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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " well try and spice it at home ,not on here | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples" Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating. | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples" i think its the same for any sex x | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating." ![]() | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating." I see your point but surely it's better with like minded no strings people | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating. I see your point but surely it's better with like minded no strings people " To be honest if your not sexually fulfilled with your partner/wife either talk to her about it or simply move on ! Lifes to short to spend it with the wrong person . | |||
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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " If you see yourself as a swinger I'd say you're not on the wrong site. But be upfront on your profile and say you're married. If you just fancy a fling then you could well be disappointed. Also, be prepared to listen to those who are out to kick you - those who don't answer your question but simply weigh in with their self-righteous opinions about the state of your life, your relationship, your manners, your cheatin' heart without knowing anything about you or how you got here. | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons?" ![]() | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? ![]() I think she's on here ! Lol And she's got 50 verifications | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating. I see your point but surely it's better with like minded no strings people " Are you trying to justify cheating on your wife? Why is having sex with a swinger 'better'? Do you think she would see that or would she quote it in the divorce papers? | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? ![]() She's here sucking my cock x | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? ![]() She was sucking mine an hour ago ! Says her husband doesn't fulfil her needs | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons?" honestly I'm a firm believer in what I don't know don't hurt me | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? ![]() tell me how 2 do so then it'll save both of us time | |||
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"Lol I suppose no e of the sixty odd guys youve met were married ? Pmpl Atleast thats what they told u Yep, you're right. There are a significant number of cheating liars on this site. I'm still not sure why me asking the OP some genuine questions has attracted so much vitriol." at least I'm not a liar ![]() | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples" I don't agree with either but I'm not perfect myself and I have no right to judge others. To the OP, make sure this is actually something you want to do... It really is something huge and always end in hurt. | |||
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"Lol I suppose no e of the sixty odd guys youve met were married ? Pmpl Atleast thats what they told u Also sure she's been in s relationship during one of her million veris " are you her stalker? | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples I don't agree with either but I'm not perfect myself and I have no right to judge others. To the OP, make sure this is actually something you want to do... It really is something huge and always end in hurt." good sound advice... Thanks | |||
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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " Honesty really isn't the best policy on here when cheating on a partner, as you may have already guessed. Personally I do not judge others quite so easily as some. | |||
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"wow its nice to see we are such a non - judgemental crowd if you dont want to meet married people thats your choice but really is behaving like school children necessary. if people are honest about their marital state dont judge them being on here and we wont judge the number of verifications other people have be it lots or few" Actually, judging someone is human nature and entirely normal. I have been insulted for asking the OP questions, very simple ones. I think what the OP wanted was for one of us to pat him on the back and tell him it's ok but that's for him to decide. If you are in a relationship and are having sex with another person and your partner doesn't know, it's cheating. That's not a judgement, it's a fact. | |||
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"Honest opinion. yes and no, This is a swingers site so no its not about cheating and you will find many here that are very against cheating, and uphold those morals strongly, however you will find some that dont mind/ turn a blind eye etc, the best and fairest thing to everyone (on here not your wife) is to put it in your profile so they can make an informed decision whether to meet you, that doesn't make you honest but at least you arent dragging others into your web of lies, so to sum it up, yes you are in the wrong place because primarily this is a swingers site and swinging has absolutely nothing to do with cheating and, No you arent in the wrong the place because this site is now used by many others so you will find people that will play with cheats." thanks I have added it to my profile earlier | |||
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"Honest opinion. yes and no, This is a swingers site so no its not about cheating and you will find many here that are very against cheating, and uphold those morals strongly, however you will find some that dont mind/ turn a blind eye etc, the best and fairest thing to everyone (on here not your wife) is to put it in your profile so they can make an informed decision whether to meet you, that doesn't make you honest but at least you arent dragging others into your web of lies, so to sum it up, yes you are in the wrong place because primarily this is a swingers site and swinging has absolutely nothing to do with cheating and, No you arent in the wrong the place because this site is now used by many others so you will find people that will play with cheats. thanks I have added it to my profile earlier " Good call OP. It gives people more information to make their choices. | |||
