FabSwingers.com forum: What have you learned about yourself since joining Fab?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We've learned a few things about ourselves since joining Fab.

How about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt I need to be way more patient! And I have a lot to learn.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my craik via Internet seems quite dismal so can't really get anyone interested in a meet...

even though im actually quite a nice guy, enjoy good conversation and listening, im a good fuck.

But im getting bored of the drama of sleeping my way through work. And want to meet total stranger for nsa, I like the idea of having separate sex life.

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By *ch WellMan
over a year ago

Scotland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my sense of humour is often misinterpreted for grumpiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive learnt that there really are people much weirder than me

Gimp

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"We've learned a few things about ourselves since joining Fab.

How about you?"

I have learnt what I already knew mainly. But one thing I have learnt is that I maybe do not have the people skills I once thought I did.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

good reflective thread BTW.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

That I'm much naughtier than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have learnt to fine tune my bs meter radar is lot better though now and then some get by.

Also bit like another poster humour has been interpreted as grumpiness.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I've learned that I am very happy with my body shape and size of the wee fella, I had an inferiority complex about it compared to others until I was quite forthrightly told by two good lady friends on here to stop worrying

also not to worry about not lasting long when playing with a very sexy lady.... to relax and deal with it as a compliment

and also learned that the way to increase my chances as a single male is to make the effort to go to a Club and to host my own parties

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Ive learnt that there really are people much weirder than me

Gimp"

Really? That isn't what the doctors report says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive learnt that there really are people much weirder than me

Gimp

Really? That isn't what the doctors report says.

Them Buggers lied, It was all a trick to take my Crayons away

..and its well known that Sheep cannot testify in Court

Gimp

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I haven't learned anything about myself but I have had a some of things confirmed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I haven't learned anything about myself but I have had a some of things confirmed.

We have learned some things but had some things confirmed too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That im more confident and kinkier than I remember ( pre 20 year marriage)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I haven't learned anything about myself but I have had a some of things confirmed.

likewise

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"I haven't learned anything about myself but I have had a some of things confirmed.

One being that sometimes I need to proof read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive a fckn great tongue good hands and a nice cock and im a bit of a twat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone wants to fuck me!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that as soon as you politely turn some one down you're "a fat ugly desperate slut",I've learnt that it's easier not to reply to people you don't want to meet, I've learnt the block button is an actual requirement, but I've also learnt that for every idiot on site there's a least one other nice person I'm yet to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful calling you all kinds over rejection

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By *lirtyjjWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I've learnt that saying what i want and dont want comes across as demanding. I've also learnt to say what i want and dont want no matter what anyone else thinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs P has remembered what a dirty bird she used to be.

That people find her sexy, therefore she should too!

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By *oward1978Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

That some women do find me attractive! And my body's not too bad after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That women like my 6pack body plus having lots of banter in the forums and flirting with everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That soooo many guys love feet!

I get about 50 messages a day from guys loving my feet!!xx

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By *ady G and GTCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

"Ive learnt that there really are people much weirder than me

Gimp"

and that I, Lady G, have a bi side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I've lead a very VERY sheltered life! I kind of already knew that, but wow.

And on chat I'm often told I look like Katherine Jenkins, which is a new one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be friendlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i must of led a very sheltered life

ho hum never to old to learn though

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Nothing really - only that I knew myself quite well to start with. I learn from special people though, wherever I find them I hope.

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By *carlett696969Couple
over a year ago

shropshire/london

"Not everyone wants to fuck me!!! Lol "

Best quote of the day

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By *iceshortsMan
over a year ago

South East

That I like sub women can please them greatly and am getting increasingly kinky. Thought I was straight vanilla before swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am inexperienced in the none vanilla side of sex. I am not as kinky as once thought but lokking to change that. Also just how desperate lads are to get their end away.

