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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm guessing this is everything apart from sex?

Or have I got this a little wrong?

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By *jandjbCouple
over a year ago

Nr Manchester

It depends on what you want it to mean but your definition is interesting. Perhaps better to say everything to do with sex except penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Varies. We've met people who would say it is just touching, stroking, caressing. Then we've met people who feel that everything except penetration is soft.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Before we decided to take the plunge into full sex with others, my wife and I had a few "soft threesomes" with a male friend where everyone kept their underwear on. So lots of kissing, caressing etc but nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting. As newbies to this scene we are taking it slowly. But I understood It to mean just taking the atmosphere of a club in with own partner first.

I guess it's a definition thing.

Suppose that's what it could mean in a club, but have a different meaning if you arrange a private meeting?

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By *rank EinsteinMan
over a year ago

Burton upon stather

I thought it was a shagging on a foam mattress wearing them inflatable sumo suits so no hard sex happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means different things to different people but to most people I think it means everything except full penetration

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

As with everything set your boundaries and limits at each meet. It doesn't matter what it means to anyone but those directly involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It means different things to different people but to most people I think it means everything except full penetration "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As with everything set your boundaries and limits at each meet. It doesn't matter what it means to anyone but those directly involved."

Think this is spot on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet"

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet"

Might not be waste of time for a couple though

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job."

It's not about not being sure...it's the opposite for us. We know what we do and don't want. Penetration is something we keep back just for us, but love to touch and caress others....nothing wrong with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

It's not about not being sure...it's the opposite for us. We know what we do and don't want. Penetration is something we keep back just for us, but love to touch and caress others....nothing wrong with that "

Completely agree..

If we are being pedantic about definitions.. Isn't "swinging" something couples do? Haha!

A single bloke on a single lady is just "shagging" in my book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

It's not about not being sure...it's the opposite for us. We know what we do and don't want. Penetration is something we keep back just for us, but love to touch and caress others....nothing wrong with that "

totally agree soft swing is not about being unsure ! And as normal when this topic comes up the get on top, two pumps and get off boys says it's a wast of time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought it was a bit like driving with the brakes on...

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By *bovethekneeCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire / Herefordshire


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

It's not about not being sure...it's the opposite for us. We know what we do and don't want. Penetration is something we keep back just for us, but love to touch and caress others....nothing wrong with that

Completely agree..

If we are being pedantic about definitions.. Isn't "swinging" something couples do? Haha!

A single bloke on a single lady is just "shagging" in my book. "

Agree completely. There is so much more than just penetrative sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was a bit like driving with the brakes on... "

when I drive a nice classy car I like to take things slowly and anjoy the ride not just thrash about like a teenage boy that is out of control most of the time !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was a bit like driving with the brakes on...

when I drive a nice classy car I like to take things slowly and anjoy the ride not just thrash about like a teenage boy that is out of control most of the time ! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was a bit like driving with the brakes on... "

Only for the men that want my sexy wife..

For us, it's amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

It's not about not being sure...it's the opposite for us. We know what we do and don't want. Penetration is something we keep back just for us, but love to touch and caress others....nothing wrong with that "

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

We like it.

Prefer a bit of imagination and fun.

If putting cock in a pussy is someones ultimate definition of sex then shows a slight lack of erotica for us.

Have had sex for hours without needing to ejaculate inside my wife.

Don't get me wrong full sex is fun. But if we have time for more than a quick shag. Then oral and fingers are minimum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always thought it was a bit like driving with the brakes on...

when I drive a nice classy car I like to take things slowly and anjoy the ride not just thrash about like a teenage boy that is out of control most of the time ! "

I might have the mind of a teenage boy but these days my body is defintely more at the 'classic car' end of the spectrum (which in my case is a polite euphemism for 'old banger'!)

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By *easehotelCouple
over a year ago

huntingdon,Cambridgeshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job."

good sex is not just penetration, touch and feel teasing can be very erotic, if penetration was everything why do we all like toys and other ways to get our pleasures

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I agree with you. If you're not sure don't do it rather do half a job.

good sex is not just penetration, touch and feel teasing can be very erotic, if penetration was everything why do we all like toys and other ways to get our pleasures"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We like it.

Prefer a bit of imagination and fun.

If putting cock in a pussy is someones ultimate definition of sex then shows a slight lack of erotica for us.

Have had sex for hours without needing to ejaculate inside my wife.

Don't get me wrong full sex is fun. But if we have time for more than a quick shag. Then oral and fingers are minimum "

agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing this is everything apart from sex?

Or have I got this a little wrong?

"

For us, everything is good except actually fucking, use your imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet"

I actually prefer soft play, that's not to say I won't have full sex if its what the guy wants but if I'm honest I would rather not and would happily meet a guy who only wants the oral/foreplay, there just aren't many about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had soft swing with 3s,4s and a 5 without full penetration since 1972--we luckily have always had the most erotic of times

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"I'm guessing this is everything apart from sex?

Or have I got this a little wrong?

"

It could be what Bill Clinton meant

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By *asperthedogCouple
over a year ago

midlands

I woundn't let them in the club in the first place, there's too many of them, its like a bloody plague for gods sake. They could at least stick to couples only nights

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"I woundn't let them in the club in the first place, there's too many of them, its like a bloody plague for gods sake. They could at least stick to couples only nights "

To many people having penetrative sex???

It's a novel approach but I'll run with it.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Its a term couples use when there still unsure about getting in too deep in my opinion.

Bloody waste of time if u ask me .

Never had a single lady ask for it yet

I actually prefer soft play, that's not to say I won't have full sex if its what the guy wants but if I'm honest I would rather not and would happily meet a guy who only wants the oral/foreplay, there just aren't many about "

Not being funny, but serious question if you don't fancy it, then why do it? I'm sure there are one or two blokes out there who would settle for some oral and foreplay.

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