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"No, size is irrelevant to me, looks, personality, banter is how I choose a man to meet, I never ask for cock size or pics of the cock either" | |||
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"Nope I like a nice friendly looking guy with smiley face.....if I have to pick a size I would say small to medium - any bigger and you won't fit....and my profile says this " | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " I don't. Can't speak for other women. | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " No. I suspect more men do than women! A | |||
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"I always gett asked by women how big my cock is last nite I got sick of it then asked what her dress size is... safe to say the conversation ended there haha" What's wrong with asking how big your cock is? I don't meet guys who are 8 inch + I just fine big cocks hurt me Surely its better to not waste a guys time meeting him if I'm not going to play with him What would be best for me to tell a well endowed man on here he's to big or to meet him, pay for a room and then once I've seen it tell him I'm not snagging him I personally see no problem asking such a question I always do, what I do notice is when I do ask how big a guys cock is they always automatically assume I want a big one | |||
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"I always gett asked by women how big my cock is last nite I got sick of it then asked what her dress size is... safe to say the conversation ended there haha What's wrong with asking how big your cock is? I don't meet guys who are 8 inch + I just fine big cocks hurt me Surely its better to not waste a guys time meeting him if I'm not going to play with him What would be best for me to tell a well endowed man on here he's to big or to meet him, pay for a room and then once I've seen it tell him I'm not snagging him I personally see no problem asking such a question I always do, what I do notice is when I do ask how big a guys cock is they always automatically assume I want a big one " Cock size could be one of my insecurities for all she knows just like her size could be one of hers and I respected that but she asked me right of the bat my cock size i thought cock size was the equivalent to dress size | |||
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"I always gett asked by women how big my cock is last nite I got sick of it then asked what her dress size is... safe to say the conversation ended there haha What's wrong with asking how big your cock is? I don't meet guys who are 8 inch + I just fine big cocks hurt me Surely its better to not waste a guys time meeting him if I'm not going to play with him What would be best for me to tell a well endowed man on here he's to big or to meet him, pay for a room and then once I've seen it tell him I'm not snagging him I personally see no problem asking such a question I always do, what I do notice is when I do ask how big a guys cock is they always automatically assume I want a big one " Id say if you're blunt about asking the size of any guys dick thats why they assume you want a big cock | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " yes i,m simliar and can pass on my observations so far. Though will not be agreeable to all. No lady knows your size till your naked, though out of respect and to avoid dissapointment for both parties to drop hints. Personally I have a hunch that the ladies prefer confident assertive guys.Naturally guys who don,t have issues with manhood innitially come over as this. Unfortunately guys blessed good proportions have,nt got this barrier to contend with.Thus regrettabley ( though not gospel) ladies are drawn more to these guys and may find it becomes the norm for them. I know i,m going to get a back lash for this, but that is my observations so far. Personally though difficult I try not to be intimidated by the bulls with their truncheons. Believe me i,m no looker but the few plays i,ve had i,ve been reassured that i,ve been a pleasant surprise in the creativety I show. Trust me its not about the cock. | |||
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"I just like happy, enthusiastic,energetic ones,no matter what size they are " Happy ones are always the best | |||
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"I always gett asked by women how big my cock is last nite I got sick of it then asked what her dress size is... safe to say the conversation ended there haha What's wrong with asking how big your cock is? I don't meet guys who are 8 inch + I just fine big cocks hurt me Surely its better to not waste a guys time meeting him if I'm not going to play with him What would be best for me to tell a well endowed man on here he's to big or to meet him, pay for a room and then once I've seen it tell him I'm not snagging him I personally see no problem asking such a question I always do, what I do notice is when I do ask how big a guys cock is they always automatically assume I want a big one Cock size could be one of my insecurities for all she knows just like her size could be one of hers and I respected that but she asked me right of the bat my cock size i thought cock size was the equivalent to dress size " It very much could be one of your insecurities but if I'm meeting someone its a question I will ask as I'm not here to waste anyone's time including my own If a guy wants to ask my dress size that's fine, I'm a size 14 if he's looking some someone a size 12 or under I'd sooner him tell me on here I'm to big than let me waste my time meetimg him only to be told after the effort of getting to the meet I'm to big for him and I assume men would prefer like wise If your looking for real meets you have to be honest about what your after and who you are | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true yes i,m simliar and can pass on my observations so far. Though will not be agreeable to all. No lady knows