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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh

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By *ethepeopleMan
over a year ago

Near you

This should be good ! Brace yourself and hold on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This should be good ! Brace yourself and hold on "

I've just bought a brand new tin hat... Duck and cover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there are plenty who meet married men

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

There not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet married men unless their wife is aware AND happy about it.

I don't even meet if there is even a hint of an unaware girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before the usual posts about judgemental peeps raise their ugly head, let me point out:

To judge equates both to assess and to condemn. Many people assess that married fab members are not for them and give reasons why. This isn't a condemnation!

Me? No ta OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married guys would be okay if they read profiles before sending messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet married men unless their wife is aware AND happy about it.

I don't even meet if there is even a hint of an unaware girlfriend."

I try this but you still get men who dont tell you they are married. If all parties are consenting I dont see there is a problem. I have no wish to be responsible for causing hurt to other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speaking as a couple who have both experienced being "wronged" in our previous marriages, we would hate to take any part of deception against a man or woman as it really doesn't feel too great from their side when the shit hits the fan!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally we don't see that it matters one way or the other. It's life and its not a problem x

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

I like married ladies. I like the thought that they are getting something they miss from their married life, whilst not troubling their relationship.

If she starts to get attached in anyway though, it's good bye from me.

I would never do this with someone I know's wife though, as it is too close for it not to get personal.

I know men are diff and will gladly risk marriages, but most ladies are just fulfilling a need.

And I am happy to help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

On that note looking up the definition on Swinging wouldnt go amiss

Gimp

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By *SweetVioletxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

I think you'll find you can have whatever you like on a Swingers site. Hence why there are Cheaters on a Swingers site

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By *ittle Pocket PerveWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I like married ladies. I like the thought that they are getting something they miss from their married life, whilst not troubling their relationship.

If she starts to get attached in anyway though, it's good bye from me.

I would never do this with someone I know's wife though, as it is too close for it not to get personal.

I know men are diff and will gladly risk marriages, but most ladies are just fulfilling a need.

And I am happy to help. "

Out of curiosity... would you cheat on your partner then?

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

What I think is naff is that married men that are cheating against their partners without their knowledge decide to have a pop at me for my age...

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By *lutmeup500Woman
over a year ago

London

I do like fucking married men though. Nothing hornier than a daytime gangbang with a queue of married men that have all lied to their wives :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I want no part of playing with someone else's partner although I'm not judging them, what goes on in their personal life is none of my business and doesn't concern me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol,,on a site like fab yer gonna meet married guys n they'll lie their single,simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet married men unless their wife is aware AND happy about it.

I don't even meet if there is even a hint of an unaware girlfriend.

I try this but you still get men who dont tell you they are married. If all parties are consenting I dont see there is a problem. I have no wish to be responsible for causing hurt to other women."

Yep, I just do my best to make sure there is no unaware third party. A couple of times I've found out or suspected the guy had a girlfriend and declined a meet, when they guy hasn't realised I've found out.

I do the best I can. After that it's down to the guys conscience.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They shouldn't do that. The age filter is there for a reason. If you don't like a 19 year old girl, don't message her. Simple. Probably got a teenage daughter, and struggling with the fact they might end up on here too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh"
One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married guys would be okay if they read profiles before sending messages "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"lol,,on a site like fab yer gonna meet married guys n they'll lie their single,simple"
I'm upfront and honest on my profile. I think if you lie, and scorn a woman the chances are they will grass you up anyway. At least being honest they know you don't want to become attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex

On that note looking up the definition on Swinging

wouldnt go amiss

Gimp"

I think theres so many married people on this "swinging" site, because the sites that specialise in married hook-ups tend to want a lot of money up front to be able to use it successfully.

The ethos of fab is so much better, I like it therefore I pay and its cheap at that too.

