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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been in here a little while now. Is it so hard to find somebody who likes the younger guy?

Anybody interested?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It seems to be fairly difficult, yes.

Many people have a limit of "young enough to be my child".

ps the text of your profile says you've ticked stuff you haven't tried yet...but you've ticked safe sex. Suggest re-wording as there's a conflicting message there. Unless you yearn for the day a lady finally consents to letting you suit up....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in here a little while now. Is it so hard to find somebody who likes the younger guy?

Anybody interested?"
I like younger men and older .. Just find i can be to much for some younger ones and it can be a let down when thay cant cope, I dont meet loads just now and again its my treat my last 24 year old lasted all of 5 mins ,,, run out the door there i was thinking must be me ?why he is not stopping to have a go again only to be told ,,,He could not get over cumming so fast and was not like him at all ,,, if he had said been ok ,,, he ask to come back but it put me off ... felt he was just thinking of himself. jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in here a little while now. Is it so hard to find somebody who likes the younger guy?

Anybody interested?"

its not hard because your young its just hard for alot of single guys....

i would advice you put a picture on your profile (its doesnt have to be your face). I also reckomend it isnt just a cock shot

you seem like a nice genuine guy and that will pay off. just remember your maners and dont be to forward with people. once you find what works for you things will all come together

hope that helps

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok thanks. There was one person that was a little interested but there profile is hidden now.

Oh and Jo I don't have that problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are those who love younger men, as Jo said its a treat for her!

But as stated above the main issue is being a single male, and the woman/couples on here have alot of choice!

Just be polite, considerate and dont be too pushy and you will get some good responses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ukboy if ever you do,,,,,, dont give up run out the door .... just work together to do it all over again xx

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By *pMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Plenty on here that like us younger guys, just got to find them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm always polite and respectful, its just finding somebody who's interested.

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By *pMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"I'm always polite and respectful, its just finding somebody who's interested."

Best way to be mate, nothing worse than getting a arsey email on here, u'll do fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wow why would any one run out on you, id be up for round 2 and 3 after that i mite be abit fucked and need a brake for abit but your stunning, you can understand why but id neva run off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet younger if its the right person. you just have to take your time and keep sending messages out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wow why would any one run out on you, id be up for round 2 and 3 after that i mite be abit fucked and need a brake for abit but your stunning, you can understand why but id neva run off "
He had not been with a older woman like me before. Just felt running off not saying a thing after 5 mins was strange he did mail saying he found it hard to cope he had never had that before .. just wish he had said thats all ,,, has ask to meet again alot of times but so far i have not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I wouldn't run of either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I wouldn't run of either. "
YOUR A BRAVE YOUNG MAN XX

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me."
Mush why 15 OF YOU YOUR JUST FINE ,, LOL keep getting told men like a good port get better with age ,, lol xxx oooo and you better get some good boots its a long way Norfolk xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me.Mush why 15 OF YOU YOUR JUST FINE ,, LOL keep getting told men like a good port get better with age ,, lol xxx oooo and you better get some good boots its a long way Norfolk xx "

Just filling my flask now. Would you mind if i drove the first bit to Peterborough?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me.Mush why 15 OF YOU YOUR JUST FINE ,, LOL keep getting told men like a good port get better with age ,, lol xxx oooo and you better get some good boots its a long way Norfolk xx

Just filling my flask now. Would you mind if i drove the first bit to Peterborough?"
lolol xxx Much next thing you will ask me to pick you up and stop of at the woods ... lol xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


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Just filling my flask now. Would you mind if i drove the first bit to Peterborough? lolol xxx Much next thing you will ask me to pick you up and stop of at the woods ... lol xx"

Oh ok then. I'll bring the dogs.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"YOUR A BRAVE YOUNG MAN XX"

You might say brave, i say very horny, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me.Mush why 15 OF YOU YOUR JUST FINE ,, LOL keep getting told men like a good port get better with age ,, lol xxx oooo and you better get some good boots its a long way Norfolk xx

Just filling my flask now. Would you mind if i drove the first bit to Peterborough? lolol xxx Much next thing you will ask me to pick you up and stop of at the woods ... lol xx"

Ill meet you at the woods! but it needs to be a thunder storm too!! Wow xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in here a little while now. Is it so hard to find somebody who likes the younger guy?

Anybody interested?"

Not hard hun but i love a younger guy but half the time its his location that i can deal with lol xxx Lois xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me.Mush why 15 OF YOU YOUR JUST FINE ,, LOL keep getting told men like a good port get better with age ,, lol xxx oooo and you better get some good boots its a long way Norfolk xx

Just filling my flask now. Would you mind if i drove the first bit to Peterborough? lolol xxx Much next thing you will ask me to pick you up and stop of at the woods ... lol xx

Ill meet you at the woods! but it needs to be a thunder storm too!! Wow xx "
Thunder storm oooo i dont like that i would hide ... lol x can we make it a nice hot summer day ,, lol xx jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem for the genuine younger guys on here is the amount of timewasters and dreamers, we have on numerous occasions arranged to meet younger guys and have consistently been let down, It amazing that on a swingers site it is hard to find genuine people who actually turn up, so my advice ? if you are genuine, when you make arrangements to turn up then have the courtesy to do so, as you build up verifications you will find it easier to get meets.

