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Stigma Against hairy women but not men (pubic!)

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By *lutmeup500 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Down with the patriarchy

I quite like pubic hair on men and women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I make sure I'm clean shaven (cock and balls). If for whatever reason I wasn't freshly shaven then my cock wouldn't come out to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

pretty well every womans/couples profiles I have read asks for smooth, shaves or very well trimmed.

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I love hairy women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a man with some hair and thankfully some men don't mind me with hair ....although mostly trimmed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im waxed (Hollywood) and I like my man to be either shaved or well trimmed. Not sucking balls though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing"

Wow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"
I will be just as vocal about pubic hair on men if its too much too..

so I don't make any difference. I will refuse a guy for being too hairy just as I would a woman...

Mr prefers shaved or trimed on his women too. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually really dislike a man without pubes, I hate the way the peen looks and there's something lovely about the hair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing

Wow"

i meant that in a general sense not just pubes

my bad for not reading the OP

for the act of oral sex both should be tidy down there

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By *lutmeup500 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing"

yeah, maybe underarm and chest...but it's not hard to shave your pubic area if you want to get sucked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand hair on men's balls.

Trimmed on base of the cock is fine, but no Brillo pads please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep back sack and crack hair free.....looks and feels minging otherwise...

I don't like too much hair on myself so I think I'm not too double standardy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a man to be trimmed, not a fan of the shaved look.

However,when it comes to his balls, smooth all the way is a must,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind either way as long as it's neatly trimmed, mine always is but, I gave hairy legs and chest (also trimmed, so shaved giblets just looks plain ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer smooth or neatly trimmed pubes on men and woman, but it's not a must!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind a little chest hair and mens legs, well they are meant to be hairy. Also require hair on their head, preferably long, slightly curly ponytail. And there I go again, describing my fb lol

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By *andi_shopWoman
over a year ago

rotherham

Hairy men in general is not my cup of tea but if I'm sucking a guy they have to be shaved or well trimmed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"

I don't know unless it's porn led. When I first became sexually active in the early seventies one would have been considered odd or even weird if one shaved pubic hair. However women shaved legs and armpits while men didn't.

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By *overs14Couple
over a year ago

norwich

I hate getting pubes in my mouth. Male or female it puts me off!

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By *ikeDeltaMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

I shave my intimate areas as I think it looks and feels better plus it certainly feels better when being played with but then I don't mind smooth or trimmed on a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like hair on me or men. Trimmed or shaved thank you. I wouldn't meet a guy with pubes.

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By *aaLaaWoman
over a year ago

Pontesbury

I like hair,plain and simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found a real love for mr's balls being shaven bald but trimmed around the pubis.. fab forsucking his balls, and I still get the friction while in cowgirl :D

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I love a hairy muff. I think it should be the law to have one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like men trimmed or shaven.

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By *amplemeMan
over a year ago

Working here.


"I like hair,plain and simple."

Well said that lady I like it too!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always thought the shaven thing had more to do with hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No hair on the shaft, balls or arse, trimmed everywhere else. That's what we like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"

Is there a stigma? We would not play with any unshaven man or woman. The majority of people seem to feel the same though a minority seem to prefer hair.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I think its to do with attitudes towards personal grooming in general. I never yet saw a woman show up at a swingers club unshowered and in dirty work clothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?

Is there a stigma? We would not play with any unshaven man or woman. The majority of people seem to feel the same though a minority seem to prefer hair."

Do you think so? Or is it that anyone who says they don't mind hair is then overshadowed by posts that talk about rugs, fur, choking on pubes etc. Mainly I would say by people who have never experienced a natural woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?

Is there a stigma? We would not play with any unshaven man or woman. The majority of people seem to feel the same though a minority seem to prefer hair.

Do you think so? Or is it that anyone who says they don't mind hair is then overshadowed by posts that talk about rugs, fur, choking on pubes etc. Mainly I would say by people who have never experienced a natural woman"

It is just my view but there are many hairy pussy threads, too, so it is by no means rare. There are not many hairy male pubes threads but that could be explained quite easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate pubic hair on women! Because vaginas are so beautiful, why would you want to cover it with an ugly bush?

I'm not a hypocrite though, I'm always shaved myself.

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

For myself, I prefer to be clean shaven, for a man, I do not like this look. Makes me think of a little boy and doesn't look manly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Master loves me with hair im not so kkeen so I keep neat n tidy n trimmed for him so I don't feel like a gorilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love hairy women. "

me too hate a bald pussy it turns me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing"

That's the stigma she's talking about

Now explain your comment young man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wasn't aware of this....maybe I'll grow me pubes back? (NOT!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good question I keep myself manscaped nice and neat but what is it you women actually want ha when I was shall we say more athletic I waxed ! Now I'm like f it give me a burger and a lil trim here and there :-*

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By *lutmeup500 OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing

That's the stigma she's talking about

Now explain your comment young man "

yes!

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Minimum trimmed.... Real turn off if a guy won't look after the hedge.

Prefer women much the same.

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

If every woman stopped shaving her fanny the human race would die out according to this thread.

Do you really think a bloke is going to run off if he pulls your drawers down and finds a gorse bush rather than a smooth peach??

Most blokes would fuck a button hole on a fur coat if they can't find a fanny.

So ladies, stop being so insecure, and if you want your furry hole poking, come and give me a prod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If every woman stopped shaving her fanny the human race would die out according to this thread.

Do you really think a bloke is going to run off if he pulls your drawers down and finds a gorse bush rather than a smooth peach??

Most blokes would fuck a button hole on a fur coat if they can't find a fanny.

So ladies, stop being so insecure, and if you want your furry hole poking, come and give me a prod "

same for me love a bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate pubic hair on women! Because vaginas are so beautiful, why would you want to cover it with an ugly bush?

