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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same reason why black blue brown red yellow and green guys do. Because they don't like rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get racist i get erect lol

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

people get themselevs in a tizzy over the smallest thing on here......

God bless them if they have to deal with big life issues if the fact that they didn't get the option for a shag bothers them so........ or no reply, or a pissy message, or they have blond hair and ginger hair people are being looked for.....

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Never had that at all

In fact there's a lot of guys who would be happy for me tell them all about it because they like the idea

But I'm not interested in doing that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I am only into black guys, I get abuse all the time on here but I also get white men saying they love it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I am only into black guys, I get abuse all the time on here but I also get white men saying they love it lol."
some of us do x

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs "

Heaven forbid a man would do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol I am not jelous, why should we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't the question be 'why do guys get jealous' as opposed to making it seem like only white guys do!?

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

Racists..on fab?

Surely not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Different people have things to check off their list. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion but should never force it onto others. We only live once so get checking things off your lists

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they should make a rule that you cant write it on profiles, to make it sound friendlier, why was it outlawed way back in Alabama in the 60s and rest of the world?. Internet next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

I think you hit the nail on the head, they are racist, it has nothing to do with a woman enjoying herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is a white guy... But I enjoy bbc... He enjoys watching it too ... Some people just dont know what there moaning about, dont knock it til u try it!!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

Heaven forbid a man would do that "

Only meaning I can understand completely a preference to one type or another as a basis of initial attraction but some people (both genders) seem to blindly disregard entire groups as unattractive while selecting others as attractive irrespective of actual appearance

I would like to add that I prefer bigger girls/big boobs and thought Hattie had a cheeky smile that was very sexy not forgetting matron telling me off ??

Thanks for the block by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with seeing a white lady enjoying some bbc. Its actually a pleasure to watch.

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

Oh and wouldn't touch Cheryl either but that's after watching/listening/reading about her opposed to her looks

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"people get themselevs in a tizzy over the smallest thing on here......

God bless them if they have to deal with big life issues if the fact that they didn't get the option for a shag bothers them so........ or no reply, or a pissy message, or they have blond hair and ginger hair people are being looked for....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Merely a spectator here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a case of racism it's more dick envy but then that would be the same as a female saying hung only.

I don't think anybody gets jealous over skin colour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn....am I missing out on the abuse again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do they? In what way are they racist?

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

Theres enough people on here to suit all tastes im sure so dont see peoples preferences as a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn....am I missing out on the abuse again??"

Wow...I could help with a mild form of abuse if required, administered to that fine behind mainly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

In what way do they become racist?

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"Merely a spectator here"

Sit back and enjoy the mudslinging that will develop soon enough lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs "

This says more about you than you probably intended. This, for most is FANTASY! If you have a white partner, perhaps you're seeking something different. Comparing extremes Cheryl and Hattie just makes you look stupid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Merely a spectator here

Sit back and enjoy the mudslinging that will develop soon enough lol"

lol

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

jealous people in general would probably have made an interesting topic

jealous "specially aimed at one group" people....... not so much

its really more of a shot across the bow than it is actually a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband is a white guy... But I enjoy bbc... He enjoys watching it too ... Some people just dont know what there moaning about, dont knock it til u try it!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Gets the haribos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

Heaven forbid a man would do that

Only meaning I can understand completely a preference to one type or another as a basis of initial attraction but some people (both genders) seem to blindly disregard entire groups as unattractive while selecting others as attractive irrespective of actual appearance

I would like to add that I prefer bigger girls/big boobs and thought Hattie had a cheeky smile that was very sexy not forgetting matron telling me off ??

Thanks for the block by the way "

Apologies, presumed there was another big girl hater, from how i interpreted your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about if she enjoys a small black cock, I've met lots of black guys and believe it or not they are not all well hung

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs "

I'm going to copy here the exact same thing that I put on another post. Having a preference for black guys does not mean that I will sleep that every black guy I come across, I still have to be physically and mentally attracted to them!

"Sex and intimacy is always going to be more enjoyable and intense when you're with somebody that physically and sexually stimulates you and turns you on.

For me I find that lust and attraction in black guys and pretty much have for as long as I can remember.

Don't get me wrong there are guys of other races that I find attractive or good looking but the intensity of that attraction just isn't the same.

We all like what we like, there is no reason or explanation, we're all just wired differently.

