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do non professional have the same sex as professional people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's more fun if it isn't for financial gain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. I'm non-professional with professional men I fuck. Wouldn't work if we didn't do it the same would it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they want to meet someone similar. Why is that a problem?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "

Professional is just a description, if you think you can infer social standing from it that's good but I don't know how.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "

oh, of course not - professional sex is high brow and intelligent... non-professionals just hump and grunt... lol

(maybe some sarcasm in this post)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

lol very amusing just curious about term professional.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"lol very amusing just curious about term professional. "

It's just a word that people use to describe themselves, like tall, interesting, humorous etc. It's no reflection on anyone else and it isn't designed to put anyone down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they can can bring their quarterly projections to compare and mull over......pillow talk is important

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I always love that "professional couple" description, as if they make a living from being swingers!

My wife and I always think it would be great to get paid for swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can can bring their quarterly projections to compare and mull over......pillow talk is important "

Finally someone who understands!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol very amusing just curious about term professional.

It's just a word that people use to describe themselves, like tall, interesting, humorous etc. It's no reflection on anyone else and it isn't designed to put anyone down."

This

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"I always love that "professional couple" description, as if they make a living from being swingers!

My wife and I always think it would be great to get paid for swinging! "

If only lol...

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the chips that some have on their shoulders over the whole professional thing may stop them....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well guess FTSE could go down ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I can only have sex when I've got my degree and professional qualifications certificates hung up on the wall behind me. And with a calculator on my person at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the chips that some have on their shoulders over the whole professional thing may stop them....

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That would be pomme frites to some

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"the chips that some have on their shoulders over the whole professional thing may stop them....

That would be pomme frites to some "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can can bring their quarterly projections to compare and mull over......pillow talk is important "

They're more likely to want filthy pillow talk from my experiences. Busy men want to leave their work life behind when they fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't got a title. All I got is a throbbing bellend lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"No. I don't got a title. All I got is a throbbing bellend lol "

What about your six pack?

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By *igertigerCouple (MM)
over a year ago

nr Letterkenny

We use the term professionals to indicate a level of discretion required and also week day meets are likely to be out. Other than that....nothing further is implied

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

executive person looking for professional

female , think al be told to fXXX off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I don't got a title. All I got is a throbbing bellend lol

What about your six pack? "
Yes and thanks, forgot about that. I do have a 6 pack as well, could say I am a professional gym goer

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

Simply in better surroundings dahling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should have rethought the title. Sounds like homosexuality and unemployment in the same sentence. That's a whole other thread......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I don't got a title. All I got is a throbbing bellend lol "

Oh Shag,you crack me up at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I can only have sex when I've got my degree and professional qualifications certificates hung up on the wall behind me. And with a calculator on my person at all times. "

I'll be ripping the numbers off your skirt with my teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No. I don't got a title. All I got is a throbbing bellend lol

Oh Shag,you crack me up at times "
Thanks and yes happy I provide entertainment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter what you write about yourself on a profile,call yourself what you want,once people start talking it becomes apparent what kind of person they are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It doesn't matter what you write about yourself on a profile,call yourself what you want,once people start talking it becomes apparent what kind of person they are. "

That's very true. We've met people from every walk of life except aristocracy and royalty and personality and sexiness is not determined by career choice.

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By *vgloryholebs16TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol.

This always makes me smile ....esp those professionals who cant even spell it..what a hoot.

I describe myself as a non-professional who does it professionaly!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This always makes me smile ....esp those professionals who cant even spell it..what a hoot.

I describe myself as a non-professional who does it professionaly!! "

*professionally

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that."

Do they shout tally ho!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho! "

Only if they hunt

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho!

Only if they hunt "

Aren't all us on fab hunting

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For playmates not foxes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profesdional or not everyone is here for a good time

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho!

Only if they hunt

Aren't all us on fab hunting

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For playmates not foxes lol "

Yep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho! "

lol no, but they make lots of sexy noises like they're really enjoying it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

oh, of course not - professional sex is high brow and intelligent... non-professionals just hump and grunt... lol

(maybe some sarcasm in this post)"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho!

lol no, but they make lots of sexy noises like they're really enjoying it."

