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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It seems unusual. Probably best not to say too much on the forum in case parties can be identified.

Sometimes you have to meet people and find out yourself. If you think she is worth a meet go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i do i just think its a swinging site not facebook or twitter so give all a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do i just think its a swinging site not facebook or twitter so give all a chance"

It seems very strange that she is bad-mouthed. My only advice would be to think with your bigger brain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i do i just think its a swinging site not facebook or twitter so give all a chance

It seems very strange that she is bad-mouthed. My only advice would be to think with your bigger brain."

i know its just small minded folk.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?"

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?"

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know"

Well if several apparently unconnected people give you the same adverse opinion, then it may well be wise to heed what they say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know

Well if several apparently unconnected people give you the same adverse opinion, then it may well be wise to heed what they say"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

nah i dont listen to gossip to many odd folk on here as it is

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't know why people would feel the need to bad mouth one member.Only you know if she is worth the risk ,maybe have a social and see how you get on .

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"nah i dont listen to gossip to many odd folk on here as it is"

I cannot think why several people would badmouth the same person..that does sound weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know"

So how do they know the two of you are chatting...unless they're chatting.

Makes no sense....

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know

So how do they know the two of you are chatting...unless they're chatting.

Makes no sense...."

Yes that's what I was thinking...This all sounds very peculiar

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?"

It isn't common in my experience. I was thinking earlier that the more someone is badmouthed by other people the more likely I am to ignore what they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do they know you are chatting to her?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone can take a dislike to someone and rope their mates in. Who would you rather not meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

It isn't common in my experience. I was thinking earlier that the more someone is badmouthed by other people the more likely I am to ignore what they say."

i totally agree

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do they know you are chatting to her? "

cos they looked at my friens list

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"How do they know you are chatting to her?

U

cos they looked at my friens list"

They sound like a bunch of spiteful losers to me

You meet who you want and don't be lead by shit stirrers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

How have you received these adverse opinions of her? Have people contacted you directly out of the blue, or have you contacted her verifiers?

they have answered me when i messaged them asking for a social and said no as im chatting to someone they supposdly know

So how do they know the two of you are chatting...unless they're chatting.

Makes no sense....

Yes that's what I was thinking...This all sounds very peculiar"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what you want, not others..who cares

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do they know you are chatting to her?

cos they looked at my friens list"
hide your friends list?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do they know you are chatting to her?

cos they looked at my friens list hide your friends list? "
and good luck id go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to admit there is a female that I am aware of let's just say and I will not meet anyone if they have met her... nothing to do with being spiteful or jealous I just know this girl and I wouldn't have anyone near me who has been there, but I would never bad mouth her or tell people the fact

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"How do they know you are chatting to her?

cos they looked at my friens list hide your friends list? "

I hid mine ages ago because there was a particularly spiteful female who was contacting all my friends and badmouthing other people I'd met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

It isn't common in my experience. I was thinking earlier that the more someone is badmouthed by other people the more likely I am to ignore what they say."

People say I'm terrible

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds


"I have to admit there is a female that I am aware of let's just say and I will not meet anyone if they have met her... nothing to do with being spiteful or jealous I just know this girl and I wouldn't have anyone near me who has been there, but I would never bad mouth her or tell people the fact "

Me too!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I have had issues on here. i need help. Im chatting to a lovely lady looking to arrange a meet in the near future. But lots of people in her area bad mouth her and say they wont meet any one who chats to her or meets her. Is this common or is it just jealousy that other ladies are getting more?

It isn't common in my experience. I was thinking earlier that the more someone is badmouthed by other people the more likely I am to ignore what they say.

People say I'm terrible "

I know they say you wear chilli aftershave and knit scarves

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