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By *oxycouple28Couple
over a year ago

bexley

I have learnt that as long as we play together, I don't seem to have any green eyed monster. quite the opposite!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I've learnt that an awful lot of men (and women) like my body - I always assumed I needed big tits and small bum to be sexy. All the positive messages and fabs have given me a lot more confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive learnt about how to embrace my body flaws and all

ive learnt that i am stronger than i thought i was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an old friend of mine always used to say " the quiet ones are the best "

I've learned that to be true in most cases .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be such prude...

Who knew that there was an absolutely filthy minx under that? I certainly didn't.

Fab, I thank you!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Av learnt bad things so far hahahaha am d naughtiest man in the uk nw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I am bi-curious..

that prejudice is rife,

that far more men than women/couples frequent swingers sites,especially if you include those masquerading as someone else,

that straight doesn't always mean straight,

that some TV's are very sexy,

and finally that I need patience!

Probably more too if I thought longer about it.

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By *amplemeMan
over a year ago

Working here.

I've learnt that.....

There are some lovely people on here..

There are some proper bellends on here....

I like to push my boundaries...

But I'm happy to say enough...

I've missed out on lots...

But theres still time for new experiences...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that striking up a conversation with the opposite sex is nigh on impossible & that rejection is inevitable!

Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv learnt that a lot of people dont like my bushy pubes...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I didn't already know, sadly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt that, for me, the best sex is within in a trusting, caring and loving relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ouble CCouple
over a year ago

Gran Canaria

I like girls sometimes.

I like it rough...very rough.

Accents turn me on! Miss C.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I've learned that some other people find me sexy. I always thought I was an acquired taste in that department before joining Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not to be a mug . lol and be true to myself and hold on to my values in life even if others don't like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned its okay to love sex...and lots of it. I feel so empowered.

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By *xpatscoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Mrs c fantersis she has a few and a few other things she wants to do

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

ive learnt its MY choice if I meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that im a little tinker really

that i so enjoy sex with certain ladies

that i doubt i will ever reach my limit as i keep finding new little things to try

that i really am a sexpot at heart (dont always believe it but often feel it)

oh i could go on and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have learnt that i am a bloody good shag not big headed but am at the stage of my life where i can hold my orgasm back and shag for wales lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learnt that people have noticed my lack of sexual experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I have no tolerance for twatism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm very individual and I'm not easily influenced.

I kind of knew that already so fab really confirmed that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I'm actually not that much of a freak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my cock is not the smallest on fab or the biggest and that am happy with what I have, Also that with the right Woman I'm better at it then I thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and some Women think I have a cute arse

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

That my husband is utterly fantastic and supportive. We have been through crap (who hasn't), but we have got through it together. We talk so much more now. Even though we have only been on seven weeks we feel it has been a good choice for us. I only asked if the keys in the bowl was how it happened and I wonder if there are any groups near us and a day later we have a profile lol.

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

"That my husband is utterly fantastic and supportive. We have been through crap (who hasn't), but we have got through it together. We talk so much more now. Even though we have only been on seven weeks we feel it has been a good choice for us. I only asked if the keys in the bowl was how it happened and I wonder if there are any groups near us and a day later we have a profile lol. "

Oh there are some plonkers on here but also some damn fine/hot and genuinely nice people that are a credit to the site. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned never judge a book.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learned that some other people find me sexy. I always thought I was an acquired taste in that department before joining Fab."

Very similar here!

Also that I'm more photogenic and considerably more tame than I thought I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learned that some other people find me sexy. I always thought I was an acquired taste in that department before joining Fab.

Very similar here!

Also that I'm more photogenic and considerably more tame than I thought I was. "

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I've learnt that I am less socially awkward than I thought.

And I need to worry less about people being out of my league.