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"Oh and just to add, if it were the OP's wife that was on here instead I would defend her right to be on Fab too. . . It's not our business. " he made it our buisness when he put a post up asking !!! | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating. I see your point but surely it's better with like minded no strings people " lol A lot here say no strings but looking for lovers really . So you better look out . | |||
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"Neither you nor i have the right to dictate who should and who shouldn't be on Fab. . His reasons are a matter for himself and his wife. Every heard the saying "let he who is without sin cast the first stone"?" If you don't want people commenting on your private life dont start a thread asking for comments!!! | |||
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"Oh and just to add, if it were the OP's wife that was on here instead I would defend her right to be on Fab too. . . It's not our business. " Maybe she is here too . lol I know people who found the other half on here as a single . And was hurt thinking after 15 years they really never new them at all . I say whats good for one is good for both . ![]() | |||
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"Neither you nor i have the right to dictate who should and who shouldn't be on Fab. . His reasons are a matter for himself and his wife. Every heard the saying "let he who is without sin cast the first stone"? If you don't want people commenting on your private life dont start a thread asking for comments!!!" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Yes but most couples wouldnt say anything if the lady decided to meet with them but guys are branded cheats by most people my friend came of here because of the abuse he got i know its not right but to abuse one sex and not another is wrong " Yes your right . Woman can get away with a lot here as men are 2 a penny its a numbers game and men out number woman 7 to 1 or 10 to 1 100 to 1 not sure but that's why. Woman don't have to look nice to get a shag woman could have a bag over there head and get 100 s of letters asking for a shag married or not . ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think for most people that if they disagree with a man cheating on his wife they would also disagree with a woman cheating on her husband. Those who don't care wouldn't mind either way. I doubt very much there are many people on here (and ive never seen one yet) that would lecture a cheating hubby and pat a cheating wife on the back. " You're right, they don't pat a cheating wife on the back but the same people that ridicule the cheating man and make out he's the devil's spawn will turn round to a cheating wife and offer to give her, in the case of the hypocritical critical men, what her husband can't/won't give. The hypocritical critical women say fuck fall to the cheating female. You've been on here long enough to realise that. | |||
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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " You can justify it to yourself in whatever way you want, but at the end of the day you can't think much of your spouse if you are playing away behind her back. | |||
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"I think for most people that if they disagree with a man cheating on his wife they would also disagree with a woman cheating on her husband. Those who don't care wouldn't mind either way. I doubt very much there are many people on here (and ive never seen one yet) that would lecture a cheating hubby and pat a cheating wife on the back. You're right, they don't pat a cheating wife on the back but the same people that ridicule the cheating man and make out he's the devil's spawn will turn round to a cheating wife and offer to give her, in the case of the hypocritical critical men, what her husband can't/won't give. The hypocritical critical women say fuck fall to the cheating female. You've been on here long enough to realise that. " I wouldn't. Cheaters are cheaters as far as I'm concerned. I see lots of profiles every day where men are actively looking for married woman and have seen many threads from guys stating the same. Don't think I've ever seen a profile or a thread from a woman asking for the same thing. Not saying it doesn't happen but its rare. | |||
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"I wouldn't. Cheaters are cheaters as far as I'm concerned. I see lots of profiles every day where men are actively looking for married woman and have seen many threads from guys stating the same. Don't think I've ever seen a profile or a thread from a woman asking for the same thing. Not saying it doesn't happen but its rare. " There are many 'popular' female contributors to the forums whose profiles state they are married/in a relationship but they do not receive the comments men in a similar position get. The attached man will often get snide remarks. Granted, it's rare to see a female start an 'Is it okay to cheat?' thread but when they do start a thread about a topic and happen to mentioned they are attached and on here without their partner's knowledge they hardly get anything said, if at all. Not the case if you're a bloke. | |||
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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " Why not invite her along. Her sex drive maybe lower as she's bored. Someone new may perk her libido up. You never know unless you ask? ;) | |||
