FabSwingers.com forum: time wasters

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No idea, but remember you don't have to comply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Move on, can't be arsed wasting my time on people like that.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"No idea, but remember you don't have to comply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I had that too, they expect you to meet them and then they wonder why not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just move on to the next, it's really that simples and nothing to get wound up about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can....

Just say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its usually the ppl saying others are timewasters that are just that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just weird. Yeh ok I'll meet you just on viewing your body

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If that's how they go about their fab business, leave them to it. It doesn't make them a timewaster........

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Then you get the ones who send pictures and when you meet them they're very far out of date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some who flat out refuse to send a face pic but insist you do. Yeah whatever! As others have said feck em.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are some who flat out refuse to send a face pic but insist you do. Yeah whatever! As others have said feck em."

i hate these too. i send face if they have pictures but no pictures get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stop any conversation when the people won't send a face pic. I don't want to meet paranoid people,I don't want sex talk and I want to know who I'm talking to. They will have their reasons,I don't want to listen to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date"

Because they're really a bloke and no amount of make-up can hide their tash.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date

Because they're really a bloke and no amount of make-up can hide their tash."

I don't know I hide mine well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right. "

you tell them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right. "
Could it be the supply and demand r there for women?.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date

Because they're really a bloke and no amount of make-up can hide their tash.

I don't know I hide mine well

Still tickles though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet someone without seeing a face pic. Also, I would never expect someone to meet me without a face pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never meet someone without seeing a face pic. Also, I would never expect someone to meet me without a face pic! "

wanna do a one for one swap with me

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By *ridmusCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

"Then you get the ones who send pictures and when you meet them they're very far out of date."

This..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date"

That makes them time wasters how?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't meet them then, no point worrying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had anyone refuse me a face pic, I've had a few say they will only send them via text which I decine but never had anyone refuse out right to send a pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke my rule of meeting blind.never ever again.he had excuses that he didnt know how to take a pic let alone upload one.but he was a newbie, needed a veri, and i met him very local to me.

Lesson well and truly learnt.but he turned up, so he wasnt a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will never meet anyone without a face pic a, because there's got to be some attraction and b, it shows an incredible lack of trust, so that's a non starter for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right. "

Really?...

You would meet without a face pic would you?...

I have no words.

I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic.

But it takes all sorts I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not meeting is fine I can understand that. It's the stupid comments that annoy me. They must be men or timewasters. It's so childish.

Everyone makes their own choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right. "

Honestly? You mainly get away with this by being female. I can't imagine agreeing to meet anyone without seeing their face or vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I meet all the time without any pics sent.

Whats your problem with that?

I don't want a relationship with them. It's just sex.

Don't make it out to be more than what it is.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"Some people talk such crap on here.

I don't send pics to anyone and I don't expect anyone to send me any.

I'm not a man or a timewaster. I have had plenty of meets. So guess what...... I must be doing something right.

Really?...

You would meet without a face pic would you?...

I have no words.

I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic.

But it takes all sorts I guess.

This is a no from me as well! Not a chance in hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will never meet anyone without a face pic a, because there's got to be some attraction and b, it shows an incredible lack of trust, so that's a non starter for me. "

Especially B - why even bother! Unless you're a celebrity, there are strange levels of paranoia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I meet all the time without any pics sent.

Whats your problem with that?

I don't want a relationship with them. It's just sex.

Don't make it out to be more than what it is. "

I have no problem with it whasoever. Wanting to be more than a faceless hole doesn't mean I want a relationship!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet anyone without a face pic, I don't have the time to just meet for a drink and chat, my time is limited so I want to know before I meet them there will be some kind of attraction, I like to meet guy first for a drink and a chat but with the view to playing of we get on, if I met someone I had not seen and wasn't attracted to I would feel the wasted night could have been avoided had I seen him and I could have met someone I was attracted to

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You still have to be attracted to someone facially To meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Faceless hole??? So straight away another stupid comment.

I'm certainly not a faceless hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes I meet all the time without any pics sent.

Whats your problem with that?

I don't want a relationship with them. It's just sex.

Don't make it out to be more than what it is. "

The problem is for me if I don't fancy them I don't fuck them.

If you have no issue with that which you clearly don't then so be it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Faceless hole??? So straight away another stupid comment.

I'm certainly not a faceless hole. "

Serious question have you ever met anyone who on seeing them have though I just can't go there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you have to be?

I can meet quite happily without being attracted to them. They can still be really nice people and have a laugh with them.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I only chat and get to know people I may be interested in and also attracted to.

I can't think of anything worse than meeting someone I am not attracted to, but that is just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have met some men who on seeing I thought no thanks lol.

I'm very easy about sex and don't take it seriously. But sometimes it's a no no.

Doesn't mean they arnt nice people tho.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You meet people every day that you arnt attracted to. I love meeting new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I stop any conversation when the people won't send a face pic. I don't want to meet paranoid people,I don't want sex talk and I want to know who I'm talking to. They will have their reasons,I don't want to listen to them."