Oh and I can take a pretty good selfie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How overweight I am and how conscious of it I really am - Mr

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

That I am now 8 ½ yrs older, but non the wiser

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By *ce kingMan
over a year ago

montreal

i've learned that im sexy and you know it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Benevolence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can use a camera the right way round.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That my cock is smaller than a sky remote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I found out guys like me on here also.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found out that even if I.am a fatty some men....want me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That if you are a single male, it is extremely difficult to get a meet or even a reply , lol

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I've found out that even if I.am a fatty some men....want me

Kelly I but s lot of men want you. Me included

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"That if you are a single male, it is extremely difficult to get a meet or even a reply , lol "

Conversely, after having no sex at home for years, I was pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to get sex on here and that I was, after all, sexually attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That fat birds can be sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found out that even if I.am a fatty some men....want me

Kelly I but s lot of men want you. Me included

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That fat birds can be sexy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That fat birds can be sexy

Exactly!

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By *ilbobsMan
over a year ago

middlesex

I'm not as confident as I thought I was!

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By *eaningofLifeCouple
over a year ago

York

"That my cock is smaller than a sky remote "

Honey you don't need a sky remote any where near you. Just took a not so sneaky peek

fantastic. Off for a lay down now. K

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By *BW100Couple
over a year ago

Suffolk/Norfolk border

I have learnt that being 100% honest with my partner is refreshing.

That guys actually find me sexy & like my body.

That watching & being watched having sex is so horny.

That when I think I'm totally exhausted I still have energy for sex

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

"I've found out that even if I.am a fatty some men....want me

Kelly I but s lot of men want you. Me included

U blushing lol. Your photos show just how fuckable you are yum yum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it was ok to be a dirty sod all along and that I can be honest about that rather than too shy to mention it...

That I'm actually kinkier than I thought...

Confidence has gone through the roof...

That I am good at what I do...

That there are plenty folk like me...

That peppa pig has the power to get me laid, true story...

That I'm more comfortable in a totally open an honest relationship rather than a vanilla one, I couldn't go back to that any more....

Probably so much more to add but I don't want to reel off a huge list!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That it was ok to be a dirty sod all along and that I can be honest about that rather than too shy to mention it...

That I'm actually kinkier than I thought...

Confidence has gone through the roof...

That I am good at what I do...

That there are plenty folk like me...

That peppa pig has the power to get me laid, true story...

That I'm more comfortable in a totally open an honest relationship rather than a vanilla one, I couldn't go back to that any more....

Probably so much more to add but I don't want to reel off a huge list!

I think this is pretty much exactly the same for me if you swap out Peppa Pig for Dr Seuss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing ive learned most is using the internet to meet people doesnt work for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt how much a staid religious background held me back from the truth and pleasure of a totally honest relationship.

I also learnt we should have started this lsrk 30 years earlier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That should be 'lark'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I need to generate a thick skin. I have been insulted and called a monkey

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I've learnt that one should be tolerant of the intolerant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im So bi!

Mrs.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Ive more patience than I thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That, according to the messages in my inbox, I'm the most beautiful girl on fab.

It could just be the kinda crap thy think it takes to get into my knickers but it makes me feel FAB !!

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By *ench and StripeCouple
over a year ago

Stenalees

Mr....

That I love my wife more than ever.

That stereotypes exist and are also mostly wrong.

That older can be just as hot as younger

No one is out of your league

That people are mostly friendly.

That shaving below is better but itchy.

That I need to do more house work.

That not having kids is a bonus to meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that im bisexual

and that im sexy as fuck (this is what i keep getting told so im beginning to believe it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive learnt that there really are people much weirder than me

Gimp"

Ha ha

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By *itTVlondonTV/TS
over a year ago

London

I've learnt i will be having a sex change and very excited about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that I like cock x

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By *earlyNipsCouple
over a year ago

St Neots

That Hot Husbanding is a thing!

It's also a thing that Mrs gets off to.

'Twas quite the revelation!

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By *rs TootyWoman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I've learnt vanilla sex is boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me. Soooooo much.