The world would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same thing, plus us women would all be fighting over the same guys, even more so then we probably already do lol"

The abuse I have received in the past is ridiculous and pathetic and I'm fed up of being labelled racist just because I'm physically attracted to black men.

I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't find me attractive due to my size or my hair colour!!!

We're all just different and I wish people on this site would start accepting that!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

Heaven forbid a man would do that

Only meaning I can understand completely a preference to one type or another as a basis of initial attraction but some people (both genders) seem to blindly disregard entire groups as unattractive while selecting others as attractive irrespective of actual appearance

I would like to add that I prefer bigger girls/big boobs and thought Hattie had a cheeky smile that was very sexy not forgetting matron telling me off ??

Thanks for the block by the way "

Why do you assume they find them unattractive?!! My partner is white, my ex husband is black. I'd date/marry probably any nationality, but when in Domme mode I only play with white men: fantasy!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

People don't want rejection. I assume guys get jealous of a woman wanting only BBC just the same as different guys get jealous when people say "not racist, but white only" it's rejection, under thinly veiled racism.

you aren't what they're looking for, move on

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

This says more about you than you probably intended. This, for most is FANTASY! If you have a white partner, perhaps you're seeking something different. Comparing extremes Cheryl and Hattie just makes you look stupid!

"

Duly noted Devils advocate cap placed firmly back in the box, admonishment recieved. Though next time might I request thigh length leather boots and a riding crop while administering it please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

I'm going to copy here the exact same thing that I put on another post. Having a preference for black guys does not mean that I will sleep that every black guy I come across, I still have to be physically and mentally attracted to them!

"Sex and intimacy is always going to be more enjoyable and intense when you're with somebody that physically and sexually stimulates you and turns you on.

For me I find that lust and attraction in black guys and pretty much have for as long as I can remember.

Don't get me wrong there are guys of other races that I find attractive or good looking but the intensity of that attraction just isn't the same.

We all like what we like, there is no reason or explanation, we're all just wired differently.

The world would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same thing, plus us women would all be fighting over the same guys, even more so then we probably already do lol"

The abuse I have received in the past is ridiculous and pathetic and I'm fed up of being labelled racist just because I'm physically attracted to black men.

I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't find me attractive due to my size or my hair colour!!!

We're all just different and I wish people on this site would start accepting that!"

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

You'll always get those who can't help but criticise peoples choices/preferences regarding race and sex on here. Report and block is about the only attention we pay such messages which hasn't happened too often, suggest you do the same when it happens.

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grabs a seat for this shit!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC "

Strongly disagree with this statement

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

Strongly disagree with this statement"

Really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC "

I really really hope this is a joke!

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

I really really hope this is a joke! "

My other half is mixed race so yeah it's me failing to be sarcastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

I really really hope this is a joke!

My other half is mixed race so yeah it's me failing to be sarcastic "

Your last picture on your profile made me think it was a joke.

I thought I'd double check before I started ranting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

False alarm...everyone back in your houses go on!

Thew!

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

Strongly disagree with this statement

Really "

Sorry my bad, really should have looked at profile/pics before I commented

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids


"Absolute disgrace how can a white woman go with a BBC

I really really hope this is a joke!

My other half is mixed race so yeah it's me failing to be sarcastic

Your last picture on your profile made me think it was a joke.

I thought I'd double check before I started ranting lol "

Lol glad I escaped the rant but your more than welcome to spank me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Jealous white guys'

Hmmm, as thread titles go, that sounds like the beginnings of a healthy and productive debate.

For the record though, is their a particular reason why I should consider my skin colour to make me inferior?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why be jealous lol. There only a cock for the lady to fuck. Not like there gonna run off with them is it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I am only into black guys, I get abuse all the time on here but I also get white men saying they love it lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love seeing a white women having her fun with BBC, contrast looks soooo good and if the girl has a genuine thing for black guys they always seem to love it that much more.

I also like that for me they're unattainable, I can't just switch race and have them want me.

I think this is the reason some guys get so angry, they feel rejected and there's absolutely nothing they can do about it.

Then there are some who really are just deeply racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that some women write black guys only just to cut down on the number of "awlwite luv, fancie a fuc?" messages without blocking all single men. Although of course many chancers can't or don't read profiles anyway....

