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Does bruising put you off?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A little if I'm honest

Depends on the extent and where abouts of the bruising

I think bum would be fine if people turned up with brushed eyes and faces I'd be weary

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

No but arnica or witchhazel are good for bruises.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm only talking about bdsm marking on my bum. Lol. I don't mean I'm a boxer!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as it didn't interfere with what I want to do no. If you grizzled whenever I slapped it I wouldn't be happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only talking about bdsm marking on my bum. Lol. I don't mean I'm a boxer!! "

I know

I covered your question then went onto people with brushes is general

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As long as it didn't interfere with what I want to do no. If you grizzled whenever I slapped it I wouldn't be happy "

I might not be able to take a proper beating for a few days but I'm not really suggesting that.

I'm just talking about a sexual meet. By all means smack me as you do me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help causing the bruises

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I can't help causing the bruises"

And I can't seem to say no to people who want to give me them.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

I love when my bottom is bruised but I also know some people are put off by it - I wouldn't set a meet up if I were still bruised just in case but as we usually only meet once or twice a month I am usually fine by my next playtime

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love when my bottom is bruised but I also know some people are put off by it - I wouldn't set a meet up if I were still bruised just in case but as we usually only meet once or twice a month I am usually fine by my next playtime "

This is what I'm trying to gauge really. If I shouldn't meet if I have bruising.

If it's severe, I don't think I'd want to anyway but if, like now, I just have a load of 'wrap around' marks and light bruises I'm tempted to still meet for sex.

This is one of the downsides of being a sub; I'm carrying marks most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I met a girl, she had come straight from her Dom . Black and purple and blue........and sooooo pretty!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

I could kiss it better

V xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I could kiss it better

V xxx "

You would be very welcome to

I also love the sensual side too. xx

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

not at all she is often bruised lol she loves it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?"

Hell no. It'd bring out my tender, loving side. I'd touch your bruises softly, ask you if they hurt, then I'd soothe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all my backside takes a slap or two, and Gimps back is often savaged.

Cat scratch celia

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?

Hell no. It'd bring out my tender, loving side. I'd touch your bruises softly, ask you if they hurt, then I'd soothe you

"

Where's the fun in that, pin wheels are good for bruised bottoms and violet wands !!

Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well we've not had anyone say it would put them off so far...... Getting tempted to go out for some fun tonight now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?

Hell no. It'd bring out my tender, loving side. I'd touch your bruises softly, ask you if they hurt, then I'd soothe you

Where's the fun in that, pin wheels are good for bruised bottoms and violet wands !!

Xx"

ha ha I'll give them a go too

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some blusher on soft bitch, ya know ya wanna!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My Domme hogtied me after a hard session once and used two pinwheels at once, pressed hard all over my cane lines and Crimson behind. Everyone was either laughing or cringing. I was wriggling around like a dying fish

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

It would put me off

I like unblemished skin

I wouldn't want to meet anyone if I had any bruises on me either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The rest of me is unblemished. Super soft and smooth. Perhaps I better stay in tonight after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I met a girl, she had come straight from her Dom . Black and purple and blue........and sooooo pretty!"

Your delight is perilously close to finding pleasure in abuse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've not gone out. Keeping my whip marks to myself and batch cooking instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?

Hell no. It'd bring out my tender, loving side. I'd touch your bruises softly, ask you if they hurt, then I'd soothe you

"

I'd smack them and ask if that hurt. And if you said no, smack you again.

Just sayin'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I met a girl, she had come straight from her Dom . Black and purple and blue........and sooooo pretty!

Your delight is perilously close to finding pleasure in abuse. "

It's not abuse - it's consensual BDSM.

Please don't ever confuse consensual BDSM with abuse. Consensual bruises are pretty. Non-consensual bruises are abuse.

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"I love when my bottom is bruised but I also know some people are put off by it - I wouldn't set a meet up if I were still bruised just in case but as we usually only meet once or twice a month I am usually fine by my next playtime

This is what I'm trying to gauge really. If I shouldn't meet if I have bruising.

If it's severe, I don't think I'd want to anyway but if, like now, I just have a load of 'wrap around' marks and light bruises I'm tempted to still meet for sex.

This is one of the downsides of being a sub; I'm carrying marks most of the time. "

If you and the person you are meeting are happy then no one else matters

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)


"Last time I met a girl, she had come straight from her Dom . Black and purple and blue........and sooooo pretty!"

I think they are pretty too

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By *ILLY aka SirslagWoman
over a year ago

Land of the Prince Bishops


"My bum is often bruised and so I feel reluctant to go out to play until it's clear but the un bruised time is getting shorter.

If I met you for sex would it put you off?"
would be jealous of the bruises

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't find any bruises pretty. I do rather like to see the results of a session on my body. Especially if they last a couple of weeks.

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