FabSwingers.com forum: are you loaded?

By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

staffs

I recently answered an add on here from a single lady and had 2 responses to it:

are you on sugar daddy and are you loaded!

I'd be very interested to here your thoughts on what you think she is looking for before I consider blocking or reporting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm i agree thats a little crass lol

But having seen your pics i can see why she asked

Personal opinion

Let the little gold digger carry on with others and block and forget lol she will soon get bored xx

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Difficult one... Your pictures do indicate a sugar daddy look to be quite honest although it may not be what you were hoping to portray

A few friends of mine a while back were on sugar daddy and they wouldn't dream of being on here..

Interesting to see what others think...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say no ,,,,,,, I have not a penny lol see if she run or not. xx jo

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Depends what the original ad said, and what your two responses were.

How are we supposed to get judgmental without all the facts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As an older guy (but penniless) I can see how some people see us as SD's when they see us, especially with pictures like yours.

Perhaps she was asking in an inquisitive way, wonering if you have a string of young females for your jacuzzi.

How old was she ? maybe she thought you were approaching her for that reason.

Seeking a sugar daddy here may not be what swinging is about but I doubt it's against the rules for a girl to ask to be treated lavisciouly, wined and dined and shown the highlife, to some it's a form of prostitution but there is a fine line between the two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it would depend on how it was asked....

if she asked it straight away from the start i would just ignore her, however if you had been chatting for a little while and she asked it either in a polite or joking way i would just answer either with a joke answer (if it was a joke) or honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex regardless .. wouldnt you want someone to sleep with you because they wanted to NOT for what you may buy her if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe next letter will be if you pay me i will x as your sweet as candy , lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BIG DEAL

ok so you have a hot tub and a bald head

i have a bald head and a very nice posh bath lol am i a sugar daddy well if i told you i would have to kill you lol

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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her add stated 45 and to come and entertain her...single guys only.

so I think I would need to be considerably older as a sugar daddy??...should i be flattered or outraged looking like a sugar daddy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps she was just playing with you? And if she was serious so what? If its not your thing I don't see why you would report her? Report her for what? Asking questions?

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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its not bald but very closely shaved and very fair! honest!

and the hot tub was hedo111 in runaway bay jamaica...wish it was mine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BIG DEAL

ok so you have a hot tub and a bald head

i have a bald head and a very nice posh bath lol am i a sugar daddy well if i told you i would have to kill you lol"
i am suger mummy sweet as candy and you can lick the suger off ,, lol xx do you know some woman just love a bald head mmmm never gess where thay like it ,, lol

jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flattered!!! I find men like you very appealing if I'm honest. I don't need a sugar daddy but a succesful man with his own identity is great! Looking at your pics they're exactly the type of thing that would get my attention!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

So, a pic looking smart and a pic on holiday, and suddenly the PYT's all come running?

so near, and yet so far...

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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as some have pointed out there's an inkling that exchanges of how shall i put this delicately.. gifts or monies required..now I may be barking up the wrong tree hence the initial Q and as a further message has not been answered it just fuels my thought process....as it seems to have done for some others..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently answered an add on here from a single lady and had 2 responses to it:

are you on sugar daddy and are you loaded!

I'd be very interested to here your thoughts on what you think she is looking for before I consider blocking or reporting"

I see no reason for falling to reporting for being asked a simple question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So, a pic looking smart and a pic on holiday, and suddenly the PYT's all come running?

so near, and yet so far...

Whats a PYT???

(just so I can keep up to date!)

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Up to date???

Go dig out your Dad's copy of Michael Jackson's Thriller album...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty Young Thing

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Pretty Young Thing "

Spoilsport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aaaah, ok I get it. I write all these down you know, I get very confused with all the abbreviations that get banded about.

I'm not a PYT though. I'm a MASA

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I'm not a PYT though. I'm a MASA

Mature And Sexy-Arsed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I wasn't thinking that but I'll bloody well go with it!

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

have met people on here who have lots of cash and those who don't ...makes no difference as i like to pay my own way on meets.

to the OP if you think this person was only after you for gifts etc you should report to admin and block to prevent further contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agreed totally! I wouldn't dream of not paying my own way, this isn't E-Harmony is it?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"Well I wasn't thinking that but I'll bloody well go with it! "

Will we ever know your version?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I would delete and block the person and move on to people who dont want to meet you for what they think they can get out of you. I am sure your a lovely man and meet people for chemistry not what cash is in your pocket xx

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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"I would delete and block the person and move on to people who dont want to meet you for what they think they can get out of you. I am sure your a lovely man and meet people for chemistry not what cash is in your pocket xx"

I would like to think that you've hit the nail on the head regarding chemistry and hopefully its not just physical as the brain is the biggest sexual organ we have

definitely not here to take advantage of anyone in anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol you probably dont need any more advice but i would just move on

if shes not bugging you no need to do anything

and i wouldnt report on questions she asked

just shout NEXT! and watch them queue up xxx

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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"lol you probably dont need any more advice but i would just move on

if shes not bugging you no need to do anything

and i wouldnt report on questions she asked

just shout NEXT! and watch them queue up xxx "

WOW!and ty for those words.I shall watch them Queue up! I wish! lol

I shall remain positive and upbeat!

OK.....waiting .......still nothing in my mail! lol

still nothing........and still nothing.....must have patience....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So anyway, regardless of all the above, ARE you loaded?

If you were near me I'd be sure to fill your inbox honey!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"So anyway, regardless of all the above, ARE you loaded?

If you were near me I'd be sure to fill your inbox honey! "

Any chance of a reciprocal arrangement?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mushroom, don't be crude.

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By *john121 OP Man
over a year ago

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"So anyway, regardless of all the above, ARE you loaded?

If you were near me I'd be sure to fill your inbox honey! "

a gentleman never tells but mega rich when it comes to life experience! lol and thats all you're getting out of me...unless you have some new devious torture methods?

and thank you for wanting to fill my inbox...I'm sure there is a pun in there some where.....and it should be me filling your inbox! now stop flirting with me you know you can't have...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

game4it2

you can have my head there anytime you want mmmmmmmmm

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"So anyway, regardless of all the above, ARE you loaded?

If you were near me I'd be sure to fill your inbox honey!

a gentleman never tells but mega rich when it comes to life experience! lol and thats all you're getting out of me...unless you have some new devious torture methods?

and thank you for wanting to fill my inbox...I'm sure there is a pun in there some where.....and it should be me filling your inbox! now stop flirting with me you know you can't have..."

Can I queue up too lol. Everything you have written shows that your personality if far more important and also nice form the way you post and come across xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"So anyway, regardless of all the above, ARE you loaded?

If you were near me I'd be sure to fill your inbox honey! "

Obviously not loaded, if he can't get himself from Staffs to Yorks....especially with such incentive.

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