FabSwingers.com forum: Condom shortage?

By *it of fun cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

We were wondering if there is a shortage of condoms in the world??

We went to Cupids last night in Manchester and firstly have to say we had a great night at a nice club but.... MrsH decided she was going to be naughty and give the guys a treat so we went to the orgy room and began playing when we soon joined by about 11 single guys, all very well behaved and respectfull however when it came time for the real fun to start 6 of them did not even have a condom!!!

We are gobsmacked that single guys who want to play at a club do not carry condoms, surley in this day and age they are the one thing you would think they would have! Mind you their loss!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am unlikely to play with a single gent that is not prepared, it shows lack of respect and too much of a chancer for my liking.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"We were wondering if there is a shortage of condoms in the world??

We are gobsmacked that single guys who want to play at a club do not carry condoms, surley in this day and age they are the one thing you would think they would have! Mind you their loss!!

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Have to say this is one of my biggest bugbear as well......

I have been in that position,where other single guys have come up to me and asked if i had any spare....

usually a stern "fuck off...they sell em downstairs... get ya money out ya pocket and buy some" usually does the trick.... but the amount of single guys who go to clubs and aren't what i would call "prepared" scares me....or the fact they are happy to play bareback!

and it is the same people time after time after time........

come up to the north east sometime and I am sure we will show ya some proper northern hospitality...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what is it with guys? If i can buy condoms when doing the weekly shop..what is stopping them?

There is really no excuse in this day and age not to have any available for play!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like forgetting your golf clubs when going to play 18 holes! All single men in clubs should be fully equipped with condoms. I can understand guys who are part of a couple not taking any if they only intend to have sex with their partner but otherwise its ridiculous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was meeting i always had them handy - surprised how many thought i wouldn't notice too! like hell!

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By *oDownEasyMan
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"Its like forgetting your golf clubs when going to play 18 holes!"

But playing 18 holes at a swingers club...now THAT would be one hell of a night!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am never without, i have a special little condom tin thing which is very discreet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When Im at a club I wrap my towel round me then roll the top a couple of times with a condom in the waist. When the towel comes off... Condom ready.. Simples...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were wondering if there is a shortage of condoms in the world??

We are gobsmacked that single guys who want to play at a club do not carry condoms, surley in this day and age they are the one thing you would think they would have! Mind you their loss!!

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Maybe they think after spending all they have to to get in a club its the females or couples who should provide the condoms.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

Maybe they think after spending all they have to to get in a club its the females or couples who should provide the condoms."

I think in a sense they are right.... but shouldn't people be ready for all eventualities and no have to rely on others....

like i said in the club that I go to.. its the same people who do it... and manage to gain themselves a rather unfortunate reputation...

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By *ertnbeckyCouple
over a year ago

oldham

when we run low on condoms becky nips into the family planning and gets them for free

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Ive met with a few people who turn up to meet me for fun and dont have condoms with them but anyone whos met me knows i alwasy come with more than enough supplys lol

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By *imal75Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I say If you can pay to get into the club, Buy yourself a drink...You know you can buy condoms!

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

it is the same on meets, not just in clubs...the amount of guys who just expect that I will supply them or that they can go bareback is scary. The way I look at it, I have done my bit on my side of birth control, I think it is only fair that the guy does his bit, which not only covers birth control but sexual safety as well.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Its weird when people see me and my "little bag" and take the piss.. however.. when they "just run out of condoms" as they say.. then they come running to who?

Personally, I think its an easy tell tale sign of those (single guys) that are married/cheating and popped into the club for their "bit of fun on the side" but as they can't guarantee they'll get any, don't bother buying any (and don't want to risk evidence of a pack-of-3 being found in their pockets when wife-at-home does the laundry.

Oh well...

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

reminds me once at a club a guy had towel wrapped round him ...and a comdom stuck to it with a safety pin

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

"Its weird when people see me and my "little bag" and take the piss.. however.. when they "just run out of condoms" as they say.. then they come running to who?

Oh well..."

I have been very grateful of your bag of tricks;-) condoms...lube...lucasade...lol...what more can you ask for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in this day and age safe sex is a must and using the 'someone else will have one' or 'it will be okay' is frankly irrisponsible.

In clubs, its not that difficult to obtain them.

Better that everyone gets them out before play and laughs about it than no one does and chances it.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Yes, i often find condoms can be a bit short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, i often find condoms can be a bit short.

