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Flirting....How good are you ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you have a favourite technique for flirting / making sure you catch someone eye.

And just how good are you at this ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't flirt.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No no no no....Everyone can flirt.

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I love a flirt. Don't know if I have a technique as such. I just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of innocent touching of arm, leg, hand works.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why don't we meet and find out?

soooo.... was that any good or not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a favourite technique for flirting / making sure you catch someone eye.

And just how good are you at this ?"

I can't flirt! I'm rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a useless flirt and also hopeless at telling if someone is flirting with me ..... They would have to hold a sign up telling me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm actually a terrible flirt and mind fuck at times if I like someone leave them wanting more.

I think you have to be quite a confident person though to take the lead at flirting.

So many friends I know are shy about chatting others up they fancy its a shame really.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I'm very comfortable in a swinging situation letting someone know that I'm interested and I'm happy to chat and flirt to my hearts content

I much prefer to approach than be approached as I will have been watching how that person interacts with other people and I'll already know if they're the sort of person I think I'll get on with

I find some people's way of approaching me extremely off putting and a bit too full on at times in clubs or at parties sometimes

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By *ertiVogtsMan
over a year ago

Exeter

If I want to flirt with someone I just lick their face!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the best at it myself and I never know if they are flirting or just being friendly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lots of innocent touching of arm, leg, hand works."

Yep, that would work in anyone's book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Modesty aside for a sec , (my type is the alternative types) if I'm going guns out , ya know I really like her , and I've had a vodka or two for courage ... I'll get the convo on to body mods. And when she say "your lying , prove it"

Wop myself out over the pool table (coup de grace) as you often get asked to leave the pub at this point. 9 times out of ten they'll leave with you.

Now back to the modesty, I am well aware I'm no ones first choice. And this has nothing to do with my charm or rugged good looks and everything to do with the metal ... Lol

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"Do you have a favourite technique for flirting / making sure you catch someone eye.

And just how good are you at this ?

I can't flirt! I'm rubbish!"

Oh I can't believe this. That's not the vibe I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually I look the flirtee in the eye and ask them if they like bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good flirt. Casual glances that lead to more glances and the next thing you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a natural flirt. It's because I'm a happy,talkative person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a useless flirt and also hopeless at telling if someone is flirting with me ..... They would have to hold a sign up telling me "

Actually this is more me . It's always the day after when you think about the night before ; that girl you walked to the bus stop, who stood chatting with you while 5 night busses past you think...."was she waiting for me to make a pass at her?!!"

useless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just being me is all it takes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smile til your jaw aches, lots of leaning in, attentive nodding, some lip licking and maybe a little lip biting......damn,given away all my secrets now!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm libra which makes me a natural flirt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You've got to let people know you're interested some how; you can't just walk away!....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Ere 'ow fit are you

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WELL FIT !!

As you can see my flirting technique is fucking awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told I'm good. But sometimes I don't realise I'm doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I'm good. But sometimes I don't realise I'm doing it "

Hey Tom.....how you doin'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just ask "fancy my cocksnot up ya arse im a cockwomble?" I turn loads away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a good flirt! Eye contact, cheeky secret smiles, hair flicking, gentle verbal teasing & innuendo..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i just ask "fancy my cocksnot up ya arse im a cockwomble?" I turn loads away "

Cockwomble?!?! Hahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been told I'm good. But sometimes I don't realise I'm doing it

Hey Tom.....how you doin'? "

Sent you a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't realise I'm doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends from woman to woman. On here I'm direct with what I say because you have to be clear with your intent. As Heather 1 says " Fuck me gently with a chainsaw, do I look like Mother Teresa?" Can be shy in person....But general flirting ranges from holding hands, go to shake their hand then kiss the back of it, touching on the arm or shoulders, prolonged eye contact with smiling, making women laugh, depending how horny/dirty they are I open my lips & let my tongue lick the top lip whilst maintaining eye contact. It's about reading signals and good timing. The hardest part is trying not to think too much.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I don't flirt, I always mean it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm libra which makes me a natural flirt "

Oh me too! I don't even know I'm doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm libra which makes me a natural flirt

Oh me too! I don't even know I'm doing it "

Me either

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By *ug247Man
over a year ago

Near You

I love a cheeky flirt.

Bit of eye contact, small grin and wait for the magic.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich


"I'm libra which makes me a natural flirt "

I'm a libra and a useless flirt!

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

In person I'm quite shy. On here I'm less than subtle. So on balance I am a rubbish flirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fairly good at flirting, but rubbish at picking up when someone's flirting with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you have a favourite technique for flirting / making sure you catch someone eye.

And just how good are you at this ?"

Useless (MS)

a Master at it ( Mr)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they interest me or not and to what degree that interest is. .. they can always tell me to fuck off though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I am a flirt,,,, I would even go as far as saying I don't really know how to flirt!!

However, my friends and an ex gf have always said I am a very big flirt, to the point I don't even know I am doing it!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm shit I get it all wrong and turn into a rambling mess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I am crap with it, much better at online flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm libra which makes me a natural flirt

I'm a libra and a useless flirt! "

That can't be true it's in our star sign thing that libras are natural flirts and we don't know we're doing it when we are lol true story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am this good at flirting:

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm (s) terrible to the point where I don't even know when I'm being flirted with, L on the other hand is very, very good at it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He hasn't got a clue, she is an expert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shite

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"If I want to flirt with someone I just lick their face! "

Do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bloody awful! Can honestly say I think I'm worst flirter out there lol! Yes it's that bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get told off at work as I flirt constantly apparently...... I just thought I was being friendly

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By *eyondCuriousWoman
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

When I'm nervous i flirt, i cant help it...think I'm pretty rubbish tho

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I am a flirt,,,, I would even go as far as saying I don't really know how to flirt!!

However, my friends and an ex gf have always said I am a very big flirt, to the point I don't even know I am doing it!"

And I'm sure your fiancé thinks so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I try to make them laugh

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Like to be chatted up in a club ...... What woman doesn't lol xxx

See you all tonight xxx

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Do you have a favourite technique for flirting / making sure you catch someone eye.

And just how good are you at this ?"

well i have a wicked sence of humour so i can flirt,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm appalling at flirting. I just can't do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seductively put a finger in my mouth... sucking it... teasing the tip with my tongue...

Then another finger in my mouth... while looking them in the eye....

All fingers in my mouth... nice and wet....

Put wet hand in armpit and do hand armpit fart noises.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I seductively put a finger in my mouth... sucking it... teasing the tip with my tongue...

Then another finger in my mouth... while looking them in the eye....

All fingers in my mouth... nice and wet....

Put wet hand in armpit and do hand armpit fart noises.

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I was gonna say I'd have poked myself in the eye!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a crap flirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best flirting trick is a great sense of humour and being able to make a female laugh and keep her well amused, its the easiest way to get into her knickers. To answer your last question yes I am good at it. David

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very good at all

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

I'm not good at flirting ether

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

yes my smile my eyes and licking my lips slowly guy,s are putty in my hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I invented flirting! Click of the heels, swirl of the skirt, CAPTURED!! x x Next!

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I'm appalling at flirting. I just can't do it. "

flirt with me , lol you will soon learn ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty good in nightclubs but apart from that fairly horrendous. I'll end up talking about potatoes or something. In fact the other week I had a conversation about cannibalism with a guy I was firing into (I did end up fucking him right enough)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wonder why that good looking fella across the road staying with his aunt blushes when he sees me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flirty, not sure how I do it, just can with the right guy.

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