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A question for bisexual guys, the results

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This morning I asked a couple of questions of bisexual guys, some answered on the forum and some by private message. Here are my findings.

Are you openly bisexual or do you hide this from your mates?

Of the respondents to this particular question,

77% were only open on FAB about their bisexuality and kept this a secret in the non swinging world.

Only 11% were openly bisexual everywhere.

The remaining 12% had told just close family or partners / close friends.

The second question was the most interesting.

Do you actually find other guys attractive, or just want to play with a cock?

Of all the respondents to this question, 48% did not find guys sexually attractive but enjoyed playing with a cock. Most enjoyed sucking or being fucked by a cock.

Some said they appreciated a good looking man but didn't necessarily want to have sex with them.

52 % did find guys sexually attractive and actively pursued sex with men and women.

Some respondents kept their bisexuality a total secret, identifying only as straight on their profiles and in the outside world.

The main reason being lack of tolerance and understanding of bisexuals.

I didn't include individuals identifying as straight in my summary of Q1.

The reasons for me asking the questions was personal. I'm openly bi but get approached by a lot of guys who identify as straight. Not a problem.

I have also had sex with a few men where my cock was the focus of their attention. The fact I was attached to it, was immaterial.

I was just curious to find out some degrees of bisexuality.

It's a lot more common than you think, but hidden from view for much of the time.

Thanks to everyone who did respond and for the many nice messages where guys felt the need to explain their many personal reasons for their decisions.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Fancy that! I'd post more but Tomb Raider is on and I fancy Lara Croft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So how much change should I have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This was a fab survey xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"This was a fab survey xx"

I like your use of "......" in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many responded?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many responded?"
7

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"How many responded? 7 "

Although as they were all bi, the sample was perfectly balanced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This was a fab survey xx

I like your use of "......" in your profile "

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

What was your survey size? This is avery interesting and good post.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There were 84 responses in total that were serious, some not so which were discounted and the usual smattering of the thought police who seem to ruin most serious threads.

It is no way scientific, just a survey to make your Monday more interesting.

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By *ugeload_atxMan
over a year ago

Goatstown

Decent size, I'd say statistically significant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and proud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi on here

Straight in work and off of here

Dont really go for men more into tvs/ ts

However if with a bi couple happy to play with both the male and female

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By *incs-cpl1Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Mr Lincs is orally bi, but only when hidden behind Fab, he's attracted to cocks but not men.

The survey results are an accurate reflection of the single guys contacting us. Most of these have straight profiles but bi curiosities. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice study. Be interesting to see it with a larger sample size, but it certainly tallies with my own experience on here. I'd be surprised if the results were much different if it was 10,000 respondents.

Also, I'd be interested to see if there's a generational aspect to it as well. There's plenty of data that says 20-somethings are far more comfortable coming out as gay than 40+'s, which makes sense for a whole host of reasons, but I haven't seen anything either way for bisexuality.

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By *fcdTV/TS
over a year ago

Southend

Most friends know I'm bi, family not so much. I fall in to the 'likes cock' category. I can't imagine ever falling in love with a guy but do enjoy sex with anyone so tend to go for the 'hetexible' tag.

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By *ick111Man
over a year ago

Swindon

I'm bi on FAB straight to all but my mrs and best friend. I am turned on by cocks not usually the men but when I really get to know someone it doesn't matter whether man or woman it's just a connection between two people who are attracted to each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am openly bi on fab and get attracted to big cocks. However hygiene is very important to me. I am versatile and love to feel a cock in my arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should get a job with Sydney University ! I am totally straight except when I fancy a hard cock up me ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is really interesting for me and the one survey result in particular.

I’ve never found men attractive although I can see when someone is technically attractive. But I find anything shoulder downwards seriously sexy and I’ve had some great times exploring!

A lady I knew said she didn’t think I was bi, but that I was just sexual. Not really sure how to identify myself because if I don’t fancy men then can I be bi even if I like to suck them etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting stuff. I think that a lot of guys do not think they are bi but do enjoy sex with another guy but pass it off as simply a sex act. I am bi and therefore totally enjoy sex with guys and find guys both attractive and sexually alluring. It is also interesting to see the number of straight guys that check out my profile and fab my pictures but do not make contact.

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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

This is really interesting! I wish I knew what the sample size was. Did anyone repeat this for female bisexuals (cis or not?)

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

The results do not surprise me.

Even in 2018 it is generally not ok to be a Bi or Gay man. But much more acceptable to be a Bi or Lesbian woman. Hence it is often hidden.

Great Post Op

Ess & Enn xx

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

That is a great survey and very interesting. Im openly bi but only on fab. Sadly wouldn't feel comfortable being open outside of fab but luckily happy to keep it as that.

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By *azmar62Couple
over a year ago

Hinckley

I’m openly bi on fab, some of my family know, I’m not physically attracted to guys, but I do find that some I am! I enjoy bodily contact and enjoy full on sex with guys? BUT? Only when my partner is present, call it what you like, I’ve tried 1 on 1 but didn’t get the same feeling, so I’m happy to play bi as a group.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

That’s the thing with sexuality.

It’s Dynamic. Everyone is different.

There are different levels of Hetro and Bisexuality.

We are happy being who we are xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m glad it’s not me then! Think I’m just naturally inquisitive and as I’ve got older braver to try things out. But it does confuse me that I like bodily contact with a nice bloke yet if I saw him in the street I wouldn’t look once, never mind twice! But what’s really weird is I’m ok with oral and stuff, it’s exciting but the thought of holding hands or kissing is repulsive ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to meet an older guy for fun hehe xx

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