FabSwingers.com forum: married men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?

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By *ustcutieWoman
over a year ago

edinburgh

Not for me

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By *picyminxWoman
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Nup. Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet married men as they just don't have the time I require to put into a meet

Most are clock watching and have to be home by pub chucking out time and that's not what I want

I want a guy who can relax, go for a drink, get a hotel and spend a while night of fun, not many married guys can offer that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some can!......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Don't go there

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Im happy to play with an married guy - If i can speak with his Mrs to make sure shes ok with it, as then its swinging not cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why that?

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

I can see why it might appeal to some - the fact a guy is willing to risk his home, his partnership and possibly his family for you, might be a massive ego trip for many. But not for me.

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

I can only meet daytimes so I tend to meet guys who works shifts or High up in businesses to take time off ok.

I know it's a 'naughty' but seeing the wedding ring on a hand in action whether on cam or real life, is a bit of a buzz.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too complicated for me.......dont do it.....disaster.learnt the hard way.x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Depends how you define fidelity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see why it might appeal to some - the fact a guy is willing to risk his home, his partnership and possibly his family for you, might be a massive ego trip for many. But not for me."

Usually risking it for the sex not the person though.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I don't get off on it, but have no problems playing with married guys (apart from the occasional clock watching aspect)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"
Yes I been thinking that to and I bet many goes behind their back, arranges meets and deletes the msgs so hubby/wife cant read them later after a saucy encounter they had no clue about

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Why that?"

If you need to ask your on the site

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

"I can see why it might appeal to some - the fact a guy is willing to risk his home, his partnership and possibly his family for you, might be a massive ego trip for many. But not for me.

Usually risking it for the sex not the person though."

Sex with that person.

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

If I don't know, I don't care.

If I knew the guy was attached, I would avoid - head games aren't my bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?Yes I been thinking that to and I bet many goes behind their back, arranges meets and deletes the msgs so hubby/wife cant read them later after a saucy encounter they had no clue about

I get loads of message from male half's of couples asking me to meet them alone, even swinging couples cheat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That makes no sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see why it might appeal to some - the fact a guy is willing to risk his home, his partnership and possibly his family for you, might be a massive ego trip for many. But not for me.

Usually risking it for the sex not the person though."

Agree

No man is risking anything for me as a person, they just want a fuck and I could be any woman so long as I agreed to meet

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By *emonWoman84Woman
over a year ago

Hartlepool

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"

Married men (or women) who play without their partner's knowledge are a complete turn off for me. I wouldn't want my husband to do it to me and I don't do it to him. He knows about everyone I'm interested in - always has, always will and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few probably do, But not as many as you'd think, Its probably just a fantasy for a lot of Men,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of message from male half's of couples asking me to meet them alone, even swinging couples cheat "
Yes thought so to and yes that shows even swingers cheats as well

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

"I don't meet married men as they just don't have the time I require to put into a meet

Most are clock watching and have to be home by pub chucking out time and that's not what I want

I want a guy who can relax, go for a drink, get a hotel and spend a while night of fun, not many married guys can offer that"

This.. highly frustrating.. I've actually had people tell me they cant make a meet because their partner has come home early ect.

Just awkward and makes me feel uncomfortable.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Not for me....I probably have in a club situation but in arranging a meet I prefer single men

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few probably do, But not as many as you'd think, Its probably just a fantasy for a lot of Men,"
Yes that's right, maibe 5% or so does it and I meant for women as well going behind their hubbys back.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

"I can see why it might appeal to some - the fact a guy is willing to risk his home, his partnership and possibly his family for you, might be a massive ego trip for many. But not for me.

Usually risking it for the sex not the person though.

Agree

No man is risking anything for me as a person, they just want a fuck and I could be any woman so long as I agreed to meet "

But clearly the 'any woman' is preferable than his wife, or he wouldn't be cheating. I'm sure there are some who'd see that as a huge endorsement.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

Utter tosh

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

Don't agree with that

I'm sure lots are open and honest with each other but I know for a fact not all are as I have first hand experience of male half of couples looking to meet behind their wife's back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Yes this one Genuinely knows His Partner is Faithful because She knows there is no reason to hide anything from me.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Naive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question."

In my eyes any form of swinging isnt being unfaithful so long as your partner knows what you are doing

To me being unfaithful isn't a sexual act its an act of deceit, you can have a 20 man gang bang and be faithful if your hubbies there and wanking over it

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Naive!"

Who?

