FabSwingers.com forum: What's wrong with me?

By *iceguy83 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Hi all. I'm fairly new to here but am an experienced swinger (clubs). I am getting upset thinking something is wrong with me as I am as genuine as they come, considered myself good-looking and w/e but it doesn't seem to matter how many cpls or females I message I am yet to get a reply. !!

I generally introduce myself ie I'm Rick from Manchester, 27, genuine, athletic single male. I usually compliment ppl on their pics and state that I would love to chat to them and hopefully meet.

I read through every profile thoroughly and am polite and courteous in all my messages.

Am I putting the wrong thing in my messages?

What am I supposed to be saying? Am i not crude enough? Shiuld i juat ask Can I shag you?

Or is it something about my profile or horrifyingly is it just me who doesn't attract anyone?

Never had any probs in clubs.

Any advice much appreciated peeps.

Thanks

Rick

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

nowt wrong with you, your profile is very honest.

you are competing on here with thousands of guys... never get disheartened.. and enjoy the clubs. Could someone you have played with at the club not verify you on here ( if they members).. that may help

good luck..

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

"Hi all. I'm fairly new to here but am an experienced swinger (clubs). I am getting upset thinking something is wrong with me as I am as genuine as they come, considered myself good-looking and w/e but it doesn't seem to matter how many cpls or females I message I am yet to get a reply. !!

I generally introduce myself ie I'm Rick from Manchester, 27, genuine, athletic single male. I usually compliment ppl on their pics and state that I would love to chat to them and hopefully meet.

I read through every profile thoroughly and am polite and courteous in all my messages.

Am I putting the wrong thing in my messages?

What am I supposed to be saying? Am i not crude enough? Shiuld i juat ask Can I shag you?

Or is it something about my profile or horrifyingly is it just me who doesn't attract anyone?

Never had any probs in clubs.

Any advice much appreciated peeps.

Thanks

Rick"

fairly new your profile says u been here over a year ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile also says "im straight but orally bi."

thats bi and some cpls dont like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From reading the forums it appears people like to meet those that are verified and as you've been on site over a year you may be being _iewed as a "timewaster", unfair, but that's how it is.

You're also a single male that can't accommodate, another red flag for some.

Are you contacting people with a set age range?

I wish you well, good luck!

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By *iceguy83 OP Man
over a year ago

manchester

Thanks everyone.

I registered here a year ago after first hearing about the site but never uploaded a profile or pics and left to dormant until recently.

Perhaps better starting a new one then if that puts ppl off.

Point noted about bi. I'll change to straight.

Many thanks for taking the time to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starting a new one might be a good idea or tap up the people you know from partners who can verify you

Pumpkin16542 works there so maybe she can help you if she recognises you lol

Also your face shot looks a bit jack the lad ish but it's the lack of veris' & friends tbh

Enjoy!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry

my oldest lives in manchester and your a year younger - just had to look to see you werent one of his friends! lol

on a positive note there is not much wrong with your profile

i would agree with the previous post about changing the face pic and perhaps getting rid of the towel in the back ground (for those of us that look at those things )

take care and i hope you have fun xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks everyone.

I registered here a year ago after first hearing about the site but never uploaded a profile or pics and left to dormant until recently.

Perhaps better starting a new one then if that puts ppl off.

Point noted about bi. I'll change to straight.

Many thanks for taking the time to help. "

If you're bi, state you're bi, why lie? I don't understand that at all!

We'll NEVER appeal to everyone: FACT!!

What do you want from the site? To get your leg over with anyone, or hedonistic pleasure with like minded people? There are people that don't want to play with bi people. Pretending to be straight is not fair to them is it?

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that it might be helpful to say that although orally bi, you can respect straight mens boundaries and play accordingly if that is their preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we like bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think there is anything wrong with you or profile at all, maybe just like me, too old, or too uninteresting to all. Have been on about a year have had a long profile, a short profile, a funny profile and can never get a reply. Don't know why, but can ony conclude that's what it is. No appeal ! Ah well, will go and crawl back under my stone now lol and wait for someone to snipe at my comments lol

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