Master (Katie is allowed to answer for herself on this one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah anytime it just a fantasy in the woods in the rain lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in here a little while now. Is it so hard to find somebody who likes the younger guy?

Anybody interested?

its not hard because your young its just hard for alot of single guys....

i would advice you put a picture on your profile (its doesnt have to be your face). I also reckomend it isnt just a cock shot

you seem like a nice genuine guy and that will pay off. just remember your maners and dont be to forward with people. once you find what works for you things will all come together

hope that helps"

quite honestly, the harder the better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so I've added a profile pic, and I've sent a few messages, just hope for replies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so I've added a profile pic, and I've sent a few messages, just hope for replies."
you will have to let us know how you get on xxx i hope all go well for you xjo

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


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Run? Hell, i'd walk to Norfolk if it took 15 years off of me."

Get walking then as Norfolk has some sexy people in it xx

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Can imagine running away if an older woman did what I know the 30+ ladies like to get up to.

Something happens when you get older, you stop laying there and not take charge but express what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

id be there in a as fast as i could if i had the time off work

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By *pMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Yes I wouldn't run of either. YOUR A BRAVE YOUNG MAN XX"

I know i wouldnt run Jo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think age, really plays to much of a part, to be honest. I think it is a lot more important, how you conduct yourself & how you interact, with whoever you may be speaking too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think age, really plays to much of a part, to be honest. I think it is a lot more important, how you conduct yourself & how you interact, with whoever you may be speaking too... "

Yes it is age that matters the most to some of us so how someone conducts themselves and interracts with us older women, is irrelevent

Like SDM says, same age as kids therefore not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think age, really plays to much of a part, to be honest. I think it is a lot more important, how you conduct yourself & how you interact, with whoever you may be speaking too...

Yes it is age that matters the most to some of us so how someone conducts themselves and interracts with us older women, is irrelevent

Like SDM says, same age as kids therefore not interested"

*Nods in agreement*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just like a guy to be older than my knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was adament that I shan't play with gents much younger than myself, as in over 10y older. However, an exceptional one tickled my fancy, and I thought what the heck!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


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I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

"

this of course can be reversed to why don't the nubile young ladies want to play with me I can act like a teenager with the best of them, afterall I was one once, just a verrrrrrrry long time ago! Again its preferance isn't it?

(BTW a pulse is considered an optional extra pmsl)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

"

It does amuse me how people are happy to state their preferences whilst questioning others of theirs!

Good for you if you're flexible with who you shag, PERSONALLY at 50 I have no desire to play with 20 somethings and I wouldn't dream of questioning cougars that do!

Whatever floats your boat: young men don't float mine!

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex


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I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

It does amuse me how people are happy to state their preferences whilst questioning others of theirs!

Good for you if you're flexible with who you shag, PERSONALLY at 50 I have no desire to play with 20 somethings and I wouldn't dream of questioning cougars that do!

Whatever floats your boat: young men don't float mine! "

Quit fibbing, you're never 50 !!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

"

I do agree that some young people are wise beyond their years but it is all about preference, i prefer people my own age group and im not interested in changing my mind, lets face it, young people see older women as gorgeous stunners, they aint interested in plain janes like me anyway and thats the key really, young people dont have the maturity of my age group that see personality as more important.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


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I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

It does amuse me how people are happy to state their preferences whilst questioning others of theirs!

Good for you if you're flexible with who you shag, PERSONALLY at 50 I have no desire to play with 20 somethings and I wouldn't dream of questioning cougars that do!

Whatever floats your boat: young men don't float mine!

Quit fibbing, you're never 50 !!??"

damn it Ahabs, thought you were talking about K and me when I first read your post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

It does amuse me how people are happy to state their preferences whilst questioning others of theirs!

Good for you if you're flexible with who you shag, PERSONALLY at 50 I have no desire to play with 20 somethings and I wouldn't dream of questioning cougars that do!

Whatever floats your boat: young men don't float mine!

Quit fibbing, you're never 50 !!??"

50 years and 10 days

Never mind, I'll be "45" and holding next birthday!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was adament that I shan't play with gents much younger than myself, as in over 10y older. However, an exceptional one tickled my fancy, and I thought what the heck! "

.

Oops, I meant 10y younger. That's what happened when I stayed up to watch a young hottie on cam until 04:00h!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

I do agree that some young people are wise beyond their years but it is all about preference, i prefer people my own age group and im not interested in changing my mind, lets face it, young people see older women as gorgeous stunners, they aint interested in plain janes like me anyway and thats the key really, young people dont have the maturity of my age group that see personality as more important."