I think you're trying to provoke.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

In my eyes any form of swinging isnt being unfaithful so long as your partner knows what you are doing

To me being unfaithful isn't a sexual act its an act of deceit, you can have a 20 man gang bang and be faithful if your hubbies there and wanking over it

Us too but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't for me married men like my men single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question."

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naive!"

Oh Dear! you dont know me or my History Pal so dont judge on your own Insecurities its not clever or attractive

Gimp

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp"

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

Really, so you know everyone personally do you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

I'm not unfaithful as I have noone to be unfaithful to unless you count be dragging a guy round on a lead, that may well upset my dog

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp"

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"
It never was a turn on in itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

Yes I play with a couple of married guys, suits me better, and before anyone comments yes I have been the other half of a cheating husband but he was stupid enough to get caught out, life is too short to worry about the what ifs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to justify yourself is not attractive...is your wife being unfaithful?

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will happily meet married men. They dont get clingy. They have needs same as the rest of us. We both have fun then go back to reality

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp"

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I would not judge anybody (I am sure I have said this half a dozen times on similar threads in the last few days ...

While happy to talk to, have a coffee with etc ...I would not knowingly PLAY with a married/ attached man - just a personal choice for my own reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met married men. It doesn't turn me on though, they're just men. I don't particularly like the fetishisation of infidelity though, so I don't meet anyone who gives me the "fucking another man's wife turns me on" thing either.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp"

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

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By *oconut2Woman
over a year ago

Nether regions of the back of beyond

"I will happily meet married men. They dont get clingy. They have needs same as the rest of us. We both have fun then go back to reality "

My thoughts exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream. "

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp"

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

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By *unbeamWoman
over a year ago

aberdeen

"I don't meet married men as they just don't have the time I require to put into a meet

Most are clock watching and have to be home by pub chucking out time and that's not what I want

I want a guy who can relax, go for a drink, get a hotel and spend a while night of fun, not many married guys can offer that"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

Nah She will be watching

Gimp

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp"

pissing myself laughing counts, right?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

Nah She will be watching

Gimp"

Mr N and her can have a pleasant chat then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

pissing myself laughing counts, right?

Fuck me not another so called squirter

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

Nah She will be watching

Gimp

Mr N and her can have a pleasant chat then

Gord almighty woman dont let her near your man, She aint called Nympho Nette for nothing

Gimp

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

Nah She will be watching

Gimp

Mr N and her can have a pleasant chat then

Gord almighty woman dont let her near your man, She aint called Nympho Nette for nothing

Gimp"

I expect he'd make a brave attempt to cope

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

Personally I wouldn't like to be an enabler for a cheat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

What about soft swing? Is that unfaithful? Genuine question.

I believe that it is, I dont see any difference in getting sticky fingers or Shagging if you are doing it behind a loved ones back.

Gimp

Me too but I suspect that the op is trying to show hi that since we are all "unfaithful" it's ok for him to be too.

And im sure every Female has a damp gusset now

Gimp

You assume sir that we all have gusset to dampen

Ohh Bugger! You have just ruined my Fantasy of you parading in front of me in ya Pantaloons

On to plan B

Gimp

Gimp! We're made for each other, my fantasy is of YOU parading in front of me in your pantaloons.

Madam i am strictly a Fong Man

Gimp

Oh well a maiden can but dream.

We all have our Dreams Ms...Now if you could just raise that rear a little Higher while i finish off

Gimp

Steady! You'll be unfaithful

Nah She will be watching

Gimp

Mr N and her can have a pleasant chat then

Gord almighty woman dont let her near your man, She aint called Nympho Nette for nothing

Gimp

I expect he'd make a brave attempt to cope

Being a Masochist THIS i would like to see

Gimp

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I have met married men and prob will do so in the future...

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Am not comfortable meeting attached men OR women without their partner's consent.

Probably wouldn't bother Bradley as much but it is something I just couldn't bring myself to do.

- Amy. x

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

"I can only meet daytimes so I tend to meet guys who works shifts or High up in businesses to take time off ok.

I know it's a 'naughty' but seeing the wedding ring on a hand in action whether on cam or real life, is a bit of a buzz. "

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By *edsBonkingMan
over a year ago

Near MK

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"

Good luck with this thread. You'll need it ! Us married men are all so bad !!

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We had a very bad experience with a married man. He had told us he was divorced and unattached but it turns out he was married and his wife, thinking he was unfaithful had followed him to our house for a meet. She ended up causing a hell of a scene on our doorstep to which a few of our neighbours witnessed so we will never meet with married man again.

