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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know things are hard on here as a single guy as there are many time wasting. But I habe wanted to get into the swinging scene for a long time and to make new friends with mutual ideas and feelings towards swinging as me. Just so hard to get started at all. Just want a good time with mutual people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The simple answer is to go to clubs and socials as this opens door to other things in terms of private meets and parties. It worked for us.

It also helps towards giving you a reputation as a decent reliable guy.

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By *ouplelookingforadultfunCouple
over a year ago

Oxfordshire


"I know things are hard on here as a single guy as there are many time wasting. But I habe wanted to get into the swinging scene for a long time and to make new friends with mutual ideas and feelings towards swinging as me. Just so hard to get started at all. Just want a good time with mutual people "

Well your profile is ok, not full of cock pics like most.

Says you have two Veris but you've hidden one that was you on cam, and you were verified by a man!

So people might look at that and think....."Yet another bi-curious/bisexual guy saying he's straight!

If you are bi then say so, there's an awful lot of bi couples looking for men that you might be missing out on!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank ypu ots a great idea and something I will look into just wish I could get to clubs as miss going to kestrels. Just lack of transportation amd cash flow stopping me. And very rarely any local socails in the area but hope that will change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh im not bi hun I was jusy chatting to a guy but he has left the site so it shows I was verified by him but not show what he says otherwise both would be completely visible. And I dont believe in showing cock pics I believe if someone wants to see them then they will ask for them. And thanks for the compliment on the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women won't ask for cock pictures as they get enough of them already. Send them hen pictures instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Women won't ask for cock pictures as they get enough of them already. Send them hen pictures instead. "

True I suppose but guess they would not ask for more cock pics when there is more than enough on here in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part"

If only getting a partner that likes that sort of thing was easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part"

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples "

I don't feel like a spare part thanks. And my double century of verifications would support this. Swinging is a lifestyle choice and includes all types of people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples

I don't feel like a spare part thanks. And my double century of verifications would support this. Swinging is a lifestyle choice and includes all types of people."

I agree it is very much a lifestyle choice and one im glad I have made as its a interest I have had for a very long time and hoped I would have met many people like me on this site compaired to other sites I have seen. But not alot of luck really. And cant get to clubs anymore sadly not till work starts again and get my self another car.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples "

No I do t think your spare parts at all does not matter if your single or have a partner. Swinging is for all kinds of people and no one is a spare part swinging is more about enjoying your self and meeting some nice people with similar interests to your self.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest advice is be nice . Don't make yourself look desperate and if someone shuns u in anyway simply move on !

Oh and from personal experiences stay away from cpls as they can be very complicated .

There's some amazing ladies on here but you've gotta make yourself stand out from the desperates on here . Oh and don't be pushy to meet either as meeting strangers is a risky business for single ladies so your trust has to be earned first! And good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is a womans world, they can get meets whenever they are horney, as the supply and demand r there, sadly not for us men lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My honest advice is be nice . Don't make yourself look desperate and if someone shuns u in anyway simply move on !

Oh and from personal experiences stay away from cpls as they can be very complicated .

There's some amazing ladies on here but you've gotta make yourself stand out from the desperates on here . Oh and don't be pushy to meet either as meeting strangers is a risky business for single ladies so your trust has to be earned first! And good luck"

Thank you will bare that in mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples "

said singles are not swingers, you're a couple, swinging was made for couples, singles aren't swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

wife swapping/partner swapping, can't really do that if you're single as you have no partner/wife to swap with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

wife swapping/partner swapping, can't really do that if you're single as you have no partner/wife to swap with"
Yes its called casual sex for singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

wife swapping/partner swapping, can't really do that if you're single as you have no partner/wife to swap withYes its called casual sex for singles."

exactly, so its not swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know what dont know why I bother I started the thread to talk to people how are having trouble also getting to meet people. Did npt start ot to get the dictionary definition of what swinging really is or what its not.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples

said singles are not swingers, you're a couple, swinging was made for couples, singles aren't swingers"

are you for real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

wife swapping/partner swapping, can't really do that if you're single as you have no partner/wife to swap withYes its called casual sex for singles.

exactly, so its not swinging"
Yes, your right there.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Swinging, also known as wife swapping or partner swapping, is a non-monogamous behavior, in which partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

wife swapping/partner swapping, can't really do that if you're single as you have no partner/wife to swap with"

with others been the part to take notice of in that definition, others meaning anyone, singles, couples etc, of course singles can be swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples

said singles are not swingers, you're a couple, swinging was made for couples, singles aren't swingers

are you for real."

um, yes singles are not swingers, swinging is for couples who are looking for partners to swap with.

singles shagging singles is just casual sex, not swinging

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"If you want to get into swinging, get yourself a partner, swinging was invented for couples, for partner swapping, so single men and women aren't really classed as swingers, we're just a spare part

Does that mean we're spare parts too ? Cos we're not looking for couples

said singles are not swingers, you're a couple, swinging was made for couples, singles aren't swingers

are you for real.

um, yes singles are not swingers, swinging is for couples who are looking for partners to swap with.

singles shagging singles is just casual sex, not swinging"

Yes singles meeting singles is just that, casual sex, but singles meeting couples, arranging gangbangs, orgys etc is swinging, people in this lifestyle are said to have an open mind.

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