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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

good luck but please change your profile to non text speak

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

So you didn't have 'proper fun' with your girlfriend of 3 years? Can't really understand what you're looking for but good luck. Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)"

que? non hablo....errrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good luck but please change your profile to non text speak "

Sound advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"good luck but please change your profile to non text speak

Sound advice! "

yeah i agree, no matter how nice someone is or how much i like their pics i can not talk to someone who writes in text chat its just annoys me

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"So you didn't have 'proper fun' with your girlfriend of 3 years? "

Maybe that was improper fun?

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I would agree to alter your profile to English as text speak in a profile is very annoying,and you have nout on your profile. How do people know what kind of a person you are from your profile. It shows no personality. If you write about you ,what your good at,what you want to try.... then your personality will hopefully come across.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)"

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

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wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez"

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Why was it harsh?

Genuine single men involved in this lifestyle find it hard enough, and it's people like the OP who make life even more difficult for them.

I was expressing my opinion, which presumably the OP was seeking by posting here. Ginger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think that was spot on really, alot of people think they can join this site and get shagged with little or no effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

"

This kind of hits the nail straight ont he head.

We like men to get straight to the point but a little tact is needed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think that was spot on really, alot of people think they can join this site and get shagged with little or no effort"

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He hasn't even managed to find the right place to post, I thought this section was for discussing 'swinging' generally, not advertising for a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think that was spot on really, alot of people think they can join this site and get shagged with little or no effort

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He hasn't even managed to find the right place to post, I thought this section was for discussing 'swinging' generally, not advertising for a meet? "

ok will leave you guys to educate him .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)"

I think to be fair, you are possibly unmeetable, for all reasons above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well he already has two friends so he must be saying something they like.lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think that was spot on really, alot of people think they can join this site and get shagged with little or no effort

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He hasn't even managed to find the right place to post, I thought this section was for discussing 'swinging' generally, not advertising for a meet?

ok will leave you guys to educate him .lol "

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..well it's women he's trying to meet, so he better take our free 'education' to heart or he'll be spending his time here very frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well he already has two friends so he must be saying something they like.lol "

..so why doesn't he call them for the "gud fuck" he's looking for?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do what the footballers do and get the services your looking for from a hooker,or do you think the ladies on here are the same but free?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez"

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol"

well said .why speculate on the reasons his relationship ended lol?Its not like he is looking for a gf he said he wanted fun.lol and as long as the ones who don't aggree with his approach don't meet him , I don't see the problem.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe."

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !"

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just a story not fit for fab lol, its clean but not ft for here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol"

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That's why I said I wouldn't do so publicly..which is why I didn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !"

Dear, hun, babe, sugar...I don't like any of them!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

.

"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol

well said .why speculate on the reasons his relationship ended lol?Its not like he is looking for a gf he said he wanted fun.lol and as long as the ones who don't aggree with his approach don't meet him , I don't see the problem. "

He was seeking a sympathy shag by revealing the end of his relationship, whether people choose to respond positively or not to that is entirely a matter for them, however since he brought it into the public domain people are entitled to comment on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

.

"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol

well said .why speculate on the reasons his relationship ended lol?Its not like he is looking for a gf he said he wanted fun.lol and as long as the ones who don't aggree with his approach don't meet him , I don't see the problem.

He was seeking a sympathy shag by revealing the end of his relationship, whether people choose to respond positively or not to that is entirely a matter for them, however since he brought it into the public domain people are entitled to comment on it."

Ok .anything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

.

"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

wow that was a bit harsh I admit the text speak didn't help but jeez

I agree, was a bit rude as well, why his relationship broke up has nothing to do with us, why would you even be thinking about speculating on it?

It could be for all kind of reasons and i hardly think its because how he comes over on a sex site

there you go you can speculate on my marrage break down now lol

well said .why speculate on the reasons his relationship ended lol?Its not like he is looking for a gf he said he wanted fun.lol and as long as the ones who don't aggree with his approach don't meet him , I don't see the problem.

He was seeking a sympathy shag by revealing the end of his relationship, whether people choose to respond positively or not to that is entirely a matter for them, however since he brought it into the public domain people are entitled to comment on it.

