FabSwingers.com forum: Arguing couples in a club or party

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Couples that argue in clubs.

What do you think is the best way to deal with this.

The should have sorted out boundaries before they leave the house but some don't

Would you

Leave them to it

Step in even though it's non of your business.

Tell them to leave

Make them leave

or just hang around and try to listen them discreetly ( thus ruining your own fun but still being nosey )

or something else

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Intervening in that situation is solely for the club owners / staff, surely?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Walk away from them and let them deal with their issues on their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to to go somewhere where its not affecting others fun.

Aslong as its not getting too out of hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pull up a seat and ask for popcorn .... Oh hang on that's only on here isn't it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I've seen plenty of couples at OP4fun argue the toss with each other and generally create a VERY wide exclusion zone around themselves.

It's not pretty but it is entertaining.

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

A few years ago I "did the door" for a swinger`s social at a pub. One couple had a falling out and there was much slamming of the glazed door of the pub by the lady in question while the guy was seated on a low wall outside sobbing his heart out and being consoled by friends. Felt really awkward and whilst I was fearful of there not being any glass left in the door there was no way I was going to stand in the way of the furious lady! Don`t think ANYONE was!

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

"Pull up a seat and ask for popcorn .... Oh hang on that's only on here isn't it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couples that argue in clubs can't be regarded as true swingers. They're just pretend amateurs looking for a good time, buy really they just make themselves look like idiots when they find out what it's really about.

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was at a party I hosted, I would tell them to take it to another room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away and leave them to it unless it was our party then send them packing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Couples that argue in clubs can't be regarded as true swingers. They're just pretend amateurs looking for a good time, buy really they just make themselves look like idiots when they find out what it's really about.

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x"

Swinging was invented for couples, not singles, we just came in to the scene a little later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd expect the club to deal with it. And we'd not be impressed if they didn't.

We were st Tease once and the couple we were playing with had a huge argument including the female half locking herself in to a room. The staff dealt with it fantastically and made sure everyone including us were ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask them to leave or get a member of staff to as it's not on

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I just.think they are not ready for swinging yet, you need a solid relationship to swing and there is an etiquette that most go by when in clubs.

Ban them for life lol...seriously they need to sort their shit out in private.

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x"

Yes i think of these kind of people as plastic swingers, they like the idea of swinging but freak out or get d*unk which results in a spoilt night for everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x

Yes i think of these kind of people as plastic swingers, they like the idea of swinging but freak out or get d*unk which results in a spoilt night for everyone else."

Yup

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Pull up a seat and ask for popcorn .... Oh hang on that's only on here isn't it

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Walk away and leave them to it.

Have only witnessed this a couple of times thankfully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x

Yes i think of these kind of people as plastic swingers, they like the idea of swinging but freak out or get d*unk which results in a spoilt night for everyone else."

Mistakes happen. Disagreements will occur. Arguing does not mean you are no longer a swinger, it means that there has been a breakdown in communication somewhere. I bet it's happened to everyone but the difference is how you handle it. Some of us can hang on to our disagreements until we get home.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We'd expect the club to deal with it. And we'd not be impressed if they didn't.

That's how clubs should deal with it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

I would ear wig

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ear wig

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Give them both super wedgies

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x

Yes i think of these kind of people as plastic swingers, they like the idea of swinging but freak out or get d*unk which results in a spoilt night for everyone else."

Bit mean. You've never argued with your SO?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Give them both super wedgies "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw a massive argument once in a club.

I think they actually split up after it lol.

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By *aydeesclubCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

We never get many couples argue here, when they have done its normally me (Tracy) who stands by them listening then I may intervene if I think I can help, otherwise I just stay out of it and see how it goes. It will always be me as I think its easier if a woman talks to people..

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

I'm not a swinger but I know a few great people who are. I hope to have that level of love and trust with my partner someday! Here's to hoping x

Yes i think of these kind of people as plastic swingers, they like the idea of swinging but freak out or get d*unk which results in a spoilt night for everyone else.

Bit mean. You've never argued with your SO?"

I would never argue in public no & neither as Kim, most people know how to conduct themselves in front of others...if they can't handle parties don't go.

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By *ark PassengerMan
over a year ago

Crewe

"Couples that argue in clubs.

What do you think is the best way to deal with this.

The should have sorted out boundaries before they leave the house but some don't

Would you

Leave them to it

Step in even though it's non of your business.

Tell them to leave

Make them leave

or just hang around and try to listen them discreetly ( thus ruining your own fun but still being nosey )

or something else"

Don't intervene just let them know others are being disturbed and ask if they can take it outside or somewhere else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

only really seen this once - and it was more of a constant snipe at each other - was uncomfortable to see and just wished they hadnt bothered to come out when they were in that kind of a mood - nobody intervened though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd say, if it looks like it's going to get ugly, throw them both out.

I have VERY recently seen one one half of a couple get so d*unk that she starts puking! If you need that much drink to 'get it on' then this scene isn't for you.

Then there the couple where one is quite clearly only just of a legal age and partner much older , arguing. I can only "guess" that the younger one isn't quite ready for what the other wants.

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By *omaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I was at a small house party once, the male of one couple threw the toys out of the pram cause none of the women there would play with him.

He demanded the host drive him home.

Left his wife to find her own way!

They were actually screaming at each other at one point.

Oh and the rest of the guests were just whores and assholes according to him !

Kinda threw cold water over the proceedings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!"

Thinking the same thing, silly statement!!

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By *lactontogMan
over a year ago

Clacton on Sea

"I'd say, if it looks like it's going to get ugly, throw them both out.

I have VERY recently seen one one half of a couple get so d*unk that she starts puking! If you need that much drink to 'get it on' then this scene isn't for you.

Then there the couple where one is quite clearly only just of a legal age and partner much older , arguing. I can only "guess" that the younger one isn't quite ready for what the other wants.

You are right there its always the piss heads that ive seen at various parties, like you say if you need to get d*unk to swing its time to take up another past time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!

Thinking the same thing, silly statement!! "

slaps head

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By *aith boyMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Really?

i agree..

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!"

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've seen a few arguments at clubs. Mostly it is down to poor communications. I let them get on with it, but find it a bit bad form, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

i agree..

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!"

Really? A post the other day said you had to bi to be classed as a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair the could of swung 100s of Times, just having a bad night, the argument might not even be about swinging, God forbid swinging couples actually disagree sometimes?

We would just leave them too i. It's none of our business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To be fair the could of swung 100s of Times, just having a bad night, the argument might not even be about swinging, God forbid swinging couples actually disagree sometimes?

We would just leave them too i. It's none of our business"

Bet they have great making - up sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

i agree..

That's what I thought! We aren't real swingers if we argue?! Most ridiculous and stupidest statement I've seen on here!

Really? A post the other day said you had to bi to be classed as a swinger"

Oh go!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A friend of ours on here told us about a meet him and his wife experienced...where he was having fun with the other woman, thought things were going great...until she stopped play and started screaming at her hubby that he was having sex with my mates missis better than he does with her

They dressed and left sharpish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd pull a few chairs up and sell front row tickets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen this a few times

Last time I was in a club there was a couple having a full blown argument in the changing room over how many men she had shagged, as I walked out I said very loudly to another woman in there .....aren't you glad your single

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