V here (her). I've learned that I'm sexy (giggle). That I love men, women and TVs. That I love having a bisexual boyfriend. That watching the man you love fuck someone else is a mind blowing and hugely fun and empowering thing. I've learned that sex without feeling can be hot. I've learned I am in control of who fucks me and that I can say no. I've learned I don't get jealous. I've learned I'm pretty good at this swinging lark and that it is a great addition to our lives. Ive learned I can be pretty naughty at times.

Oh I learned I loved Adamdoes and that is a very good thing.

V xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that as soon as you politely turn some one down you're "a fat ugly desperate slut",I've learnt that it's easier not to reply to people you don't want to meet, I've learnt the block button is an actual requirement, but I've also learnt that for every idiot on site there's a least one other nice person I'm yet to meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learned that I have the patience of a saint...

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By *edroseCouple
over a year ago

wigan

I prefare black men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt that I've lead a very VERY sheltered life! I kind of already knew that, but wow.

And on chat I'm often told I look like Katherine Jenkins, which is a new one. "

Goodness my chap would love to meet you then! He has a thing for her!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have learnt that I'm very picky with the ladies!

I have gained a whole heap of confidence which has spilled over into everyday life so all good.

Also, I have learned to love me and my body a bit more and feel sexy at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've learnt vanilla sex is boring.

That I like to talk very dirty and the same with the guy I am with...my fb and I talk about the thing I have done with other guys and expand on it to make for a really horny experience....

Also that I am sub...which I sort of knew in my head before...and that spanking is horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I love having a bisexual boyfriend.

Mmm..now that is something I would love to try x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have learnt that maybe there isn't a huge amount of Cougars in the world and I should have maybe waited 10 years till I signed up lool

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

That being acutely self aware has made my experience a great one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That unlike many on here I'm essentially a very genuine and honest person.

I'm new on here but I think my basic good morals will stand me in good stead on here.

I've always been a take me or leave me kind of man, perfect for this kind of lifestyle so I'm told.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Have learnt that maybe there isn't a huge amount of Cougars in the world and I should have maybe waited 10 years till I signed up lool "

The website may not be around in 10 years as the nature of the web. So take your chances now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That men do desirer me...

Just my husband that didn't. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not as strange as once feared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That Hubby is right, I'm sooooo vanilla!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That if their replies are getting shorter and shorter, then it's time to move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That very very few men actually float my boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am normal it's everyone else who isnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That very very few men actually float my boat."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That there's an incredibly few women who float my boat.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Ì found out very quickly that I love to be surrounded by cock, love to be rough fucked and treated like a slut. I also found that I love to be made airtight, love dp's and anal in general. I also discovered a love of bbc which has been fun

Swinging has also let me discover my sub side and my bondage kinks.

Without my loving hubby none of this would have been possible and it seems my love and affection for him grows daily. If he said we're stopping this life I'd not miss anything as long as I'm with him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That really filthy girls are hard to find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not the biggest twat in the world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that the only part of me that is photogenic is my fist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a pervert

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We was on the scene about 3-4 year before fabs was put online so learned just about all we could before our time...

...and that is, we both as bad as each other

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By *iss_Samantha_LovecockTV/TS
over a year ago

bmth /poole sometimes blandford

that i have a nice cock and that im more popular as a girl than i was when was as a guy..oh and that a lot of men like trannys and loads cross dress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've learned a few things about ourselves since joining Fab.

How about you?"

that i love black men

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

That I have the patience of a saint.

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

I've learnt that 80% of people on Fab tell lies

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By *onyneMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"I've learnt that 80% of people on Fab tell lies "

...and the other 25% can't do maths...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my judgement is totally shit

her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once I've had a meet I find it hard to go back for more..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'll never be able to have a 'vanilla' relationship - maybe not in the swinging side of things but must be open minded.

Also my kinks are very tame.

I need mental stimulation more than physical sometimes.

