FabSwingers.com forum: Sugar Daddies

By *rivate room OP Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I saw some of the other threads about much older men with ladies in their late teens and early 20's. As a man in his early 40's I like ladies of this age but probably too old for them. I also worry they would see me as a provider rather than like me for who I am.

Has any sugar daddy had a long lasting rel with a much younger woman. Some sugar daddies are also married and have a younger girlfriend which their wives know about. Read it in a magazine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after "

I had someone proactively out of the blue contact me once on another site a couple of years back offering me the chance to be their sugar daddy, basically they wanted me to pay their rent and give them an 'allowance' in return for dinner dates (that I'd pay for, of course!) and photos etc. I politely thanked them for the opportunity but regrettably had to decline their generous offer!

I wonder if she did find any takers? Good on her if she did, and more fool them!

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after

I wonder if she did find any takers? Good on her if she did, and more fool them!"

I have seen a couple of profiles on here where a young lady is looking for a sugar daddy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older men. that's it. no ulterior motive. sprogs dad is 17 yrs older, we were together 5 yrs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw some of the other threads about much older men with ladies in their late teens and early 20's. As a man in his early 40's I like ladies of this age but probably too old for them. I also worry they would see me as a provider rather than like me for who I am.

Has any sugar daddy had a long lasting rel with a much younger woman. Some sugar daddies are also married and have a younger girlfriend which their wives know about. Read it in a magazine"

Surely the "sugar" part of sugar daddy is that you're paying them for their company in clothes, cash, jewellery, dinner, trips etc.

Just hire a hooker if that's your thing, less hassle, a better lay, and no need to waste your time doing boring crap with them in hopes of getting a shag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last Dom was 53. We were together for some time and it was fantastic.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after

I wonder if she did find any takers? Good on her if she did, and more fool them!

I have seen a couple of profiles on here where a young lady is looking for a sugar daddy."

So report them. It's not what Fab is about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has any sugar daddy had a long lasting rel with a much younger woman. Some sugar daddies are also married and have a younger girlfriend which their wives know about. Read it in a magazine"

If you don't want to be seen as a 'provider' then you should probably not use the term 'sugar daddy'. Most people understand the usage of the word 'sugar daddy' to be someone who supports their younger partner in some way. Paying bills, rent, giving treats, etc.

Liking younger women and being a sugar daddy are not the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after

I wonder if she did find any takers? Good on her if she did, and more fool them!

I have seen a couple of profiles on here where a young lady is looking for a sugar daddy.

So report them. It's not what Fab is about."

Lol if you got rid of every begging, please take me out, oh no my phone bill is due, want someone to look after me, profile you'd lose half the women under 40 here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought the world had moved on from this. Pretty sad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is there still such a thing as a sugar daddy, I am an older man and yes I do like the younger more nimble model but as stated earlier cheaper to hire a young prostitute less financial hassle and the sex is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a very degrading thing and a way woman use sex as a weapon , not for me and in my world anyone who was is a mangina , and officially should have there bloke card removed .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought the world had moved on from this. Pretty sad.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Is there anything wrong with it, if it suits both parties though? Like most things on here, that sort of a relationship won't be top everyone's taste, but if it's what the woman and man involved want from each other, what's the problem?

Apart from being against Fab rules, of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer older men but that's just a preference, best relationship I've ever had was with a guy 19 years older

But no I wouldn't expect anybody to "provide" for me, I am more than capable of looking after myself

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Those older men who want to have the company of a younger woman and can afford, pay for a younger woman and go quietly about their business

Very exceptional older men who want to have the company of a younger woman, find a younger woman and go quietly about their business

Just older men ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, apparently just replying to this thread has caused seven different 'Daddies' to reply to me. Even though I didn't say I was looking for one.

So it looks like this kind of thing is actually pretty normal on Fab.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"Well, apparently just replying to this thread has caused seven different 'Daddies' to reply to me. Even though I didn't say I was looking for one.

So it looks like this kind of thing is actually pretty normal on Fab."

I lol'd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I much prefer older men but that's just a preference, best relationship I've ever had was with a guy 19 years older

But no I wouldn't expect anybody to "provide" for me, I am more than capable of looking after myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the whole sugar daddy / sugar baby thing really sad. Money can buy sex, but it can't buy what I think most of these sugardaddies are looking for, which is a loving partnership with a younger and gorgeous woman. These sugardaddies know that they are very unlikely to score a really sexy girlfriend unless they are 'generous' with the cash and are really kidding themselves if they think that the girl is going to really give a shit about them. Like an earlier poster said, get an escort one night a week and save the headfuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there anything wrong with it, if it suits both parties though? Like most things on here, that sort of a relationship won't be top everyone's taste, but if it's what the woman and man involved want from each other, what's the problem?

Apart from being against Fab rules, of course."

Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.