Maybe fabs can set up a site for married people looking to "cheat" after all they've got a guys only site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very rarely enquire about a ladies matital status. I take the view that as an adult she has full use of reason and has not been coerced by me.As I am not planning to start a relationship with her it is not relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married men have always let me down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion. "

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me. Do not want to meet ladies playing away. If there partner knows then great if not then no x

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it. "

Therein lies the problem! If people don't say they are married on their profile it doesn't give those people who don't want to fuck married people any warning to avoid them.

If someone deceived me and I found out,they would very quickly learn it was the biggest mistake they ever made!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married men = hard work, can't accom and can usually only meet daytimes, meets are normally rushed...

Hence not for me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am married but am straight and upfront about it. My wife is aware as she has a single profile and we have a couples profile.

I do understand that a lot of fems dont and wont meet married as they dont want the hassle or aggravation. I have also found some fems like to meet married guys as they know that they get just NSA fun as we already have a committed relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Up to yourself if you like being deceitful. I'm single and prefer single men. Won't knowingly meet a married man. I don't judge others though just steer clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it.

Therein lies the problem! If people don't say they are married on their profile it doesn't give those people who don't want to fuck married people any warning to avoid them.

If someone deceived me and I found out,they would very quickly learn it was the biggest mistake they ever made!"
Exacly!!! If guys have the balls to put they are married on there profile then fair enough. Then it gives the ladies a choice of if they want to or not. It's the gutless ones that are cheating but act as though they are single on here that piss me off , oooo hark at me getting all ranty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for us; putting aside the fact that people who cheat on there other halves are the scum of the earth in our minds , there is also the fact that if they will lie to there spouses then what lies would they tell us?

I'm just gonna climb down into my protective bunker now before the attack begins. . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

The clue is in the name. And many people don't consider cheating and swinging comparable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it.

Therein lies the problem! If people don't say they are married on their profile it doesn't give those people who don't want to fuck married people any warning to avoid them.

If someone deceived me and I found out,they would very quickly learn it was the biggest mistake they ever made!"

Every guy I've met knows I'm married. Visible wedding ring in pics..... Mind I've not once had anyone 'put off' by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men = hard work, can't accom and can usually only meet daytimes, meets are normally rushed...

Hence not for me!!! "

This is the point so many cheating men on here miss. Ignoring morals, genuinely single men are simply less hassle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am married but am straight and upfront about it. My wife is aware as she has a single profile and we have a couples profile.

I do understand that a lot of fems dont and wont meet married as they dont want the hassle or aggravation. I have also found some fems like to meet married guys as they know that they get just NSA fun as we already have a committed relationship."
Why ? Do you not get NSA fun with single guys ?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it.

Therein lies the problem! If people don't say they are married on their profile it doesn't give those people who don't want to fuck married people any warning to avoid them.

If someone deceived me and I found out,they would very quickly learn it was the biggest mistake they ever made!

Every guy I've met knows I'm married. Visible wedding ring in pics..... Mind I've not once had anyone 'put off' by it. "

I get the impression neither you or your husband are happy in your marriage,why don't you both divorce,wouldn't it be easier than all the deceit. I presume he's playing away as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I don't want to meet married men because the likelihood of having meets cancelled due to wife and home issues is far higher

I don't ask in clubs but I have stopped play a couple of times in the past when it's become obvious that the guy is married

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men = hard work, can't accom and can usually only meet daytimes, meets are normally rushed...

Hence not for me!!!

This is the point so many cheating men on here miss. Ignoring morals, genuinely single men are simply less hassle"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it.

Therein lies the problem! If people don't say they are married on their profile it doesn't give those people who don't want to fuck married people any warning to avoid them.

If someone deceived me and I found out,they would very quickly learn it was the biggest mistake they ever made!

Every guy I've met knows I'm married. Visible wedding ring in pics..... Mind I've not once had anyone 'put off' by it.

I get the impression neither you or your husband are happy in your marriage,why don't you both divorce,wouldn't it be easier than all the deceit. I presume he's playing away as well!"