Ok .anything else? "

I don't know, is there anything else I've said you'd like to take exception to?

I've offered my opinion on the OP, you've offered yours on what I've said, as you're entitled to.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


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i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !"

I hate 'babe' too, but 'dear' is DEF the worst for me. Hate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago


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i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

I hate 'babe' too, but 'dear' is DEF the worst for me. Hate it."

I agree babe,I hate being called dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yer but no but !!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !"

Oh christ yes, being called dear makes one sound feel really old, but i hate babe, its a term of endearment for couples, hun or honey i much prefer, i sound sweet then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

"

What a lovely warm welcome to FAB. Give the guy a break, he is new on here and probably knows very little about swinging, a bit of helpful advice maybe the answer rather than give him stick. It might help if new people were welcomed on here and

Ahh nothing like a warm welcome to the FAB forums. Give the guy a break, he is new on here and perhaps does not know anything about swinging. However I would change your profile from text speak, but as you have seen on here different approaches work for different people. Find what you want from the site the work from there, and dont let a few people on the forums put you off seeking advice

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By *ouple4funnewCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

welcome aboard but Like the lady said you should rewrite your profile

you will only get out of it what you put in, if you want to attract the sort of woman who's into text speak , good luck with that

but if you want a woman who's going to blow your horizons and take you on a trip you'll never forget you'll need to put some linguistic effort into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)

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"wel need a gud fuck" is the headline on your profile.

What do you think swingers are? Unpaid prostitutes? Profiles like yours and crass threads like this make my blood boil.

As others have said you hardly present yourself in the best light and obviously have little interest in what you can offer people you might meet, just a selfish interest in what you can get out of it.

I wouldn't like to speculate publicly on the reasons your relationship ended with your g/friend.

What a lovely warm welcome to FAB. Give the guy a break, he is new on here and probably knows very little about swinging, a bit of helpful advice maybe the answer rather than give him stick. It might help if new people were welcomed on here and

Ahh nothing like a warm welcome to the FAB forums. Give the guy a break, he is new on here and perhaps does not know anything about swinging. However I would change your profile from text speak, but as you have seen on here different approaches work for different people. Find what you want from the site the work from there, and dont let a few people on the forums put you off seeking advice"

Well you're welcome to give him a warm welcome and I wouldnt criticise you for doing so, but I'm not here to offer a counselling or welcome service for people who don't have a genuine appreciation of the lifestyle.

I had a view about the thread and posted it, the OP can take or leave the elements that are of benefit to him.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Mancandy, he joined 5 months ago. If it was a joined a few weeks ago then would say he is new to swinging but after being on 5 months, no.

In that 5 months he could as possibly may have sent 50 emails to people on fab and may have got back 10 replys or even 2 replys. We have no idea.

But anyone who is able to read well can easily read what the people above have put and actually think ,,mmm what should I do. Is my profile working and if not why.

He wasnt asking how to write a profile but his profile came into question immediately once forum posters began to read it to see if we are able to offer any advice.

So not give the guy a break isnt the case.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but if you want a woman who's going to blow your horizons and take you on a trip you'll never forget you'll need to put some linguistic effort into it"

Birds of a feather?!!

We're all here to meet "like-minded" people: whatever that means to us as individuals. The OP's profile wouldn't appeal to me, however, I'm sure there are many here that will view his profile the way I would a verse by Byron and offer to blow him...and his horizons!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He's 21.

He's writing like 21 year olds write to each other.

He's speaking like 21 year olds speak to each other.

He is asking in the only way he knows how.

He probably performs with all the panache of a 21 year old too - which incidentally is sans panache.

He's pretty but don't have ten years to wait around ffs....

He's totally unmeetable. He will grow if he listens. In the meantime he should fuck other 21 year olds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why do some find it hard to keep to the actual thread in here....... why dont they write their own instead of trying to hyjack someone elses!!!!!!!! Just a thought, seems to happen a lot these days!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another valuable lesson on how NOT to win friends and influence people in this thread!