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You meet people every day that you arnt attracted to. I love meeting new people. "

True but I'm not after shagging people I meet every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Faceless hole??? So straight away another stupid comment.

I'm certainly not a faceless hole. "

In fairness you state on your profile you won't send face pic and you won't ask for one. That's fine. Its the ones that demand one and refuse to send one that pee me off. Like they are holier than thow.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"You meet people every day that you arnt attracted to. I love meeting new people. "

So do I but I wouldn't want to fuck them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Faceless hole??? So straight away another stupid comment.

I'm certainly not a faceless hole. "

A faceless woman then. Either way, faceless. That's not a stupid comment, that what you said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I mainly meet at gangbangs so it's different for me.

I have no problem with people wanting pics first I can understand that. It's the generalised comments that annoy me.

It seems to be common practice on forums to do this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair I mainly meet at gangbangs so it's different for me.

I have no problem with people wanting pics first I can understand that. It's the generalised comments that annoy me.

It seems to be common practice on forums to do this. "

But you've made generalised comments too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well Anna I can't see your face either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have to be?

I can meet quite happily without being attracted to them. They can still be really nice people and have a laugh with them. "

I can have a laugh too, but having a laugh does NOT equate to me wanting to have sex with them.

I can only assume there must be guys on here desperate enough to meet someone without ever seeing their face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You meet people every day that you arnt attracted to. I love meeting new people. "

This is a site where people meet to have sex, I'm not going to have sex with someone I don't fancy just because they turned up, tbh I'd rather wank, and I dont know if I fancy them unless I've seen them. If someone isn't willing to show me their face, I'm sceptical about their motives or their appearance. If it works for you, all well and good, I know there are plenty of the 'any hole a goal' brigade, but that doesn't work for all of us, whatever floats your boat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest I dont give a shit who fucks who or why they do or why they don't. I dont care about pics either way. I choose not to send any and that's all I need to know.

I'm not a timewaster or a man in disguise or an alien.

If someone doesn't want to meet me that's fine won't worry me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm not sure how you'd recognize someone if you hadn't seen their face. We met a guy from another site who was barely recognisable from his photo it was so old we'd have stood no chance if we hadn't even seen that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some men desperate enough to meet me???

I think they enjoyed the meet lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Anna I can't see your face either?"

I'm not planning to meet you for sex, otherwise you would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just weird. Yeh ok I'll meet you just on viewing your body"

it's called a fetish. Takes them to a darkroom and let them run their hands all over your body. Win win.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well Anna I can't see your face either?

I'm not planning to meet you for sex, otherwise you would."

Lots of people don't have their face on public view that's totally different to refusing to send a pic to someone your planning on meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not going to have sex with someone I don't fancy just because they turned up, tbh I'd rather wank"

Cum on their body or in their panties after they suck you off. Don't have to fuck them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face pics are hiden but happy to show when asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely on a swinging site we can understand that it's different strokes for different folks ?

Gangbangs are a totally different ball game than one to one meets , and there is often no need to see faces for gangbangs .

And how about glory holes ?

So whilst we would insist on face pics for a conventional meet , neither of the above would need one .

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before after you must have sent your face pix do you stop?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You meet people every day that you arnt attracted to. I love meeting new people.

"...whatever floats your boat"? Besides water you mean?

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

"Why do people hide their faces and refuse to show them and still expect you to meet them! Literally blind date"

Just block them and delete the messages they are bombarding you with. Only meet those who write to you and fulfil your requirements

Problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone know who's that black shadow she's fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

NEXT!!!!!

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"I only chat and get to know people I may be interested in and also attracted to.

I can't think of anything worse than meeting someone I am not attracted to, but that is just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"NEXT!!!!!

"
is that for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

She looks incredible

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Then you get the ones who send pictures and when you meet them they're very far out of date."

Been there!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

It’s called discretion

Some people prefer to be discrete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea. When I first joined, some man expected me to meet him without showing me his face. He said we could meet in a pub and he would come and sit with me. No thanks lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I broke my rule of meeting blind.never ever again.he had excuses that he didnt know how to take a pic let alone upload one.but he was a newbie, needed a veri, and i met him very local to me.

Lesson well and truly learnt.but he turned up, so he wasnt a time waster."

I'm intrigued as to what happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think you can label someone a time waster for not showing a face pic. Just move on and don't allow your time to be wasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never send face pics until a meet is looking possible but would never meet blind!

Once bitten - never again. Haha.

Felt awful telling them to leave but just didn't find them attractive

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We are hesitant showing faces at first until we get to know people due to N'S job. But we also don't expect a meet until these pics have been exchanged. Anything otherwise would be crazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some men desperate enough to meet me???

I think they enjoyed the meet lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone know who's that black shadow she's fit

Apparently she gets around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to be a time waster. Don't waste your time!

Block them....simples.

THEY are NOT the time wasters. Clearly they have spent NO TIME on their profiles. YOU are the time waster....wasting YOUR time by even considering them....delete, block.....simples. No more time wasting!

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