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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When I have a meet planned I do nothing but focus on the person I'm with and I never Pop on fab whilst in the company of a meet. I'd actually be pretty offended that someone had to pop on whilst in my company.

Am I alone in this?

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

Pop on to nosy at messages or something, no.

But pop on to show my meet something we're discussing, then yes

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By *eithoWoman
over a year ago

Chatham

Totally agree. That's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop on to nosy at messages or something, no.

But pop on to show my meet something we're discussing, then yes"

agree, or with their permission post pics of play in action

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Totally agree. That's just rude."

Very disrespectful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Pop on to nosy at messages or something, no.

But pop on to show my meet something we're discussing, then yes

agree, or with their permission post pics of play in action

I'd wait till the next day to post them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never, your focus is your current meet, not your next one!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never, your focus is your current meet, not your next one!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had one or two do that...suffice to say the meet was kept to a minimum..couldn't wait to get away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pop on to nosy at messages or something, no.

But pop on to show my meet something we're discussing, then yes

agree, or with their permission post pics of play in action

I'd wait till the next day to post them."

Normally do, they initiated it, added bit extra

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Had one or two do that...suffice to say the meet was kept to a minimum..couldn't wait to get away"

Tells me all I need to know about someone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No never, your focus is your current meet, not your next one!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything other than interaction with the person I'm with is a no-no for me.

Unless something impromptu was discussed necessitating a call to be made

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Anything other than interaction with the person I'm with is a no-no for me.

Unless something impromptu was discussed necessitating a call to be made

That won't be happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep totally offended if they were on here checking their messages, it would be an adios from me.

i don't understand why anyone would though when they have the reality with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never, your focus is your current meet, not your next one!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had one or two do that...suffice to say the meet was kept to a minimum..couldn't wait to get away

Tells me all I need to know about someone. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had a girl over and she talked a gd fuck was awful actually never came off fab the 2hrs she was at mine ate all my curry and left me feeling used! still in therapy over that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's all about the meet coming up and Making sure she is 100% satisfied before during and after......

The before is about building trust and that sexual chemistry..

The during is making sure she knows she has my full attention thought our time together without question...

After is keeping a clear and consitant line of communication open so to arrange meeting no 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends, I've gotten pretty friendly with a lot of folk off here and when I'm just chilling with them I do, depends how well you get to know people andvstuff....

Certainly not on the first 'meet' though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No never, your focus is your current meet, not your next one!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop.

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By *regboy49Man
over a year ago

Sandhurst

You give all your attention to the meet you're with, it's called manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop. "

Seen them posting in the forums whilst in bed with them!

I agree with your last statement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's akin to them almost saying they are doing you a favour even being there...2 words come to my mind..2nd one is off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen them posting in the forums whilst in bed with them!

I agree with your last statement!

I've seen it over and over again.

I've seen it shit loads on here.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

I focus on the guy I'm meeting. I log off before I go to meet him & stay offline till afterwards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol

What a load of insecure nonsense

I've had many a meet where we've both logged on and had a good laugh ! Or got the cam going in the chatrooms .

Mind u I'm not insecure or a jealous person atall

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By *ratty_DamselWoman
over a year ago

New Cross

Very rude behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop. "

Pissing up lampposts.. showing off...

Never seen that on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, I demand, and provide 100% attention, to be honest, were normally so busy, fab is the last thing on our minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop. "

I've seen those posts too...the mind boggles. Not only does it smack of showing off it's a bit shit on the person they're lying in bed with!

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I had a social with one guy who told me how lucky I was that he had met someone as uptight as me who wouldn't fuck on a first meet, and proceeded to show me all the ladies he had met via fab who had, and the ones he had lined up... needless to say I left the social PDQ.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol

What a load of insecure nonsense

I've had many a meet where we've both logged on and had a good laugh ! Or got the cam going in the chatrooms .

Mind u I'm not insecure or a jealous person atall"

But you would fuck at funerals! That's pure class that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I have a meet planned I do nothing but focus on the person I'm with and I never Pop on fab whilst in the company of a meet. I'd actually be pretty offended that someone had to pop on whilst in my company.

Am I alone in this? "

Fab's would be the furthest thing from my mind during a meet and yup it would be down right disrespectful to go on there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol

What a load of insecure nonsense

I've had many a meet where we've both logged on and had a good laugh ! Or got the cam going in the chatrooms .

Mind u I'm not insecure or a jealous person atall

But you would fuck at funerals! That's pure class that

What kind of a stupid comment is that !

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol

What a load of insecure nonsense

I've had many a meet where we've both logged on and had a good laugh ! Or got the cam going in the chatrooms .

Mind u I'm not insecure or a jealous person atall

But you would fuck at funerals! That's pure class that

What kind of a stupid comment is that !

You tell me, it's written on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop.

I've seen those posts too...the mind boggles. Not only does it smack of showing off it's a bit shit on the person they're lying in bed with!"

Absolutely!

I just hope they're both logged on & posting for a laugh ~ otherwise it makes one appear to be a bit of a shit shag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I won't be on here when meeting.

I have seen it though.

I've seen people post on the forums saying they were in bed with someone.

I've seen that a million times on here.

All I can think of is that meet must have been monumentally crap to be logging on here when I see that happening.

I just wouldn't do it full stop.

I've seen those posts too...the mind boggles. Not only does it smack of showing off it's a bit shit on the person they're lying in bed with!

Absolutely!

I just hope they're both logged on & posting for a laugh ~ otherwise it makes one appear to be a bit of a shit shag..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol

What a load of insecure nonsense

I've had many a meet where we've both logged on and had a good laugh ! Or got the cam going in the chatrooms .

Mind u I'm not insecure or a jealous person atall

But you would fuck at funerals! That's pure class that

What kind of a stupid comment is that !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I alone in this? "

If I were with you, I'd pop onto your fab profile to show you which of your photos turned me on.....

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Never been on Fab during a meet, because up until yesterday i never had a smartphone.

Now i do have a smartphone, i still would'nt do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never been on Fab during a meet, because up until yesterday i never had a smartphone.

Now i do have a smartphone, i still would'nt do it.

about time he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

MYbe I'm just an old fart but I think its the height of badmanners to do anything on your phone when you are with someone. Am constantly amazed when out at the number of people sitting in social groups or couples who are giving their whole attention to a phone rather than the people they are with. Reminds me of that film Wally where people have lost the use of their legs because they spend all their time sitting down glued to a screen!

Try a little experiment......one day deliberately leave the house without your phone, spend a few hours actually interacting with real people and using your brain rather than google. Where's the nearest Chinese restaurant? Have a walk round and look, ask people, look on a real paper map. Go on, I dare you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's akin to them almost saying they are doing you a favour even being there...2 words come to my mind..2nd one is off "

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