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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Just had a night of sexy fun as feeling good and sated.

Before the other day(daytime meet) I hant had sex for about 4 or so weeks.

I normally only get to have sex every 5 weekends approx.

Does everyone else in the same situation get frustrated and feel likfe is easier to deal with once they have had some good sex? Or is it just me.

I feel good, happy and ready for the week ahead. I know full well in about 3 weeks after having no sex I will be frustrated again lol

I know frustration can be eased by masturbating alone but sometimes it needs to be with someone else joining in.

Tell me I am not alone.

Wish I was a couple now and would hopefully get some more sex lol

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Does everyone else in the same situation get frustrated and feel likfe is easier to deal with once they have had some good sex?"

Yes as a bi male in a MM relationship, most of the time, sexually one is happy with my partner, however, there are occasions when one misses female contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

terrible problem e mail me in 2 weeks time sorted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Does everyone else in the same situation get frustrated and feel likfe is easier to deal with once they have had some good sex? Or is it just me.

"

You are definitely not one your own with this one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mind if I ask, why only 5 weeks? bring it down to 3 and problem solved!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

It's always difficult to know when one might next get to partake, so I try to savour it whenever it happens!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

It doesnt bother me if i know im not going to get any for a week. Im fortunate enough now to live on my own and not work things around children so i dont usually have to wait very long these days

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

wow i`m suprised

even as a single male its very rare it`s as much as a two week gap

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I just wank in the mirror..

good as a meet.

and the verification I give the horny fucker is second to none.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are very definately not alone!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i am glad you had a lovely time xxx i can go a long time too do that so i am really randy . lol i feel alot more if i stave myself of sex, jo xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone.

Thank goodness for flexible friend and Red Tube etc. in between meeting real people for fun!

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

It is only ever about every 5 or so weeks as thats when my young kids go to their dads for the weekend.

Although my family know I swing I often still find it uncomfy to ask them to sit for the kids while I go out for a meet on an evening when I have the kids.

I feel very responsible for my kids and I am sure some will say its silly but feel while they are with me I need to be num and be there for them and then on weekends when the ex has them I can then be the saucy lady lol.

I dont wish to rub my parents nose in anything and have to rely on them at any other time to sit for the kids to get some extra sex in.

They have sat for me overnight when I have been invited by good friends to a house party but my parental feelings of responsibility overide my need to have damn good sex on a weekend eve a bit more often.

Love to change my mind set over my feelings on responsibility for my kids(marriage break up,he doesnt have much involvement/my depression in the past....)I still feel very responsible for being there 24/7 for them. Am sure in time it will relax.

Luckily I am now getting some daytimes free to have a meet every week/other week.

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn


"You are not alone.

Thank goodness for flexible friend and Red Tube etc. in between meeting real people for fun! "

Red tube? Glad I am not the only one who gets frustrated lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wank in the mirror..

good as a meet.

and the verification I give the horny fucker is second to none."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not alone at all, in fact its been so bad this weekend, ive had to have an afternoon 'nap' today and dream of a good hard pounding

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"It is only ever about every 5 or so weeks as thats when my young kids go to their dads for the weekend.

Although my family know I swing I often still find it uncomfy to ask them to sit for the kids while I go out for a meet on an evening when I have the kids.

I feel very responsible for my kids and I am sure some will say its silly but feel while they are with me I need to be num and be there for them and then on weekends when the ex has them I can then be the saucy lady lol.

I dont wish to rub my parents nose in anything and have to rely on them at any other time to sit for the kids to get some extra sex in.

They have sat for me overnight when I have been invited by good friends to a house party but my parental feelings of responsibility overide my need to have damn good sex on a weekend eve a bit more often.

Love to change my mind set over my feelings on responsibility for my kids(marriage break up,he doesnt have much involvement/my depression in the past....)I still feel very responsible for being there 24/7 for them. Am sure in time it will relax.

Luckily I am now getting some daytimes free to have a meet every week/other week."

I totally understand...from sunday 6ish pm until friday 6ish pm...I am mummy....I am fortunate that my ex wants to spend every weekend with the kids so I do have the chance to be _ummy mummy then.unfortunately for me the last month or so due to stress in the week I have not been well on the weekends but oh well...but you are definately not alone...when I have had a good sex filled weekend I deal with the week and kids a lot easier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No you are not alone at all, in fact its been so bad this weekend, ive had to have an afternoon 'nap' today and dream of a good hard pounding "

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I had multiple naps throughout the weekend!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I'll get my hand going again when I can find the enthusiasm...

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By *ruit OP   Woman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Yummy, thanks hunny for understanding it. I know the reasons for my severe responsibility.

Also now realised why feeling good but a touch thoughtful as time of month on its way.

Closing eyes to play back every min of last night and my mffmf................ o yesssss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is only ever about every 5 or so weeks as thats when my young kids go to their dads for the weekend.

Although my family know I swing I often still find it uncomfy to ask them to sit for the kids while I go out for a meet on an evening when I have the kids.

I feel very responsible for my kids and I am sure some will say its silly but feel while they are with me I need to be num and be there for them and then on weekends when the ex has them I can then be the saucy lady lol.

I dont wish to rub my parents nose in anything and have to rely on them at any other time to sit for the kids to get some extra sex in.

They have sat for me overnight when I have been invited by good friends to a house party but my parental feelings of responsibility overide my need to have damn good sex on a weekend eve a bit more often.

Love to change my mind set over my feelings on responsibility for my kids(marriage break up,he doesnt have much involvement/my depression in the past....)I still feel very responsible for being there 24/7 for them. Am sure in time it will relax.

Luckily I am now getting some daytimes free to have a meet every week/other week."

Sorry hun, when I made that comment, i didn't know any of that and as a non parent I have a lot more freedom!

I have friends who are lone parents so I know from them how difficult it can be to have some 'Me-time', hope am forgiven xx

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"It is only ever about every 5 or so weeks as thats when my young kids go to their dads for the weekend.

Although my family know I swing I often still find it uncomfy to ask them to sit for the kids while I go out for a meet on an evening when I have the kids.

I feel very responsible for my kids and I am sure some will say its silly but feel while they are with me I need to be num and be there for them and then on weekends when the ex has them I can then be the saucy lady lol.

I dont wish to rub my parents nose in anything and have to rely on them at any other time to sit for the kids to get some extra sex in.

They have sat for me overnight when I have been invited by good friends to a house party but my parental feelings of responsibility overide my need to have damn good sex on a weekend eve a bit more often.

Love to change my mind set over my feelings on responsibility for my kids(marriage break up,he doesnt have much involvement/my depression in the past....)I still feel very responsible for being there 24/7 for them. Am sure in time it will relax.

Luckily I am now getting some daytimes free to have a meet every week/other week."

When my son was younger i never left him at all with a babysitter, it was my choice. He went to his fathers every other weekend and sometimes to my mum or dad, but i worked everything around when he wasnt here. If people wish to leave their children with babysitters thats their choose but my choice was to be there for my son, i brought him into the world and i wasnt going to rush of and leave him so i could have sex. Fruit, like me your time will come when they fly the nest and you have more freedom than you can imaginexx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me in the least!

I have a busy life and interest outside sex so can take it or leave it.

When I am in the mood I'm fortunate to have playmates close at hand and an empty house. Strange thing, when my daughter was at home her presence used to ruin my meets as she'd return home unexpectedly. Now, there's no chance I'm not fussed!

I know I'm going through the change and that has something to do with it, but I'd hate to think I'd get into a lather just because I didn't have sex!!!

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