To the OP, good luck, don't give up searching for fun. Bear in mind that your profile is all people have to go on about you, so work on it to make it stand out amongst the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear? "

Dear implies a few things and amongst them is aged and dotty. It is also used between doting couples or sarcastically to be snidey in a covert fashion.

Dear, Babe , Hun ,Darlin' ,Sweetie, Sexy ( from strangers or near strangers ) imply that the person using them views you as some kind of child. They certainly don't view women as adults. More like 'things' , children, pets.

It does no good for men to say that they are only being 'friendly' or it's a term of endearment! Who are THEY to be friendly or assume all women want to be endearing?

Most young women haven't formulated any thinking on this. Some of them lap it up as they need the compliments.

Personally I prefer being treated as a thinking adult. I prefer to believe I have a say in the matter of who I will choose to be a friend, who I will fuck, who can get close enough to get away with this kind of bullshit and when they are that close ..... it ranges from okay to good to hear those words but strangers ?

Condescending , patronising, unsophisticated, laclustre , uncultured , anti social , thick , mysoginistic bastards use pet names for women they don't know.

It's akin to tickling a stray dog on the street. You take it home and play with it ..... then chuck it out when it asks for something.

Oh ...... Morning lovelies xxxx

Im off to Scotland. Haggis anyone ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i so agree with you mancandy........ the guy came for advice not to be humiliated in here..... we all see profiles we either don't like or would slightly change, but a nice hi welcome to fab, maybe we can help would be a good start here!!!!!!!!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair , he didn't come for advice he came for sex.

His last post should have the women falling at his feet.

Irresistable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cant beat a hearty debate to have my morning coffee to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cant beat a hearty debate to have my morning coffee to! "

Shame on you enjoying this kind of tawdry tittle tattle !

move over n stop nibblin' me toast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear?

Dear implies a few things and amongst them is aged and dotty. It is also used between doting couples or sarcastically to be snidey in a covert fashion.

Dear, Babe , Hun ,Darlin' ,Sweetie, Sexy ( from strangers or near strangers ) imply that the person using them views you as some kind of child. They certainly don't view women as adults. More like 'things' , children, pets.

It does no good for men to say that they are only being 'friendly' or it's a term of endearment! Who are THEY to be friendly or assume all women want to be endearing?

Most young women haven't formulated any thinking on this. Some of them lap it up as they need the compliments.

Personally I prefer being treated as a thinking adult. I prefer to believe I have a say in the matter of who I will choose to be a friend, who I will fuck, who can get close enough to get away with this kind of bullshit and when they are that close ..... it ranges from okay to good to hear those words but strangers ?

Condescending , patronising, unsophisticated, laclustre , uncultured , anti social , thick , mysoginistic bastards use pet names for women they don't know.

It's akin to tickling a stray dog on the street. You take it home and play with it ..... then chuck it out when it asks for something.

Oh ...... Morning lovelies xxxx

Im off to Scotland. Haggis anyone ? "

Whoa Granny!!! Who stepped on your bunions?!!

I agree with you 100% by the way, but watch your blood pressure so early in the day, dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair , he didn't come for advice he came for sex.

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..and ironically he's totally re worked his profile, from two sentences of abbreviated English to a fulsome works Shakespeare would be proud of!

So he seems to have acted on the advice which will put him in a better position to find what he's looking for here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

strange how some people like to bring out the bad side in someone in order to make them selves feel good.......... very sad affair...... all i can say is thank goodness im a female on here with a lovely hubby to meet people....... good luck guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to add to my previous post to the OP about making his profile appear more mature to increase his chances for being picked/selected.

Perhaps start by acting more mature first may help!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange how some people like to bring out the bad side in someone in order to make them selves feel good.......... very sad affair...... all i can say is thank goodness im a female on here with a lovely hubby to meet people....... good luck guys xxx "

Rather ironic ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear?

Dear implies a few things and amongst them is aged and dotty. It is also used between doting couples or sarcastically to be snidey in a covert fashion.

Dear, Babe , Hun ,Darlin' ,Sweetie, Sexy ( from strangers or near strangers ) imply that the person using them views you as some kind of child. They certainly don't view women as adults. More like 'things' , children, pets.