your size till your naked, though out of respect and to avoid dissapointment for both parties to drop hints. Personally I have a hunch that the ladies prefer confident assertive guys.Naturally guys who don,t have issues with manhood innitially come over as this. Unfortunately guys blessed good proportions have,nt got this barrier to contend with.Thus regrettabley ( though not gospel) ladies are drawn more to these guys and may find it becomes the norm for them. I know i,m going to get a back lash for this, but that is my observations so far. Personally though difficult I try not to be intimidated by the bulls with their truncheons. Believe me i,m no looker but the few plays i,ve had i,ve been reassured that i,ve been a pleasant surprise in the creativety I show. Trust me its not about the cock." No backlash, but I think you're extrapolating your own feelings on to how other men think/feel. I've so far found no correlation between cock size and confidence or attitude. | |||
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" Id say if you're blunt about asking the size of any guys dick thats why they assume you want a big cock" Who said I was blunt I tend to just say can I ask how big you are please How are you supposed to ask | |||
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" Id say if you're blunt about asking the size of any guys dick thats why they assume you want a big cock Who said I was blunt I tend to just say can I ask how big you are please How are you supposed to ask " 'Please could you guesstimate the size of your appendage... No no, not your leg...' | |||
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"I always gett asked by women how big my cock is last nite I got sick of it then asked what her dress size is... safe to say the conversation ended there haha What's wrong with asking how big your cock is? I don't meet guys who are 8 inch + I just fine big cocks hurt me Surely its better to not waste a guys time meeting him if I'm not going to play with him What would be best for me to tell a well endowed man on here he's to big or to meet him, pay for a room and then once I've seen it tell him I'm not snagging him I personally see no problem asking such a question I always do, what I do notice is when I do ask how big a guys cock is they always automatically assume I want a big one Cock size could be one of my insecurities for all she knows just like her size could be one of hers and I respected that but she asked me right of the bat my cock size i thought cock size was the equivalent to dress size It very much could be one of your insecurities but if I'm meeting someone its a question I will ask as I'm not here to waste anyone's time including my own If a guy wants to ask my dress size that's fine, I'm a size 14 if he's looking some someone a size 12 or under I'd sooner him tell me on here I'm to big than let me waste my time meetimg him only to be told after the effort of getting to the meet I'm to big for him and I assume men would prefer like wise If your looking for real meets you have to be honest about what your after and who you are" This for me as well - I don't meet VWE men - it hurts... so I do ask upfront if I am interested in playing. Had a social with a VWE guy as he was a nice guy and struggling to get verified, but it was very clear that I was not interested in playing. I know my own build and size, and in the past (not from fab) met a guy who was bigger, and it was ok for a start when he was being very careful and not fully penetrating - but then he got careless and it really hurt. Also, I'd worry about how pleasurable it is for him to only use a little of it - and it was too big for oral too. | |||
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" Id say if you're blunt about asking the size of any guys dick thats why they assume you want a big cock Who said I was blunt I tend to just say can I ask how big you are please How are you supposed to ask " I didnt say you were blunt about asking... The way you ask it is polite I dont know why they assume you're a size queen.... We're all different anyways | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true yes i,m simliar and can pass on my observations so far. Though will not be agreeable to all. No lady knows your size till your naked, though out of respect and to avoid dissapointment for both parties to drop hints. Personally I have a hunch that the ladies prefer confident assertive guys.Naturally guys who don,t have issues with manhood innitially come over as this. Unfortunately guys blessed good proportions have,nt got this barrier to contend with.Thus regrettabley ( though not gospel) ladies are drawn more to these guys and may find it becomes the norm for them. I know i,m going to get a back lash for this, but that is my observations so far. Personally though difficult I try not to be intimidated by the bulls with their truncheons. Believe me i,m no looker but the few plays i,ve had i,ve been reassured that i,ve been a pleasant surprise in the creativety I show. Trust me its not about the cock. No backlash, but I think you're extrapolating your own feelings on to how other men think/feel. I've so far found no correlation between cock size and confidence or attitude. " Hello, ' own feelings' absolutley.... Now older wiser , in my younger years i,m sure I missed out on so much. Thankfully I attitudes are more inclusive and accepting now. I grew up when " machoness" seemed the only way to be. I played football, rugby and as a young lad often went on the PULL outings with the lads. Always the lads who were not shy in the showers sought out the ladies to chat to with their condidence. Knowing what i,d seen in the showers I often used to withdraw and let them get on with it thinking, whats the point. I,m sorry to say rarely were the ladies wishing to talk to the quieter guy. It not a generalisation on all ladies but I can only draw on own exp. If only I knew then what I know now . I,m still learning about myself and others and the old cliches are right... " all good things come to those who wait" " all good things come in small packages" And not forgetting.... " never judge a lover by its cover.. " | |||