Of course he is and always has. I was a good wife for 16 years, turned a blind eye to his ways. Thing is..... Who will look after the children when I'm at work? Who will pay the bills? It's not black & white. Believe me, as soon as my children can look after themselves whilst I'm working, I'll be off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet them knowingly. We do what we can to avoid meeting them and have made it clear on our profile that we don't want to meet them. Sure, they can lie and chances are we wouldn't find out; that is up to their conscience but ours are clear. We are a couple doing this together, neither of us has a single profile and this is an enhancement to our sex life, nothing more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My opinion on cheating men is the same as on cheating women, I don't like it! I do have moral issue with it because I've seen the hurt it can cause to the poor sod being cheated on and the damage it can cause to families. I know everyone who cheats has their 'reasons' but with only one partners version of events how am I to know what is actually true... Not that I'm really all that interested tbh as that is a level of involvement I don't want in someone else's relationship.

Wherever possible I avoid meeting those who are attached, unless their partner is aware, to keep my conscience clear and also to save myself the hassle should the partner find out as I don't need the grief. I have unwillingly met cheats because expecting a cheat to be honest on here when they can't be honest with the person they claim to love is almost laughable, but I do all I can to be sure in my own mind before meeting and will stop meeting if I find out later on they have a partner.

I would love it those who cheat respected my decision to only play with those that are single/playing with consent though rather than trying to tell me who I should play with and change my morals, which I am entitled to regardless of whether I'm on swinging site or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't meet married men either.... I don't want the other woman to feel what I did. Yes it's hypocritical as I'm married but single guys for me please

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"My opinion on cheating men is the same as on cheating women, I don't like it! I do have moral issue with it because I've seen the hurt it can cause to the poor sod being cheated on and the damage it can cause to families. I know everyone who cheats has their 'reasons' but with only one partners version of events how am I to know what is actually true... Not that I'm really all that interested tbh as that is a level of involvement I don't want in someone else's relationship.

Wherever possible I avoid meeting those who are attached, unless their partner is aware, to keep my conscience clear and also to save myself the hassle should the partner find out as I don't need the grief. I have unwillingly met cheats because expecting a cheat to be honest on here when they can't be honest with the person they claim to love is almost laughable, but I do all I can to be sure in my own mind before meeting and will stop meeting if I find out later on they have a partner.

I would love it those who cheat respected my decision to only play with those that are single/playing with consent though rather than trying to tell me who I should play with and change my morals, which I am entitled to regardless of whether I'm on swinging site or not "

Very well put,I just get to emotional on this subject

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Married guys would be okay if they read profiles before sending messages "

I just love optimists lol Read????? what is that i hear many say!!!!! lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

My opinion of married men is exactly the same as my opinion of married women. - I do not agree with fucking around behind the other partners back and no amount of excuses or so-called reasoning will change my mind.

So I would appreciate it if they passed us by. If one DID manage to slip through the net and their scorned other half came after us, I wouldn't be lying on their behalf either. I will tell them exactly what their partner has been up to.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"My opinion on cheating men is the same as on cheating women, I don't like it! I do have moral issue with it because I've seen the hurt it can cause to the poor sod being cheated on and the damage it can cause to families. I know everyone who cheats has their 'reasons' but with only one partners version of events how am I to know what is actually true... Not that I'm really all that interested tbh as that is a level of involvement I don't want in someone else's relationship.

Wherever possible I avoid meeting those who are attached, unless their partner is aware, to keep my conscience clear and also to save myself the hassle should the partner find out as I don't need the grief. I have unwillingly met cheats because expecting a cheat to be honest on here when they can't be honest with the person they claim to love is almost laughable, but I do all I can to be sure in my own mind before meeting and will stop meeting if I find out later on they have a partner.

I would love it those who cheat respected my decision to only play with those that are single/playing with consent though rather than trying to tell me who I should play with and change my morals, which I am entitled to regardless of whether I'm on swinging site or not "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect the views of those who don't wish to involve themselves with married or attached people, which is why it's on my profile and I also don't message anyone who states on theirs that they won't meet married people. I figure we can just pass each other by and coexist happily on the site.

