FabSwingers.com forum: Is there a right and wrong age for this?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I say that because on a recent visit to a club I saw a couple where ther girl couldn't have been any more than 18( 19 at a push); which makes me think.... where do go from here??? I know it comes down to your outlook on life but (as a personal opinion ) that's way too young!

( Oh yeah she was d*unk too!)

I know there's a few wrong un's on here that would leap at chance, but do you think that 18/19 is a good age??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your the legal age to have sex.. They have the right to do what they want, whether is swinging, stripping, etc... No one can say whether it's right or wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your the legal age to have sex.. They have the right to do what they want, whether is swinging, stripping, etc... No one can say whether it's right or wrong. "

well said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18+ is fine why do you think its too young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was promiscuous from the age of 17, didn't do anything bad to me, i'm not ashamed of it or feel bad about myself. Managed to settle down and have several long term relationships where i was faithful. Gone back to being promiscuous.

Won't harm her to experiment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are the younger swingers doing it because they really want to , or are they being pushed into it ? Some may be vulnerable and may need to be a bit high or pissed to do it , and these are the wrong reasons to swing .

Others have a high sex drive , want to experiment and are in control of what they are doing . I see no problem with this at all .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was promiscuous from the age of 17, didn't do anything bad to me, i'm not ashamed of it or feel bad about myself. Managed to settle down and have several long term relationships where i was faithful. Gone back to being promiscuous.

Won't harm her to experiment. "

ditto x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got the impression from what I saw that the person was being pressured.

Personally ,I'd steer clear of someone that looked that young in case they were being pressured.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got the impression from what I saw that the person was being pressured.

Personally ,I'd steer clear of someone that looked that young in case they were being pressured.

So being pressured is linked to age how exactly?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I say that because on a recent visit to a club I saw a couple where ther girl couldn't have been any more than 18( 19 at a push); which makes me think.... where do go from here??? I know it comes down to your outlook on life but (as a personal opinion ) that's way too young!

( Oh yeah she was d*unk too!)

I know there's a few wrong un's on here that would leap at chance, but do you think that 18/19 is a good age??"

We would avoid anyone who was d*unk whatever their age and if it appeared that she was being pressured I'd consider a quiet word.

We wouldn't get involved with people that young but that's just us.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I don't know of many clubs that would let an 18/19 year old in

Most seem to be over 21

It's legal,as long as their behaviour doesn't impact on my night I don't see an issue

I would think that people that young may feel wildly out of place though,there's a lot of older people at clubs too,no o e wants to be socialising with people their parents age do they?

I know I didn't at that age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She is over 18 and yes that's fine to fuck her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

( Oh yeah she was d*unk too!)

I know there's a few wrong un's on here that would leap at chance, but do you think that 18/19 is a good age??

We would avoid anyone who was d*unk whatever their age and if it appeared that she was being pressured I'd consider a quiet word.

We wouldn't get involved with people that young but that's just us.

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

I have no problems regarding age, however I have on a couple of occasions refused to play when I felt the lady was under pressure to play.

I would regard that as being tantamount to rape..

However I have thought to myself afterwards did I do the right thing or was she subjected to further abuse later because of my decision?

In both cases the ladies were middle aged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played since I was 18.... I have been off and on throughout the years....

This is from my personal experience some people find it hard to handle a young person on the scene and think it's not the place Young people should be.

Others have approached me had a conversation with me and it's changed their attitude.

If you are saying she is young and maybe forced into the scene I'm afraid that happens at any age... People do it to satisfy there other half nothing to do with age.

Being d*unk again nothing to do with age nerves have got the better of people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no problems regarding age, however I have on a couple of occasions refused to play when I felt the lady was under pressure to play.

I would regard that as being tantamount to rape..

However I have thought to myself afterwards did I do the right thing or was she subjected to further abuse later because of my decision?

In both cases the ladies were middle aged."

Is this with the 18 year old at a club with another guy? If so that is shocking that she could we'll be pressured into doing things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm too young ha but with way life's panned out if I didn't come on here I wouldn't hardly even talk to a women never mind have sex ha! Sad I no! But true ha

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have no problems regarding age, however I have on a couple of occasions refused to play when I felt the lady was under pressure to play.

I would regard that as being tantamount to rape..

However I have thought to myself afterwards did I do the right thing or was she subjected to further abuse later because of my decision?

In both cases the ladies were middle aged."

I think you did the right thing, if the women concerned were subject to abuse later it wasn't your fault the abuser would have found a reason anyway.

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