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By *eavensent78Couple
over a year ago

west mids

As my other half is mixed race (white/black) does he still fall in to the BBC bracket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about the women that wont see black or asian, how do they feel ? I prefer black or asian girls but they are rare up here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As my other half is mixed race (white/black) does he still fall in to the BBC bracket "

judging from the photos on your profile then yes, I don't think anyone can deny that you've got a BBC right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all have our likes and dislikes if you like bbc then go for it you wont get any hastle from us,

do what suits you not follow sheep

too many on here doing what they think is expected of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So let me get the correct only white guys are jealous that a lady would enjoy the company of a BBC? Surely shouldnt that actually say why do some men not like when a lady wants to play with a well endowed black man/men? That wouldn't sound half as bad as what the OP actually asked.

I don't get jealous I just ain't a fan the other half has played with black men in the past but her preference is white guys too, does that make us racist??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I am only into black guys, I get abuse all the time on here but I also get white men saying they love it lol."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband is a white guy... But I enjoy bbc... He enjoys watching it too ... Some people just dont know what there moaning about, dont knock it til u try it!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Stumpy tried both but found that her erotic/naughty/shouldnt be doing this kind of feelings seriously turned her on.

She has her Hubby, me who is white, but for the fantasy it is as far removed from what she has at home. And in our experience so far, endowment has been excellent.

In her words, BBC is like from Lovehoney. Its fun at times but I couldnt do it every day lol.

Only ever one white guy should get jealous and thats me, but I love to watch her enjoy so Im all good.

Doesnt stop the ''racist'' chant messages from some guys, one even threatened us lol, bless him, we was proper scared and everything!! . x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to their preferences, skin

colour isn't a filter for me

PS: I hate predictive text though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish I had a shlong full stop lol don't care whether it's black blue green ha. Lucky buggers haha

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

Any reason why you describe yourself as a lady and not a woman? I can understand the abbreviation bbc for ease of use ... ? Just curious.

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Hung like a small albino pony ??

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

I won't be surprise if some white folks get irritated. The way some white female or couples keep stressing about black folks as special preference is very patronising.I am a black man. I don't think black man is better than white folks in bed.

I am not against choice or preference.But keep it simple on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it too

There's a certain profile on here that msg me proper abuse for meeting black guys... The things they write us shocking. ...

BBC where you at??? HOLLA xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be surprise if some white folks get irritated. The way some white female or couples keep stressing about black folks as special preference is very patronising.I am a black man. I don't think black man is better than white folks in bed.

I am not against choice or preference.But keep it simple on your profile. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it too

There's a certain profile on here that msg me proper abuse for meeting black guys... The things they write us shocking. ...

BBC where you at??? HOLLA xxx"

Its ok, we understand non-street talk too so just hi will do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had it too

There's a certain profile on here that msg me proper abuse for meeting black guys... The things they write us shocking. ...

BBC where you at??? HOLLA xxx

Its ok, we understand non-street talk too so just hi will do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really doesn't matter who wants to play with who we all have our own preferences and turn one. So live and let fuck people. As long as you've paid you're licence you can have as much BBC as you like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't be surprise if some white folks get irritated. The way some white female or couples keep stressing about black folks as special preference is very patronising.I am a black man. I don't think black man is better than white folks in bed.

I am not against choice or preference.But keep it simple on your profile. "

I think its repeated sometimes in the hope that on the way to the pics some guys MAY just notice your prefernces dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about if she enjoys a small black cock, I've met lots of black guys and believe it or not they are not all well hung "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

I'm going to copy here the exact same thing that I put on another post. Having a preference for black guys does not mean that I will sleep that every black guy I come across, I still have to be physically and mentally attracted to them!

"Sex and intimacy is always going to be more enjoyable and intense when you're with somebody that physically and sexually stimulates you and turns you on.

For me I find that lust and attraction in black guys and pretty much have for as long as I can remember.

Don't get me wrong there are guys of other races that I find attractive or good looking but the intensity of that attraction just isn't the same.

We all like what we like, there is no reason or explanation, we're all just wired differently.

The world would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same thing, plus us women would all be fighting over the same guys, even more so then we probably already do lol"

The abuse I have received in the past is ridiculous and pathetic and I'm fed up of being labelled racist just because I'm physically attracted to black men.

I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't find me attractive due to my size or my hair colour!!!

We're all just different and I wish people on this site would start accepting that!"

The same as I like bwc...big white cocks x

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over a year ago


"I've had it too

There's a certain profile on here that msg me proper abuse for meeting black guys... The things they write us shocking. ...

