FabSwingers.com forum: sex after child birth

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just wonder how females feel about sex after pregnancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its compulsory if you want a Second Child

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave myself a month or so, my mouth was worn through blow jobs

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Depends on each individual. We were fucking again two weeks afterwards (and I'd had an episiotomy - just couldn't help myself!).

- Amy. x

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

"just wonder how females feel about sex after pregnancy "

Even a year afterwards we still struggle to find the time or inclination, we're usually too shattered to give sex the attention it deserves

Physically, everything was back to normal within a month though.

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By *pl4u300Couple
over a year ago

haverfordwet

We had sex 3 days after I gave birth to my son and right up to a few hours before I gave birth. As long as the woman is happy go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very much an individual thing and there is no right or wrong time scale.

Everyone deals with child birth differently and then you of course have the time restraints a small person can put on you as well as exhaustion and mentally feeling in the right place.

I've had 4 children and couldn't wait to get back to business, maybe I should have watched a bit more tele instead

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I was pregnant again within 8 weeks.... No bugger told me just how fertile you are after childbirth.

Took me three years to conceive first time!!!!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"just wonder how females feel about sex after pregnancy

Even a year afterwards we still struggle to find the time or inclination, we're usually too shattered to give sex the attention it deserves

Physically, everything was back to normal within a month though."

You are on a swinging site and have two veris from this year already so it can't be THAT bad!?!?

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'd heard it was dangerous for the woman to have sex too soon after?

Air bubbles trapped or something??

Or maybe the ex was just trying to put me off....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd heard it was dangerous for the woman to have sex too soon after?

Air bubbles trapped or something??

Or maybe the ex was just trying to put me off...."

That's a new one!!

It totally depends on the person and how they're feeling. Bearing in mind that they've just had a small person come out of there a little bit of sensitivity might go far

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By *illdeeCouple
over a year ago

nr Edinburgh

"I'd heard it was dangerous for the woman to have sex too soon after?

Air bubbles trapped or something??

Or maybe the ex was just trying to put me off...."

Reminds me of the old one, "Doctor, how soon can we have sex after childbirth? mmm, depends if you're put in the ward or a private room!"

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By *ikki ShooterTV/TS
over a year ago

Epsom

Tried it but the midwife pushed me off the bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many children do you have? Does the baby sleep at night and do you both work? Can you get a babysitter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a risk of infection in the first 4-6 weeks, there's a big open wound where the placenta was attached.

You're supposed to wait until after your six week check up with the GO although once the bleeding has stopped you're probably good to go

Ex midwife here lol

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

"There's a risk of infection in the first 4-6 weeks, there's a big open wound where the placenta was attached.

You're supposed to wait until after your six week check up with the GO although once the bleeding has stopped you're probably good to go

Ex midwife here lol

That sounds like what I heard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

two weeks after i had my daughter, he was pestering as we'd been unable to from 4 months preg, and i was curious to see if it felt different, for either of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd heard it was dangerous for the woman to have sex too soon after?

Air bubbles trapped or something??

Or maybe the ex was just trying to put me off...."

Your cervix is more open after childbirth (because it's been stretched by the baby) and takes about 6 weeks to become as closed as it can be, usually never goes back to pre-baby state. That's also the reason why you're more fertile afterwards.

I'd been told it's because you're more prone to infection but have googled and found air embolisms have caused death in two women, wish i hadn't read it now...http://www.nytimes.com/1998/10/06/science/deaths-linked-to-sex-after-childbirth.html

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex after pregnancy, i enjoyed it. Didn't really feel any different for me. Although after my 4th baby we went for it two weeks after and i was nervous because we'd been told to wait 6 weeks but i was desperate for sex, and it felt the same and i enjoyed it.

Everybody is different though, some people are fine to have sex and will do, others will have their own concerns or just shove sex to the back of their mind because they have other priorities.

I do know after my 9th pregnancy i went off sex because i just didn't want to risk getting pregnant at all. Eventually i focused more on oral sex and got well into that, giving and receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a risk of infection in the first 4-6 weeks, there's a big open wound where the placenta was attached.

You're supposed to wait until after your six week check up with the GO although once the bleeding has stopped you're probably good to go

Ex midwife here lol

Should say GP not GO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my second child 11 months after my first, they were both sections my doctor went mad at me

Apparently its not a good idea to get pregnant 8 weeks after a section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a risk of infection in the first 4-6 weeks, there's a big open wound where the placenta was attached.

You're supposed to wait until after your six week check up with the GO although once the bleeding has stopped you're probably good to go

Ex midwife here lol

Should say GP not GO

Must have been a while ago then because current wisdom says as soon as the woman is ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think its compulsory if you want a Second Child"

Assuming first time ain't twins/triplets etc...

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