It does no good for men to say that they are only being 'friendly' or it's a term of endearment! Who are THEY to be friendly or assume all women want to be endearing?

Most young women haven't formulated any thinking on this. Some of them lap it up as they need the compliments.

Personally I prefer being treated as a thinking adult. I prefer to believe I have a say in the matter of who I will choose to be a friend, who I will fuck, who can get close enough to get away with this kind of bullshit and when they are that close ..... it ranges from okay to good to hear those words but strangers ?

Condescending , patronising, unsophisticated, laclustre , uncultured , anti social , thick , mysoginistic bastards use pet names for women they don't know.

It's akin to tickling a stray dog on the street. You take it home and play with it ..... then chuck it out when it asks for something.

Oh ...... Morning lovelies xxxx

Im off to Scotland. Haggis anyone ? "

So when I get women calling babe or hun should I imply the same ? or is different for guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange how some people like to bring out the bad side in someone in order to make them selves feel good.......... very sad affair...... all i can say is thank goodness im a female on here with a lovely hubby to meet people....... good luck guys xxx

Rather ironic ?"
I think and know not!!!!!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear?

Dear implies a few things and amongst them is aged and dotty. It is also used between doting couples or sarcastically to be snidey in a covert fashion.

Dear, Babe , Hun ,Darlin' ,Sweetie, Sexy ( from strangers or near strangers ) imply that the person using them views you as some kind of child. They certainly don't view women as adults. More like 'things' , children, pets.

It does no good for men to say that they are only being 'friendly' or it's a term of endearment! Who are THEY to be friendly or assume all women want to be endearing?

Most young women haven't formulated any thinking on this. Some of them lap it up as they need the compliments.

Personally I prefer being treated as a thinking adult. I prefer to believe I have a say in the matter of who I will choose to be a friend, who I will fuck, who can get close enough to get away with this kind of bullshit and when they are that close ..... it ranges from okay to good to hear those words but strangers ?

Condescending , patronising, unsophisticated, laclustre , uncultured , anti social , thick , mysoginistic bastards use pet names for women they don't know.

It's akin to tickling a stray dog on the street. You take it home and play with it ..... then chuck it out when it asks for something.

Oh ...... Morning lovelies xxxx

Im off to Scotland. Haggis anyone ?

So when I get women calling babe or hun should I imply the same ? or is different for guys? "

Nope. It's up to you whether you take it or not.

I get women calling me luv or hun too ..... I hate it equally. It's usually in a supermarket or pub or somewhere similar.

I say nothing when im out. It's not worth ruining a social event for but I do make it clear in other walks that I don't like it. Like the mail I just got from a total stranger calling me darlin' ...... it's a real killer for me ... Babe xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get women calling me luv or hun too ..... I hate it equally. It's usually in a supermarket or pub or somewhere similar. "

.

I have called you Granny ever since I have known you, and you have always answered back without bitting my head off. So I'll stick with that!

Have a good time in Scotland!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange how some people like to bring out the bad side in someone in order to make them selves feel good.......... very sad affair...... all i can say is thank goodness im a female on here with a lovely hubby to meet people....... good luck guys xxx "

I don't know if your reply was specifically directed at me, but it seems my comments have attracted the most criticism, so can I explain?

The OP posted an open, public thread (in the forum) looking for sex because he's split from his g/friend, if he wasn't inviting/expecting comment he should have posted in the 'meeting' section.

his invitation was directed at me, as well as all other creatures here with two holes, that he might want to penetrate.

My response was a personal one, and the sort of reply he would have received if he'd written to me directly.

There are many exceptional single men on this website and many use these forums, but even they find this life difficult, so someone with a crap profile who has an expectation that women will meet him just because he asked deserves little respect or consideration, in my opinion of course.

As someone else pointed out, he's been a member here for 5 months, he may well have not used the site regularly, but it's long enough to have worked out what's required and how to approach people properly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Odd how we are still discussing him when he has not replied in the thread!