As for my partner being faithful. It is a swingers website so no. We both get turned on by our OH being shagged by someone else so Starburst is allowed to meet other people and he always tells me about it afterwards and the same goes for me

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

I'm 100% certain that you're wrong! My fiancé and I know each others password for here and emails. We both have the option of looking if we choose to. If we were looking to meet then all messages would be sent from our couples account, when the other is around. We regularly show each other messages we've received on our single accounts, mainly the stupid ones lol

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Mine is.....he can't organise a cup of coffee in the morning so sneaking behind my back would be impossible - plus why would he want to?....he gets the best of both worlds on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im happy to play with an married guy - If i can speak with his Mrs to make sure shes ok with it, as then its swinging not cheating."

Most married men are doing it behind their wives back though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Naive!

Who?

I think you're trying to provoke."

Trolling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't like to be an enabler for a cheat!"

Just waaaay to complicated...

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

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By *trawberry-popWoman
over a year ago

South East Midlands NOT

"Personally I wouldn't like to be an enabler for a cheat!

Just waaaay to complicated..."

Too complicated yes, plus I abhor cheating. Swinging and cheating are different things entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering most single guys on Fab really struggle to get meets, I'm not sure how many guys of a couple meet behind their wife's back?

Maybe they want to, but actually getting the opportunity is another matter.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Personally I wouldn't like to be an enabler for a cheat!

Just waaaay to complicated..."

It is, theres no such thing as no strings attached fun when the person your playing with is already attached to someone else. If theyre knowingly playing with someone that cheats thats their choice, but to believe its just fun is a little naive, as theres many ways in which the situation can go bad and quickly.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Absolutely...100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't think monogamy was ever designed to be right for humans we are mammals at the end of the day, the couples with the strongest relationships are ones that understand this and act accordingly with no jealousy paranoia or sneaking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"
Not particularly. I am looking for men so if they say they are single then I am content with that. It might not be true but that is their concern. Other people's marriages are other peoples marriages.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I would never knowingly meet someone who is on without partners knowledge.I wouldnt like it done to me and it causes so much pain to the woman who finds out.

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By *aneandpaulCouple
over a year ago

cleveleys

Can alway,s tell the married guy,s they clock watch and always shower after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"I would never knowingly meet someone who is on without partners knowledge.I wouldnt like it done to me and it causes so much pain to the woman who finds out."

This is me too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Works the other way too. I have a few ladies I play with who are married. I have, however, met or spoken to their OH. Not all on here either.

It's a big no to behind the back cheaters tho....too much hassle attached!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with permission yes!

Cheating sneaking snakes no!

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

darlings - let's get real: the number of married men who fuck me is astounding; but once they leave my place it's goodbye and as good as it is I never ever cling or wish to know if I am exclusive or whether they're cheating - it's their business and their business ONLY; this is a fun swinging site so get off all your high horses and stop kidding yourselves that men are seeing you for your beautiful souls and eyes; we're all nothing but fuckholes and I wouldn't have it any other way

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"

Prefer honesty and wouldn't like it happening to me so why do it to someone else ? X

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"darlings - let's get real: the number of married men who fuck me is astounding; but once they leave my place it's goodbye and as good as it is I never ever cling or wish to know if I am exclusive or whether they're cheating - it's their business and their business ONLY; this is a fun swinging site so get off all your high horses and stop kidding yourselves that men are seeing you for your beautiful souls and eyes; we're all nothing but fuckholes and I wouldn't have it any other way

It's their business ONLY until a scorned wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend turns up on your doorstep or gets hold of your mobile number.

I don't care how our play partners view us, but I will not willingly play part in hurting someone for "fun".

If having morals means I'm on my high horse, than I'll stay up here, thank you.

Giddy'up, Cowboy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"
Just cos your having no luck do not tar everyone with the one you have been tarred with

A lot of us are swingers and not just general scrotes looking to piss on thier partner

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

It's their business ONLY until a scorned wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend turns up on your doorstep or gets hold of your mobile number.

I don't care how our play partners view us, but I will not willingly play part in hurting someone for "fun".

If having morals means I'm on my high horse, than I'll stay up here, thank you.

Giddy'up, Cowboy!"

