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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

well - it depends on the person with them. I have seen size 10's with all the allure of Monroe with literally 100's that you would never turn down if you got an invite or a hello from. Then again - I have seen profiles that have an emptied bin on their bed with only 2 verifications who I wouldn't touch with a barge pole.

All personal taste really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

When certain things have been said repeatedly, when it all gets samey

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7632. Anything above that would simply be ridiculous. Imagine, 7633. Ugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

More than one is scandalous and shocking behavior

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

Just enough to demonstrate that you're pretty reliable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7632. Anything above that would simply be ridiculous. Imagine, 7633. Ugh!"

Saw a lass with 7634 once.....I felt almost sick.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't make you more genuine, but yes lets say 5 is enough lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"7632. Anything above that would simply be ridiculous. Imagine, 7633. Ugh!

Saw a lass with 7634 once.....I felt almost sick....."

7633 is a good number, 7634 is ripping the box out of it

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

A verification system on Fab, will never tell you how many people the person has slept with either, just to say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A verification system on Fab, will never tell you how many people the person has slept with either, just to say. "

oh really

Thanks for clearing that up mate.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"7632. Anything above that would simply be ridiculous. Imagine, 7633. Ugh!"

But what if they're all social's & cam verifications?

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

So do you have to stop swinging once you have hit the magic 'off putting' number of veris?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A verification system on Fab, will never tell you how many people the person has slept with either, just to say.

oh really

Thanks for clearing that up mate....."

Hahaha

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

More than me. Why should they get all the fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it 15?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes if u read them you see they go to socials, clubs, party's or are organisers of such, so no I don't find any ammount cringeworthy as I've got a fair few and there just me nattering 90% of the time, but if I put my summary up alot of people would assume I shag alot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My veri's could be misleading, as half of them(in fact more) are social and the rest are meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

They don't, a very just tell me either person meets or person just webcams, I don't care if only 1 very or a thousand, its a swingers site, I don't expect people to have just a few veris lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Depends.

Some see hundreds and think "god they get about a bit" and avoid if they took time to read them all they will likely see most arent from play meets but socials. The time frame over them being recieved shouls be considered also. On my old profile I had 157 verifications only 9 of which were play meets and gained in over 3 years

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All good points guys, thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't help but look at the amount of veri's and the length the profile's been on but I wouldn't put a number on it...

They could have one veri that say's something that could put you off your dinner or 10 that make you wanna work on that inital message you could be sending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

For some more than 2 or 3 .

For others more .

For some they don't care how many .

We have 98 in 4 months and that's cringe worthy to some and not to others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and we know they were all awesome in bed and can last for hours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's a verification for someone to use in the future.

It was midnight in the forest when she first appeared. Like the plantation around me I had wood. The sexiest Beech I’d ever seen. My sap was rising. I want to fuck you. Oakay she replied. Giving her tits a quick Norwegian Spruce I pushed my Lodgepole Pine deep inside her Box. Oh my Junipers she exclaimed. She definitely had given me the Hornbeam. Treemendous sex.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I'm not really put off by the numbers, but I do look at:

Are they by meeting or by cam?

When was the most recent?

Do the verifications match with who they say they are looking for? ie Mg couples, Men, etc.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

6522.3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

We used to think a lot of veri's were a put off but not all of them are about 'playing' - some are just social meets. I guess read them and make your mind up from what you read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a trick question guys....

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

my arguement would always be that it isn't the number of veri's that would make a profile cringeworthy... but what is written in a veri.....

plus who is going to be the arbitor of how many is too many? over what period of time? social veri's or play veri's and are you going to differentiate? ect ect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's a verification for someone to use in the future.

It was midnight in the forest when she first appeared. Like the plantation around me I had wood. The sexiest Beech I’d ever seen. My sap was rising. I want to fuck you. Oakay she replied. Giving her tits a quick Norwegian Spruce I pushed my Lodgepole Pine deep inside her Box. Oh my Junipers she exclaimed. She definitely had given me the Hornbeam. Treemendous sex."

haha

or you could just say she has nice glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy?

my arguement would always be that it isn't the number of veri's that would make a profile cringeworthy... but what is written in a veri.....

plus who is going to be the arbitor of how many is too many? over what period of time? social veri's or play veri's and are you going to differentiate? ect ect"

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By *oetic licenceCouple
over a year ago

Mellor

I have to say, it depends how long you've been on, we have on for 4 years, not a lot of verifications for that amount of time, but maybe too many if people don't know how long we've been on as it only say been a member for over a year

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I tend not to meet up with anyone new nowadays and don't write or expect verifications from people I've already met.

As far as the content is concerned, whilst it is true that a veri is unlikely to appear on a profile if it does not say nice things, they can also collectively confirm particular characteristics which build up a consistent picture that may appeal to those looking for such traits in a potential playmate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have to say, it depends how long you've been on, we have on for 4 years, not a lot of verifications for that amount of time, but maybe too many if people don't know how long we've been on as it only say been a member for over a year "

Very good point, I believe this site started in 2006 thus anyone's profile that says they have been a member for "over a year" could quite possibly have been a member for anything up to nine years.

Thank you x

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"A verification system on Fab, will never tell you how many people the person has slept with either, just to say.

oh really

Thanks for clearing that up mate....."