BBC where you at??? HOLLA xxx

Its ok, we understand non-street talk too so just hi will do "

Should I have found that as funny as I did?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't get jealous just sometimes a little perplexed/confused when a lass will say ONLY bbc as though she would turn Bradley cooper, George clooney, etc down in favour of Ceelo green or Gary Coleman. It's a bit like a guy saying no to Cheryl Ty/Cole/Herpes/Whateverhername and running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs

I'm going to copy here the exact same thing that I put on another post. Having a preference for black guys does not mean that I will sleep that every black guy I come across, I still have to be physically and mentally attracted to them!

"Sex and intimacy is always going to be more enjoyable and intense when you're with somebody that physically and sexually stimulates you and turns you on.

For me I find that lust and attraction in black guys and pretty much have for as long as I can remember.

Don't get me wrong there are guys of other races that I find attractive or good looking but the intensity of that attraction just isn't the same.

We all like what we like, there is no reason or explanation, we're all just wired differently.

The world would be a pretty boring place if we all liked the same thing, plus us women would all be fighting over the same guys, even more so then we probably already do lol"

The abuse I have received in the past is ridiculous and pathetic and I'm fed up of being labelled racist just because I'm physically attracted to black men.

I wouldn't be offended if someone didn't find me attractive due to my size or my hair colour!!!

We're all just different and I wish people on this site would start accepting that!

The same as I like bwc...big white cocks x "

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

Like to spend time with bbc? bbc this, bbc that ? there are actually men attached to the bbc, seems a bit demeaning just labelling folk as a big black cock.

i personally like spending time with cunt.....doesn't matter what colour really, just cunt...and tits, sounds a bit insulting when you turn it round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."
Nope no jealousy here

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I would've thought the same reason some black/Asian men get racist when we politely decline their offer (even when our preferences are clearly stated in our profile).

Insecurity, dented ego, and, as you already said, jealousy.

- Amy. x

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

Good for my block list threads like these

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

Good word that Choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite frankly...I don't care!

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

Contrary to past related topics this has gone quite well in all respects. -Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

I have seen jealous black guys when woman taking white, it swings both ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get why people get jealois or possessive over here at all. Doesn't make sense to me.

If someone is prone to being jealous or possessive. Don't think this site is for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle..."

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of the myths these threads always seem to dispel is that swingers are an enlightened group, able to free themselves from the usual societal constraints about sex. Yeah bloody right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op think you've opened up a can of worms here lol

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

I know lots who like to watch....... The rest don't matter ....... Really don't matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a woman says she likes BBC why give her abuse it won't sundenly make her want white cock , it prob make her want black more . So if she buts BBC only don't message her if ur white . Simples !

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By *he incognito twoCouple
over a year ago

near you


"i don't get racist i get erect lol "

Ditto massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not racist..i just prefer BWC..have had BBC and personally prefer BWC for my own reasons..

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area


" running straight to Hattie Jacques because he likes big boobs "

Oooooohh Matron

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the need to get jealous, there isn't any different apart from peoples tastes and fantasies. At least that's how I _iew it.

Some get jealous because they watch too much porn and have a slightly racist outlook on life. There for when they get rejected by a lady who isn't interested in them they lash out with abuse. They need to grow up.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle..."

Best one we had was "I didn't wanna fuck that skanky white pussy anyway".

And the ones that claim Bradley must be scared of me fucking a "real man", when it's ME who turned them down in the first place.

- Amy. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tiny willies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Best one we had was "I didn't wanna fuck that skanky white pussy anyway".

And the ones that claim Bradley must be scared of me fucking a "real man", when it's ME who turned them down in the first place.

- Amy. x"
theres some dick heads about why can't people be polite !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A post just reminded me of a time many years ago when we enjoyed the dogging scene and we were followed out a carpark in Nottingham by an angry rasta shouting at us we were racists because we didn't stop to play with him.

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over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white "

I'm not going to jump down her throat but I'm shocked that people still use that term. It is offensive, derogatory but above all highly ignorant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been aware of any jealousy.

As for BBC I'm confident enough with what I have to rarely be overshadowed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white

I'm not going to jump down her throat but I'm shocked that people still use that term. It is offensive, derogatory but above all highly ignorant! "

I use that word myself. ... it doesn't offend me though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white

I'm not going to jump down her throat but I'm shocked that people still use that term. It is offensive, derogatory but above all highly ignorant! "

Yet when we were growing up that was the word to use and "black" was deemed to be uber offensive. I don't get it to be honest. If that's all you have to worry about in life, you live a charmed one. You can call me white, honky or any other term for my ilk and I won't give a toss.