Not all of them do,and some non-professionals make some very sexy noises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i've noticed they tend to be more vocal when having sex, i like that.

Do they shout tally ho!

lol no, but they make lots of sexy noises like they're really enjoying it.

Not all of them do,and some non-professionals make some very sexy noises "

yeah, i just noticed they tend to make more. anyway i'm on a sex ban for another few weeks so best stop thinking about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most people's idea of professional seems to be "works in an office" which is odd.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Professional generally means that someone has been trained in one of the professions - nothing more nothing less. Those on here who object or sneer at the use of "professional" in a profile would no doubt insist upon having a "professional" doctor, or lawyer, or teacher for their children.

So in answer to the original post - the sex is probably exactly the same for both professionals and non professionals - but the conversation might be different, not better or worse, just different - and there is nothing wrong with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The professionals that have messaged/chatted to us seem to be professionals at being up their own arses.

In the sense that they are some how superior beings.

Maybe we have just been unlucky??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We use the term professionals to indicate a level of discretion required and also week day meets are likely to be out. Other than that....nothing further is implied"

So non professionals aren't discreet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!"

But what if it says "professional woman orgasimator!!!!" How could you turn that down?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!"

....and that's fine - it's exactly what the profiles are for. They tell you about the person and if you don't like what you read you move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

....and that's fine - it's exactly what the profiles are for. They tell you about the person and if you don't like what you read you move on.

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Put of curiosity if you don't mind me asking what are your professions?

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

But what if it says "professional woman orgasimator!!!!" How could you turn that down?"

I want to know what an "orgasimator" is, I'd like to add it to my CV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they say they're a professional i usually assume they have a rate then ask how long a tenna will get me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

But what if it says "professional woman orgasimator!!!!" How could you turn that down?

I want to know what an "orgasimator" is, I'd like to add it to my CV "

Think the terminator combined with Ann summers finest and a black an decker hammer drill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Man - I'm a professional conversationalist

Woman - Shut up & kiss me.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I'm guessing people who consider themselves professionals don't want to be meeting up with tracksuit wearing, baseballed capped chavs who'd bring their pit bull on a meet.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

Any Person Insisting on your professional background prior to meet up must have some financial motive behind it.to me.swinging have nothing to do with profession.

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"We use the term professionals to indicate a level of discretion required and also week day meets are likely to be out. Other than that....nothing further is implied"

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"I'm guessing people who consider themselves professionals don't want to be meeting up with tracksuit wearing, baseballed capped chavs who'd bring their pit bull on a meet."

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

....and that's fine - it's exactly what the profiles are for. They tell you about the person and if you don't like what you read you move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curious about this, so is the good looking/handsome professional a step above the standard professional?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any Person Insisting on your professional background prior to meet up must have some financial motive behind it.to me.swinging have nothing to do with profession."

What a load of rubbish

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people"

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Six foot.five that should.say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So they can can bring their quarterly projections to compare and mull over......pillow talk is important "

Lol love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any Person Insisting on your professional background prior to meet up must have some financial motive behind it.to me.swinging have nothing to do with profession."

Bollocks. The only part of that statement that's in any way valid is where you said "to me".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If they say they're a professional i usually assume they have a rate then ask how long a tenna will get me "

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Why do people get so wound up over this one word?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people get so wound up over this one word?"

From reading the replies, I don't think anybody comes across as "wound up".

Just a discussion surely?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Oooh, we haven't had this inverted snobbery "what is professional" thread for at least 24 hours!

Guess what people, if you see something on a profile that excludes you get over yourselves and stop projecting you're inferiority complex on others.

I doubt those with "professional" on their profile mean any disrespect to "non-professionals" yet the chips on shoulders brigade see it as such!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Why do people get so wound up over this one word?

From reading the replies, I don't think anybody comes across as "wound up".

Just a discussion surely?