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"I'm often amused by guys who message me saying they're well endowed blah blah so I reply thanks but not into big cocks then the back pedal dance starts. Well, not that big, just above average probably. So are you W/E or not? Erm no not really. So you're a liar then? " This makes me laugh too! | |||
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"I know some women who meet men solely on the basis of their cock. They've usually been the oned to complain that the guy was a total knob too and rubbish at everything else. Well, what did you expect if you disregard everything about someone but their cock? " Yep I've seen the same, makes me chuckle | |||
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"I know some women who meet men solely on the basis of their cock. They've usually been the oned to complain that the guy was a total knob too and rubbish at everything else. Well, what did you expect if you disregard everything about someone but their cock? Yep I've seen the same, makes me chuckle " They've usually been the ones who attract the most drama on here too i've realised | |||
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"It reminds me of boobs... yeah, I mean the boob question - bigger doesn't mean better functioning or better looking! Everyone's got their own taste. I think the connection is more important for quality horny sex, rather than sizes." I agree about boobs. I am rather large chested but my nipped are not as sensitive as other ladies seem to be. Not sure if it is just my nipples though. | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " simple answer it depends on the woman | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there " Unless she's giggling at your cock!! | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there Unless she's giggling at your cock!!" | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there " Looks good to me | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there Looks good to me " you're pics look great to me | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true yes i,m simliar and can pass on my observations so far. Though will not be agreeable to all. No lady knows your size till your naked, though out of respect and to avoid dissapointment for both parties to drop hints. Personally I have a hunch that the ladies prefer confident assertive guys.Naturally guys who don,t have issues with manhood innitially come over as this. Unfortunately guys blessed good proportions have,nt got this barrier to contend with.Thus regrettabley ( though not gospel) ladies are drawn more to these guys and may find it becomes the norm for them. I know i,m going to get a back lash for this, but that is my observations so far. Personally though difficult I try not to be intimidated by the bulls with their truncheons. Believe me i,m no looker but the few plays i,ve had i,ve been reassured that i,ve been a pleasant surprise in the creativety I show. Trust me its not about the cock." It's never about cock size for me & I would never ask! My OH jokes about an echo in my fanny occasionally & I take it in good jest because I've had 3 very big babies! This being said I don't need a big cock to satisfy me. I need a man who is astute enough to know not all women are wired the same & although some love their breasts & be very sensitive in that area there are some who have other areas that are more erogenous. A big cock does not make a good fuck. A brain however can Mrs WD40 xx | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there Looks good to me you're pics look great to me " Thank you Hunny. As do yours x | |||
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"My cock is average but if you can make a women giggle then your 3quaters way there Looks good to me you're pics look great to me Thank you Hunny. As do yours x" If I'm ever planning a trip to Scotland I'll be looking you up for sure, and if you're ever in London feel free to look me up xx | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " I don't...can't speak for others! More interested in the man that its attached too. | |||
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"I find this funny. It doesn't matter what size you are, because it can't be changed. Regardless of size if you don't turn on a woman's mind first she won't be interested in my experience. That takes care, consideration and a willing to learn as everyone is different in what they like. " Absolutely! If I'm mentally and emotionally aroused the rest follows naturally. X | |||
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"I am confused reading this thread. A lot of females and couples do ask me in parties and clubs if am well endowed.next time someone ask me how big am.i will remain mute.lol" it's because nobody likes to admit to even liking cocks in the forum let alone care what size they are ..... | |||
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"I am confused reading this thread. A lot of females and couples do ask me in parties and clubs if am well endowed.next time someone ask me how big am.i will remain mute.lol" What people say on here and what people actually do can be 2 very different thing. If you're happy answering that kind of direct question then crack on. | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " No way!...it's all about the performance & how you use your cock...for me anyway... Bambi x | |||
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"I am confused reading this thread. A lot of females and couples do ask me in parties and clubs if am well endowed.next time someone ask me how big am.i will remain mute.lol it's because nobody likes to admit to even liking cocks in the forum let alone care what size they are ....." I like cock | |||