What I do object to is people who publicly (on threads like this) like to show off about how they'd never meet anyone married because it's all so deceitful and terrible, then message me in private trying to meet. If you're going to take a moral standpoint on something at least fucking stick to it even if the sinner is pretty.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I respect the views of those who don't wish to involve themselves with married or attached people, which is why it's on my profile and I also don't message anyone who states on theirs that they won't meet married people. I figure we can just pass each other by and coexist happily on the site.

What I do object to is people who publicly (on threads like this) like to show off about how they'd never meet anyone married because it's all so deceitful and terrible, then message me in private trying to meet. If you're going to take a moral standpoint on something at least fucking stick to it even if the sinner is pretty. "

Exactly.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

My view is this

Many women once married and the babies arrive leave their men without the love and respect that most deserve

If they kept business going at home they wouldn't need to stray

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Married men = hard work, can't accom and can usually only meet daytimes, meets are normally rushed...

Hence not for me!!! "

I totally agree on this one, I prefer to have quality than quantity and in my opinion you don't get that with cheating guys married or otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't meet married men either.... I don't want the other woman to feel what I did. Yes it's hypocritical as I'm married but single guys for me please "
But it's okay for your husband to feel like it?

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's each to there own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I won't meet married men either.... I don't want the other woman to feel what I did. Yes it's hypocritical as I'm married but single guys for me please But it's okay for your husband to feel like it?"

My husband has had numerous affairs. Honestly?!? I couldn't give a fuck anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is this

Many women once married and the babies arrive leave their men without the love and respect that most deserve

If they kept business going at home they wouldn't need to stray "

Wow, just wow! So a woman who maybe can't face sex because she's suffering from post natal depression is to blame if her husband cheats rather than supporting her through what must be a hellish time?

Like I said above, we don't ever know both sides of the story. I'm not saying this is always the case by the way but some cheat rather than trying to fix their relationships. Respect is a two way street.

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By *rmrshorny2Couple
over a year ago

Seaside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a strange one for me. I would never knowingly meet a married man (I only meet single men on rare occasions anyway) but I don't have the same issues meeting married women. I would, however, need them to be upfront about the fact they were married though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay clear I won't knowingly be with a married or attached guy with or without their other halfs permission ...... In my expirience someone always gets hurt from it

It's up to the individual tho each to their own and whichever way they want to justify it

I just rather ppl were free to play like myself.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands


"My view is this

Many women once married and the babies arrive leave their men without the love and respect that most deserve

If they kept business going at home they wouldn't need to stray

Wow, just wow! So a woman who maybe can't face sex because she's suffering from post natal depression is to blame if her husband cheats rather than supporting her through what must be a hellish time?

Like I said above, we don't ever know both sides of the story. I'm not saying this is always the case by the way but some cheat rather than trying to fix their relationships. Respect is a two way street."

Who mentioned pnd

I've had it

It's no joke

But women shut men down sexually once they've married them often children or no children

And if they have a career heaven help the poor old husband whole relegated to last on her list of priorities

Ask any prostitute

Her clients are predominantly men who are consistently refused at home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

So to be a swinger you can't have morals then, is that what your saying

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!


"My view is this

Many women once married and the babies arrive leave their men without the love and respect that most deserve

If they kept business going at home they wouldn't need to stray

Wow, just wow! So a woman who maybe can't face sex because she's suffering from post natal depression is to blame if her husband cheats rather than supporting her through what must be a hellish time?

Like I said above, we don't ever know both sides of the story. I'm not saying this is always the case by the way but some cheat rather than trying to fix their relationships. Respect is a two way street.