I wouldn't agree with that. It could be because I don't see myself as a "plain Jane", ok I maybe delusional...erm, no not delusional talking mirror and the delightful Ahabs have confirmed!

I've met one 32 year old, ex-Sandringham absolutely gorgeous and certainly appreciative of my ample charms. He would have been a long term playmate but he annoyed me by wh_pping of the condom before cumming and spraying my bedroom like he was on a porn set! I was absolutely livid and sent him packing.

My daughter always jumped on my bed when she returned from college so I had to do a forensic clean up! A mature man wouldn't have done that: I like to think!

There are plenty of mature in age people I find simple and shallow and not worth a minute of my time. My two future son-in-laws are 23 and 24: one is a marine the other a broker. Two sensible, gorgeous lads but when I look at them I want to put hats on their heads and button their jackets, not r_p their clothes off and that's how it is for me with young men, they just bring out the mum in me: oh sooooooooo wrong when it comes to playmates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I can see why some people won’t have meets with people , the same age as there kids, personally I don’t think age should matter that much. Some younger people are a lot older in the head than there years,

To me its all about how you come across, take your time, get to know want you want ,trust me give it time you will find want you are looking for, don’t worry it will happen.

I do agree that some young people are wise beyond their years but it is all about preference, i prefer people my own age group and im not interested in changing my mind, lets face it, young people see older women as gorgeous stunners, they aint interested in plain janes like me anyway and thats the key really, young people dont have the maturity of my age group that see personality as more important.

I wouldn't agree with that. It could be because I don't see myself as a "plain Jane", ok I maybe delusional...erm, no not delusional talking mirror and the delightful Ahabs have confirmed!

I've met one 32 year old, ex-Sandringham absolutely gorgeous and certainly appreciative of my ample charms. He would have been a long term playmate but he annoyed me by wh_pping of the condom before cumming and spraying my bedroom like he was on a porn set! I was absolutely livid and sent him packing.

My daughter always jumped on my bed when she returned from college so I had to do a forensic clean up! A mature man wouldn't have done that: I like to think!

There are plenty of mature in age people I find simple and shallow and not worth a minute of my time. My two future son-in-laws are 23 and 24: one is a marine the other a broker. Two sensible, gorgeous lads but when I look at them I want to put hats on their heads and button their jackets, not r_p their clothes off and that's how it is for me with young men, they just bring out the mum in me: oh sooooooooo wrong when it comes to playmates. "

Hey i was referring to me, not anyone else with my comment plain jane. What i was also referring to was the the typical older woman that one sees via tv, is good looking, its a bit like, they use size 10 models to sell cars, in reality, im neither of those. And throught each of the age groups, ive never looked for anyone outside my own age group, thought that was right and normal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give me a younger guy over an older guy anyday of the week I aint called a couger for nothing hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a younger man.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

it's a shame that all of you people that love younger men are so far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Give me a younger guy over an older guy anyday of the week I aint called a couger for nothing hahaha "
lolol I am one too JO XXX

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By *ibrosMan
over a year ago

harrow

As one of the older guys, meeting 20 somethings is not my first preference. Whatever age, the rules are the same. Be polite, accept rejection and never complain.

Single guys have to work hard to get attention and then come up with an imaginative approach. Patience and perseverance will pay dividends in time, but most guys give up b4 their first meet.

Good luck and keep hunting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well im always free on a monday night and when i tke my hols all week so let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Younger men are great at times. SOOOOOOOOOOOOO much energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well yeah we have, we know a good thing when we have it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel.

Since I am on fabs I met ... ... 2 ladies (old profile).

they found me. it was amazing.

Both around 40's (I felt like a doughnut in a butter).

Whenever I've sent a message to any couple or woman - i've been rejected - no reply or "sorry, not our/my age preference".

It is a shame. Young guys have a lot to offer. Most could give much more pleasure to a woman than matured man. Especially that, we are passionate and excited about sex.

Like in a saying "You will not instruct old dog new tricks", where youngs are mind open for any oportunity to learn new things - use it as an advantage my dear ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love all men whether they are young or older as long as they pleasure you till satisfied who cares about age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

damn right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know how you feel.

Since I am on fabs I met ... ... 2 ladies (old profile).

they found me. it was amazing.

Both around 40's (I felt like a doughnut in a butter).

Whenever I've sent a message to any couple or woman - i've been rejected - no reply or "sorry, not our/my age preference".

It is a shame. Young guys have a lot to offer. Most could give much more pleasure to a woman than matured man. Especially that, we are passionate and excited about sex.

Like in a saying "You will not instruct old dog new tricks", where youngs are mind open for any oportunity to learn new things - use it as an advantage my dear ladies."

Why is it a shame for a "mature" woman to have a preference not to play with someone the same age as her children, but obviously reasonable for you to have an age preference of 55?!!

Ironic, huh...or fl_pping cheek: can't decide!

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