FabSwingers.com forum: Stiil no Action!

By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Hey, had few more messgaes, and few tips, but no action can you guys advise?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A single word answer ...

'Patience'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and forgot to mention ..

A reply with a few more words ....

You come across as being full of your own self importance and big headed ..

A lot of people are not keen on that approach ..

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

thank you x

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

?? What you saying to people - what's your angle so to speak?

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

hi, how u doing wanna chat? nice pics? that kind of stuff..

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By *ouplefunukCouple
over a year ago

North Bristol

Honey, it's been 7 days

It's not instashag you know!

Hi, how u doing

Wanna Chat

Nice Pics?

If we get one liners like that, we delete. Put some effort in. Tell them what attracted you to their profile. Why should they want to meet you? What makes you different? Do you have a sense of humour? Can you put that across in your message?

You are the "product" here honey, you need to sell it because there are thousands more similar products out there - you have to stand out.

Good luck.

*Her*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey bud you will be fine when I first started I had to learn how to approach people and what to say in my mails. What helps is getting a few verifications even if its on webcam. Just be patient some people won't be interested in you and thats normal in any scenario. Just keep doing what you doing and It will come .

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

feeling lucky for you. Bet you have your first gang band and fisting meet by saturday...lol

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

Top Man, cheers..

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

hey cheers.

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

ta x

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

"Hey, had few more messgaes, and few tips, but no action can you guys advise?

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what did u think would happen when u joined? It can take as long as it takes, sometimes never. Single guys are 2 a penny, so you have a lot of competition. What makes u so special.

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

erm, tough question, can i have few mins to think?

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Your a man looking for a woman so woo then in to meeting you compliment them nothing sexual till you know them better and make yourself stand out from the crowd you need to try better with yoyr profile as thats the first thing they will look at so its kinda like window shopping for us and something that catches the eye there is always a good thing be yourself and be origonal not just another cock xxx

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck

you did make me giggle by saying you havent had any 'action' yet

its like listening to my lads talk

hope you have some fun soon and enjoy the socials x

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

thank you xx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Took me a year to get my first meet... its not impossible but needs a few things:

1) The right attitude: Would you walk in a pub and expect a stranger to buy you a drink instantly?

2) A decent approach: Hoping "action" is on offer "just cause" needs work.

3) Patience: There's no set yardstick.

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

cheers ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"cheers."

* sits on coffin *

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just looked at your profile and pics all looks ok to me as you said theres loads of single blokes on here dont lose hope it will happen.....you look yummy by the way lol sorry had to say it. good luckx xx

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

will you really meet a 99 year old - that makes you look desperate - sparse profile - bad (in my opinion) pics - 3 weeks and no luck? if you're complaining already pack it in. Z

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Get some decent pics done..that may help

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

good call, ta.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Single guys are 2 a penny, so you have a lot of competition. "

Thats the big problem. Loads of us guys. As said. Be patient. Spend time in chat room. Go to a social do. May help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely need some better pics on your profile. Humour in the intro letter tends to grab my attention. Also, make sure you read the profile of the person you are contacting, if you dont match what the woman is looking for, you are likely not to get a response. Hope this helps, good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just realised I made a comment about your pics when mine are all private (slightly hypocritical, lol), but i do send a face pic attached to a message when i am contacted by a guy that interests me x

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

cheers x

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Not met anyone through this site yet, but who knows - not going out of my way writing lots of emails so no complaints (enjoying the chat/forums)

On other sites what has working most is chatting away online for a bit, sometimes sexual from the start, other times more like two friends.

My profile nots great, but always easier to comment on others - two cock pics and one body is probably wrong balance. Tight buns shots appear to go down well with ladies.

Its a little like being in a bar alone, and talking to strangers, be friendly, chatty and just let things follow a natural flow.

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By *ewis455 OP Man
over a year ago

Oxfordshire

ta..

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