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By *oxoxoWoman
over a year ago

london

I've learnt that I have quite good instincts and to trust my decision making process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've learnt that we are actually more confident than we originally thought & that we still have lots to learn as we are still fairly new to the scene.

We've established that we have to get to know people pretty well first and that in absolutely no circumstances will either of us 'take one for the team'

For us it's all about chemistry and attraction.

This is a rare cheeky added bonus for us - not a necessity. Minx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i am more naughty than i thought i was and my oral skills are angelic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i've learnt that fab is full of nutters

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

On reflection of speaking with a few couples, we've learned how strong our bond and relationship really is. This isn't to say we didn't know beforehand. Reflection can often magnify.

We've also learned, you don't have to be an experienced swinger to see the values our own relationship in this lifestyle.

Great question, I'm now going to give her a big squeeze and tell her how much I love her. -Mr.

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By *oobsandballsMan
over a year ago

st andrews

I've learned that despite carry extra weight some people do find me attractive. I've gained a lot of confidence as a result.

I've also learned that I'm bisexual

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The thing ive learned most is using the internet to meet people doesnt work for me lol "

True stories....

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I've learnt that 80% of people on Fab tell lies

...and the other 25% can't do maths..."

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I've learned that despite carry extra weight some people do find me attractive. I've gained a lot of confidence as a result.

I've also learned that I'm bisexual

This

Although it was 12 years ago now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gorgeous until I say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm gorgeous until I say no thanks

Haha

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I'm gorgeous until I say no thanks

Haha

Me too

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

"We've learned a few things about ourselves since joining Fab.

How about you?"

Quite a few peoe wanna fuck me senseless lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always seeing the good in people and being too trusting is a bad quality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I actually quite fancy women

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Boundaries are fun to be pushed

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"That if you are a single male, it is extremely difficult to get a meet or even a reply , lol

Conversely, after having no sex at home for years, I was pleasantly surprised at how easy it was to get sex on here and that I was, after all, sexually attractive. "

To 3 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I'm perfectly happy in my own company...and its just as well really...

That there are lots of people on here just out for what they can get, not just fun.

That some people hide behind their online personalities, and disappear and reappear regularly...usually with the same strange and sometimes crappy attitude to life and others.

That Fab is merely a distraction from real life, and recently I've been wasting far too much time on it...going to have to limit it, as the rewards far outweigh the effort (apart from with one or two really lovely friends on here, who I really enjoy seeing when they're able to).

That if nobody wants to play when I want to, its not going to put a dampner on my sunny outlook on life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That im more confident and kinkier than I remember ( pre 20 year marriage)"

Ditto, more confident about my body and kinky sex....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and some Women think I have a cute arse

You do, very spankable bum!

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By *iggy1Woman
over a year ago

DORCHESTER

I never knew I could squirt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That men who describe themselves as straight aren't necessarily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learnt that I live down the wrong end of the country.

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I give a fantastic blow job apparently....must have improved with age then

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

That I'm a bit kinkier than I thought I was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That being honest gets a forum ban

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By *ere-for-my-convenienceWoman
over a year ago

West Midlands

"That being honest gets a forum ban

Ditto

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

That my cock curves!

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By *o_added_sugarWoman
over a year ago

A club not so many miles away

My heart is much more vulnerable and fragile then I had ever imagined

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By *lappyMan
over a year ago

Manchester

More blokes seem to _iew my profile than women :O/

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By *igDD95Man
over a year ago

Watford

That im not actually hopeless at finding people who like me, and that some people like my dick haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought I was just a plain girl but loads of men on here find me attractive ,and I found what I like and don't like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I learnt I know nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am fabulous and apparently have a amazing ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That threads usually only go to 175 posts

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

I've learned to appreciate my life outside of Fabs more. While I enjoy being here and all the fun and banter, It's not my world and the level of success I have here doesn't bother me. For some people, it does. That's cool but I do see some people get "sucked in" and it can have a negative effect on them, especially when things don't go their way.

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