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It's a subject that comes up frequently. Wound up was probably the wrong phrase but the fact we feel one word worthy of a thread indicates a level of power and importance is attributed to it in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's just a matter of preference and fetishes, some get turned on by the knowledge that they are fucking a soldier, nurse, doctor, lawyer etc. You can also pretend that you are a professional and avoid the professional discussions (keep it confidential) only to reveal yourself after fucking them right in the arss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's down to how much store you put on some ones personality.

Do you mind if the person you are shagging isn't the sharpest tool in the box,

Or do you actually want a connection with some one of the same intellectual level.

It's a way of saying, we arnt thick as fuck and we want to meet other people who arnt thick as fuck.

A lot of people get offended when some one States exclusive criteria in their play partners requiements

But people like who they like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing people who consider themselves professionals don't want to be meeting up with tracksuit wearing, baseballed capped chavs who'd bring their pit bull on a meet."

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

Been a while since i was paid for sex or for rope services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose it's down to how much store you put on some ones personality.

Do you mind if the person you are shagging isn't the sharpest tool in the box,

Or do you actually want a connection with some one of the same intellectual level.

It's a way of saying, we arnt thick as fuck and we want to meet other people who arnt thick as fuck.

A lot of people get offended when some one States exclusive criteria in their play partners requiements

But people like who they like "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm guessing people who consider themselves professionals don't want to be meeting up with tracksuit wearing, baseballed capped chavs who'd bring their pit bull on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The idea that someone who is a 'professional' must have a higher intellect than someone who isn't a 'professional' is laughable!

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By *exy_as_fuck_coupleCouple
over a year ago

London

This thread has been really funny.

Seems to me a fun, reasonable and non-judgemental question has been asked, then people are inferring different things from it. Some needlessly negative I think. It's all good fun.

Putting professional is just a word and of course anyone is free to use it as an adjective. But what is the user trying to describe about themselves by using that word? And why is that thing they are trying to describe, important to their selection as a swingers?

Is it to boost the person by showcasing another one of their perceived positive attributes. Equivalent to saying "I have a six pack" for example

Or

Is it a selection criteria to let it be known that they do not want "non-professionals"

That's my thoughts on it, maybe someone can chime in on that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with. "

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"This thread has been really funny.

Seems to me a fun, reasonable and non-judgemental question has been asked, then people are inferring different things from it. Some needlessly negative I think. It's all good fun.

Putting professional is just a word and of course anyone is free to use it as an adjective. But what is the user trying to describe about themselves by using that word? And why is that thing they are trying to describe, important to their selection as a swingers?

Is it to boost the person by showcasing another one of their perceived positive attributes. Equivalent to saying "I have a six pack" for example

Or

Is it a selection criteria to let it be known that they do not want "non-professionals"

That's my thoughts on it, maybe someone can chime in on that?"

I think it doesn't matter what you put on your profile, somebody will have a problem with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do. "

Not simply, (which is why I mentioned both) but it's a factor for me. Only people who have a chip on their shoulder about their own intelligence or job would care - and I don't want to meet anyone who's got that much of a chip on their shoulder so it's a useful filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every one has selection criteria, be that short tall fat thin what ever.

If your a doctor or barrister your probably going to have more in common with other doctors or barristers than you are with a bin man or traffic warden.

Is it being a snob, well maybe but like minded people will always gravitate towards each other why should that be different on a casual sex site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they lay on a briefcase

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I think it doesn't matter what you put on your profile, somebody will have a problem with it. "

Ain't that the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

....and that's fine - it's exactly what the profiles are for. They tell you about the person and if you don't like what you read you move on.

"

Or you moan about it on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do.

Not simply, (which is why I mentioned both) but it's a factor for me. Only people who have a chip on their shoulder about their own intelligence or job would care - and I don't want to meet anyone who's got that much of a chip on their shoulder so it's a useful filter."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do. "

Actually Id say yes you can, in the majority of cases.

If some ones a bit thick then they can probably only get a shit job.

If they are bright and are doing a shit job then they probably lack drive ambition and motivation.

Now, does that mean some one who is bright capable and ambitious is a better sex partner than some one who pushes a brush round the streets well I'll let you decide.