Who mentioned pnd

I've had it

It's no joke

But women shut men down sexually once they've married them often children or no children

And if they have a career heaven help the poor old husband whole relegated to last on her list of priorities

Ask any prostitute

Her clients are predominantly men who are consistently refused at home "

You are not seriously saying you believe everything a man tells you or a prostitute are you?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally find married men don't really have the time I require for meets

Most are just after quickies, they just want to pop round to mine for a fuck

I like to meet for a drink and chat first then take it from there get a hotel etc for the night which married guys can't do

I don't want a guy clock watching and running back home mid shag cause his wife's expecting him home by 11

I avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do ladies in general think of married men? My meet last night said she prefers them, she's married too, as they don't look to upset her status quo. I've spoke to a few others in the same position, although most women seem to shy away from married men. There seems to be some hypocrisy too, ie she's married and wants discretion, but won't meet married men "because I'm not a complete bitch" always makes me laugh One word... c**ts and that goes to females aswell... Harsh i no but that's my opinion.

Am I a c@nt? My hubby hasn't fucked, cuddled or kissed me for 2 years. All else in the marriage flows well...but I need sex! And yes I've talked to him about it. "

If he knows you're on here thats ok but if he doesnt well...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm married. I wear my wedding ring. I don't hide being married.

I guess many of the people are also married. That's their business as far as I'm concerned.

My wife knows everything.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though. "

I've never experienced any pity on here, nor do I want any, and I've had plenty of criticism.

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though. "

You'll often find it's MEN with that attitude on here. Women are sparse on Fab and some men think adopting the "White Knight" routine will get them some pussy.

Ask the level-headed men and most other women and I bet they'll tell you differently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though. "

In other words if a guy is here cheating he's a prick and if a woman is here cheating she's married to a prick... You can never win..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a strange one for me. I would never knowingly meet a married man (I only meet single men on rare occasions anyway) but I don't have the same issues meeting married women. I would, however, need them to be upfront about the fact they were married though.

"
I agree, if they say they are single men and I want to meet them then I will. Obviously some are married but that's their choice and it's not for me to worry about......other people's marriages and all that. I have also met married women and they seem far more open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though.

You'll often find it's MEN with that attitude on here. Women are sparse on Fab and some men think adopting the "White Knight" routine will get them some pussy.

Ask the level-headed men and most other women and I bet they'll tell you differently."

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

One of my friends meets a few married guys who are cheating and the biggest problems are that they're not able to communicate unless the wife is out of the room and they are very limited in when they can arrange playtime. They're are likely to propose last minute meets because their wife has decided to have a girly night, go shopping or work late. Or the guy claims to be working late.

It's far from ideal and sometimes leaves my friend quite frustrated. It's a common cause of guys cancelling meets too because their wife unexpectedly stayed home, for example.

It's much easier if everyone is open and honest. A married guy in an open marriage is able to communicate openly and arrange meets without sneaking around his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody has a different situation and I don't for 1 fucking second make ASS-umptions about anyone.

It's not my business.

I make my own mind up about whether I want to meet someone or not.

And really, if the highest and best use of your life is discussing other people's lives, you probably need to get a life.

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By *osieWoman
over a year ago

Wembley

Have met a few in the past. I don't make moral judgements about why they are cheating etc. But I won't meet them now. They are 'shifty-eyed', clock-watchers. And I have no intention of sneaking in and out of hotel rooms in under two hours like some hooker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though. "
Cheating is Cheating. Man or Woman

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

It's neither hypocrisy or being judgemental to not want to play with someone who is being dishonest with their nearest and (supposedly) dearest.

if they are prepared to lie to her/him, what else will they lie about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex

It's neither hypocrisy or being judgemental to not want to play with someone who is being dishonest with their nearest and (supposedly) dearest.

if they are prepared to lie to her/him, what else will they lie about? "

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I'm here for fun ..not to be caught up in anyone's relationship issues or potential fall out when partner discovers they are cheating . I've no desire for an irrate partner turning up at my door or calling or texting me .

