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What's the most common question asked by a non swinger when you tell them you are one?

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By *aturdayNightSex OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tameside, Manchester

For us it seems to be..."Doesn't it freak you out watching your partner being fucked by someone else?".

Most people we told are totally intrigued by the idea and admit to wanting to themselves, but only if they were single.

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

Have you had sex?

I always say no. I have a small penis and swingers love it bigger and I don't own an animal mask..............

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By *otnolongerwifeCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

I'm yet to be in that situation. How does a non-swinger find you are? Maybe I should try causally dropping it into a conversation with my good looking friends; might increase my pool of potential playmates x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't broadcast my personal life so never come across this situation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't broadcast my personal life so never come across this situation "

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By *aveandkate35Couple
over a year ago

telford

Usually after staring at me for 20 mins I get....

"So..... You're not a virgin?? "

;-)

D

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

It happened with us when a friend went to use our laptop to order a take away and I forgot I had left the browser open on this site!!

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley


"For us it seems to be..."Doesn't it freak you out watching your partner being fucked by someone else?".

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That's exactly what was said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you had sex?

I always say no. I have a small penis and swingers love it bigger and I don't own an animal mask.............."
Now that I can help you with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For us it seems to be..."Doesn't it freak you out watching your partner being fucked by someone else?".

That's exactly what was said. "

Had this too.....particularly from work colleagues. Even though I am single! But to be honest most people make no big deal of it. Some seem a little bit jealous? Others will ask what it entails, do I go to clubs, parties etc...I simply say yes to all lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an awkward moment at work once, bearing in mind I'm single and have been since I split with my ex 7 years ago, one of my work colleagues asked me if I would cover some of her calls so I said I couldn't as I had to go to family planning at 2pm, she looked at me and said what do you need family planning for your single

Ermmm I just said well you never know I like to be prepared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'When are you taking me to one of those clubs' quickly followed by 'but don't tell my wife'

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By *aturdayNightSex OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tameside, Manchester


"I had an awkward moment at work once, bearing in mind I'm single and have been since I split with my ex 7 years ago, one of my work colleagues asked me if I would cover some of her calls so I said I couldn't as I had to go to family planning at 2pm, she looked at me and said what do you need family planning for your single

Ermmm I just said well you never know I like to be prepared "

Thought you didn't broadcast your personal life. Could have just said you had an appointment and left it at that.

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

ive had a few comments whilst being at a customers house for the last 4 months only because ive said im going to a party so wont be in work over weekend

they also know that im on A swinger site as well ( family )

ive had from my nephew can I come to a party this week

replied with: you will have to be a member

hey do they still do the keys in the bowl at swingers partys ?

replied with: hasnt in all the time ive been on the swingers sites

followed by can I come to a partys as well

mrs of the above

ive heard all about you and your naughty ways you naughty boy the rest im not telling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an awkward moment at work once, bearing in mind I'm single and have been since I split with my ex 7 years ago, one of my work colleagues asked me if I would cover some of her calls so I said I couldn't as I had to go to family planning at 2pm, she looked at me and said what do you need family planning for your single

Ermmm I just said well you never know I like to be prepared

Thought you didn't broadcast your personal life. Could have just said you had an appointment and left it at that."

That's hardly broadcasting my personal life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't broadcast my personal life so never come across this situation "

This lack of discretion is exactly why swingers have a bad name.

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By *aturdayNightSex OP   Couple
over a year ago

Tameside, Manchester


"I don't broadcast my personal life so never come across this situation

This lack of discretion is exactly why swingers have a bad name."

People talk about their sex lives all the time amongst friends. I don't see why anyone should be ashamed to say they enjoy swinging.

I was also gonna say that another question we get asked is "isn't it only old married couples that do that once they're bored with each other?" It's exactly not talking about it that keeps those negative stereotypes alive.

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By *s_4_uCouple
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Everyone we have ever spoke about it too has been over the moon with it. Lol

They can't belive Young people do it.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I had an interesting convo with some vanilla friends about glory holes...culminating in my mate's extremely vanilla sister asking for an invite to my 50th at a swinging club in a couple of years

With regards to the discretion comments - fair dos, some folk don't discuss any aspects of their sex life with friends, some do - the majority of my mates know I'm single and enjoy recreational sex, especially at clubs...I answer their questions with generalities about what can happen rather than saying "I shagged Brian from next door whilst he was sucking Phil from No 27 and being fingered by Anna who lives up the road from your mam"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get asked about the keys in the bowl!!!

My closest friends know and always ask about club visits and adventures

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually how many people have you slept with. And if u have a three some doesn't it put u of with another guy there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to mention 'are you up for a threesome then?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't broadcast my personal life so never come across this situation

This lack of discretion is exactly why swingers have a bad name.

People talk about their sex lives all the time amongst friends. I don't see why anyone should be ashamed to say they enjoy swinging.

I was also gonna say that another question we get asked is "isn't it only old married couples that do that once they're bored with each other?" It's exactly not talking about it that keeps those negative stereotypes alive."

What makes us laugh is that when talking about swinging to the husband on his own he'll say "I'd love to but the wife wouldn't have it!".

Then the wife on her own will say "I wouldn't mind but he wouldn't do it!" lol.

Talk about a lack of communication!

We often get the "I wouldn't mind but without my wife/husband", they seem to be missing the concept.

A lot seem to get up on the jealousy/insecurity thing too.

XXXX

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