And before people point out that I am generalising and not every one is the same. Yeah I know but we all do it.

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over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do.

Actually Id say yes you can, in the majority of cases.

If some ones a bit thick then they can probably only get a shit job.

If they are bright and are doing a shit job then they probably lack drive ambition and motivation.

Now, does that mean some one who is bright capable and ambitious is a better sex partner than some one who pushes a brush round the streets well I'll let you decide.

And before people point out that I am generalising and not every one is the same. Yeah I know but we all do it. "

Utter bollocks!

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over a year ago


"I don't mention the word on my profile. But I sure as hell take things like intelligence and type of job into account in deciding whether I want to meet someone. Not because I think I'm better than everyone else, just because I know what I like and what I'm into and who I tend to get on with.

So you think you can measure someone's intelligence simply by what job they do.

Actually Id say yes you can, in the majority of cases.

If some ones a bit thick then they can probably only get a shit job.

If they are bright and are doing a shit job then they probably lack drive ambition and motivation.

Now, does that mean some one who is bright capable and ambitious is a better sex partner than some one who pushes a brush round the streets well I'll let you decide.

And before people point out that I am generalising and not every one is the same. Yeah I know but we all do it.

Utter bollocks!"

Ah an incisive and thoughtful response to my comment there, well I think your comment is utter bollox too so much so I'm going to misspell it

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "

There are people in blue collar jobs, pink collar jobs (no, not only gays ) and white collar jobs. People generally feel comfortable with similar people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "

Because if you are willing to have sexual intercourse with some one you really should be interested in what kind of person they are.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

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I don't suggest that social status has any impact on sexual performance.

Being well educated doesn't mean you will be good in bed, it just means your more likely to have something to talk about after sexy times.

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over a year ago

Leicester

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Would someone who is looking for another professional get offended if they looked down on the coffee table and saw a Daily Mirror instead of The Times, it does sound farcical but would it ruin your intellectual image of the person and in doing so deem them unfit for purpose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I fuck as goo as anyone so profession does not mean you fuck better then someone that is not.

I'm a stay at home dad to 4 girls by the way

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I don't suggest that social status has any impact on sexual performance.

Being well educated doesn't mean you will be good in bed, it just means your more likely to have something to talk about after sexy times.

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In that case I fully agree with you.

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over a year ago


"Would someone who is looking for another professional get offended if they looked down on the coffee table and saw a Daily Mirror instead of The Times, it does sound farcical but would it ruin your intellectual image of the person and in doing so deem them unfit for purpose. "

I can't speak for every one but I'm looking to make connections with funny cool interesting and intelligent people. Professional people often are these things.

What literature (if you can seem newspapers as such) some one has on their coffee table isn't probably going to factor into the selection process. Although it might be cool if they were reading something interesting.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

Why me and Kim swing is because we like sex with other people, we never let class, education, social standings get in the way of our fun as we all as people have something interesting to offer.

Our friends range from people unemployed to multi millionaires but separately they all have a quality we like to want a friendship with each of them.

Years back me and Kim took a very professional business couple to an awards do, we also invited our friend eastend gangster Dave Courtney to which they were horrified.

As the evening went on they saw past their awkward saftey barriers not a gangster but a fun friendly guy who they could call a friend, until then our friend who was a government minister wouldn't have dreamed of being in the company with people like Dave.

A few years later we are all still friends so it shows there is hope for everyone.

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

That conjures up... Professional couple seeks professional couple...

Hi we're a professional couple, Mr is a medical doctor and Mrs is research scientist. We noticed you two are a professional couple, in what field?

And the reply comes...

Well Mrs is a Professional Criminal and Mrs is a Professional Prostitute.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"That conjures up... Professional couple seeks professional couple...

Hi we're a professional couple, Mr is a medical doctor and Mrs is research scientist. We noticed you two are a professional couple, in what field?

And the reply comes...

Well Mrs is a Professional Criminal and Mrs is a Professional Prostitute. "

A lesbian couple?

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford


"That conjures up... Professional couple seeks professional couple...