Precisely - but you'll never know if someone s scorned or not and to be honest lots of these wives couldn't care less ha ha ha they've gone off sex years ago!!!! And yes you are on a high horse pretending someone is being cheated and caring about it ha ha ha they can t be bothered with their partners anyhow so why should you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In many marriages the sexual side of things can just fizzle out. You could be perfectly happy in all other areas of your relationship, but the sex isn't happening. So. If you're in that situation and you have a high sex drive, what do you do about it, stop having sex??

In the old days people would have affairs that would normally turn out messy, lots of people getting hurt. The great thing about sites like fab is you can meet people in a similar situation with less collateral damage.

It's lovely to have a moralistic, black and white view of things but life really isn't like that. There's a lot of different reasons why someone might want extramarital sex. I don't think we should be so judgemental.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gloss over it , make excuses for it. But at the end of the day . If you are having sex without your partners consent it's. Cheating full stop

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By *verReadyAndMinxyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

"In many marriages the sexual side of things can just fizzle out. You could be perfectly happy in all other areas of your relationship, but the sex isn't happening. So. If you're in that situation and you have a high sex drive, what do you do about it, stop having sex??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IMHO I think that there are only two reasons married men cheat..one is they are sexually frustrated but do not want to get out of the relationship they are in to deal with it properly - or two - it's a power trip knowing that they have a secret and it makes them feel better or more clever having pulled the wool over their partners eyes and/or the person they are cheating with. This makes up for other inadequacies be they real or perceived by the cheater.

As I said only MHO. I could be talking CB

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I so agree with you; well said !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Gloss over it , make excuses for it. But at the end of the day . If you are having sex without your partners consent it's. Cheating full stop "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?Just cos your having no luck do not tar everyone with the one you have been tarred with

A lot of us are swingers and not just general scrotes looking to piss on thier partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just don't think monogamy was ever designed to be right for humans we are mammals at the end of the day, the couples with the strongest relationships are ones that understand this and act accordingly with no jealousy paranoia or sneaking about "

So true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Well said

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

Well said

I expect that there are some who genuinely believe it and are correct some who aren't, some who don't believe it and are correct and some who aren't. What's the point of the question? To prove that people are unfaithful to each other? As my mum says when someone States the obvious "Queen Anne's dead".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Considering most single guys on Fab really struggle to get meets, I'm not sure how many guys of a couple meet behind their wife's back?

Maybe they want to, but actually getting the opportunity is another matter."

Oh a LOT try, believe me!

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"We had a very bad experience with a married man. He had told us he was divorced and unattached but it turns out he was married and his wife, thinking he was unfaithful had followed him to our house for a meet. She ended up causing a hell of a scene on our doorstep to which a few of our neighbours witnessed so we will never meet with married man again.

It is this kind of scenario, no matter how rare, that would be a reason (for me) not to meet with attached people. If the partner is aware that is a completely different matter.

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

For goodness sakes; those of you on your high horses; YOU do NOT know if someone is playing away or NOT; you NEVER know, so stop preaching.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For goodness sakes; those of you on your high horses; YOU do NOT know if someone is playing away or NOT; you NEVER know, so stop preaching.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

It's their business ONLY until a scorned wife/husband/boyfriend/girlfriend turns up on your doorstep or gets hold of your mobile number.

I don't care how our play partners view us, but I will not willingly play part in hurting someone for "fun".

If having morals means I'm on my high horse, than I'll stay up here, thank you.

Giddy'up, Cowboy!

I don't have to care, I just don't want to be a part of it, not willingly.

And that's what THEY say. Some men/women get all the sex they could ask for at home and cheat simply because they can. In my honest opinion they should buck their ideas up and stay single if they can't commit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do!! Had a few guys in couples message me then actually tell me they will delete the messages or their wives will go mad! Sure there are wives that do it too. Even in swinging couples there are still people that will and get off on cheating

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

The reason i dont approve of it is i did live completely celibate in my sexless marridge for over 3 years, I have a really high sex drive too so he could have had it with me several times everyday I certainly tried often enough but he wasnt interested coz he was too busy getting his kicks elsewhere (i suspected but couldnt prove it). I had oppertunities to cheat but didnt as i loved my husband, I know the guilt would have destroyed me to the point id have confessed and dealt with the consquences of my actions. But at least I could walk away from that relationship with my head held high, To me the love I had for my husband was more important than an cheap thrill no matter how tempting.