Good luck in finding that what you see as off putting then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does not bother me how many they have

Its a swingers site people come here for sex so I'm not going to judge them for getting it

Not everyone wants to find someone to meet exclusively some are here to find fun with multiple people, isn't that the point of swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does not bother me how many they have

Its a swingers site people come here for sex so I'm not going to judge them for getting it

Not everyone wants to find someone to meet exclusively some are here to find fun with multiple people, isn't that the point of swinging?"
Good point, it seems more about getting verified than swinging almost don't it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *ire meet GasolineCouple
over a year ago

Reading


"A verification system on Fab, will never tell you how many people the person has slept with either, just to say.

oh really

Thanks for clearing that up mate....."

we can all sleep better now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a lady has 100's of veris, it puts me off. I'm not being judgemental, I just know we're not looking for the same thing, Other than that, I take no interest in veris, I'd rather find out for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is three.....the magic number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who displays a load of them is lets be frank a slapper.

I'm always amazed since i joined here who some people will admit to sleeping with tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who displays a load of them is lets be frank a slapper.

I'm always amazed since i joined here who some people will admit to sleeping with tbh.

"

Seeing as we are all on here looking for strangers to meet for sex some would say we were all slappers regardless of the amount we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone who displays a load of them is lets be frank a slapper.

I'm always amazed since i joined here who some people will admit to sleeping with tbh.

Seeing as we are all on here looking for strangers to meet for sex some would say we were all slappers regardless of the amount we are looking for "

But not all of us are here "looking for strangers to meet for sex" of course some are, including us, and fair play to them. But a there are some that just like using the forums, the chat rooms, and of course the picture pervs. TBH id say the majority on this site actually have no plans to meet anyone at all.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

No such thing as too many verifications, its a sex site, its about having sex.

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By *ain n MableWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

And seven verifications in a week is good going OP. Lol. Good for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

i had 3 verifications by cam on a previous profile last year and people said i was a timewaster because all i did was show on cam lol, surely its proof im real but your beautiful and hi im paul

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By *orkieLassCouple
over a year ago

York

All my verifications are from socials as I'm obviously still a virgin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aww lass wanna be my 291fst veri lol

been here since fab opened met loads of folk 3rd profile so id hate to think how many id have from back then also .

but who cares. to me it means they use the site to meet folk of same mind to party go for drinks with and maybe full fill a few fantasies ....

live n let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The number of veris doesn't really put me off, after all it is a sex site and if you choose to practice safe sex then why worry when your going to have a great time.. From what I've seen a lot tend to be through social events at clubs etc but saying that there is a few around here who seen happy to pump anything who shows an interest! It's a sex site enjoy it is what I say and play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoke, mirrors and verifications.

Nothing is real except what is.

Truth?

Lies?

Indiscretion?

Too many or too few or none at all but sleep around by picking up random people in bars?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy?

i had 3 verifications by cam on a previous profile last year and people said i was a timewaster because all i did was show on cam lol, surely its proof im real but your beautiful and hi im paul"

It shows you're real but doesn't tell us whether you show up to meets..

On another recent thread I read that, according to the FAQs, cam verification for men is no longer accepted, although the verification page still enables that to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised the guy who always mentions how many he has whenever he posts hasn't been along yet, must be busy getting another one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I'm put off is when they state the man attends gang bangs,cinemas,piss parties etc. Something in my head just says no. I think it's the mindset of the man that puts me off. I don't like porn of that ilk,even though some women might enjoy what the men do to the it's not my thing. I sometimes think that the men who don't get any joy from other avenues go down that one to guarantee sex or sexual contact. I could be totally wrong but my brain is in charge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy?

i had 3 verifications by cam on a previous profile last year and people said i was a timewaster because all i did was show on cam lol, surely its proof im real but your beautiful and hi im paul

It shows you're real but doesn't tell us whether you show up to meets..

On another recent thread I read that, according to the FAQs, cam verification for men is no longer accepted, although the verification page still enables that to happen "

A cam verification should state that you saw their face/s and had a real time conversation with them. I would accept that,it's more accurate than 10 year old pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm surprised the guy who always mentions how many he has whenever he posts hasn't been along yet, must be busy getting another one! "

I know just the guy......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of mine are social veris there's people I've seen with loads majority are from attending socials or parties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok I have no "veri's" (yet)!!!!!

But just reading some a lot are given for meetings at socials & the like..

Others are worded in ways that make you think did they or didn't they?

If you are intimidated by the amount of veri's someone has on here maybe the lifestyle isn't for you!!

Who's to say the member who only has two veri's on there profile isn't shagging God knows how many ppl at a club every night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loads of veries make someone look like they don't have a life away from fab ...

(In my opinion)

Very off putting !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of veries make someone look like they don't have a life away from fab ...

(In my opinion)

Very off putting !!! "

What if that person picked up 10 veri's at one nights social?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy? "

20 is too many

That is why I will stay at 19

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Loads of veries make someone look like they don't have a life away from fab ...

(In my opinion)

Very off putting !!!

What if that person picked up 10 veri's at one nights social?"

Well yes that would be different and I would read and realise this from many veri's . But serial fabber's , people that live and breath this scene, there only 'friends' are fab people and they spend their lives clocking up veri's ; these type of people are what i call 'Jeremy Kylers' and I wouldn't entertain such people... standards and all that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"At what point do veri's go from being encouraging to off putting!

I understand the whole veri thing and it is good to see them on profiles, plus can HELP to prove the profile is genuine.

However at what point do the numbers start to become cringworthy?

20 is too many

That is why I will stay at 19 "

hehehe, love it..

Lets hopr you don't meet anyone at the 4 meets you've got advertised, hehehe xXx

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

35 is way too many,even though I've been on the site for over 3 years, so I show just the 8.

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