Hi we're a professional couple, Mr is a medical doctor and Mrs is research scientist. We noticed you two are a professional couple, in what field?

And the reply comes...

Well Mrs is a Professional Criminal and Mrs is a Professional Prostitute.

A lesbian couple?"

No, bit of a typo LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well guess prostitute is oldest profession

criminal legal or illegal depends in profession , lol you could just control curancy exchange rate allegedly Banker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter that much?

I've met (in life, not just swinging) folks from all walks of life...I find that some 'professionals' or career centred folk can be as thick as two short planks but are just good at their particular job, or they can be highly intelligent, some are great folk, some are idiots and every flavour in between, some I find agreeable....some I don't.

Exactly the same can be said for people at the other end of the scale and are on benefits....some are amazing and intelligent people, some are thick idiots and lots are some other combination in between.

In short, I find it doesn't matter how you earn your money, or how much of it you earn (or scrounge) it has absolutely zero bearing on how I get on with people....none whatsoever....so the word professional on a profile means nothing to me.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Because if you are willing to have sexual intercourse with some one you really should be interested in what kind of person they are. "

Why should people be interested in what kind of person they are? It's just a fuck. At clubs people don't go round asking what job they do before they hook up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small."

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people"

I don't think you can infer someone else's motives for using a word you can only project how you feel about a word on to it.

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over a year ago


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people

I don't think you can infer someone else's motives for using a word you can only project how you feel about a word on to it."

Sorry but I disagree you can see why people are using a word or phrase to try and set themselves above the rest of the people

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over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Because if you are willing to have sexual intercourse with some one you really should be interested in what kind of person they are.

Why should people be interested in what kind of person they are? It's just a fuck. At clubs people don't go round asking what job they do before they hook up. "

And that's why I don't go to clubs, because I AM interested in the other person.

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over a year ago


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people

I don't think you can infer someone else's motives for using a word you can only project how you feel about a word on to it.

Sorry but I disagree you can see why people are using a word or phrase to try and set themselves above the rest of the people"

If people are trying to set themselves above other people who cares? You don't have to meet the elitist uppity snobs, you can just pass them by. They're not affecting your life.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"lol very amusing just curious about term professional.

It's just a word that people use to describe themselves, like tall, interesting, humorous etc. It's no reflection on anyone else and it isn't designed to put anyone down."

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people

I don't think you can infer someone else's motives for using a word you can only project how you feel about a word on to it.

Sorry but I disagree you can see why people are using a word or phrase to try and set themselves above the rest of the people"

We'll agree to disagree then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love prof women such kinky girls and not many even ask what i do, so it's not a problem for me. They know im not going to work with a tie though and im rough as fuck, so chances of talking office is kept to role play only!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It confuses me, what makes a professional? Is it there job? is it the money they earn? Or is it simply that they work? It strikes me as a phrase people use to make themselves seem more important or of a better quality than other people

No, it's just a word. If it makes people feel less important or of lesser quality thst is their feelings about themselves. Nobody can make anyone feel bad about themselves by using one word in their profile but people who feel bad about themselves will always interpret things that way.

I'm just over five feet tall, if I read a profile of s did foot five person I don't start a thread wondering why they put it making all us short people feel small.

I didn't say It made other people feel bad, what I said was it's a word people use to elevate themselves, it's not about how it makes other people feel, it's about how it makes the people using the word feel superior to other people

I don't think you can infer someone else's motives for using a word you can only project how you feel about a word on to it.

Sorry but I disagree you can see why people are using a word or phrase to try and set themselves above the rest of the people

We'll agree to disagree then "

We will, that's what's good about the forum people can agree to disagree, as long as it's politely. People are allowed different opinions

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By *ilkchocolate87Man
over a year ago

sw london

Probably not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some Professional people don't know how to spell it either which always makes me chuckkel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gorra keep away from the rif raf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Because if you are willing to have sexual intercourse with some one you really should be interested in what kind of person they are. "

If you get on you get on and if you dont you dont if you dont like people using what is just a simple term as professional dont contact them.

