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What about my profile?! How bad is it?!?!?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says more what you don't want and not enough what you do want

But some great pictures

Oh and that wasn't a look at my profile as I know what am talking about

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

It's good, it just needs a small section about you, and it will be brill.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you think your profile is bad?

Your pics are lovely & sexy, very enticing ~ but if I was a guy I wouldn't message you ~ you sound way to ranty & high maintainece.

Don't shoot the messenger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a woman you can have diddly squat on your profile and still get innundated with messages from numpties who don't/can't read. All bull shitters of course.

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By *icky-discoMan
over a year ago

oxford

Looks good to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dam age restrictions .... would be better without them :P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks good to me xx

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge


"Why do you think your profile is bad?

Your pics are lovely & sexy, very enticing ~ but if I was a guy I wouldn't message you ~ you sound way to ranty & high maintainece.

Don't shoot the messenger! "

I agree, the text comes across as negative. Although it might filter out some of the people you don't want, it will probably also filter out a lot of great people too. You might only end up with really arrogant people.

But as said above, the pics are great and certainly enough to wet their appetite. Hope that helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

List of no's is a bit nagative to me .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice pics, maibe the bar is set abit to high for potentials.. I guess cos the high male ratios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look very sexy in your pics but the text is a bit shouty and negative for me. There nothing wrong with saying what you don't like but try mixing it up with stuff you do like. I'm sure you'll be inundated with messages anyway. Good luck x

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Your pics are very good, you are aytractive, all the negative thongs are a turn off to us, maybe just say what ypu are looking for rather than what you are not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is a well thought out profile, well written, but as previous posters have put, way too negative.

Anyone with the kahunas to message you is either:

A. Arrogant beyond belief thinking they are what you want.

B. One of the 98% who got as far as your pics.

C. The 1% you are looking for.

I wouldn't message you, but then I'm none of the above

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

O come on this is an attention seeking post there's been 2 or 3 people with the same post already then this one came up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will have no problems but as others have stated, while it is easy to see what you are not looking for, it is harder to see what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O come on this is an attention seeking post there's been 2 or 3 people with the same post already then this one came up

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Check out the smileys

She knows.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

as others have said....

you get one chance to make a great first impression.....

all well thought out... but it is negative.... negative... negative

its all about what you are not after.... and not about what you ARE after..... if i am reading a profile, i want a feel for the person behind the profile....

I'm here to have fun with likeminded people..... as interesting as you may be, it doesn't scream fun!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"O come on this is an attention seeking post there's been 2 or 3 people with the same post already then this one came up

Check out the smileys

She knows. "

Oh well she knows a lot more now!!

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By *orthen soul manMan
over a year ago

aberdeen

List sound a bit off puting and you do sound high maintenance

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Nothing more refreshing then constructive criticism

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By *atecat123Man
over a year ago

North West

Classy Laydee take the boxing gloves off....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Do you really care how you come across?

I wouldn't,and your status seems to suggest that you don't either

I didn't get any further than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its terrible

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By *atecat123Man
over a year ago

North West

Looking like you do you have every right to expect the best and be high maintenance...Ignore the constructive critics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like most posts on here. A large no list is off putting to most. This portrays a negative image. I would half it with what you are looking for also. Image wise seems okay. You might want to try some diffent angles or positions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking like you do you have every right to expect the best and be high maintenance...Ignore the constructive critics..."

I hear hooves.....neigh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking like you do you have every right to expect the best and be high maintenance...Ignore the constructive critics...

I hear hooves.....neigh"

*puts down Brasso, is it time to assemble The Knights of the White Table?*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looking like you do you have every right to expect the best and be high maintenance...Ignore the constructive critics..."

Doesn't everyone have the right to expect this if they wish... Regardless of looks?

Attractiveness is not definable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid I have to agree with most that your profile text is very negative and off-putting.

While I have no objection to anyone having high standards and being fussy, a big list of 'no's is just a big turn-off.

Your pictures on the other hand are great.

You're a very sexy young lady, and I feel that while your profile as it stands will have the desired effect of dissuading those you're not interested in, I'm afraid it may also have the same effect on a large proportion of those you might be looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever I see "step 1" on a profile I click off because that's already too much for me to follow. ...

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"O come on this is an attention seeking post there's been 2 or 3 people with the same post already then this one came up

Check out the smileys

She knows. "

I agree, but I'm saying nowt as when I do comment on these type of messages I usually get banned from the Forums for a few days.

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop


"Looking like you do you have every right to expect the best and be high maintenance...Ignore the constructive critics..."

Gosh someone wants to be that 1%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Its terrible

Now come here and let me adjust that bar for you again

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Its terrible!

Im just outside your age range and its quite a drive to Devon too........and your pictures have made me drool over my iPad

I'm willing to overlook the latter 2 if you increase your age range and invite me to Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever I see "step 1" on a profile I click off because that's already too much for me to follow. ... "

Theres text in her profile?? I hadnt noticed

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Why do people think a list like the OP has in her profile means 'high maintenance'? They are some pretty basic expectations, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people think a list like the OP has in her profile means 'high maintenance'? They are some pretty basic expectations, no?"

Didnt you know? She should be prepared to jump into bed with every male that graces her inbox with presence

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Everyone has there basic requirements.

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