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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me?

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend

It's definitely not just you. ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

Thought they were a Myth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm strong confident and independent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm strong confident and independent

I've had to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm strong confident and independent

I've had to be

U is too

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I can lift three pairs of new shoes in one arm and a bottle of champagne and two glasses in the other

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy. "

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men.

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men."

Neddiness what do you mean by that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a feisty motherfucker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am feisty, strong willed, confident and a bit too independent for my own good apparently

Her

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men.

Neddiness what do you mean by that? "

Constantly needing to be reassured that what they are doing is right, that they fit in, that other people agree with them, always seeking approval.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

I find it takes a self confident guy to appreciate a strong minded woman . A lot can't handle a woman who can hold her own and has valid opinions that may differ from there own .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Physically and mentally strong. Very independent. However confidence ebbs and flows.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ...."

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men.

Neddiness what do you mean by that?

Constantly needing to be reassured that what they are doing is right, that they fit in, that other people agree with them, always seeking approval.

right got you.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me?

I find it takes a self confident guy to appreciate a strong minded woman . A lot can't handle a woman who can hold her own and has valid opinions that may differ from there own ."

Oh howcomes, why can't some men handle that?

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

you guys are Hilarius

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Physically and mentally strong. Very independent. However confidence ebbs and flows. "

Ditto. Improving as I get older though I've found.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

Meh....I'm independent I don't need to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "
just you i like mine weak unstable lacking in confidence and obedient!!

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men."

God yes

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

Speaking only for myself no. I like a man who I can spar with (mentally of course) who isn't always thinking I need to defer to him or vice versa, who likes to talk to me as an equal and gives no quarter and expects none to be given.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a rather strong 'woman' and I get plenty of interest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

I like a man who's not afraid of showing or getting what he wants

I like a conident man in bed too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

I do.

I'm dominant in everything, life and sexually (although i don't mind not being dominant sexually sometimes), so need a chill guy who will go with my flow.

I'm not a control freak and easy going myself, but for relationships (friends and lovers) they have to be chill to handle me. If they were strong willed i wouldn't cope with them.

I actually tend to like slightly needy guys as well, love how they look to me for advice or reassurance occasionally.

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By *lan43sumMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?

I do.

I'm dominant in everything, life and sexually (although i don't mind not being dominant sexually sometimes), so need a chill guy who will go with my flow.

I'm not a control freak and easy going myself, but for relationships (friends and lovers) they have to be chill to handle me. If they were strong willed i wouldn't cope with them.

I actually tend to like slightly needy guys as well, love how they look to me for advice or reassurance occasionally."

This makes sense to me and not just because I'm a chilled type of guy. Being relaxed and easy going doesn't mean you are mentally weak it just means you know what to get excited about and what it is futile to kick against.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys who are stronger than me. Yep; they need to be damn strong

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me?

I find it takes a self confident guy to appreciate a strong minded woman . A lot can't handle a woman who can hold her own and has valid opinions that may differ from there own .

Oh howcomes, why can't some men handle that? "

I can only summise they feel it as a threat to their male pride/bravado

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me?

I find it takes a self confident guy to appreciate a strong minded woman . A lot can't handle a woman who can hold her own and has valid opinions that may differ from there own ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find that my looks are deceiving

I may look cute & sweet on the outside but as soon as I make eye contact most people can see I'm no push over & am overly sassy & Damn feisty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

No I prefer no man in my life

I couldn't imagine sharing my life with anyone now I've gotten used to my own space and the fact I can do what I like

I've spent more time as an adult single that with someone, only ever had one relationship in my life, tried it, didn't like it so its single life for me now

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By *allen MadonnaWoman
over a year ago

In my own little world

Apparently I intimidate guys, stupidly independent, self motivated and not prepared to be messed around. Guys kinda love it, want to be with me, then try to change me into some meek woman.

