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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There have been a few people that have "no face pic no reply" now that's a bit hard for people trying to stay discreet but also when Iv seen a load of profiles with no pictures at all not even private gallery and they expect us to send face pics we have pics availinle for everyone to see and we think this is fair until we get to know he people there are also people that expect us to cough up our private pics so they can "make sure we aren't fake" when we are photo and meet verified what are other people's thaughts on this?

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By *orney hunCouple
over a year ago

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice "

Totally agree

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice "

100% this.

People will of course, do the same with you, you may have something on your profile which doesn't fit how they would like to do things. So finding 3 or 4 people who gel on here can be quite frustrating at times.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice

100% this.

People will of course, do the same with you, you may have something on your profile which doesn't fit how they would like to do things. So finding 3 or 4 people who gel on here can be quite frustrating at times."

Yep! We have quite a lot on our profile that doesn't fit with how other people would like to do things . We're happy with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Us too but there are even people that message us for face pics and stuff before they show any pics

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice

Totally agree "

same here

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I think whoever made first contact should be willing to be first to show face pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Us too but there are even people that message us for face pics and stuff before they show any pics "

Then just reply with a no thanks people message all sorts of stuff, you're not obliged to answer them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There have been a few people that have "no face pic no reply" now that's a bit hard for people trying to stay discreet but also when Iv seen a load of profiles with no pictures at all not even private gallery and they expect us to send face pics we have pics availinle for everyone to see and we think this is fair until we get to know he people there are also people that expect us to cough up our private pics so they can "make sure we aren't fake" when we are photo and meet verified what are other people's thaughts on this? "
If you have put up pictures of yourself it seems reasonable to expect similar from anyone who contacts you. I do not reply to those that do not have any or contact anyone who hasn't.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World


"Us too but there are even people that message us for face pics and stuff before they show any pics "

I always feel that the person asking for the face pic should include their own face picture in the message, if they don't then I ignore the request.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

It's important to realise that you must only do what you want, you owe nobody who randomly messages you anything and stressing about it will drive you crazy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think whoever made first contact should be willing to be first to show face pics"

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Us too but there are even people that message us for face pics and stuff before they show any pics

I always feel that the person asking for the face pic should include their own face picture in the message, if they don't then I ignore the request."

I agree with this this is what we do

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There are so many brilliant point all of which I agree with the general consensus being its my choice to share a face pic of I'm not comfortable we won't

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

if you arent comfy with it... dont do it ...

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By *oveSlutForUseCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We don't reply to emails that don't have a face pic.

Why?

Because replying to an email is decided by two things:

1. what you wrote

2. what you look like.

oh, yes, you can be all hippie tree hugging twat and say "looks don't matter!" but the only people that's true for are the ugly and desperate.

if we don't fancy you, we won't meet you, simple. superficial? Maybe, but that's our business, not yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are so many brilliant point all of which I agree with the general consensus being its my choice to share a face pic of I'm not comfortable we won't "
Absolutely....what ever you do on this site, and with who, is down to your choice and preference. Remain in control of all your decisions and you will have great fun.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We don't reply to emails that don't have a face pic.

Why?

Because replying to an email is decided by two things:

1. what you wrote

2. what you look like.

oh, yes, you can be all hippie tree hugging twat and say "looks don't matter!" but the only people that's true for are the ugly and desperate.

if we don't fancy you, we won't meet you, simple. superficial? Maybe, but that's our business, not yours."

Nobody has said that here.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"When we see something on a profile that we don't agree with, want to do or that clearly is different from how we are prepared to do things we don't message that profile.

People can ask for anything whether or not we comply is our choice "

That's the only answer really!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We don't reply to emails that don't have a face pic.

Why?

Because replying to an email is decided by two things:

1. what you wrote

2. what you look like.

oh, yes, you can be all hippie tree hugging twat and say "looks don't matter!" but the only people that's true for are the ugly and desperate.

Would u send a face pic back if they sent one in w message? Or sk y send one when u message them

if we don't fancy you, we won't meet you, simple. superficial? Maybe, but that's our business, not yours."

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