Oh and by the way it's someone not some one

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By *lashheartMan
over a year ago

shrewsbury

I'm dead disappointed .. Thought Bodie and Doyle were back

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By *icked kittyCouple
over a year ago

Uttoxeter


"So they can can bring their quarterly projections to compare and mull over......pillow talk is important "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who gives a f*** about the profession??? This is swinging site NOT Linkedin is it @)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is putting that your a professional not the same as putting the Sydney university statement, everyone does it and it means fuck all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a Professional and are female you grab the man's arse between your legs and jerk his buttocks up and down to make him cum quicker and shout. NEXT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional sex is the only way for me!

I have an application and selection process with clear criteria . An inter_iew process - and an appraisal upon completion of the task in hand! I wouldn't even contemplate un- professional sex!!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Snobbery is not an attractive trait - but then neither is inverted snobbery. I've seen more of the second than the first on this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because they want to meet someone similar. Why is that a problem?"

I don't think the OP is saying there is a problem

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over a year ago


"Professional sex is the only way for me!

I have an application and selection process with clear criteria . An inter_iew process - and an appraisal upon completion of the task in hand! I wouldn't even contemplate un- professional sex!! "

DO you send feedback after or through out the selection process if they are shortlisted or their application will not be progressed to the next stage? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who gives a f*** about the profession??? This is swinging site NOT Linkedin is it @) "

Are you sure? All my veris rate me for my stakeholder engagement and asset management skills

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By *et a roomCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"Is putting that your a professional not the same as putting the Sydney university statement, everyone does it and it means fuck all."

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By *ythenshawefredMan
over a year ago

stockport

I'd think professional is somewhat outdated if people are still referring to themselves as professional due having a professional qualification, granted I know it is a term associated with white collar work however I just think it doesn't fit well with the way the working world is now.

No comment about somebody calling themselves professional, blue collar, working class etc knock yourself out in my experience you find equal levels of morals, manners, standards and intelligence right across the spectrum and I take little notice of the tags people hang round their neck.

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES


"I don't suggest that social status has any impact on sexual performance.

Being well educated doesn't mean you will be good in bed, it just means your more likely to have something to talk about after sexy times.

"

Spot on ! I've had very bad sex with a lawyer and the best ever with another.

A well written profile doesn't need to include the word professional.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the word "nice" in it then. Would that be more apt if you were a Professional. It try to sort of convey you have good manners and wont go off on one.

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over a year ago


"How about the word "nice" in it then. Would that be more apt if you were a Professional. It try to sort of convey you have good manners and wont go off on one."

Professional people are not all nice and even tempered though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I wonder if so much would be inferred if lots of people used the term "blue collar" in their profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about the word "nice" in it then. Would that be more apt if you were a Professional. It try to sort of convey you have good manners and wont go off on one.

Professional people are not all nice and even tempered though.

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I am ....... Most of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Professional is just a word to me it doesn't describe anything other than that certain person thinks there job is a profession it doesn't imply intellect. some people are clever at there job and the buck stops there. In real life and social situations they can be out classed by someone who isn't a "professional" it's better to have a general knowledge on everything than 1 certain aspect

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

Eureka, I 'think' I've worked what the term 'Professional' means in the context of it being posted on a swinger sits profile.

Basically it means, 'I do not post in forum threads about why I post the term 'Professional' on my profile. PUH, like I'd speak to the likes of you lot!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!

....and that's fine - it's exactly what the profiles are for. They tell you about the person and if you don't like what you read you move on.

"

don't think it has much to do with social status, I couldn't give a hoot if a lady is professional or not (as long as she's not on here for money lol) it's just another way of people describing themselves I guess. If you like them, and they tick your boxes, does it really matter ?

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London


"Professional or not everyone is here for a good time"

My thoughts exactly. By having friends from all walks of life, we gain more depth as people by having variety in our social circles.

Professional or not, a cool person is a cool person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This always makes me smile ....esp those professionals who cant even spell it..what a hoot.

I describe myself as a non-professional who does it professionaly!!

*professionally "

Lmfao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This always makes me smile ....esp those professionals who cant even spell it..what a hoot.