Still single, can't find anyone to interest me on all sorts of levels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that it has actually acted as a hindrance... I bought my first house at 21 and have worked mainly in the construction industry in a site management role (I am a Civil Engineer specialising in contract and construction management) I have never... Been engaged/married or lived with anyone... In fact the guys on my first site had my monthlys marked down on their urm 'graphic' calendar on the wall in the site canteen so they could keep out of my way !!? it definitely isn't a turn on to many ??

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By *ikeC2012Man
over a year ago

Peterborough

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

I like that too, if it makes the woman something of a domme then so much the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but not when self proclaimed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?

I do.

I'm dominant in everything, life and sexually (although i don't mind not being dominant sexually sometimes), so need a chill guy who will go with my flow.

I'm not a control freak and easy going myself, but for relationships (friends and lovers) they have to be chill to handle me. If they were strong willed i wouldn't cope with them.

I actually tend to like slightly needy guys as well, love how they look to me for advice or reassurance occasionally.

Relationships often work if the people in them compliment each other. My best friend has a similar personality to my lovers too. I agree being chill, or even submissive, doesn't make you mentally weak either.

My last two partners were both mentally stronger than me but let me be the dominant one in the relationship because they didn't mind going with my flow, it suited them. One relationship ended when i had to be the needy one for a change, he wasn't capable of being the dominant for that time and i got fed up and left him because we didn't compliment each other for that time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

Hey no fair don't pick on the small defenseless ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strong in all departments not just mental (well, I am pretty mental actually!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strong in all departments not just mental (well, I am pretty mental actually!)

If I was wearing a hat I would take it off too you. I have seen some of your achievement via other posts keep up the good work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not feisty,bolshy or strong minded. I'm not a pushover though but I like fitting together nicely with a strong minded man,who is focused and confident. I'm not a wall flower but I'm not a stroll into the room and try to take over woman.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

God no, I'd lose respect and walk all over a weak-willed man, though 'underplayed confidence' is fine - I don't mind someone who stays centred while I bounce off the walls!

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

Why doesn't that surprise me in the slightest?!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can wrap a six foot six fourteen stone guy round my little finger

Why doesn't that surprise me in the slightest?!

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By *ollipop77Couple
over a year ago

Sunny Manchester

Have been told many times I am too independent.

Been responsible for my own orgasms for too long now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm strong confident and independent

Confident independent women are defo sexy.

And no neediness. It's why I like confident, independent men."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been told many times I am too independent.

Been responsible for my own orgasms for too long now x"

Ha ha...so true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strong in all departments not just mental (well, I am pretty mental actually!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

Strangely enough I met a sub who was strong, confident and successful.

It was very intense and horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Unfortunately there is a fine line between strong and scary, and I fall into the latter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am too

And I can put the bins out ....

I can wall paper and lay carpets

In was even know to change a fuse last week

Beat that

I can tile, own a chainsaw and can weld.x

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

My experience is mosys guys find a confidendent independant woman very attractive initially, however they can rarely handle a relationship with one

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?"

In my opinion strength lies in knowing your vulnerabilities but only revealing them to someone you trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a strong confident woman..... Lmao! That sentence always reminds me of the episode of friends where Chandler falls asleep listening to the recording.

HAHAHA!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?

In my opinion strength lies in knowing your vulnerabilities but only revealing them to someone you trust. "

I like the old proverb

'A string man masters his strength, a wise man masters his weakness'

Substituting man for woman of course

Regardless, I'd walk barefoot across broken glass for the right woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?

In my opinion strength lies in knowing your vulnerabilities but only revealing them to someone you trust.

I like the old proverb

'A string man masters his strength, a wise man masters his weakness'

Substituting man for woman of course

Regardless, I'd walk barefoot across broken glass for the right woman."

Yep. Love isn't weakness.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Mentally strong. Determined to the point of stubborn. Mostly confident. That one is entirely dependent on a given situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?