I've also no wish to be with someone who has to clock watch .Or when planning a meet its like a SAS mission and just a logistical nightmare ! Life's complicated enough I'm just not wanting further complications and dramas .plenty of lovely to singles to play with where I can relax and just enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though.

I've never experienced any pity on here, nor do I want any, and I've had plenty of criticism. "

Seriously, youre only 30 and playing away already?? Fuck me...thats a sad state of affairs im afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I respect the views of those who don't wish to involve themselves with married or attached people, which is why it's on my profile and I also don't message anyone who states on theirs that they won't meet married people. I figure we can just pass each other by and coexist happily on the site.

What I do object to is people who publicly (on threads like this) like to show off about how they'd never meet anyone married because it's all so deceitful and terrible, then message me in private trying to meet. If you're going to take a moral standpoint on something at least fucking stick to it even if the sinner is pretty. "

Double standards on an internet site full of random strangers, surely not...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My view is this

Many women once married and the babies arrive leave their men without the love and respect that most deserve

If they kept business going at home they wouldn't need to stray

Wow, just wow! So a woman who maybe can't face sex because she's suffering from post natal depression is to blame if her husband cheats rather than supporting her through what must be a hellish time?

Like I said above, we don't ever know both sides of the story. I'm not saying this is always the case by the way but some cheat rather than trying to fix their relationships. Respect is a two way street.

Who mentioned pnd

I've had it

It's no joke

But women shut men down sexually once they've married them often children or no children

And if they have a career heaven help the poor old husband whole relegated to last on her list of priorities

Ask any prostitute

Her clients are predominantly men who are consistently refused at home "

I was putting a possible reason forward as to why a woman may refuse sex and certainly not making a joke of it. A guy may tell you the Mrs stopped having sex after the kids were born but you have no idea the reasons why, you just assume he's hard done to and she a bitch when there could be a serious issue that she needs help with (or cheating women blames distant man when he has issues too). The point I was making is you only have one side of the story when for all you know the partners side could be very different so I choose to steer clear as I don't want to be involved in someone else's relationship regardless of the reasons they cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do often find it funny that in general life if a married women goes I need another guy to give me what I'm not getting at home then people take pitty on them and obviously hubby is rubbish. Yet reverse the situation and when i guy says the same thing he's told he's a cheating bar steward and poor little wifey.

Maybe that's just my life experience though.

I've never experienced any pity on here, nor do I want any, and I've had plenty of criticism.

Seriously, youre only 30 and playing away already?? Fuck me...thats a sad state of affairs im afraid"

Thanks for your helpful contribution. Be right back, just off to re-evaluate all my life decisions.

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

I meet a married guy. He was upfront right from the beginning. My choice. I would not meet married men who use the excuse they are not getting it at home or put the blame on their wife for being here. Everyone has their reasons for being on here. My preferences are single guys but every now and again someone comes along that you connect with and they are outside your preferences.

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham


"Choices are for the Chooser. You cannot have hypocrisy or a judgmental attitude on a Swinging Site. FFS.I thought people on here where on for Sex and Fun. The names a giveaway. Fab Swingers.

Some people either need a reality check or just Do One!

Rex "

Absolutely, it's 'fab swingers' not 'fab cheats'! Most are here for sex and fun, not to destroy families or cause hurt to other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet a married guy. He was upfront right from the beginning. My choice. I would not meet married men who use the excuse they are not getting it at home or put the blame on their wife for being here. Everyone has their reasons for being on here. My preferences are single guys but every now and again someone comes along that you connect with and they are outside your preferences."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meet a married guy. He was upfront right from the beginning. My choice. I would not meet married men who use the excuse they are not getting it at home or put the blame on their wife for being here. Everyone has their reasons for being on here. My preferences are single guys but every now and again someone comes along that you connect with and they are outside your preferences."

I'm the same well apart from meeting Men

I don't go looking for married Women but I don't judge, I don't know their reasons for doing it, They might want to leave their partner for all I know but can't, Family/financial reasons

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