you like what ya like ... Others just the same! Doubt your post offended anyone ... Others opinion are as important to them as yours is to you... Aint dat d

truth?!

We all have preference. Nothing wrong with a well writtenresponse

Uber fit guys do nothing for me.A naughty smile is more attractive than a six pack.....unless its doughnuts then you might have a chance lol"

Krispy kremes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any healthy weight, doesn't matter like others have said, it's about the person.

I won't pretend i find obesity sexy just to get a fuck though. It's not sexy, it's going to kill you! "

Have to agree! At times I find it a little worrying that obesity is so frequently celebrated in countless ' bbw loving' threads! There seem to be more of those than any other type of thread!

No-one should be made to feel bad about themselves because of their weight - but being very overweight shouldn't be seen as something to be sought after IMHO. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad there are other ladies out there that are a size 18/20 and not just me , I've had some really nasty comments these last few days and it really upsets me "

No-one a right to be nasty to you Hun! Suggest you block, report and forget them! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well im going to get flack for this but i wanna be honest !

Ive never dated anyone classed as larger , i dont look at larger ladies on nights out and think i fancy her , i dont watch larger lady porn so i wont join the BBW supporters club on here just to get a shag .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm glad there are other ladies out there that are a size 18/20 and not just me , I've had some really nasty comments these last few days and it really upsets me

No-one a right to be nasty to you Hun! Suggest you block, report and forget them! Xxx"

have you, I am larger and can honestly say I have never had a nasty comment on here or in vanilla? but I am 5ftn 8

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By *i ExperimentMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

I definately prefer the larger lady. I have never been attracted to slim girls (probably fair to say all the ladies I have dated have been 16 - 22

No deep and meaningful reason, I just find the larger form more attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying i dont fancy larger ladies doesn't mean anyone should recieve nasty comments though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to agree! At times I find it a little worrying that obesity is so frequently celebrated in countless ' bbw loving' threads! There seem to be more of those than any other type of thread!

No-one should be made to feel bad about themselves because of their weight - but being very overweight shouldn't be seen as something to be sought after IMHO. Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well im going to get flack for this but i wanna be honest !

Ive never dated anyone classed as larger , i dont look at larger ladies on nights out and think i fancy her , i dont watch larger lady porn so i wont join the BBW supporters club on here just to get a shag .

"

Why should you get flack???

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