Im now on civil terms with my ex husband (as my sis married his bro so we see lots of each other still) and he was shocked when I actually could pin point the exact night he'd first cheated on me. If your going to cheat id advise to never underestimate how well your spouse really knows you, just because you havent been caught doesnt mean they dont know, they just cant prove it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can only meet daytimes so I tend to meet guys who works shifts or High up in businesses to take time off ok.

I know it's a 'naughty' but seeing the wedding ring on a hand in action whether on cam or real life, is a bit of a buzz. "
wish you were nearer to me !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can alway,s tell the married guy,s they clock watch and always shower after"

Not always x

Sara

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Infedelity isn't cool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will happily meet married men. They dont get clingy. They have needs same as the rest of us. We both have fun then go back to reality

My thoughts exactly "

Mine too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat."

I agree with you, she has no need at all but some swinging couples do still cheat, men and women, I think it's the thrill or the kick of cheating/being sneaky whatever you want to call it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't care less if they're married or not. It's certainly not a 'thing' I look for. I don't feel guilty either, it's their choice to cheat.

They are more difficult to organise though so it usually fizzles out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful"

How can you claim that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't care less if they're married or not. It's certainly not a 'thing' I look for. I don't feel guilty either, it's their choice to cheat.

They are more difficult to organise though so it usually fizzles out.

X"
I see potential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Won't nowingly meet with married men or women cheating behind partners back without there knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I agree with you, she has no need at all but some swinging couples do still cheat, men and women, I think it's the thrill or the kick of cheating/being sneaky whatever you want to call it "
call Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

unfaithful is having sex with out you partners consent . cheating is the same ,swinging is normally a mutual activity by both parties

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

Why would she cheat? She only has to ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will happily meet married men. They dont get clingy. They have needs same as the rest of us. We both have fun then go back to reality

My thoughts exactly

Mine too

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mine three but with women id never meet a married man!

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"I'm 100% certain that no couples on here are faithful

How can you claim that?

He has a crystal ball.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband and I have been married for 35 years and I have NEVER been unfaithful. We swing together, never alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how do you know he has a crystal ball ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would she cheat? She only has to ask?"
some do and get told NO so they do anyway! Im loathed to admit there may be those that set out to encourage the weak, but mostly i have found a good old fucking by a naughty man/woman saves more relationships than it destroys.

Discretion required?

Not everybody can agree to dissagree but some marriages were certainly not made in heaven, and we all have needs

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat."

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so is swinging a catalyst for a successful marriage ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"so is swinging a catalyst for a successful marriage ? "

In my opinion a successful marriage is required for successful swinging. Not swinging doesn't mean a marriage won't be successful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

non-monogamous behavior, were partners in a committed relationship engage in sexual activities with others as a recreational or social activity.

guess it people interpretation of marriage

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with."

I don't believe we are special because we swing. But do you know the odds of cheating within a marriage?

Many marriages do not go full term. But not all marriages end due to cheating!

Sometimes the lack of fidelity is also over stated. Lots of people are faithful too. Swingers or not.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

The Wild Wetness

http://www.truthaboutdeception.com/cheating-and-infidelity/stats-about-infidelity.html

Some stats.

Believe them or don't.

But seems fair to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with.

I don't believe we are special because we swing. But do you know the odds of cheating within a marriage?

Many marriages do not go full term. But not all marriages end due to cheating!

Sometimes the lack of fidelity is also over stated. Lots of people are faithful too. Swingers or not."

The only part of your post I can see that is relevant to what I said is you stating you don't think you are special. Even then I said "some" swingers, not all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it."

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get loads of message from male half's of couples asking me to meet them alone, even swinging couples cheat Yes thought so to and yes that shows even swingers cheats as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No married men thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet single only.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

It is this kind of scenario, no matter how rare, that would be a reason (for me) not to meet with attached people. If the partner is aware that is a completely different matter. "

This was a total nightmare. We stay in a small town (5000 population) and very soon evertbody had heard about it even our kids which was very hard for them. This is a reason we will hardly ever meet again with single guys and we will certainly never accommodate them.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

"so is swinging a catalyst for a successful marriage ?

In my opinion a successful marriage is required for successful swinging. Not swinging doesn't mean a marriage won't be successful."

I think you have to have a very strong relationship to be a swinger. To try swinging in order to spice up an already crumbling relationship is just a recipe for disaster.

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with."

That's a deep post had me thinking and I suspect a few others will to.

On a different note just wanted to know when you see couples asking for that "single" bifem to share there bed and be spoilt ! Do they mean single or will a married one be ok even without consent ?? Honestly now or will people at least on here still say it wrong ???