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"I wouldn't. Cheaters are cheaters as far as I'm concerned. I see lots of profiles every day where men are actively looking for married woman and have seen many threads from guys stating te same. Don't think I've ever seen a profile or a thread from a woman asking for the same thing. Not saying it doesn't happen but its rare. There are many 'popular' female contributors to the forums whose profiles state they are married/in a relationship but they do not receive the comments men in a similar position get. The attached man will often get snide remarks. Granted, it's rare to see a female start an 'Is it okay to cheat?' thread but when they do start a thread about a topic and happen to mentioned they are attached and on here without their partner's knowledge they hardly get anything said, if at all. Not the case if you're a bloke. " That's a simple supply and demand issue. When something is rare more people are willing to loosen their initial principles. If there was an over supply of females then those cheating would get similar responses to the cheating men. | |||
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"I wouldn't. Cheaters are cheaters as far as I'm concerned. I see lots of profiles every day where men are actively looking for married woman and have seen many threads from guys stating the same. Don't think I've ever seen a profile or a thread from a woman asking for the same thing. Not saying it doesn't happen but its rare. There are many 'popular' female contributors to the forums whose profiles state they are married/in a relationship but they do not receive the comments men in a similar position get. The attached man will often get snide remarks. Granted, it's rare to see a female start an 'Is it okay to cheat?' thread but when they do start a thread about a topic and happen to mentioned they are attached and on here without their partner's knowledge they hardly get anything said, if at all. Not the case if you're a bloke. " It will never change .. I have seen posts here men saying lovely things . There was a post once about fat men with beer tummies woman saying no would never meet made over weight men feel bad and a lot of the woman saying this was big themselves and men saying how they love BBWs now its just not the same here for both sexes one get away with being big the others don't its seen as lovely. | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? ![]() Wait a minute, you were just backing him up a min ago, now you're taking the piss? | |||
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"I'm a married man looking for that extra spice in my life without the wife knowing, I know this is a site for swingers but my sex drive is far higher than the other half's " You're not in the wrong place From my experiences on here of both men and women this is most definetly the place for you! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"That's a simple supply and demand issue. When something is rare more people are willing to loosen their initial principles. If there was an over supply of females then those cheating would get similar responses to the cheating men. " Supply and demand dictates that women who wouldn't get a look-in if the male/female ratio were reversed get an overinflated sense of self. The rest is hypocrisy. | |||
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"Not the wrong place !!! BUT it would be a much better place if it was ONLY swingers in my opinion it's then less drama! " And some will say only swingers are couples ... people cant win here as everyone is different a real mix. | |||
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"I wouldn't. Cheaters are cheaters as far as I'm concerned. I see lots of profiles every day where men are actively looking for married woman and have seen many threads from guys stating the same. Don't think I've ever seen a profile or a thread from a woman asking for the same thing. Not saying it doesn't happen but its rare. There are many 'popular' female contributors to the forums whose profiles state they are married/in a relationship but they do not receive the comments men in a similar position get. The attached man will often get snide remarks. Granted, it's rare to see a female start an 'Is it okay to cheat?' thread but when they do start a thread about a topic and happen to mentioned they are attached and on here without their partner's knowledge they hardly get anything said, if at all. Not the case if you're a bloke. " Probably because commenting on people's peofiles unless they have specifically asked for it is against forum rules. If anyone started a thread male or female asking if it's ok to cheat then my reply would be the same. | |||
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"Not the wrong place !!! BUT it would be a much better place if it was ONLY swingers in my opinion it's then less drama! And some will say only swingers are couples ... people cant win here as everyone is different a real mix. " it certainly is a mixed bag ... you just need to make it clear in your profile what you are and what your looking for I swing with a fb or alone so best of both ![]() | |||
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"Not the wrong place !!! BUT it would be a much better place if it was ONLY swingers in my opinion it's then less drama! " There wouldn't be many people on here if it were only swingers. | |||
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"Lol Its ok for married woman on here looking for that bit extra but not married me ! There the rules Simples Anyone of any sex can join for any reason they like but for some of us, cheating is cheating. I see your point but surely it's better with like minded no strings people " Ahh but you see, swinging isn't cheating. My husband can have sex with any woman he wants..... as long as I know about it. The minute he does it behind my back, then we have a problem. Well I say we, I actually mean his testicles will have a very big problem ![]() | |||
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"How would you feel if your wife joined the site, without your knowledge, giving the same reasons? honestly I'm a firm believer in what I don't know don't hurt me " Unfortunately this is not true, in close bonded relationship especially, lies and any betrayal of trust will impact on the other party, it is a spiritual reality. | |||
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