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By *lackbirdtimestwoWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"I don't think its a case of racism it's more dick envy but then that would be the same as a female saying hung only.

I don't think anybody gets jealous over skin colour "

If the comments used are of a racist nature, if the comments are hateful and derogatory towards a person because of the colour of the skin, if the comment are intentional and not just ignorance,,,, then it's racist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I switched off and started daydreaming at the mention of "Hattie".

Mmmmmmmmm

And this is V (her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white

I'm not going to jump down her throat but I'm shocked that people still use that term. It is offensive, derogatory but above all highly ignorant!

Yet when we were growing up that was the word to use and "black" was deemed to be uber offensive. I don't get it to be honest. If that's all you have to worry about in life, you live a charmed one. You can call me white, honky or any other term for my ilk and I won't give a toss. "

Using the word coloured goes back to the time of segregation.

In restaurants there would be specific areas signposted for the coloured people. Buses for coloured people, they were not allowed to integrate with white people, it stems back to racism and total ignorance.

Without wanting to cause any offence but you said "when you were growing up that was the word you used" however we both come from different eras and something that was acceptable to say when you were younger is not necessarily acceptable now.

That's why it is ignorant as people don't take notice of things changing around them and still carry on with the same thoughts and ideals.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

I am glad it is some guys only

Thankfully, I have not come across those some guys as I have Black and White sex partners and once, a Black guy and a White guy together with me in a MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But yet you don't seem to have a problem saying white people. Look at the colour white and then look at a white person. Is it the same?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

Looking for BBC's but blocking single guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep ignorance not racist. The racist stick gets thrown about to much.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

though I can't speak for that persons lack of social etiquette, not all black men are cut from the same cloth.

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white "

If only it was that simple. The term 'coloured' is reminiscent of a dark time during our history, so I prefer not be identified in that way. If any other race would prefer to be identified by another term then I would respects their wishes, it really is that simple. Though I may be stoic in my beliefs, only ignorance makes things difficult. -Mr.

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By *aughty2foryouCouple
over a year ago

Devon/Cornwall

Think you've missed a trick in saying bbc really...if you had said black guys, or mixed race guys or whatever, then I think you could quite easily talk about racism...but you've clearly stated the "big" part of the acronym. Does this mean if a black guy has a small cock or an average cock then it's not racist to turn them down or get jealous of them?

Just our two cents really, and slightly tongue in cheek, but there you go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I makes me laugh when you politely turned a coloured guy down, and they try and change your mind by saying "you ever had a black cock, it will be the best sex you ever had"...so if that is not racist then I am a monkey's uncle...

Before anyone jumps down this posters throat about the use of the word "coloured" as I've seen happen in forums before, remember "white" people are not literally white

I'm not going to jump down her throat but I'm shocked that people still use that term. It is offensive, derogatory but above all highly ignorant!

Yet when we were growing up that was the word to use and "black" was deemed to be uber offensive. I don't get it to be honest. If that's all you have to worry about in life, you live a charmed one. You can call me white, honky or any other term for my ilk and I won't give a toss.

Using the word coloured goes back to the time of segregation.

In restaurants there would be specific areas signposted for the coloured people. Buses for coloured people, they were not allowed to integrate with white people, it stems back to racism and total ignorance.

Without wanting to cause any offence but you said "when you were growing up that was the word you used" however we both come from different eras and something that was acceptable to say when you were younger is not necessarily acceptable now.

That's why it is ignorant as people don't take notice of things changing around them and still carry on with the same thoughts and ideals."

What is ignorant is judging people over a word. Coloured, black, it's not WHAT is said but how it is implied.

I only wish to meet black people. To me the word 'coloured' implies many different ethnicities/creeds/skin shades.

Black is easier to use than the other adjectives.

If I was interested in mixed race guys or Asians as well, then perhaps 'coloured' would be the catch all adjective. But I am not. Black men only.

Too many saddos are too 'offended' these days.

Incidentally, back to the post, I have numerous white guys intrigued by my love of black cock-I've also received stacks of abuse too. Quite sad really not to respect the decisions of others, particularly when it doesn't harm them, they're simply too 'offended'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started to see a black girl once she only liked dating white guys did that make her rasist ? . Colour don't matter to me ur sexy ur sexy black white brown etc . Each to there own . She said I was hung like a black guy but prob was being nice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought a persons colour didnt matter anymore !