I'm not a hypocrite though, I'm always shaved myself."

I hate to think what sort of women you have been looking at, are you sure they were human?. Pubic hair doesn't grow on the labia minor, the vagina or the clitoris. Just proves the point I was trying to make

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

I always shave, my cock and balls before going to a club.

I would not expect any woman to go down on me if I was not appealing. And if she was willing to go down on me, it would be embarrassing for her to stop at the final hurdle as I had not made the effort to have a trim.

I'll be honest, I shave and not wax my balls, so there may be the odd short hair that escapes, but I usually pokemon (catch them all)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate pubic hair on women! Because vaginas are so beautiful, why would you want to cover it with an ugly bush?

I'm not a hypocrite though, I'm always shaved myself.

I hate to think what sort of women you have been looking at, are you sure they were human?. Pubic hair doesn't grow on the labia minor, the vagina or the clitoris. Just proves the point I was trying to make "

But it grows on both sides of the groin, above and below, so it does obscure the view!

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By *eepfoughtMan
over a year ago

Burnley

1: I'm perfectly happy if the lady is shaved or hairy, although stubbly leaves a bit to be desired.

2: Given the summers here esoecially, I do shave for at least part of the year, but hate the "last chicken in Sainsburys" look when I do. If a partner wants me shaved though, then that's not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate pubic hair on women! Because vaginas are so beautiful, why would you want to cover it with an ugly bush?

I'm not a hypocrite though, I'm always shaved myself.

I hate to think what sort of women you have been looking at, are you sure they were human?. Pubic hair doesn't grow on the labia minor, the vagina or the clitoris. Just proves the point I was trying to make

But it grows on both sides of the groin, above and below, so it does obscure the view! "

Mine doesn't, I have a downy triangle on my pudenda and a light covering on the labia majora, I'm almost tempted to post an open crotch shot to illustrate what a normal woman looks like rather than the fantasy of thick knotted dense fur that some people imagine they are. Almost but not quite

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

not seen an hairy pussy for year,s have been smooth for 30 year,s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im noticing alot of men in their twenties love hairy pussies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

We dislike shaved pubic regions as shaving that area it is unhygienic.

Those who shave obviously do not understand basic hygiene.

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale

I like pubes on a lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dislike shaved pubic regions as shaving that area it is unhygienic.

Those who shave obviously do not understand basic hygiene.

"

Lol. A shaved genital area can still be hygienic. In fact a mouth full of someone's pubic hair isn't hygienic or attractive.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I am happy if the lady is shaved or unshaved because once you get down to things (excuse the pun) you are past caring, from a business point of view mags and websites are going mad over unshaven girls as its getting really popular in porn again.

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY

I really rather like hair-down-there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind hair on a women as long as it isn't a mop lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

GET A TRIM PEOPLE, SORT THE GARDEN OUT, PEOPLE NEED TO PLAY LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We dislike shaved pubic regions as shaving that area it is unhygienic.

Those who shave obviously do not understand basic hygiene.

Lol. A shaved genital area can still be hygienic. In fact a mouth full of someone's pubic hair isn't hygienic or attractive."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm so into pubic hair. No one should shave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm hairy all over. If I shave my cock and balls, it looks weird!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"

I don't think that is an accurate observation. Check out Gentleman Bens thread called 'Hairy Fanny Appreciation Society'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"GET A TRIM PEOPLE, SORT THE GARDEN OUT, PEOPLE NEED TO PLAY LOL "
why should people trim if others like hair and want to play with them then its up to them surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"

Where you getting this impression from nearly every woman's profile asks for trimmed at a minimum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care if a guy is hairy or not. It's up to the guy and who am I to say if someone must be shaved or not?

Nothing unhygienic about having hair. It's obviously there for a reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer neatly trimmed over shaven on both sexes - but it'll a guys got a wild scraggly bush going on, I run a mile - yuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assumed the majority of people liked guys shaved or trimmed as well. I keep things neat and tidy. I don't like big pubes on me or anyone else. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If every woman stopped shaving her fanny the human race would die out according to this thread.

Do you really think a bloke is going to run off if he pulls your drawers down and finds a gorse bush rather than a smooth peach??

Most blokes would fuck a button hole on a fur coat if they can't find a fanny.

So ladies, stop being so insecure, and if you want your furry hole poking, come and give me a prod "

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham


"I am happy if the lady is shaved or unshaved because once you get down to things (excuse the pun) you are past caring, from a business point of view mags and websites are going mad over unshaven girls as its getting really popular in porn again."

It's definitely getting more popular in porn.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Just wonder why

To the same end that most men don't like licking a hairy pussy, most women probably don't enjoy (I know I don't) deepthroating a hairy cock and sucking hairy balls. Why is the stigma attached to women then, and not to men?"
There is a huge anti hairy brigade on here, not gender specific really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get a bum, crack and sack wax every 4 weeks. I'm trimmed up top but not bald.

I always have done.

Anyway I would say the stigma is definitely more towards blokes at the moment definitely.

Personally I don't mind whether a woman is smooth or not. As long as it's kept and not like a jungle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being hairy is a guy thing not a girl thing"

I think that sums it up

Hairy men are seen as masculine

Smooth is seen as femanine on a woman

By most

To a lot seeing a hairy muff would be like seeing a guy with his arm pits shaven, its just not the done thing

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Can't say my fuzzy muff has put any of our meets off... And we've never felt the need to mention it beforehand.

If people don't like it, they know where the door is.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the stigma is the same. I need to shave and most of the time all over as I am naturally quite hairy. Spend a fortune in Veet. Body hair is a bit of a turn off for men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a hairy pussy just rare to find these days

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