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"Women mostly go for what they like and are attracted to surely. Or am I over thinking this?" Yes but its very disappointing when you are attracted to a guy, but sex is agony because he is too big - anything over 7.5" or very girthy is heading into the uncomfortable zone for me ! | |||
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"personality everytime" Are you suuuuuuuuuure ? Not telling porkies are we ? You'll get very bored of Mr Tinky winky after a few goes | |||
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"I do love a massive cock! The bigger the better mmmmmmm" Well there you go. QED | |||
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"Hi,I use'd to wont a bigger dick and thought that's wot woman want but now I realise a lot of whitch is due to getting in to doming I think ,fucking or sex or filth wot ever ya into is about so much more than a big dick m8, " | |||
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"Not having the biggest one myself just wounded if this is true " Wondered. Unless women have wounded you ego due to penis size. | |||
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"Though an angle has not covered in this thread. A question only ladies are able to answer... Those of you prefer the exceptional larger fella.. Has been the case after motherhood or been the case before??" I have been with my fella since I was 18 and never had a child till now 24 with a child and it hasn't changed how his cock feels at all he's 8" 6" girth and it's felt amazing before and after childbirth x | |||
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"I prefer to meet someone I can feel relaxed with so size is not relevant for me" So say there are two guys you find them equally attractive and are equally relaxed and comfortable with them. One is large one is small downstairs which do you choose? | |||
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"I prefer to meet someone I can feel relaxed with so size is not relevant for me So say there are two guys you find them equally attractive and are equally relaxed and comfortable with them. One is large one is small downstairs which do you choose?" Have both??! | |||
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"Lol A 12 inch dick once tried to fuck me It didnt work " A 5ft 11 inch dick tried to fuck me once, that didn't work either | |||
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"Though an angle has not covered in this thread. A question only ladies are able to answer... Those of you prefer the exceptional larger fella.. Has been the case after motherhood or been the case before??" Firstly, having kids does not mean you're fanny is gonna be massive. It hurts as the baby comes out, and yes your vagina stretches but like all muscles they 'ping' back to usual size. It takes about 6 weeks for everything (including the womb) to go back to it's previous state. In fact some women might become tighter after having kids because pregnancy may be the first time they've ever heard of kegels. For me i preferred big cocks always. Although i have been in a relationship with someone average sized and it didn't bother me that he was only average sized. Very occasionally i did wish he was bigger because we couldn't get into some of my favourite positions. | |||
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"I prefer to meet someone I can feel relaxed with so size is not relevant for me So say there are two guys you find them equally attractive and are equally relaxed and comfortable with them. One is large one is small downstairs which do you choose?" Both ofcourse I wouldn't limit myself to cock size as a preference | |||
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"Though an angle has not covered in this thread. A question only ladies are able to answer... Those of you prefer the exceptional larger fella.. Has been the case after motherhood or been the case before?? Firstly, having kids does not mean you're fanny is gonna be massive. It hurts as the baby comes out, and yes your vagina stretches but like all muscles they 'ping' back to usual size. It takes about 6 weeks for everything (including the womb) to go back to it's previous state. In fact some women might become tighter after having kids because pregnancy may be the first time they've ever heard of kegels. For me i preferred big cocks always. Although i have been in a relationship with someone average sized and it didn't bother me that he was only average sized. Very occasionally i did wish he was bigger because we couldn't get into some of my favourite positions." Im 'tighter' since becoming a mother, pelvic floor exercises were not some thing I did often pre pregnancy, after I did them a lot more, now its automatic whilst driving, lol | |||
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"I prefer to meet someone I can feel relaxed with so size is not relevant for me" | |||
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"Im 'tighter' since becoming a mother, pelvic floor exercises were not some thing I did often pre pregnancy, after I did them a lot more, now its automatic whilst driving, lol " I'm just sick of the assumption that women have bucket fannies after having kids. But thanks for backing me up on the kegels thing. | |||
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"Im 'tighter' since becoming a mother, pelvic floor exercises were not some thing I did often pre pregnancy, after I did them a lot more, now its automatic whilst driving, lol I'm just sick of the assumption that women have bucket fannies after having kids. But thanks for backing me up on the kegels thing." I find it really offensive! your welcome.x | |||
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"Lol A 12 inch dick once tried to fuck me It didnt work A 5ft 11 inch dick tried to fuck me once, that didn't work either " I'm 5'4. Oh wait. That doesn't work. | |||
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