It doesnt in my book anyway i dont meet or not meet someone based on there colour ..

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

Love love this thread lets us see the ones that walk amongst us

Lol I know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for.

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over a year ago


"Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for. "

You're right we are just human beings and that is why I hate racism of any kind. We shouldn't be treated differently at all and should never be judged by our race, religion etc.

Things may have happened before my lifetime but those events have sadly clouded the opinions of many people in society today and partly one of the reasons why racism still exists.

I don't believe you are ignorant for having different experiences to me or anyone else for that matter but by not truly understanding where the term coloured originated from and how it was used and still deeming it as an acceptable thing to say is in my opinion ignorant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for. "

You are probably right, some of the worst forms of racism happened pre my lifetime but within your lifetime and judging from some of the attitudes you've expressed on this thread you don't seem to have left much behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either.

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over a year ago


"Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for.

You are probably right, some of the worst forms of racism happened pre my lifetime but within your lifetime and judging from some of the attitudes you've expressed on this thread you don't seem to have left much behind."

I beg your pardon. Are you calling me racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

in response to the original post I love seeing white girls with black guys.

I have seen loads of posts by women and couples looking for black guys only and that doesn't bother me.

What I would like to find is people willing to share the experience. I would love to watch in cuckold style, as an admirer.

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over a year ago


"Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either. "

All I'll say is that if it makes no difference to you them great, however it makes a big difference to some people and it's about being aware of the offence that can be caused by such terms.

On a side note I really don't understand why people can't have a debate and difference of opinion without it getting heated.

If you don't like the topic of a thread or you're so clearly opinionated that you get irate then maybe you should stay away from the forums!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally off subject but its made me realise that theres not a large percentage of black/asian ladies on here ?

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over a year ago


"Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either.

All I'll say is that if it makes no difference to you them great, however it makes a big difference to some people and it's about being aware of the offence that can be caused by such terms.

On a side note I really don't understand why people can't have a debate and difference of opinion without it getting heated.

If you don't like the topic of a thread or you're so clearly opinionated that you get irate then maybe you should stay away from the forums!"

And of you cannot allow others to post their opinions freely then maybe you should

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over a year ago


"Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either.

All I'll say is that if it makes no difference to you them great, however it makes a big difference to some people and it's about being aware of the offence that can be caused by such terms.

On a side note I really don't understand why people can't have a debate and difference of opinion without it getting heated.

If you don't like the topic of a thread or you're so clearly opinionated that you get irate then maybe you should stay away from the forums!

And of you cannot allow others to post their opinions freely then maybe you should "

I'm totally allowing you to post your opinion, i'm also free to post mine too even if it doesn't sync with yours, however I'm not getting irate about it so I'm not the one with the problem!

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over a year ago


"Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for.

You are probably right, some of the worst forms of racism happened pre my lifetime but within your lifetime and judging from some of the attitudes you've expressed on this thread you don't seem to have left much behind.

I beg your pardon. Are you calling me racist "

I am saying some of the things you've said on here will not have seemed out place in the 60s and 70s which is unsurprising given you've mentioned your childhood experiences that support your attitudes. No recognition of times changing and this being a good thing. In fact, you've been dismissive of the need for change.

I don't know you, to call you racist. Just commenting on your posts on here.

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By *ornysnoggerMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Same as black guys get when a white guy plays with a black women

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over a year ago


"Personally I find it off putting when people identify themselves by one aspect, such as the colour of their skin. We're all individual human beings after all, and I'm so much more than a white 40 year old woman. I dislike real racism, but in my life I have seen very little of this, and when I have it's been equal from lots of ethnic backgrounds. But the mentality of some that are getting upset by things that happened before their own lifetime and accusing others of being ignorant for having different experiences to their own is a bit condescending and uncalled for.

You are probably right, some of the worst forms of racism happened pre my lifetime but within your lifetime and judging from some of the attitudes you've expressed on this thread you don't seem to have left much behind.

I beg your pardon. Are you calling me racist

I am saying some of the things you've said on here will not have seemed out place in the 60s and 70s which is unsurprising given you've mentioned your childhood experiences that support your attitudes. No recognition of times changing and this being a good thing. In fact, you've been dismissive of the need for change.

I don't know you, to call you racist. Just commenting on your posts on here."

Such as?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either.

All I'll say is that if it makes no difference to you them great, however it makes a big difference to some people and it's about being aware of the offence that can be caused by such terms.

