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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just wondered everyone's thoughts on this, basically there's a girl that I work with that id love to sleep with but still not sure if it's acceptable to do so knowing that you have to work with them everyday.

Thoughts?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go there is my personal opinion.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Keep work and private life separate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't go there is my personal opinion. "

I agree. Of course, she may not want to have sex with you anyway so it could be a moot point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have know a few females in work to have done that with the guys, some end up in threesomes in the back of army land rovers, some do the block bunny thing by hopping from bed to bed. from what I have seen, it never ends well. Somebody always gets possessive and then the drama starts.

but you never know, your luck may be different because not all situations are the same!

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By *urvybrunette91Woman
over a year ago

tidworth

I slept with someone I worked in the same building as, we would see each other in the kitchen and it felt naughty knowing what we were up to outside of work! We were friends though, and both knew it was no more than that!

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

never ever shit on your own doorstep

when it all goes wrong are you happy to look for a new job ,because that's were its going

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've fucked one of my managers and a couple of members of my team. No weirdness or awkwardness. Even going away together in September. Go for it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a regular fb in the work place for 8 years, never caused a problem, and doesn't cause a problem now we no longer play.

We were both adult enough to know work was work, pleasure was pleasure, and pleasure wasn't to be mixed into working day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to sleep with someone I work with currently.

We had a bit of a play a few weeks ago (the result of a wild d*unken night) and the sexual tension in the office is unbearable at times. Every look, comment, the fact that no one else knows etc...makes it a highly charged atmosphere and I really get off on it. It does make coming to work a pleasure!

If you can both be adult about it afterwards, with no awkwardness, I would say go for it!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

hell no.....

why would you risk everything at work for something that is in your eyes casual...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been sleeping with a work mate for 15 months, it's wonderful, no drama, and it's still a secret, the looks and touches we give each other at work is so exciting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it will cause loads of issue's been there

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Never get your cash, where you get your....

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I did with a guy I worked with. We then married and spent 20 years together.

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By *lttattoocoupleCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

It always ends badly. If it's not a serious career job and you can easily change if Nessasarey. Then what have you got too loose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep been there done that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did with a guy I worked with. We then married and spent 20 years together. "

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley


"Just wondered everyone's thoughts on this, basically there's a girl that I work with that id love to sleep with but still not sure if it's acceptable to do so knowing that you have to work with them everyday.

Thoughts? "

I know a guy from work and him and his wife visit the same clubs I do. We talk, have a drink, sometimes even touch but never take it further than that as it could complicate life at work in the future

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Both of us have done this (before we met) and it can be awkward when you and the other split up.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

Never screw the crew is my moto

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I slept with a colleague 34 years ago. I still sleep with him now it isn't something I would say works often though we were just lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you can be mature about it, then I see no reason not to

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I worked in one place for 10 years...it had a good social aspect and a works bar (I'm wondering why I left now!), so it inevitable that I would get together with several girls.

Never had a problem with any of them...it's down to the individual and what you make of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what they're like. A few places i've worked we used to all go out drinking together, hang out at each others houses and were all fucking each other.

Other jobs i've had nobody was doing that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its your decision but doesnt always end well and could make working together difficult if you cross the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, but everybody knew we were "friendly" with each other already and most at work already knew even if they didn't directly say it to either of us.

My Boss (then) definitely knew..I know that.

He didn't care as long as it didn't detract from our jobs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did with a guy I worked with. We then married and spent 20 years together. "

Love a happy ending i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met at work, started sleeping together 5 years ago we now have a beautiful daughter and got engaged a few weeks ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its dependent on the people, I never dip my pen in the company ink. Just makes for a nicer work environment

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I have hooked up with guys from work before, but it's never really gone anywhere.

I really think it depends on the people and situation. I work with a few couples, in fact.

But the question is, is she interested in you? If not, leave it alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about sleeping with customers ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about sleeping with customers ?"

Not good if it goes wrong and they're a nutter, they'll probably put in a complaint about you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't go there! It's awkward and when/if it all goes wrong you still have to face each other every day!!

Been there done that..not a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never screw the crew is my moto "

Like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I visit people's houses every day and only ever had anything remotely sexual happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I visit people's houses every day and only ever had anything remotely sexual happen "

that's different though, you're at their home, its completely different if they were coming to your work place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guess I'm just too sexually minded when I go in there house

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