The text speak is almost as bad as being called babe.

i dont mind being called babe and hun

its dear i detest !

hey why is that ? A lady said that to me the other day that she didnt like to be called dear?

Dear implies a few things and amongst them is aged and dotty. It is also used between doting couples or sarcastically to be snidey in a covert fashion.

Dear, Babe , Hun ,Darlin' ,Sweetie, Sexy ( from strangers or near strangers ) imply that the person using them views you as some kind of child. They certainly don't view women as adults. More like 'things' , children, pets.

It does no good for men to say that they are only being 'friendly' or it's a term of endearment! Who are THEY to be friendly or assume all women want to be endearing?

Most young women haven't formulated any thinking on this. Some of them lap it up as they need the compliments.

Personally I prefer being treated as a thinking adult. I prefer to believe I have a say in the matter of who I will choose to be a friend, who I will fuck, who can get close enough to get away with this kind of bullshit and when they are that close ..... it ranges from okay to good to hear those words but strangers ?

Condescending , patronising, unsophisticated, laclustre , uncultured , anti social , thick , mysoginistic bastards use pet names for women they don't know.

It's akin to tickling a stray dog on the street. You take it home and play with it ..... then chuck it out when it asks for something.

Oh ...... Morning lovelies xxxx

Im off to Scotland. Haggis anyone ?

So when I get women calling babe or hun should I imply the same ? or is different for guys? "

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People are expressing personal opinions, if you don't like being referred to as 'babe, hun etc', then obviously it's a matter for you, if you like it or don't mind then weh-hey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"basically av split from my girlfriend after 3 yrs and i need to experiencence sum proper fun, (str8 fun that is)"

Just checked the profile again and yes its been changed its looking better BUT just spell check it as well

hope you find what you are looking for on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refuse to answer my colleague when he addresses a group of ladies as "girls".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"strange how some people like to bring out the bad side in someone in order to make them selves feel good.......... very sad affair...... all i can say is thank goodness im a female on here with a lovely hubby to meet people....... good luck guys xxx

I don't know if your reply was specifically directed at me, but it seems my comments have attracted the most criticism, so can I explain?

The OP posted an open, public thread (in the forum) looking for sex because he's split from his g/friend, if he wasn't inviting/expecting comment he should have posted in the 'meeting' section.

his invitation was directed at me, as well as all other creatures here with two holes, that he might want to penetrate.

My response was a personal one, and the sort of reply he would have received if he'd written to me directly.

There are many exceptional single men on this website and many use these forums, but even they find this life difficult, so someone with a crap profile who has an expectation that women will meet him just because he asked deserves little respect or consideration, in my opinion of course.

As someone else pointed out, he's been a member here for 5 months, he may well have not used the site regularly, but it's long enough to have worked out what's required and how to approach people properly. "

Here here, and his comment goes a long way for not wanting to meet his age group

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

.... I think and know not!!!!!!!!!!!! "

Ah... The famous last words of Rene Descartes as he vanished...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I refuse to answer my colleague when he addresses a group of ladies as "girls". "

LOL, that's fine, personally I dont mind it myself, I thought 'see women/ladies' would have sounded quite formal here

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Since nobody's mentioned disliking it, I'm now going to go with

"Oi, split-arse" for every female acquantance other than my mother.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

well i suppose its better than fat-arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since nobody's mentioned disliking it, I'm now going to go with

"Oi, split-arse" for every female acquantance other than my mother."

..lol your granny must love you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i suppose its better than fat-arse "

Surely, in your case, it should be "Fit arse..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i suppose its better than fat-arse "

mines a fat arse and im happy wwith it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"i so agree with you mancandy........ the guy came for advice not to be humiliated in here..... we all see profiles we either don't like or would slightly change, but a nice hi welcome to fab, maybe we can help would be a good start here!!!!!!!!! "

I have to agree with you and MancAndy.

The man asked for a meet.......not to have his profile or him torn apart.

I am not going to condone the posts I have had to remove from the OP when he saw how he was being ripped apart but I can understand why he was pissed off after what he had read.

Smithy, I apologise for not moving your thread to where it should have gone, as you probably wouldn't have got such a hard time.

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