On a side note I really don't understand why people can't have a debate and difference of opinion without it getting heated.

If you don't like the topic of a thread or you're so clearly opinionated that you get irate then maybe you should stay away from the forums!

And of you cannot allow others to post their opinions freely then maybe you should

I'm totally allowing you to post your opinion, i'm also free to post mine too even if it doesn't sync with yours, however I'm not getting irate about it so I'm not the one with the problem! "

All good here thanks just having a right good laugh at you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where did I state I thought "coloured"'was acceptable ?

As a child we were told not to say black because that was offensive and that coloured was acceptable.

Now it's the other way round.

Just let me know when it changes back again, not that it makes any difference to me because the white, black, brown, pink, orange and every other shade if skin we chose to meet and socialise with wouldn't give a shit about it either.

All I'll say is that if it makes no difference to you them great, however it makes a big difference to some people and it's about being aware of the offence that can be caused by such terms.

On a side note I really don't understand why people can't have a debate and difference of opinion without it getting heated.

If you don't like the topic of a thread or you're so clearly opinionated that you get irate then maybe you should stay away from the forums!

And of you cannot allow others to post their opinions freely then maybe you should

I'm totally allowing you to post your opinion, i'm also free to post mine too even if it doesn't sync with yours, however I'm not getting irate about it so I'm not the one with the problem!

All good here thanks just having a right good laugh at you "

By all means carry on, all you're doing is showing everyone what utterly delightful, polite and respectful people you are.

Clearly in case you missed it it's called sarcasm. Laughing at someone because their opinion is different to yours and they can be bold enough to stand up for themselves and what they believe in is just pathetic and childish.

As I said before and i'll re-iterate...you have a serious problem if you can't handle a difference of opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahh it was going so well too !

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By *.nottsbloke..Man
over a year ago

the vale


"Ahh it was going so well too !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahh it was going so well too !

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It was...There is always one who has to ruin it with their bad attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Maybe just step back if you're getting het up

There's more than enough space in the forums to ignore each other without each trying to get the last word in

Agree to disagree and leave it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally off subject but its made me realise that theres not a large percentage of black/asian ladies on here ?

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i know and its a shame i do hope more join soon

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By *earboynottinghamMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

Some people need to check the definition of the word racism.

It doesn't particularly bother me but I would like to be able to apply a filter which exlcudes people from searches who aren't seeking someone of my ethnicity.

Something like the 'I must match their age requirements' but for ethnicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the way people think and act on fab is no different than in the real world and having been living and working in the uk for 9 years my opinion base on my experience is most white men don't like seeing white women with black guys weather fun or not it's just the one of them things I've dated white women who couldn't introduce me to family or friends for fear of the repercussions....is it jealousy or racism ...You would never know for sure people feel safer and would say more behind a key board than they would to your face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the way people think and act on fab is no different than in the real world and having been living and working in the uk for 9 years my opinion base on my experience is most white men don't like seeing white women with black guys weather fun or not it's just the one of them things I've dated white women who couldn't introduce me to family or friends for fear of the repercussions....is it jealousy or racism ...You would never know for sure people feel safer and would say more behind a key board than they would to your face"

Not in my experience. Hubby has enjoyed watching me with white and black guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they should make a rule that you cant write it on profiles, to make it sound friendlier, why was it outlawed way back in Alabama in the 60s and rest of the world?. Internet next "

Really got to agree with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc."

Same reasons some big ladies are jealous of petite ones; petite jealous of busty; skinny blokes jealous of bigger blokes; bigger blokes jealous of ripped blokes.

(note how I said "some")

It's just human nature to sometimes be self critical and to be envious of what you don't have.

Those who try to elevate themselves above others by using the insecurities of other people show themselves to be just as insecure, but with a dash of nastiness chucked in for good measure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come across white women who were unhappy i've been with black & asian women in my past....Pathetic!

I don't think it's fair to associate a few instances to a whole group of people.

I certainly don't think all white women are racist because of the couple of twats I've had experience with.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I think they should make a rule that you cant write it on profiles, to make it sound friendlier, why was it outlawed way back in Alabama in the 60s and rest of the world?. Internet next

Really got to agree with that "

Can't write what on profiles exactly?