I know girlfriends/wives cost but it's never initially financially motivated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.

I know girlfriends/wives cost but it's never initially financially motivated "

Hey, and in some relationships, it's the boyfriends and husbands that cost money! What a shocker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The term 'sugar daddy' is used for men who provide for younger girls to help them with bills etc in return for sex and the company of a younger girl. Originally from America, I believe, to help girls through college and university.

Totally different to younger girls who like the experience and maturity of an older man. As for men liking younger women, nothing new there! I think if the boot is on the other foot, the term cougar is used. For a man its 'dirty old'.

Sugar daddy, like escorting is not what fab is about and should be reported.

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By *rivate room OP Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I do like young women in the age range mentioned. I did not say I wanted to be a sugar daddy or a provider. I just think that it would happen due to my age and having a car and working.

My thread was just discussing sugar daddies as I saw other threads about them.

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By *rivate room OP Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I didn't say I wanted to hire a prostitute and think it is very rude to make such a suggestion on a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hire a prostitute - works out cheaper and no divorce settlement after "

Not all woman are gold diggers plus if there's no demand there wouldent be no supply guys like younger ladies by choice nobody forces them Lx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't say I wanted to hire a prostitute and think it is very rude to make such a suggestion on a swinging site. "

being a sugar daddy to someone is paying for prostitution, you're paying for sex with them by giving them gifts etc

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Apart from being against Fab rules, of course.

Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.

I know girlfriends/wives cost but it's never initially financially motivated "

Weren't you in another thread saying you'd done porn and had been an escort? So it's okay for you, but not for them?

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I'm truly amazed and delighted at the number of young women on the site who go for older men and I'm definitely no sugar daddy!

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By *rivate room OP Man
over a year ago

Bracknell

I was duscussing sugar daddies out of interest not I wanted to be one. All I said was I would like to find a young girlfriend probably not on this site. Probably too old by now anyway. A lot of site members have taken my thread the wrong way and find it offensive for members to advice me to get an escort of prostitute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apart from being against Fab rules, of course.

Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.

I know girlfriends/wives cost but it's never initially financially motivated

Weren't you in another thread saying you'd done porn and had been an escort? So it's okay for you, but not for them?"

When did I say it wasn't right?

I just feel for guys who are sucked into false relationships with girls who are only in it for the money... 9/10 the guy is left broken, the girl moves on to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get men asking to be "sugar daddies" to me all the time... It just isn't me.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Apart from being against Fab rules, of course.

Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.

I know girlfriends/wives cost but it's never initially financially motivated

Weren't you in another thread saying you'd done porn and had been an escort? So it's okay for you, but not for them?

When did I say it wasn't right?

I just feel for guys who are sucked into false relationships with girls who are only in it for the money... 9/10 the guy is left broken, the girl moves on to the next one. "

Is there another way of interpreting the words you wrote? 'Everything wrong with it, no matter which way you look at it the idea is sex for money.'

That, right there, is when you said it wasn't right.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

I thought they were really great happy sexy ladies.. Gawd wish I had half the sexual energy those old gals had..

would never consider sex for money tho..

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By *mnipotent_BehemothMan
over a year ago

near Merry Hill shopping centre

Sugar daddies should be see as something quite diffrent to being someone who has a daddy nature to them.

A sugar daddy is paying for sex, simple as and is most likely going to be used, however being a daddy is something quite diffrent, and is quite common in the fet world, good girls might get spoilt for being good, but last time I got something nice for the other half this wasn't for sex and wouldn't be any diffrent if I was playing with a younger girl.

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

When flirtng with my OH i often say "who's my daddy"? To which he replies "i'm your fookin daddy & dont you forget it"! Turns me on no end.

My OH is 13 years older than me & earns a lot more than me but no way is he or will he ever be my sugar daddy. Nobody should be loved for their finances. Wrong & nasty with it.

Mrs WD40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have seen a couple of profiles on here where a young lady is looking for a sugar daddy."

yep, lots of single women local to us saying they want a sugar daddy. Personally I think, fair play to them. If it's a mutual agreement & both parties involved get what they want then it's not hurting anyone.

I wonder if a couple can have a sugar daddy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different and have different tastes people are very judgemental on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sugar daddies should be see as something quite diffrent to being someone who has a daddy nature to them.

I do love a good Daddy style relationship. Very hot. :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those older men who want to have the company of a younger woman and can afford, pay for a younger woman and go quietly about their business

Very exceptional older men who want to have the company of a younger woman, find a younger woman and go quietly about their business

Just older men ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

personally the daddy/daughter, mother/son role plays turn my stomach. each to their own tho! just means I wouldn't date/meet someone who liked that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind finding myself an older woman to sort out my bills as im no good with paperwork and maybe we could do some bedroom Olympics.

i bet people dont find it as bad if it was a bloke that was the younger one and being looked after by an older woman.

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