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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

During an orgy, I was wondering what the etiquette is when it comes to the penetration part of the evening. If the man is wearing a condom when he is fucking a woman, if he doesn't cum and moves on to another woman to penetrate, does he put on a new condom for each partner, or just keep the first one on until he cums?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think a new condom is in order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always change it

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By *ove bi guysWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

New ... otherwise passing fluids from woman to woman

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Change in between. New balls please!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm risky sex for all!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"During an orgy, I was wondering what the etiquette is when it comes to the penetration part of the evening. If the man is wearing a condom when he is fucking a woman, if he doesn't cum and moves on to another woman to penetrate, does he put on a new condom for each partner, or just keep the first one on until he cums? "

change. Sexually transmitted diseases can be passed on from woman to woman via a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always change

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By *arrykathCouple
over a year ago

eastbourne

Always change it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always change it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Change in between. New balls please!"

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not."

Guys sometimes need telling but at any ones we have been to or organised people watch out for this and make it clear that it is required x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not."

Ah, the old what people say and what they actually do conundrum.

Our experience is that a lot of people will claim to practice safe sex in the cold light of day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not."

Well we stopped going to clubs because in most cases they do not change condoms .

However , what about fingers , and mouths ?

Same principle applies , and it rarely gets seen that hands are washed or mouthwash used .

Strange but true .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New. Plus changing between anal and vag. Hands - harder to police. Frankly one bout of cystitis is enough toake me über cautious....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would the female of your profile be happy to have a cock in her straight from another vagina? No protection for her,only the man wearing the condom. I can't believe people ask this question. Makes you think though of how many men move from woman to woman without changing a condom or washing. Hands can transmit infections so easily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would the female of your profile be happy to have a cock in her straight from another vagina? No protection for her,only the man wearing the condom. I can't believe people ask this question. Makes you think though of how many men move from woman to woman without changing a condom or washing. Hands can transmit infections so easily. "

I will have to say I've never ever seen guys or girls washing hands or mouths between partners . I think people that only play safe do sometimes forget this risk... We accept it and just get tested often x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not.

Well we stopped going to clubs because in most cases they do not change condoms .

However , what about fingers , and mouths ?

Same principle applies , and it rarely gets seen that hands are washed or mouthwash used .

Strange but true .

"

This is why I won't go to a club or meet couples I don't know. I don't want another woman's secretions inside me or in my eyes. Nor precum or cum now I think about it. I need a Dettol bath now

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not.

Well we stopped going to clubs because in most cases they do not change condoms .

However , what about fingers , and mouths ?

Same principle applies , and it rarely gets seen that hands are washed or mouthwash used .

Strange but true .

"

Yes I agree, I have never used gloves, dental dams or condoms for blowjobs, but on the rare occasion that these methods have been mentioned on the forum they seem to be met with almost universal condemnation. I can think of only one user who said they had ever used a dental dam.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not.

Well we stopped going to clubs because in most cases they do not change condoms .

However , what about fingers , and mouths ?

Same principle applies , and it rarely gets seen that hands are washed or mouthwash used .

Strange but true .

This is why I won't go to a club or meet couples I don't know. I don't want another woman's secretions inside me or in my eyes. Nor precum or cum now I think about it. I need a Dettol bath now "

I'm pouring Brobat in a bucket of boiling water to soak my bits as we speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

blimey - change it not just yourself to protect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would the female of your profile be happy to have a cock in her straight from another vagina? No protection for her,only the man wearing the condom. I can't believe people ask this question. Makes you think though of how many men move from woman to woman without changing a condom or washing. Hands can transmit infections so easily.

I will have to say I've never ever seen guys or girls washing hands or mouths between partners . I think people that only play safe do sometimes forget this risk... We accept it and just get tested often x"

I can't forget it,it's what stops me from going to clubs. I'm sounding a bit paranoid lol I just don't trust other people's hygiene rules.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought that it was probably "best practice" to change in between, but I was wondering if this did actually happen or not.

Well we stopped going to clubs because in most cases they do not change condoms .

However , what about fingers , and mouths ?

Same principle applies , and it rarely gets seen that hands are washed or mouthwash used .

Strange but true .

Yes I agree, I have never used gloves, dental dams or condoms for blowjobs, but on the rare occasion that these methods have been mentioned on the forum they seem to be met with almost universal condemnation. I can think of only one user who said they had ever used a dental dam."

Yes some people do ridicule safety precautions that don't fit with their own.

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"blimey - change it not just yourself to protect "

I'm asking as I have never been in an orgy and penetrated multiple women, and wanted to know what Actually happens because any orgy I am involved with, my wife will also be involved with and I want to keep both of us safe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"blimey - change it not just yourself to protect

I'm asking as I have never been in an orgy and penetrated multiple women, and wanted to know what Actually happens because any orgy I am involved with, my wife will also be involved with and I want to keep both of us safe. "

In my opinion I think its down to the two of you to ask what will be happening and decline or accept accordingly then ensure that it does actually happen.

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Does anyone remember the "safe sex" scene from naked gun where they wear full body condoms that cover them from head to toe? Maybe I should get some of those!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Has anyone suggested turning it inside out?

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By *LCC OP   Couple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Has anyone suggested turning it inside out? "

Hmm, it might work, or how about keep the same condom on, but use an alcohol hand rub as lube?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the parties I have been too and also hosted there has always been safe sex with condoms and also changing condoms if playing with another women. But like someone as already said its up to the two people playing making sure they are being safe and taking care.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always wear condoms for penetration but must admit don't don marigolds for manual stimulation

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Would've thought it was obvious to change it when going from one woman to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"blimey - change it not just yourself to protect

I'm asking as I have never been in an orgy and penetrated multiple women, and wanted to know what Actually happens because any orgy I am involved with, my wife will also be involved with and I want to keep both of us safe. "
I think people are too quick to criticise you when you are asking the correct questions to get yourself informed and up to speed so that you can make informed decisions about what you need to do and the pitfalls to look out for

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By *e ja vue 2Couple
over a year ago

MANCHESTER

Think we should all stop this sex lark its far to dangerous....lets all just wank and live longer

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By *ibanditMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Change for every hole, them's the rules.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"During an orgy, I was wondering what the etiquette is when it comes to the penetration part of the evening. If the man is wearing a condom when he is fucking a woman, if he doesn't cum and moves on to another woman to penetrate, does he put on a new condom for each partner, or just keep the first one on until he cums? "

Nah just take it off turn it inside out and refit.

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