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you


"the way people think and act on fab is no different than in the real world and having been living and working in the uk for 9 years my opinion base on my experience is most white men don't like seeing white women with black guys weather fun or not it's just the one of them things I've dated white women who couldn't introduce me to family or friends for fear of the repercussions....is it jealousy or racism ...You would never know for sure people feel safer and would say more behind a key board than they would to your face"

^this

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By *anetandNickCouple
over a year ago

Ross-on-Wye

We have a BBC friend who makes DONKEYS jealous!

Janet xxxxxx

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"We have a BBC friend who makes DONKEYS jealous!

Janet xxxxxx"

Why? Is he a good looking Donkey?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i pretty much only look for bbc and i have had messages from white men who feel like i owe them something.

its what i am looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wah happend to nice white women , fucking nice white guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


"Wah happend to nice white women , fucking nice white guys ? "

Please explain further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wah happend to nice white women , fucking nice white guys ? "

are you saying i am not nice because i chose to meet black guys?

if thats what you are saying you need to step back and have a reality check

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Wah happend to nice white women , fucking nice white guys ? "

Oh, I f**k nice White guys and nice Black guys too

But I am not nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blacks can't be white and whites can't be black

Why you wanna act like someone else?

All you gotta do is just be yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blacks can't be white and whites can't be black

Why you wanna act like someone else?

All you gotta do is just be yourself"

what you on about?

explain why nice white women fuck nice white guys?

i want to see how long until you get banned for racism which i fucking detest

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

Wow. Just wow...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

What makes you think that? How do you know? I have not witnessed any guys on here exhibiting that behaviour. I am sure if there were any forum posts like that, they would be swiftly removed.

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

Told Ya they are amongst us

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By *r_TrojanMan
over a year ago

In The North

Wow, this topic is certainly starting to rear some very ugly heads up...

Personally, I just fail to see why some people get jealous and start throwing abuse when a woman states who she physically attracted to. Its pretty childish from those responsible...

If a woman states on her profile that she is physically attracted to black men, there certainly is no need to be nasty about it -- Move on!

If on the other hand she is prefers to be with white men, it's her choice... I certainly won't make an issue out of it.

As for this and i quote "Wah happend to nice white women , fucking nice white guys ?", I really don't know what to say, except for this; find the women that are only interested in white men. But certainly don't start hating on the ones that have a physical attraction to men from a different ethnic background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How come some some guys on here get racist when the see a white lady enjoying a bbc.

Surely it's her choice."

I don't think this is true.....apart from the occasional Nob. And they are jealous of anyone more successful than they are. So just about everybody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why be jealous lol. There only a cock for the lady to fuck. Not like there gonna run off with them is it. "

Keep trying to convince yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How darE u imply I'm racist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How darE u imply I'm racist."

Aren't you?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I learned today on the forum (not on this thread) that fucking a black man is a taboo!!!!

....surely statements like this can't be excused by jealousy only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I learned today on the forum (not on this thread) that fucking a black man is a taboo!!!!

....surely statements like this can't be excused by jealousy only! "

What is being married to one and having children with him then?

Some people have truly sheltered existence.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"How darE u imply I'm racist.

Aren't you?"

Don't feed the trolls lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly abuse from guys who don't match my preferences is something I've had to deal with on several occasions.

The worst was probably from a guy I'd never spoken to at all and his message said:

"I hope you die of aids you dirty fucking n**** whore"

I'm sure you can fill in the blanks for yourself.

Now if some people want to say that there aren't individuals that are jealous, racist, or displaying this kind of behaviour then go ahead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked with an Indian fella once who would lean out the van window and call a Indian girl a slut if she was with a black/white guy! Does that now mean he's no racist because he is Indian and not white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worked with an Indian fella once who would lean out the van window and call a Indian girl a slut if she was with a black/white guy! Does that now mean he's no racist because he is Indian and not white?"
his not a racist his just jealous of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I worked with an Indian fella once who would lean out the van window and call a Indian girl a slut if she was with a black/white guy! Does that now mean he's no racist because he is Indian and not white?his not a racist his just jealous of them"

So would you disagree with the op?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very lucky I don't get insulted for liking blackmen, yes they can get jealous because I reject white guys but I still chat to them as I'm happy to chat to anyone,(I don't give rude chat so they get bored and move on) I get more of a sulk but then I did when I was meeting a mixture of people many moons ago

its all about rejection some people just don't like being rejected, it helps if they read profiles, my profile and name a big givaway and white guys still try, why not just avoid those profiles there are plenty that will meet them, its like me asking a straight woman to play with me I just wouldn't as respect there choice

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