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geography SUCKS!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Most of the people I really really want to meet are stinking miles away...

Therefore geography sucks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is where cars, public transport and hotels come in handy

Having the time is my only issue oh and the Women agreeing to meet me

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Public transport isn't always cheap, same with hotels. But I have the issue that I'd like a social meet first & I've found alot of guys don't. Plus I seem to attract guy's who live miles away too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most of the people I really really want to meet are stinking miles away...

Therefore geography sucks!!!"

Treat yourself to a nice weekend away somewhere with the chance of a social drink with someone while you're there, if it leads to more then it's a bonus, if not then you'll still have a good weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only barriers to meeting are the ones you place upon yourself. Distance is just another minor inconvenience that 'can' be overcome if you want it to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind a bit of distance, nice to get away from seeing the same things day in day out. Embrace it & look for women who live on the coast like me!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Try living in Arse End...usually costs me a fortune to get laid

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Buy a georeduction machine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My geography sucks. I thought Andover was in Holland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan in advance & make a dirty weekend of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plan ahead.....

I've a few plans for friends who live a good way away....

It's only Britain, I've driven almost the length of it in under a day, so its pretty tiny on the grand scene of things...

Few hundred miles is nothing if you have the time and money....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only barriers to meeting are the ones you place upon yourself. Distance is just another minor inconvenience that 'can' be overcome if you want it to be."

Here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get this although we are not averse to travelling some considerable distances for the right situation.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Find a woman who doesn't mind travelling, some of us do have cars and are willing to go the distance for the right person

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!"

1st stop..........STOKE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!"

You'd take those kind of chances with your hair before a meet?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!

You'd take those kind of chances with your hair before a meet? "

Plaits. Job done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only barriers to meeting are the ones you place upon yourself. Distance is just another minor inconvenience that 'can' be overcome if you want it to be.

Here here "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, its called demographics even (Fate)?, all the ones you wanna meet and fancy are never in your town and they who wanna meet you, always miles away, usually in northern England for me, there are the most horneyest lasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I agree, it sure does.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try Living in Mid Wales.

Everywhere is a distance.

Not that I mind driving but the fact your not "local" tends to put most ladies off a meet.

I agree Geography Sucks !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan in advance & make a dirty weekend of it."

Distance is a obstacle that can be overcome if you both want to meet,

But I wouldn't travel a great distance just for a social unless it was a club meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try living at the north pole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living at the north pole "
Or penge lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love that the people we like live far away. It gives us an excuse to visit new places and have weekends away in different parts of the country. Geography is awesome!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living at the north pole Or penge lol "

At least there's a hedge there Shag, more chance of a fumble behind there than round the back of my igloo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!"

One day a computer company will make teleportation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living at the north pole Or penge lol

At least there's a hedge there Shag, more chance of a fumble behind there than round the back of my igloo!! "
lol your right there and yes its abit colder in your igloo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it isn't as simple as if you want to overcome distance you can.....when I only get a few hours to meet midweek evenings, there is a strict limit to how far I can travel.....so yes, geography sucks. that's why it's taken 2 years to meet up with some of my sexy friends. ....yes in some cases you can get there eventually but it's extremely frustrating in the meantime!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it isn't as simple as if you want to overcome distance you can.....when I only get a few hours to meet midweek evenings, there is a strict limit to how far I can travel.....so yes, geography sucks. that's why it's taken 2 years to meet up with some of my sexy friends. ....yes in some cases you can get there eventually but it's extremely frustrating in the meantime!!"

Yep and that's why it pays to be patient with those you really click with and will meet at some point!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan in advance & make a dirty weekend of it.

Distance is a obstacle that can be overcome if you both want to meet,

But I wouldn't travel a great distance just for a social unless it was a club meet"

God no! I'd want naughties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Plan in advance & make a dirty weekend of it.

Distance is a obstacle that can be overcome if you both want to meet,

But I wouldn't travel a great distance just for a social unless it was a club meet

God no! I'd want naughties "

I will have to check the hotels out in your area

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"My geography sucks. I thought Andover was in Holland "

Gosh, I thought I was bad. Glad to know there are other worse than me

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Try living in Aberdeen! Even Glasgow and Edinburgh are 2.5 hours away, never mind anywhere else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!

You'd take those kind of chances with your hair before a meet?

Plaits. Job done."

The plaits have a second use aswell..they make a sturdier leash substitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant drive and cant travel. luckily fb doesnt mind travelling to me, just wished he lived nearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try living in Aberdeen! Even Glasgow and Edinburgh are 2.5 hours away, never mind anywhere else "
We're coming up to Aberdeen in a few weeks time to visit a lovely lady

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Try living in Aberdeen! Even Glasgow and Edinburgh are 2.5 hours away, never mind anywhere else We're coming up to Aberdeen in a few weeks time to visit a lovely lady

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I know, but that has been planned for a while though hasn't it?

I do travel to social etc, but flights can be expensive and timings are not the best either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, we've had it planned for a bit. Love heading up that way.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find this too but try to meet half way. Our favourite club is 3.5 hrs round trip but still go there. It just means quality over quantity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move then.

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Most of the people I really really want to meet are stinking miles away...

Therefore geography sucks!!!"

Now look on the bright side for a moment and think of all the advantages:

You live in an enlightened age when swinging is acceptable rather than 100 years ago.

You live in a free country where you can carry on this lifestyle rather than living in some middle eastern countries where you could pay a serious penalty.

You have affordable transport to travel in moderate comfort where you want to go, not model T Fords now you know.

You have the internet where you can meet peeps to have fun with even if they live far away, unlike 100 years ago when all you had was the Royal Mail.

And you're complaining? You've never had it so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone really catches my eye, then I couldn't care how far they are away, I'm going to meet them. It might take sometime to plot and plan, but that's much of the fun of it for me.

(Of course I do make sure they want to meet me too before I begin planning!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone really catches my eye, then I couldn't care how far they are away, I'm going to meet them. It might take sometime to plot and plan, but that's much of the fun of it for me.

(Of course I do make sure they want to meet me too before I begin planning!)"

Yeah that's what all the stalkers say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does suck, but I just suck it up with regret. I don't travel and I can't have people staying here too long. Apart from one exceptional exception, I stay local.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Story of my life!

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By *irimusMan
over a year ago

Burnley


"I want a jetpack. We should have them by now, dammit!"

Amen to that....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Story of my life! "

Mine too and I'm deeper into the Welsh wilds than you are

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