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Would me showering upset you?

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By *atcouple OP   Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

One for the ladies:

We often go to swinging parties and have a great time.

However, I am a bit of a clean freak and after having sex with a lady I like to be fresh and smelling nice for the next. Once in the past this upset a nice woman I had sex with because I went into the shower to freshen up. I didn't mean to infer that I needed cleaning up just that I wanted to be fresh as a daisy for the next.

How can I do this without upsetting the lady I just had sex with?

Sensible answers please because I'm serious........

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Try showering with the lady next time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure you should have to justify yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

use wipes? quick easy and you will smell fresh

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"Try showering with the lady next time."

Very good plan I've done this and never got to play with anyone else as the shower led to more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me as I'm a bit of a clean freak too. Maybe it maybe ......for the next bit (that you have mentioned twice) that pissed her off. Depends how diplomatically you put this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always shower after. But as we only play with one fb couple we know, we all tend to dive in together and wash each other down.

Even if we play just as a couple together, we still hit the showers after.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect a man to shower after having sex with me or before me. Do people not shower in between?

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By *ULL N SUBCouple
over a year ago

tunbridge well

Just had brillant session.had 2sum shower before

All wet and soapy and then a 3sum shower after. Little washes inbetween

Wow wow wow!!!!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

I'd always take any opportunity to shower.. with or without a bubbly companion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Im a clean freak too. Unfortunately some dont have the same need. Went to a club last yr. I think i was the only 1 there who used the 1 shower they had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy did this with me on our first private meet and I did wonder if it was to do with me lol but the next time we met he asked if I wanted to join him! That was much better xx

In a club I would be pleased to be honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would appreciate the fact u were fresh...keep showering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to give everything a wipe down with a baby wipe before play too and carry a torch so I can check everythings in order lol

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Its maybe more likely how you excuse yourself and explain it too her rather than the actual shower.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Try showering with the lady next time."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always like to give everything a wipe down with a baby wipe before play too and carry a torch so I can check everythings in order lol"
a torch!!!! Hope its not a maglite

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

The opposite. If you didn't shower I would be offended. Nothing worse than someone jumping from play to play without a good scrub!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a hygiene freak too, and would expect someone to wash after their first playmate of the night before playing with me so I wouldn't be offended when you then maintained that level of hygiene after we'd played.

I wash my 'ladyparts' after every time I have a pee and jay knows I won't play if I'm not fresh out the shower. There's no way I would play with 2 separate people consecutively in a club without washing in between.

Did you explain why to her? She was maybe a bit paranoid already & you showering somehow confirmed her fears in her head? It's not your fault though & you weren't insensitive. Juicy x

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

When I play at clubs after having some fun I will always shower I just thought it was the normal thing to do and I like to be clean

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By *MLETCouple
over a year ago

leeds


"One for the ladies:

We often go to swinging parties and have a great time.

However, I am a bit of a clean freak and after having sex with a lady I like to be fresh and smelling nice for the next. Once in the past this upset a nice woman I had sex with because I went into the shower to freshen up. I didn't mean to infer that I needed cleaning up just that I wanted to be fresh as a daisy for the next.

How can I do this without upsetting the lady I just had sex with?

Sensible answers please because I'm serious........"

get some cheeky wash

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol "

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I suppose it depends on how long you leave it...If you leap off her like your arse is on fire and you can't wait to wash her off like the ex of a friend of mine used to do then prepare for offence...lol "

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