Laughs my fuckin ass off!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

the after8club provides the condoms. why can't other clubs- they can go to the CASH clinic and get full boxes at a time if they saywhat it for

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It irritates me when I'm dogging when I'm sucking off some monster cock and then it turns out the guy hasn't got a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am unlikely to play with a single gent that is not prepared, it shows lack of respect and too much of a chancer for my liking.

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plenty of chancers on fab who pull this trick...the amount of single guys who"forget" never surprises us.

jase

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

the after8club provides the condoms. why can't other clubs- they can go to the CASH clinic and get full boxes at a time if they saywhat it for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have noticed this too at the club i play at....single guys with n o condoms, yet still expect to play....very big no no with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both times I've been to a club, I've come armed to the teeth with blobs. I know clubs usually sell them anyway, but it helps to know you have them in your size, that you've got all bases covered in case by some miracle they run out, and plus I'd feel like a goon in one of the playrooms saying, "Right, hold that thought, I'll be two minutes running up and down stairs sporting a major hard-on to get some more"....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i forgot this but i think it fits with the thread.

i was in the middle of a little orgy and i had my condom tin thing with 3 condoms in it (had more in the locker).

well i left them on my towel by the bed, i already went through two and when i went for the third the other guy nicked my last bloody condom!!!! i was not amused! more so in a "you cheeky bastered" shock kind off mood

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have them, after all its for my protection just as much as the woman i am looking to play with.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

cause they are miserable feckers and expect others to provide em.. me thinks!!!

and chancers in the hope of bareback..

in a non slagging off fashion of other swingers..

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

it is oh so easy!,after checking in and after a shower i go to the bar and buy a bottled water and 2-3 condoms,never a problem as to where to keep them as i wear a couple of those"help for heroes" charity wrist bands and i tuck them in there!.

it's really that simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would never moan about men not carrying their own condoms or even running out, don’t do clubs, but if we did we’d prefer supplying our own, and yes we agree its common sense to have them, but all parties should be responsible and have them and not just the men.

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By *o DaddyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

it is quite comical when involved in some fun at chams or r3tro club and a guy suddenly dicovers that he has not got any condoms on his person!,up comes the cry "can i borrow a condom please?"not wanting to lose the moment and to have to go to the bar to buy a couple he pleads for help!.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Its weird when people see me and my "little bag" and take the piss.. however.. when they "just run out of condoms" as they say.. then they come running to who?

Oh well...

I have been very grateful of your bag of tricks;-) condoms...lube...lucasade...lol...what more can you ask for

Lol,.. you won't believe how many years I had been to a certain midlands club (armed to the teeth).. and only just found out this year they provide condoms (was probably getting more lucozade at the time, lol)

As for clubs providing condoms, I think its great that clubs do, however as another poster has said that other clubs should (like After8 to quote the poster) I don't fully agree. club's "don't have to", but its a nice to have and know its there. Its like going for a drive without your drivers license and "hoping not to get stopped", not quite right.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Let there be a shortage no more! I have found a couple of unused 12-packs.

Oh hang on - they are a couple of years out of date. Damn, has it been that long since the wife has let me shag her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe there should be gum clinics next to swinging clubs. Then they could get checked out and get a bag full of condoms. Then they'd be kitted out for the fun stuff. Thats where i get mine from..

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Maybe there should be gum clinics next to swinging clubs. Then they could get checked out and get a bag full of condoms. Then they'd be kitted out for the fun stuff. Thats where i get mine from..

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They never seem to keen giving me any...although I did manage to wangle some latex-free ones out of them

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Why do so many people seem to think it is the guy's job to carry the condoms?

I assume females/couples are a willing part of the activity.... and also have equal responsibility.

If I want to be fucked by 6 guys I make sure I have at least 8 condoms... no harm in having spares.

I expect them to wear them, so I believe I should not rely on them to always provide them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe there should be gum clinics next to swinging clubs. Then they could get checked out and get a bag full of condoms. Then they'd be kitted out for the fun stuff. Thats where i get mine from..

They never seem to keen giving me any...although I did manage to wangle some latex-free ones out of them"

yes, they don't seem to have an even handed approach on condoms. Some clinics offer them, most offer them to men and my local gum clinic has never offered me any at all. In fact as a woman I have never been offered any at any clinic I attended. I think it's crap that you should have to "wangle" them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were wondering if there is a shortage of condoms in the world??

We are gobsmacked that single guys who want to play at a club do not carry condoms, surley in this day and age they are the one thing you would think they would have! Mind you their loss!!

Rant over

Maybe they think after spending all they have to to get in a club its the females or couples who should provide the condoms."

Idiots if they do, sexual health is our own personal priority, not to rely on someone else

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