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

"how do you know he has a crystal ball ?"

Because they have a crystal ball.

And I know they have a crystal ball because I have a crystal ball.

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By *ikerbob1957Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I'm still married mainly because i can't get the house sold.

We have seperate bedrooms and not had sex together for about 8 years. We barely speak to one another.

Unfortunately for most women on here that rules me out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still married mainly because i can't get the house sold.

We have seperate bedrooms and not had sex together for about 8 years. We barely speak to one another.

Unfortunately for most women on here that rules me out."

You could start divorce proceedings...

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think""

The late George Carlin is wrong in this case.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with.

That's a deep post had me thinking and I suspect a few others will to.

what some people say on a forum thread and what they do in private can be like chalk and cheese.

some will say what the majority does to fit in with the common consensus & some will say words to reaffirm what their partner wants to hear.

I really wouldn't worry about what strangers think just do what is right for you.

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By *-elleWoman
over a year ago

Romford

"Are women so anti married men or do any of you get off on the thought of going with taken guys?"
this begs too many questions, and is circumstance dependant. "Taken" wtf your not taken if your offering it out are you! Below isn't a generalisation but simply based on knowledge and conversations with others, but I do find a vast majority of vanilla relationships don't look after themselves once they are married, it's as if they stop respecting themselves so I would imagine the sex would also become equally boring too, ergo one wanders onto fab for no strings sex. In short I don't think that appeals to me.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?"

Do all "cheats" assume that everyone else cheats too?

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think"

The late George Carlin is wrong in this case. "

Nah, he's still right because he said "usually"

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think"

The late George Carlin is wrong in this case.

Nah, he's still right because he said "usually"

The famous and still living Mrs Nicecouple says "he who would perpetually have the last word is welcome to it" and also she said "in this case"

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

Do all "cheats" assume that everyone else cheats too?"

I think we all assume that our norm is everyone else's

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

"Do couples on here genuinely believe their partners are faithful?

My wife has always been 100% faithful. She has no need to cheat, as I suspect most couples who swing will agree. If she wants to fuck another guy, she can. She has no need to cheat.

I think the wording you're looking for is "I believe my wife has always been 100% faithful." At the most you can be 100% convinced but unless you're omniscient you can never know.

There are thousands upon thousands of people, if not millions over time, who knew their partner would never cheat on them, but guess what? They did.

Some swingers think they're a special breed of human being. Well you're not. You too are subject to the kind of betrayal that mere mortals have to deal with.

That's a deep post had me thinking and I suspect a few others will to.

Would of thought lots would want to comment on this !!!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I have lots of lady friends here on Fab but i never meet on my own when swinging, yes i have had fun with a lot of the ladies on here doing naughty shoots etc but i always tell them to ring Kim first so they are at ease in their own mind.

Most married guys are comfortable with women because they are used to female company plus they have an etiquette of their own in manners & their approach to females.

I am not saying single guys are rude or have bad manners as i have lots of single mates on here but the two are different.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think"

The late George Carlin is wrong in this case.

Nah, he's still right because he said "usually"

The famous and still living Mrs Nicecouple says "he who would perpetually have the last word is welcome to it" and also she said "in this case"

I like you . . . My very last comment to you on this thread. Honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Im happy to play with an married guy - If i can speak with his Mrs to make sure shes ok with it, as then its swinging not cheating."

This.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me "

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes! "

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes! "

Good

That's what I want lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes! "

A mere technicality

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I have no qualms meeting married men. Funny though, when I say I may leave marks and a temporary tattoo saying "property of Miss Vee"...they don't contact me again.

Result!

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

Tenbury Wells

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes!

A mere technicality

The non married ones want the same so what's the difference lol

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Personally I don't give a Damn what anyone else thinks goes on in our marriage and I sure as hell don't feel the need to defend it.

As the late George Carlin once said..."People who say they don't care what people think are usually desperate to have people think they don't care what people think"

The late George Carlin is wrong in this case.

Nah, he's still right because he said "usually"

The famous and still living Mrs Nicecouple says "he who would perpetually have the last word is welcome to it" and also she said "in this case"

I like you . . . My very last comment to you on this thread. Honest

I think we'd get along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not too bothered

If their wife kept him busy in their bedroom

He wouldn't be after me

He's not after you, he's after one or more of your holes!

A mere technicality

The non married ones want the same so what's the difference lol "

They're free to do so, without deception, without potentially awful consequences.

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over a year ago

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