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How submissive are you?

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By *ertiVogts OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

I have been aware for a number of years that I have a submissive side but have only recently started to explore this.Do you have a submissive side too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was born submissive,it's an innate trait in me. Over the years I've become a little more aggressive in bed due to men demanding it or men abusing their position of trust. I've sort of put up safeguards I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Morning mate , ... Do you remember the scene in jaws ; when theyre on the boat showing off their scares?

*chuckles*

I'm not sure you can post pics of purple bottoms on this site? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking to me? ARE YOU TALKING TO ME?? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very submissive but I struggle to trust men with this side of me.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

No. I don't have a submissive side. I've tried it, I just don't do submission.

I can do as I'm told but the mental submitting aspect and handing over control is never there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be submissive for a woman doing all that she want think it's a fantasy of mine. And most guys I bet.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I would love to be submissive for a woman doing all that she want think it's a fantasy of mine. And most guys I bet. "

How'd you feel about cleaning cars and washing windows?

Be careful what you wish for.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's not really submission to let a woman take the lead and do what you want her to do to you...!

Most of the guys who have the dominant woman fantasy don't realise that what they want is bedroom roleplay, not an actual Domme!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be submissive, but now when people try to boss me about i feel like fucking them in the throat with my foot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not particularly. I like to keep control as much as possible

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

I like to loose control...

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not submissive at all.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I have been aware for a number of years that I have a submissive side but have only recently started to explore this.Do you have a submissive side too?"

I HAVE A VERY SUBMISSIVE SIDE AND DON'T YOU DARE DISAGREE WITH ME

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'm way to sexually assertive to have a submissive side

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Only when I want something

As I get older I have noticed a real dominant streak in me that keeps trying to come to the surface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have always had a submissive side, always backing down (or being shouted down!) in arguments with the ex, wanting to keep the peace.

Since I met Will though I have realised that I am sexually submissive - with him - and I love it!

It's a completely different way of being alive to me. I am in control at all times as the sub has the power. In the real world, yes I will still try and keep the peace, however I am no pushover anymore. And at work I am a complete control freak!!

#lovinglife

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would love to be submissive for a woman doing all that she want think it's a fantasy of mine. And most guys I bet. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very sub but it seems it has only been with one person. I miss my sub but dont have the time to put into finding someone to trust her with! Its frustrating as so few men truely understand domination. Maybe one day I will be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I have always had a submissive side, always backing down (or being shouted down!) in arguments with the ex, wanting to keep the peace.

Since I met Will though I have realised that I am sexually submissive - with him - and I love it!

It's a completely different way of being alive to me. I am in control at all times as the sub has the power. In the real world, yes I will still try and keep the peace, however I am no pushover anymore. And at work I am a complete control freak!!

#lovinglife

Sara"

All of the above! I'm only sexually submissive.. And I love giving control to my OH, in every other aspect of life I'm independent and in control xx

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops

Very submissive with one guy he has my trust and fair to say got inside my head and heart he doesn't even have to speak just a look and i know what he wants he turned me on with his words first then we met six yrs ago and slowly built up such a rapport i prob wont find the like again well not anyone that would make me feel as submissive as he does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all...quite the opposite...

That Isn't to say I like my partner's to be overly submissive either though....I like there to be a little 'fight'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been aware for a number of years that I have a submissive side but have only recently started to explore this.Do you have a submissive side too?"

Only with certain people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been aware for a number of years that I have a submissive side but have only recently started to explore this.Do you have a submissive side too?"

Not at all, does nothing for me, I'm most definitely dominant

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Yes as I love to be used x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes as I love to be used x"

I really can't stand feeling used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mildred is starting to explore this side of her at the moment

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By *issyyourbadWoman
over a year ago

Dorset

Yes love to be sub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say I'm quite submissive

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By *ungle VIPMan
over a year ago

Weedon


"Yes as I love to be used x"

You know I'd love to use you teaser....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not really submission to let a woman take the lead and do what you want her to do to you...!

Most of the guys who have the dominant woman fantasy don't realise that what they want is bedroom roleplay, not an actual Domme!"

Totally off putting when a man says they want to be dominated then produce a list of wants,tell you what you have to wear,call you mistress then don't let you do what you really want to do to them.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Sabrina is submissive its like a light switched on when dress and my true submissive personality released and I am so enjoying explore my submissive side with help of my mistress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm submissive but only to my Dom female of couple x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only sexually submissive, nothing turns me on more than being dominated. Anything outside of sex, however I'm a total ball breaker lol!

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria


"I'm only sexually submissive, nothing turns me on more than being dominated. Anything outside of sex, however I'm a total ball breaker lol! "

Me too! But Mr C is the only one allowed to dominate me. But if we meet a couple who we click with I'm sure that cud change. My choice tho. Miss C. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another submissive sexually here. However it's not a conscious thing, only one man flicked my sub switch. Other than that I love to be feisty.

Discipline please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup, owned sub here.

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By *ertiVogts OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Yup, owned sub here."

I envy you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on both sides of this dynamic, and I would say I'm a bratty sub with men, fighting back, name calling, pouting and acting like a child, but with women I can be very dominant, which is a side I knew I had, but is coming to the fore a kite more.

That isn't to say every single guy I meet I play wrestle and brat to, nor do I want to (consensually) beat up or top every girl I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very. I'm owned and love the dynamic

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Only when I want something

As I get older I have noticed a real dominant streak in me that keeps trying to come to the surface

"

Agree fully with the above lol

That's me too.... Although I've always known I'm dominant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

was a sub in my 20s for older women but im all dom now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally not. Just not in my nature....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Submissive but a total brat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very submissive with miss Nutella. Id let her do things to me that no one else ever would. Having said that, I'm not averse to pinning her down, ripping her clothes off and just taking her.

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

Switch, best of both worlds.

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

Iam submissive.I love being spanked by a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, not sub in the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Submissive but a total brat "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I like to keep control as much as possible "

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By *mandaboundTV/TS
over a year ago

Newton Le Willows

I am but how far is yet to be determined

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By *ertiVogts OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Not particularly. I like to keep control as much as possible "

I would love to chat to you about pegging but your filters won't allow it.

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By *B4everCouple
over a year ago

Erdington

B gets more submissive the hornier that she gets. She is a full on tease and completley in control before we start having fun but once we get playing together she'll do almost anything. She will get especially submissive if I talk dirty to her while we play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not particularly. I like to keep control as much as possible "

I like it when you've got control of me.

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