I describe myself as a non-professional who does it professionaly!!

*professionally

Lmfao"

Can't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "
Some people feel the need to make themselves self important by using this description. Personally I tend to ignore profiles who describe themselves as professionals as my experience has generally found them to be snobby.

I don't mean posh, I mean snobs. I.e. stuck up and think they are better than they actually are...

Now I am just going to put on my tin hat and hide in thus bunker...

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site "

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

I saw a profile yesterday where the guy declared himself as "very professional" to distinguish himself no doubt from us mere professionals....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some see people who do not do professional jobs as a little thick, and they feel as an accountant they couldn't possibly have anything in common with the women who serves them at asda

In my opinion its just snobbery

I have met unemployed people I have met a GP it does not bother me what job somebody does so long as they are nice, grounded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol, sometimes i want to label myself as slutty chav mum, with NVQs. Just so people know what i am before we meet.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol."

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it."

Yes that hypocrisy never ceases to amuse me either.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

are the masses still rebelling against those who have....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it."

I have never read a profile where the person states they are not professional

Plenty who say they are

Does it really matter what jobs people do?

Do people really decide to meet based on their job?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it.

I have never read a profile where the person states they are not professional

Plenty who say they are

Does it really matter what jobs people do?

Do people really decide to meet based on their job?"

Lots of people proclaim their non professional status when these threads get going. It doesn't matter one jot or iota to me what job people do or none. I don't meet based on jobs either, why would I, it isn't an indicator of anything but possible salary.......and that is maybe the reason people are so sensitive about the word professional.

We've met people from all walks of life, most of them have been very nice

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over a year ago

After a face pic request usually people ask what you do for a living....

Professional just means teacher doctor lawyer etc

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it.

I have never read a profile where the person states they are not professional

Plenty who say they are

Does it really matter what jobs people do?

Do people really decide to meet based on their job?

Lots of people proclaim their non professional status when these threads get going. It doesn't matter one jot or iota to me what job people do or none. I don't meet based on jobs either, why would I, it isn't an indicator of anything but possible salary.......and that is maybe the reason people are so sensitive about the word professional.

We've met people from all walks of life, most of them have been very nice

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I know a CEO of a large multi-national who graduated from Harvard. He is now unemployed so currently has a zero salary and zero bonuses

Whenever we used to go out, he used to pay for everything. Now when we go out, I pay for everything

Income does not matter

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it.

I have never read a profile where the person states they are not professional

Plenty who say they are

Does it really matter what jobs people do?

Do people really decide to meet based on their job?

Lots of people proclaim their non professional status when these threads get going. It doesn't matter one jot or iota to me what job people do or none. I don't meet based on jobs either, why would I, it isn't an indicator of anything but possible salary.......and that is maybe the reason people are so sensitive about the word professional.

We've met people from all walks of life, most of them have been very nice

I know a CEO of a large multi-national who graduated from Harvard. He is now unemployed so currently has a zero salary and zero bonuses

Whenever we used to go out, he used to pay for everything. Now when we go out, I pay for everything

Income does not matter"

No it doesn't. The only income I'm concerned about is my own

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it."

Yes if i was put into a category it would be Professional but as i am comfortable with myself & who i am i don't need to declare the fact to find potential swinging partners, me & Kim meet anyone despite their social standing.

You will get asbo swingers whatever their class/social standing/education qualifications etc so vetting people on their educational achievements seems a bit ludicrous but whatever floats a persons boat.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea


"Does it matter that much?

I've met (in life, not just swinging) folks from all walks of life...I find that some 'professionals' or career centred folk can be as thick as two short planks but are just good at their particular job, or they can be highly intelligent, some are great folk, some are idiots and every flavour in between, some I find agreeable....some I don't.

Exactly the same can be said for people at the other end of the scale and are on benefits....some are amazing and intelligent people, some are thick idiots and lots are some other combination in between.

In short, I find it doesn't matter how you earn your money, or how much of it you earn (or scrounge) it has absolutely zero bearing on how I get on with people....none whatsoever....so the word professional on a profile means nothing to me.....