In my opinion strength lies in knowing your vulnerabilities but only revealing them to someone you trust.

I like the old proverb

'A string man masters his strength, a wise man masters his weakness'

Substituting man for woman of course

Regardless, I'd walk barefoot across broken glass for the right woman.

Yep. Love isn't weakness."

I agree, but it has to be reciprocated to become truly strong.

Also

"A string man masters his strength"

Doh!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I admire mental strength, focus and intelligence in a woman, but she needs to have some vulnerability too, otherwise why would she even need me?

In my opinion strength lies in knowing your vulnerabilities but only revealing them to someone you trust.

I like the old proverb

'A string man masters his strength, a wise man masters his weakness'

Substituting man for woman of course

Regardless, I'd walk barefoot across broken glass for the right woman.

Yep. Love isn't weakness.

I agree, but it has to be reciprocated to become truly strong.

Also

A string man masters his strength

Doh!"

I did notice and have a mental image of a very strong string man in my head now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i tend to be too strong. relationships crumble as soon as i need support, as they are too used to leaning on me.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I do think a lot on here are intimidated by me in my local area, so where some like a strong woman who knows her mind, a lot feels it is to much.

Though I will admit, I do need a man to keep me on my toes, probably why I am still single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mentally strong. Determined to the point of stubborn. Mostly confident. That one is entirely dependent on a given situation."

Absolutely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Strength is important, but also is the strength and wisdom to know when to compromise. I wouldn't want to spend my life fighting and bickering with the woman I love.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I am

Oops

That's just my reflection lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

Same me too.

I don't like "wet" people.

Someone who just agrees with me all the time drives me nuts.

I like an element of bitch.

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? "

No, you are the only man in the world that finds that attractive

I was explaining to someone the other day that I find a purposeful walk on a woman a major turn on.

Hate to see women meandering...a fast, determined walk does it for me. I will watch a woman walk by with purpose, for far longer than a cute ass

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By *oxes OP Man
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Is anyone else on here attracted to Mentally-Strong, determined and confident women or is it just me? just you i like mine weak unstable lacking in confidence and obedient!!

I dont I like me strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm defiantly one of those

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"I can lift three pairs of new shoes in one arm and a bottle of champagne and two glasses in the other

I just bark an order to a guy to do the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I intimidate guys, stupidly independent, self motivated and not prepared to be messed around. Guys kinda love it, want to be with me, then try to change me into some meek woman.

Still single, can't find anyone to interest me on all sorts of levels."

ditto this for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My experience is mosys guys find a confidendent independant woman very attractive initially, however they can rarely handle a relationship with one "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Apparently I intimidate guys, stupidly independent, self motivated and not prepared to be messed around. Guys kinda love it, want to be with me, then try to change me into some meek woman.

Still single, can't find anyone to interest me on all sorts of levels.

ditto this for me

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength is important, but also is the strength and wisdom to know when to compromise. I wouldn't want to spend my life fighting and bickering with the woman I love."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them because there tends to be way less head games.

I can't stand all the passive aggressive crap people do especially guilt tripping.

I find that women who have their own life and goals and ambitions tend not to do that childish stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?"

Being strong and being easy going are not mutually exclusive or opposite to each other...I've always been very independent and taken care of myself but am essentially easy going too...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I like them because there tends to be way less head games.

I can't stand all the passive aggressive crap people do especially guilt tripping.

I find that women who have their own life and goals and ambitions tend not to do that childish stuff "

Yes, same goes for men. Self esteem and emotional strength help a person feel secure I think which means they don't use all that stuff in their relationships.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Opposites attract? Do strong women prefer easier going men?

Being strong and being easy going are not mutually exclusive or opposite to each other...I've always been very independent and taken care of myself but am essentially easy going too..."

ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Strength is important, but also is the strength and wisdom to know when to compromise. I wouldn't want to spend my life fighting and bickering with the woman I love."

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