FabSwingers.com forum: chat rooms

By *inkylouise OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

We don't know about anyone else maybe it's just us but we have spent the night in a chat room where no one actually chats to you unless they know you???..... isn't a chat room the point....to chat and get to know people?? Me (mrs) can be quite shy at approaching people so find chat a bit easier but if no one talks apart from to ask for a pvt message or to see your tits how are you supposed to chat to like minded people? I find this very strange.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's because. You have single guys blocked lol. They do all the talking, I have lots of convo's on chat x

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By *inkylouise OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

No we have spoken to single guys but it'd not chat they want in chat they want you to show

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We don't know about anyone else maybe it's just us but we have spent the night in a chat room where no one actually chats to you unless they know you???..... isn't a chat room the point....to chat and get to know people?? Me (mrs) can be quite shy at approaching people so find chat a bit easier but if no one talks apart from to ask for a pvt message or to see your tits how are you supposed to chat to like minded people? I find this very strange.....

It does also depend on which room you go in to. Midland swing is a great room for talking to anyone that comes in. So if you fancy a chat with some crazy people (I mean like-minded) then please drop in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's also true. Directing rooms are what they say they are. But midlands swing is more of a normal chat room

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By *inkylouise OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

We was in northern room however next time we will come say hi I'm Midlands room ty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you were in northern room no one should have been asking you to do anything. That's against the rules in none directing rooms I believe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also I think its best to just poke your way in to convo. It's a free world and all that.

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By *inkylouise OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Yes in fairness we did we've been camming for 12 years but never been in chat where people just don't chat think we should just try another room. In fairness we find clubs hard to talk too. Singles chat to both singles and couples but do tend to stick to singles couples don't seem to talk maybe it's us we love to chat and get to know people have a laugh think most people just people watch lol but ty for your responses xx

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"We was in northern room however next time we will come say hi I'm Midlands room ty

Say hello if you do

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Swap scean is better for just chatting. Fabs appears to be just men getting off.

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

I always go into general chat, I find this room friendly, also helps that I just join in and comment, and now feel welcomed by the regulars that go in there..

I try and say hello to all the new people to entering the room.

But other than the hello's and goodbyes, some don't say much so it is hard to chat....

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

I (Paul) have ventured into the Midlands room on a couple of occasions and they are a friendly bunch but it's so lively I struggle to keep up so tend to leave it to Flik.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easiest way to get people chatting to you "hello room" it really is that simple. Don't just expect others to say hi to you first unless you have your tits out and even then you could be waiting a while

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By *inkylouise OP Woman
over a year ago

Burnley

Ty all for commenting yes we always say hi to the room and people as they come in and like you said try to keep up with chat and comment it's disheartening when even though you try no one responds it's as if we are blocked by everyone lol we will try other rooms because last night it was like pulling teeth lol and I (tanz) love to chat. Wether it's in chat or in person wether u play or don't you can be yourself with like minded people .... maybe that's it maybe they don't like our sense of humour

we will try again but Thankyou for your advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ty all for commenting yes we always say hi to the room and people as they come in and like you said try to keep up with chat and comment it's disheartening when even though you try no one responds it's as if we are blocked by everyone lol we will try other rooms because last night it was like pulling teeth lol and I (tanz) love to chat. Wether it's in chat or in person wether u play or don't you can be yourself with like minded people .... maybe that's it maybe they don't like our sense of humour

we will try again but Thankyou for your advice xx"

You've got to remember that not all of the people in the chat rooms are not there to chat, they are just wankers (not being abusive, but you get what i mean), and some are having convo's of their own.

When I first started using the northern room I wasn't left out, they made me feel very welcome and that was a year ago

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