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This is spot on mate as you get undesirables in any sector.

I remember going to a club once & doing a quiz night in which i got 17 out of the 20 general knowledge questions right, some posh people there said it not true what they about people from Essex is it...i just thought "bless them" you get dip shits at all levels.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"why is there comments about peoples social standing on swing site

Its more to make them feel good about themselves rather than potential swinging partners, we meet all people whatever their social standing...if the social status thing rears its ugly head get out while you still can lol.

This is what I don't understand. It's ok to declare your social status by saying you aren't a professional but not ok to declare it by saying you are. . I honestly don't get it.

Yes if i was put into a category it would be Professional but as i am comfortable with myself & who i am i don't need to declare the fact to find potential swinging partners, me & Kim meet anyone despite their social standing.

You will get asbo swingers whatever their class/social standing/education qualifications etc so vetting people on their educational achievements seems a bit ludicrous but whatever floats a persons boat.

"

Yep, we basically agree then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see 'professional couple' I think I'll be fucking 'bodie and Doyle'..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had a reply this morning from a guy who says he is a profesanal looking for similar,

Unfortunitly his spelling gave him away, lol.

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over a year ago


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it."

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me."

You put on your profile that you're not ignorant - do you have to remind yourself of that - and why do people need to know that to have sex with you?

Your profile is you telling other fab members what you think is important. It's entirely your choice. If it's irrelevant to the person reading the profile they can ignore it. It isn't anyone's right to tell you how you should or shouldn't describe yourself.

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West

British people are not very good at being direct and have a habit of going out of their way to not cause offence. Unfortunately, the way they often disguise the message also causes offence to some.

I wish people would just be up front, straight and direct and instead of describing themselves as professional and looking for same.... Just say that they don't fuck chavs. Unfortunately however, if they were to say that, they would then be accused of being snobs, up their own arses etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me.

You put on your profile that you're not ignorant - do you have to remind yourself of that - and why do people need to know that to have sex with you?

Your profile is you telling other fab members what you think is important. It's entirely your choice. If it's irrelevant to the person reading the profile they can ignore it. It isn't anyone's right to tell you how you should or shouldn't describe yourself. "

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"I'm guessing people who consider themselves professionals don't want to be meeting up with tracksuit wearing, baseballed capped chavs who'd bring their pit bull on a meet."
. Amusing post

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over a year ago


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me."

It's one of several adjectives on our profile. It is the only one that ever causes any consternation on tge forums. It doesn't seem to cause us any issues with meets.

The inverted snobbery and threads lije this is why the term will never be removed. We don't really want to meet people as bitter as some of the responses on this thread suggest they are

And personally we differentiate between swinging and this being a 'sex website' which I guess why our profile is more about our personas than a ticklist of sexual fantasies.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me.

It's one of several adjectives on our profile. It is the only one that ever causes any consternation on tge forums. It doesn't seem to cause us any issues with meets.

The inverted snobbery and threads lije this is why the term will never be removed. We don't really want to meet people as bitter as some of the responses on this thread suggest they are

And personally we differentiate between swinging and this being a 'sex website' which I guess why our profile is more about our personas than a ticklist of sexual fantasies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just had a reply this morning from a guy who says he is a profesanal looking for similar,

Unfortunitly his spelling gave him away, lol."

Being able to spell has nothing to do with being professional. I'm exceptionally good at spelling but am just an administrator, hardly a professional

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"We're both professionals. We describe ourselves as that on our profile. Don't really care whether people are offended by it.

But why do you feel the need to put it on a sex website profile,

Do You constantly have to remind yourself your a professional something!

I'm a scientist, but others don't need to know that, to have sex with me.

You put on your profile that you're not ignorant - do you have to remind yourself of that - and why do people need to know that to have sex with you?

Your profile is you telling other fab members what you think is important. It's entirely your choice. If it's irrelevant to the person reading the profile they can ignore it. It isn't anyone's right to tell you how you should or shouldn't describe yourself. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As soon as I see the word professional on a profile I just move on!!"

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